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If you could wish for one person to be with you right now, who would that be?
Yes, I'm feeling alone right now... and I know the person I'd love to be here right now will never be here....

Just one? ... ;)
I'll go with 'my' Spanish guy. Who lives ... in Spain.
But I'll get to see him less than a week from now! Yaay!! :D

i thought this thread was giong to be about pink floyd

Does it really need to be said?
Huw!

Pacitalia... my boyfriend. ;) But I'm gonna see him later, so it's all good.

Does it really need to be said?
Huw!

I think everybody has caught on by now... ;)

You two are just too cute

Nicole. I love her sooooo much.

Stalin!

Privyet bolsjoj!

Luke. New Years wasn't enough. :(

My two favorite Israeli cousins, Na'or and Hila. I miss them so much, and they are half a world away.

first, great title. Oddly, had it on when I opened the thread.

anyway, who I would want here? Several people...assorted friends that I have lost contact with.

Stalin!

Privyet bolsjoj!
Then prepare to suffer exile to Siberia!

If you could wish for one person to be with you right now, who would that be?

That depends. Does the person have to be alive? If the person is dead, will he be rendered fully alive, and not try to eat my brain or anything?

These things should come with warning labels. :mad:

In the mean time, I'll play it safe and go with Iranian President, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. He could really use a wedgie. :)

http://www.fatdarrell.com/FD/RUasiacarrera.jpg
Megh.

That depends. Does the person have to be alive? If the perso is dea, wil be be rendered fully alive, and not try to eat my brain or anything?

These things should come with warning labels. :mad:

In the mean time, I'll play it safe and go with Iranian President, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. He could really use a wedgie. :)

*lol

I had a feeling I could rely on you to take my romantic little idea and corrupt it beyond recognition.
Yes, you can also wish for zombies or fictional charcters ;)

And I love the thought of you giving Mahmoud Ahmadinejad a wedgie.

Kitty

Does it really need to be said?
Huw!
hmmm...I wonder who PM will say:rolleyes: :p

*lol

I had a feeling I could rely on you to take my romantic little idea and corrupt it beyond recognition.
Yes, you can also wish for zombies or fictional charcters ;)

And I love the thought of you giving Mahmoud Ahmadinejad a wedgie.

I'm always willing to do my part. :)

I wish the CEO of British Airways could be here so he could give PM and Glitz unlimmited free plane tickets, and spare us innocent posters the suffering of their proxy relationship.

I wish the CEO of British Airways could be here so he could give PM and Glitz unlimmited free plane tickets, and spare us innocent posters the suffering of their proxy relationship.

Wow, so that means... I'm not innocent, then? :p

My girlfriend - although I'm with her right now but i want to be naked and inbed but we can't because her son is here.

I wish the CEO of British Airways could be here so he could give PM and Glitz unlimmited free plane tickets, and spare us innocent posters the suffering of their proxy relationship.
what about those of us who enjoy stoking the fire?

what about those of us who enjoy stoking the fire?

We must be the guilty posters... as opposed to the innocent ones ;)

Wow, so that means... I'm not innocent, then? :pI would rank you among the complicit.
what about those of us who enjoy stoking the fire?I hate you.

*drowns in a sea of fluffle-spam*

mila jovovich

I would rank you among the complicit.
I hate you.

*drowns in a sea of fluffle-spam*

Why does that annoy you so much? It's easy enough to ignore... :confused:

Why does that annoy you so much? It's easy enough to ignore... :confused:Well, it isn't that easy to ignore actually - it's prevasive. Any thread runs the risk of turning into a gush-fest between them. I have nothing against PM and Glitz themselves - they are both lovely people, and I'm very happy that they seem to have such a happy and strong relationship. It's just that they have other forums for taking about themselves, to themselves, and most of their posts here now relate to each other as opposed to the other myriad topics that I'm sure they could contribute to (and occasionally do).

I wish the CEO of British Airways could be here so he could give PM and Glitz unlimmited free plane tickets, and spare us innocent posters the suffering of their proxy relationship.
We don't need plane tickets. Speeding up time just a few months would be nice though.

Either that or a simple click of the ignore button would spare you the infinite, excrutiating torture of having to read my posts, and spare me your comments.

I think everybody has caught on by now... ;)

You two are just too cute
You think? ;)

there's a line between cute and sickeningly soppy... or that's what some strange strange people say

hmmm...I wonder who PM will say:rolleyes: :p
Maggie Thatcher of course *nods*

haha, before he kills me - I only say that because he'd then get the chance to kill her...

Either that or a simple click of the ignore button would spare you the infinite, excrutiating torture of having to read my posts, and spare me your comments.
No, I enjoy many of both yours and PM's posts. Sorry if it came off too harsh, I just find it puzzling that you would choose this place to expound your sentiments.

Well, it isn't that easy to ignore actually - it's prevasive. Any thread runs the risk of turning into a gush-fest between them. I have nothing against PM and Glitz themselves - they are both lovely people, and I'm very happy that they seem to have such a happy and strong relationship. It's just that they have other forums for taking about themselves, to themselves, and most of their posts here now relate to each other as opposed to the other myriad topics that I'm sure they could contribute to (and occasionally do).
I'd disagree that "any thread runs the risk of turning into a gush-fest" considering it's usually in the relationship-related/social/non-serious threads anyway. If it was in all the debate and political discussion threads then I'd understand totally, but it isn't IIRC.

No, I enjoy many of both yours and PM's posts. Sorry if it came off too harsh, I just find it puzzling that you would choose this place to expound your sentiments.
Sorry if I came across too harsh. You can never tell on here how serious peoples comments are, and I took what you said as an attack at me.

Generally, the times we post back and forth on here are either a) when he's at work, popping on here, and can't come on msn/email properly so we'll ask quick questions in white text or b) in relationship orientated threads which obviously lead to talking about each other or social threads talking about thoughts/feelings which lead to a similar thing.

Quite a few times*, if it would get totally off the topic and is actually a reasonably serious thread, I'll actually reply to posts he's made involving me by sending him an email, linking to the post and commenting there, but sometimes it's simpler to post on NS.

*as an example, in the pissed off thread, I posted once about the flowers, he replied back, and after that we stuck to msn/email.

We must be the guilty posters... as opposed to the innocent ones ;)
haha...I think we both knew we wern't the "innocent" posters;)


I hate you.

*drowns in a sea of fluffle-spam*

Awwww...Kreitzmoorland needs some lovin...:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

sorry, I couldn't resist.

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that's cool. No offence meant or taken. :)
omygod, did I just do that?
snipAAAHHHHHHHH
*runs away*

that's cool. No offence meant or taken. :)
omygod, did I just do that?
Good good. I can get ridiculously over-defensive, and with forums communication gets messed up easily. edit: I'll pay attention to making sure we keep stuff to non-serious/social threads
you liked it, didn't you? that's what's scaring you... :P

If you could wish for one person to be with you right now, who would that be?
need you ask? :rolleyes:
(amy, if you read this... i'll be online in 5 mins so don't go anywhere!)

Well, it isn't that easy to ignore actually - it's prevasive. Any thread runs the risk of turning into a gush-fest between them. I have nothing against PM and Glitz themselves - they are both lovely people, and I'm very happy that they seem to have such a happy and strong relationship. It's just that they have other forums for taking about themselves, to themselves, and most of their posts here now relate to each other as opposed to the other myriad topics that I'm sure they could contribute to (and occasionally do).
meh, vaguely true. i've actually been away for a couple of days (hence i've missed her) and she's been on holiday so while i've been at work during the day we can still talk through NS. now she's back at school (and i'm returning to 'normal' work) i should be posting more on-topic stuff and that... you know.

doesn't change the fact that i love her to bits though :D

Nobody else missing anybody?
I find it hard to believe that we are the only ones...

Faye, a girl I know off the internet. Never met her, but she's so nice...:)

Alternatively, my best friend, Laura.

Nobody else missing anybody?
I find it hard to believe that we are the only ones...
What about you? You never answered the question yourself...

I'm missing my friend Olly too. He's back from holiday on Sunday though so...

The person who gave me my knickname and got me into Volkswagens. She was an opera trained folk singing chick who loved to work on VWs. And a great person in general. I miss her. (I talk to her now and then)

Yes, I have a knickname. Why didn't I use that as a nation name? Shut up, that's why...

What about you? You never answered the question yourself...



Right now? I'm missing a person I've seen once in my life, and a person who will never really be with me, due to distance and other circumstances.
Looking at a picture of him today made me feel rather... alone. That's why I started the thread.

Stalin!

Privyet bolsjoj!
I'm here. Now what do you want?

Personally, I'd like to be with Jeevi, my girlfriend. Seeing her on Monday though, so it's not so bad.

If you could wish for one person to be with you right now, who would that be?
Yes, I'm feeling alone right now... and I know the person I'd love to be here right now will never be here.... I don't. It's nice to have a moment's peace here. :)

Right now? I'm missing a person I've seen once in my life, and a person who will never really be with me, due to distance and other circumstances.
Looking at a picture of him today made me feel rather... alone. That's why I started the thread.
yeah, I'm missing a guy I met on the cruise I was on who turned out to be a pretty good friend in that short time (non-sexual missing type thing). However, he's a texan, so I doubt I'll see him around any time soon.

yeah, I'm missing a guy I met on the cruise I was on who turned out to be a pretty good friend in that short time (non-sexual missing type thing). However, he's a texan, so I doubt I'll see him around any time soon.

I only met this person once, but I've known him for 2.5 years now... and we had almost daily contact. It's just that I've only met him in person once, more than a year ago.
*sigh
Little point in dwelling on a situation that can't be changed. But I just can't help feeling a little alone right now.

I only met this person once, but I've known him for 2.5 years now... and we had almost daily contact. It's just that I've only met him in person once, more than a year ago.
*sigh
Little point in dwelling on a situation that can't be changed. But I just can't help feeling a little alone right now.
why can it not be changed? i mean, is flying out and seeing him sometime soon not an option?

:fluffle: for your loneliness :(

I only met this person once, but I've known him for 2.5 years now... and we had almost daily contact. It's just that I've only met him in person once, more than a year ago.
*sigh
Little point in dwelling on a situation that can't be changed. But I just can't help feeling a little alone right now.Is it over now?

If this is the famed married boyfriend, well, you knew it wouldn't work out long-term in the first place, right? not that that makes it any easier, I'm sure. I suggest calling your cute bus driver and getting layed. It'll do you ever so much good. Pinning can be sort of melancholically gratifying, but it's really no fun at all. You should stop.

I only met this person once, but I've known him for 2.5 years now... and we had almost daily contact. It's just that I've only met him in person once, more than a year ago.
*sigh
Little point in dwelling on a situation that can't be changed. But I just can't help feeling a little alone right now.
well, you have us!:fluffle:

(wait...we were supposed to make you feel better, not worse;) )
anyway, things have a weird way of working out rather nicely. Perhaps one day you'll see him on the street, and tackle him in an almost-romantic-comedy-but-slightly-more-violent-and-sexual way

why can it not be changed? i mean, is flying out and seeing him sometime soon not an option?

:fluffle: for your loneliness :(

General circumstances... like the minor matter that he's actually married. (Yes, I know, shame on me, I'm an evil little whore for falling in love with a married man... I've heard it all before)
But I am hoping of meeting him in a few months. It's just that right now, this moment, I feel sad about it all, that's all.

:fluffle: And thanks. :)

If i could only have 1 person then Ro-Ro.

well, you have us!:fluffle:

(wait...we were supposed to make you feel better, not worse;) )
anyway, things have a weird way of working out rather nicely. Perhaps one day you'll see him on the street, and tackle him in an almost-romantic-comedy-but-slightly-more-violent-and-sexual way

*lol

Now, that would be the day indeed :D

Is it over now?

If this is the famed married boyfriend, well, you knew it wouldn't work out long-term in the first place, right? not that that makes it any easier, I'm sure. I suggest calling your cute bus driver and getting layed. It'll do you ever so much good. Pinning can be sort of melancholically gratifying, but it's really no fun at all. You should stop.

"Famed", is he? ;)
I've given up on the bus driver a while ago. Wasn't half as interesting as I first thought. But generally, not the worst idea....

General circumstances... like the minor matter that he's actually married. (Yes, I know, shame on me, I'm an evil little whore for falling in love with a married man... I've heard it all before)
But I am hoping of meeting him in a few months. It's just that right now, this moment, I feel sad about it all, that's all.

:fluffle: And thanks. :)
well you can't really help who you fall in love with... but i suppose it would be kind of evil if you actually did something about it (like try and sabotage his marriage for example... not that i think you would but its the kind of shit they have on soaps, right?)..... which i suppose puts you back to square one, yeah :(


ah well, not much i can say but you can rant here all you like (and/or you can IM me... i'll TG you my addy if you like :))

General circumstances... like the minor matter that he's actually married. (Yes, I know, shame on me, I'm an evil little whore for falling in love with a married man... I've heard it all before)
But I am hoping of meeting him in a few months. It's just that right now, this moment, I feel sad about it all, that's all.

:fluffle: And thanks. :)
is his wife cute? we could work out a deal here....http://www.funwithmsn.com/msnsmileys/miscellaneous/devil-1.gif

well you can't really help who you fall in love with... but i suppose it would be kind of evil if you actually did something about it (like try and sabotage his marriage for example... not that i think you would but its the kind of shit they have on soaps, right?)..... which i suppose puts you back to square one, yeah :(


ah well, not much i can say but you can rant here all you like (and/or you can IM me... i'll TG you my addy if you like :))

Thanks for the offer, but I'm ok, really. Just a little sad, is all. Not really depressed, that would be different.
And no, I'd never do anything to actively endanger his marriage. Although I feel I'm walking a tightrope in that respect. I try not to interfere with anything and also try to offer fair and unbiased advice when he asks me for it, I know at the same time that the simple fact that I'm in love with him and have contact could be enough to end it all, should his wife ever grow suspicious...

is his wife cute? we could work out a deal here....http://www.funwithmsn.com/msnsmileys/miscellaneous/devil-1.gif

*lol
Like what?
Although I think it might not be a good idea... ;)

*lol
Like what?
Although I think it might not be a good idea... ;)
haha...perhaps not. But I would say you probably do him and his wife a service by being his friend, regardless of the feelings that go with that. Everyone needs good friends. And I can tell you aren't one who lets those feelings impact what they know is right.

haha...perhaps not. But I would say you probably do him and his wife a service by being his friend, regardless of the feelings that go with that. Everyone needs good friends. And I can tell you aren't one who lets those feelings impact what they know is right.

Wow... thank you. That's one of the nicest compliments I ever got. I'll try to live up to it.

Thanks for the offer, but I'm ok, really. Just a little sad, is all. Not really depressed, that would be different.
And no, I'd never do anything to actively endanger his marriage. Although I feel I'm walking a tightrope in that respect. I try not to interfere with anything and also try to offer fair and unbiased advice when he asks me for it, I know at the same time that the simple fact that I'm in love with him and have contact could be enough to end it all, should his wife ever grow suspicious...
eek... sounds difficult :S
all the more so if you're talking to him practically every day.

well i would wish you luck but i don't know... i'm sure somebody equally as great (and this time unmarried! :P) will come along for you soon enough - cos you're a really damn nice person and you deserve someone great :) :fluffle:

eek... sounds difficult :S
all the more so if you're talking to him practically every day.

Surprisingly, it normally isn't. But we've had less contact than usually during the last weeks, maybe I'm just beginning to feel the effects. ;)


well i would wish you luck but i don't know... i'm sure somebody equally as great (and this time unmarried! :P) will come along for you soon enough - cos you're a really damn nice person and you deserve someone great :) :fluffle:

Thanks again... I don't know if I can handle that many compliments in one week :)
It's possible that I meet another person I will find equallt great, but somehow it doesn't seem very likely. Which is ok, because generally I'm happy with the situation the way it is. I just have my downs now and then.

"Famed", is he? ;)
I've given up on the bus driver a while ago. Wasn't half as interesting as I first thought. But generally, not the worst idea....
Do ME, darn it, do ME!!! :fluffle: :D

Do ME, darn it, do ME!!! :fluffle: :D

Honey, you're even further away than he is... :fluffle:

Did I kill my own thread now?
Folks, I still want to know who you'd like to have sitting next to you right now...

Hmmmm one person to be with?
Melissa so I could hire some girl to slap her and watch in pure joy. Serves her right.:mad:

If it was someone I really wanted to see because I would enjoy their company, it would be my old campaigner friend, Chris back in the frigid wastelands of Chicago. I would go up to see him so we could eat together at the Berghoff (http://www.berghoff.com/)one last time before it closes, sharing tales of olde times...

Did I kill my own thread now?
Folks, I still want to know who you'd like to have sitting next to you right now...
still amy here. (we took our ramblings/naughtyness to msn ;))

If you could wish for one person to be with you right now, who would that be?
Yes, I'm feeling alone right now... and I know the person I'd love to be here right now will never be here....
I would wish for my fiancee to be here

It's possible that I meet another person I will find equallt great, but somehow it doesn't seem very likely. Which is ok, because generally I'm happy with the situation the way it is. I just have my downs now and then.I don't quite understand this. Why should you be satisfied with being a married bloke's little something on the side when you don't even get to screw him? Honestly, there is a closer, better, more equal relationship for you out there - and probably much closer to home than you think. You're a clever and sexy lady; I don't see why you should be satisfied with this type of an unfulfilling relationship, and frankly I wonder at the guy for allowing it to continue if he understands the peculiar position it puts you in.

I realize that I only have limited information, and its not my buisness, and all, but this is just my gut reaction to what seems like a totally untenable romantic connection.

I would wish for my fiancee to be here

Aw... where is she now?

I don't quite understand this. Why should you be satisfied with being a married bloke's little something on the side when you don't even get to screw him? Honestly, there is a closer, better, more equal relationship for you out there - and probably much closer to home than you think. You're a clever and sexy lady; I don't see why you should be satisfied with this type of an unfulfilling relationship, and frankly I wonder at the guy for allowing it to continue if he understands the peculiar position it puts you in.

I realize that I only have limited information, and its not my buisness, and all, but this is just my gut reaction to what seems like a totally untenable romantic connection.


Long, long, looooong story. And one not entirely fit for NS general, I'm afraid ;)
It's not a question if I should be satisfied, but rather if I am. The fact that I miss him right now doesn't mean that I'm not satisfied. On the contrary... we didn't have time at all to talk today, and little enough time during the last few weeks, and I'm just beginning to miss him, I think.
To be completely honest, I don't think I would want a more 'real' relationship at the moment. I acutally like the fact that there is some distance, but that we still are close. I enjoy my freedom and my own time a lot...

I would like someone.... ANYONE...... seriously. I'm all alone!


:p

No, I'd like my uncle John here. He died quite young and I never truly got the chance to know him. This thread is pulling me down now too...:(

I would like someone.... ANYONE...... seriously. I'm all alone!


:p

No, I'd like my uncle John here. He died quite young and I never truly got the chance to know him. This thread is pulling me down now too...:(

Definitely wasn't intended... sorry. :fluffle:

Definitely wasn't intended... sorry. :fluffle:


No, just got me thinking, which is always the first sign of trouble.

*reciprocal fluffle :fluffle:

Ah screw it, life's too short. I change my answer:


Angelina Jolie, DEFINATELY Angelina. :D

Ah screw it, life's too short. I change my answer:


Angelina Jolie, DEFINATELY Angelina. :D

*lol

Good to see you back to your old superficial self! There's not a worry in the world that Hollywood couldn't cure :D ;)

*lol

Good to see you back to your old superficial self! There's not a worry in the world that Hollywood couldn't cure :D ;)

Damn Straight! :cool:

I likes being superficial

*subtle bump

Eh, noone in particular.