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So how important is your man's pleasure to you during sex?

I've seen this asked of the male posters often... let's turn it on its head.

So how important is your man's pleasure to you during sex?

I've seen this asked of the male posters often... let's turn it on its head.

Uhuhuhuhuhuh... You said "head".

[/Butthead]

Uhuhuhuhuhuh... You said "head".

[/Butthead]
Yeah, I was going to say "now you guys had better not take this as some sort of intended pun" but I realised that would attract to much attention to it.

It'd be very important. There's no way I'd be able to enjoy myself if I thought they weren't, and seeing them turned on would only make me more turned on.
edit: living in his service sounds fun too though. Mmmm.... submission....

So how important is your man's pleasure to you during sex?

I've seen this asked of the male posters often... let's turn it on its head.

Seeing him turned on turns me on, so, of course it's important.

whoa... so that's what the political forum at nationstates is used for... serious political debates... hmmmmmmmm...

I live in his service. ;)

I live in his service.
aah, the submissive type then?

Oh wait something just occurred to me: teh gays. So before Fass gets me, I'll recommend that gay men vote in this poll as if they were women, and that lesbians vote as if their partners were men. I hope that makes sense.

aah, the submissive type then?
not really. He also lives to serve me.

Seeing him turned on turns me on, so, of course it's important.Exactly. I voted 'very important' for this reason, but I wouldn't say 'I live in his service' since that, to me at least, implies that his sexual pleasure is more important than mine; I feel that his satisfaction and mine are equally important.

whoa... so that's what the political forum at nationstates is used for... serious political debates... hmmmmmmmm...It's actually the General Forum, not the 'political forum'. Political issues are discussed here of course, but it is not confined to that, nor - I believe - was it ever intended to be.

i guess it depends on what you mean by pleasure

if a man isnt into it, youre really not gonna have a good time. if there is no "happy ending" for him, its disappointing im sure.

would i do whatever it takes to give my man the last ounce of potential pleasure? not unless i was enjoying it too. if its mutually satisfying, why hold back?

So before Fass gets me, I'll recommend that gay men vote in this poll as if they were women, and that lesbians vote as if their partners were men.

Ugh. That is so stupid.

Depends on the guy. Depends on the sex. If it's some random fling at a kegger, hell no, I don't give a damn how well he likes it. 'Course, I haven't had a kegger fling since high school. If it's a boyfriend, I somewhat take it into consideration. If it's make-up sex or drunk sex.....who cares? You're freakin' getting sex.

Here's the thing, though.....I don't view the physical aspect of a pre-marital relationship all that important. Neither does my current boyfriend, so we don't get involved unless there's a special reason for it. It makes their particular enjoyment a little less interesting to you when you believe you're doing superfluous sexual "duties".

I like polls.

Seeing him turned on turns me on, so, of course it's important.
ditto

I like polls.

Yeah, polls are great. :)