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Could you help me with my girls ?

Pilatus Children
14-12-2005, 10:52
Hi am nearly new and I just tried to open one thread…

I have a more or less big problem, and I want to hear your meanings what I should do now with my feelings.
I have a beautiful woman and I am married for many years.
My problem is that in bed it´s more than boring with her. So I have to looked for other girls to satisfy my sexual behaviours . I decided to call them for you Ginas.

Gina 1 is a married girl, and with her I have the best sex I have ever had, but I know anytime next year this relationship will be over, because I do not have the opportunity to meet her again, because her man is not on construction job anymore and will stay with her the whole time long.

Gina 2 is a single and a real good friend ( maybe the best friend a man can have) She loves me and I think more than it is good for her. So she tends towards jealousy and enviousness.

Gina 3 is a single and she is very horny so I have decided to meet her once and to have sex with her. From our conversations I know she would like it to, and maybe wanna have sex with me and Gina 2.

Gina 4 finally is a the youngest off all, a 26 old girl, I have had the best sex before I met Gina 1. and she even loves me. I do not know what I feel for her right now, but for 2 years ago. I loved her too…

So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???
Delator
14-12-2005, 10:58
I predict you will either...

A: End up becoming married to all five of these women through some fantastically improbable stroke of luck, thus becoming the most popular person to ever post in NS General... (:D )

OR

B: Your going to mess your situation up horribly, lose any chance you have with any of these women, and make another thread in a few weeks asking what went wrong...(:rolleyes: )

I'd wager that option "B" is the more likely result
BackwoodsSquatches
14-12-2005, 11:02
This aint my business, but you made it so when you post this kind of thing.
My opinion?

You should have more respect for your wife.
Delator
14-12-2005, 11:06
...You should have more respect for your wife.

My guess is that the infidelity swings both ways...:eek:
Heron-Marked Warriors
14-12-2005, 11:09
My guess is that the infidelity swings both ways...:eek:

Why the hell would you guess that?
BackwoodsSquatches
14-12-2005, 11:10
My guess is that the infidelity swings both ways...:eek:


No man is rock solid all the time.
Mistakes can happen.

But to want input on one out of four choices to cheat on your wife, makes that person a douche.

"A man is usually about as faithful as his options"
-Chris Rock.
The Similized world
14-12-2005, 11:13
My advice? Grow the fuck up & stop messing with people's feelings.

Tell the wife & Ginas about eachother.
Hullepupp
14-12-2005, 11:15
I think you should take care of your wife, and forget your Ginas !
Delator
14-12-2005, 11:21
Why the hell would you guess that?

Well, judging by the fact that he has not one, but FOUR options besides his wife, I'm guessing she (the wife) has plenty of opportunities to find other people for "companionship"...he can't have a whole lot of time to spend at home.
Hullepupp
14-12-2005, 11:25
Well, judging by the fact that he has not one, but FOUR options besides his wife, I'm guessing she (the wife) has plenty of opportunities to find other people for "companionship"...he can't have a whole lot of time to spend at home.
I even think his wife has enough time to look for new conversations.
Harlesburg
14-12-2005, 11:36
You will die of VD.
Gartref
14-12-2005, 11:36
Could you help me with my girls ?


Yeah... you need to realize there's more to women than just their Ginas.
Valdania
14-12-2005, 11:39
I think you should stop posting anonymous lies on the internet

Your writing style strongly suggests that you might be a bit simple anyway.
Pure Metal
14-12-2005, 11:45
looks like one big mess about to all fall apart to me
(if its true)
stop messing with people and get back with your wife. or don't - but do one or the other, cos you can't have it all.
Kanabia
14-12-2005, 12:00
Yeah... you need to realize there's more to women than just their Ginas.

Rofl. You rule.
Harlesburg
14-12-2005, 12:04
looks like one big mess about to all fall apart to me
(if its true)
stop messing with people and get back with your wife. or don't - but do one or the other, cos you can't have it all.
LOL yeah i know either he has taken our fair share of Wimmins or each guy gets 5.:)
Gracerograd
14-12-2005, 12:12
So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???

Pretty much you should stop being a knob, and hope that your wife is forgiving enough to still want you. From the sounds of it you don't deserve to have a wife at all, and should die a lonely bitter old man crushed by his regrets. And probably smelling of wee.
Cabra West
14-12-2005, 12:26
So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???

I've just had a bit of a "Gone with the wind" moment (who says Hollywood doesn't give good advice?)

There's on scene where Rhett tells Scarlett "You're like a thief who doesn't regret that he stole, only that they caught him"
From what you said, that pretty much sums it up. You don't sound ashamed in the least that you have so many girlfriends, you sound like you're scared of being found out.

What kind of advice to give you? To stop seeing the other girls and start being faithful? Pointless.
To be honest to yourself and your wife? Equally pointless.

I think you're a person who doesn't live with priorities, but with as many compromises as he can handle. Just make sure you CAN handle them all....
The United Sandwiches
14-12-2005, 13:08
My guesses are:

(a) you will die of some AIDS or some other horrible STD

Or

(b) you're actually a little 10 year old attempting to attract attention while sitting around with your firends laughing at dick and fart jokes.
BackwoodsSquatches
14-12-2005, 13:12
My guesses are:

(a) you will die of some AIDS or some other horrible STD

Or

(b) you're actually a little 10 year old attempting to attract attention while sitting around with your firends laughing at dick and fart jokes.


wait....

Im 20 years thier senior, and I still laugh at dick and fart jokes.
The United Sandwiches
14-12-2005, 13:36
wait....

Im 20 years thier senior, and I still laugh at dick and fart jokes.

Well do you do it in an immature way?

wait..erm.. is there a non immature way to laugh at dick and fart jokes? 'cause that would be great.
BackwoodsSquatches
14-12-2005, 13:40
Well do you do it in an immature way?

wait..erm.. is there a non immature way to laugh at dick and fart jokes? 'cause that would be great.


I just make it a point never to take myself, or anything else, too seriously.
Cluichstan
14-12-2005, 13:43
You will die of VD.

One can hope...
Gylesovia
14-12-2005, 13:58
So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???

COngrats to you for taking your wedding vows so seriously. "Until death do us part or until I feel like having some alternate tail..."

What kind of man are you? Here's an idea, if you're unable to be fulfilled by your marriage, GET A DIVORCE. Stop screwing around behind your wife's back like a coward.

I won't even ask if you have children, because I'm deathly afraid to think what kind of example you could set for them.

"Sorry kids, I love that your mother takes care of you, feeds me, cleans the house, and all, but Gina has a great rack and lets me do things that are, um, different..."

I hope other men will will agree that what you are doing is dishonest and disgusting.
Kazcaper
14-12-2005, 14:02
My advice? Grow the fuck up & stop messing with people's feelings..
Teh_pantless_hero
14-12-2005, 15:08
And here we find a great candidate for castration.
Ancient Valyria
14-12-2005, 17:02
with a blunt rusty knife
Cluichstan
14-12-2005, 17:07
And no anaesthetic.
Megaloria
14-12-2005, 17:10
Can't bang forever, man, but anything else ruins lives here. If you need things to be spicier in bed, MAKE IT HAPPEN!
Ravenshrike
14-12-2005, 17:14
I predict you will either...

A: End up becoming married to all five of these women through some fantastically improbable stroke of luck, thus becoming the most popular person to ever post in NS General... (:D )
Heh, the Tenchi solution.
Grave_n_idle
14-12-2005, 17:17
Hi am nearly new and I just tried to open one thread…

I have a more or less big problem, and I want to hear your meanings what I should do now with my feelings.
I have a beautiful woman and I am married for many years.
My problem is that in bed it´s more than boring with her. So I have to looked for other girls to satisfy my sexual behaviours . I decided to call them for you Ginas.

Gina 1 is a married girl, and with her I have the best sex I have ever had, but I know anytime next year this relationship will be over, because I do not have the opportunity to meet her again, because her man is not on construction job anymore and will stay with her the whole time long.

Gina 2 is a single and a real good friend ( maybe the best friend a man can have) She loves me and I think more than it is good for her. So she tends towards jealousy and enviousness.

Gina 3 is a single and she is very horny so I have decided to meet her once and to have sex with her. From our conversations I know she would like it to, and maybe wanna have sex with me and Gina 2.

Gina 4 finally is a the youngest off all, a 26 old girl, I have had the best sex before I met Gina 1. and she even loves me. I do not know what I feel for her right now, but for 2 years ago. I loved her too…

So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???

My only real qustion is... who is the puppetmaster?

DCD, that you again?
Anybodybutbushia
14-12-2005, 18:11
The boredom in bed is likely a 2 way street. You are bored with her and she is bored with you. You need to do your wife a favor and get a divorce instead of potentially exposing her to VD.

PS That more to women than their Ginas joke was classic
Keruvalia
14-12-2005, 19:21
While you were posting this message about Ginas, your wife was getting fucked (real well) by Dexter.

I suggest you get off the computer and go spend time with your wife. Work it out or get a divorce and stop asking for life advice on an internet forum full of 15-19 year olds.
Pilatus Children
14-12-2005, 20:07
I think you should stop posting anonymous lies on the internet

Your writing style strongly suggests that you might be a bit simple anyway.

1. I don´t come from a country where english is the major language
2. I do not post lies
3. A friend of me told me to post here
4. I am sorry if I have insult any of the children here...Take care !!!
5. 1 or 2 answers here has helped me really I like to thank to them, who don´t wanna insult ME....
6. Bye bye....My friend told me here I find maybe a solution....he was wrong

:mad:
Alexandria Quatriem
14-12-2005, 21:43
dude....5 girls at the same time!? holy crap. your head is gonna get eaten. you married your wife, so act like it. seriously, explain that you're not having fun, make suggestions, etc. if she knew you were unhappy, she'd probably be falling over herself to make you happy.
Cluichstan
14-12-2005, 21:53
1. I don´t come from a country where english is the major language
2. I do not post lies
3. A friend of me told me to post here
4. I am sorry if I have insult any of the children here...Take care !!!
5. 1 or 2 answers here has helped me really I like to thank to them, who don´t wanna insult ME....
6. Bye bye....My friend told me here I find maybe a solution....he was wrong

:mad:

Yes, I solve all of life's problems by posting on forums on teh interwebs... :rolleyes:
Heron-Marked Warriors
14-12-2005, 21:56
Yes, I solve all of life's problems by posting on forums on teh interwebs... :rolleyes:

You mean you don't rule your life by what the people here say? Is that a bad idea?
Cluichstan
14-12-2005, 21:58
You mean you don't rule your life by what the people here say? Is that a bad idea?

No, my friend, heed my every word, and you will be just fine. ;)
Hullepupp
14-12-2005, 21:59
You mean you don't rule your life by what the people here say? Is that a bad idea?
*lol
I nearly know 10 threads where it is a very good idea ;)
Iztatepopotla
14-12-2005, 22:02
3. A friend of me told me to post here


That's not a friend! That has to be the worst piece of advise ever!

Anyway, I could suggest enjoy #1 while you can, get rid of #2 because she's gonna be major trouble, and don't see #3 and 4 more than twice a month each or make them any promises.

That's the easy solution, but it's at best temporary. The hard solution is to try to figure out why the relationship with your wife is boring and fixing it. It's harder, but better in the long run.

And if you still need help with your girls just send them over here and I'll take care of them for you.
OceanDrive3
15-12-2005, 00:41
Could you help me with my girls ?Sure...what are friends for?

I can take..
Gina1 on Thursdays @ 20:00
Gina2 on Saturdays @ 15:00
.. and your Wife on Sunday mornings @ 10:00

..other than that.. I am all booked up :D
Heron-Marked Warriors
15-12-2005, 00:48
That's not a friend! That has to be the worst piece of advise ever!


rotflmao

No, my friend, heed my every word, and you will be just fine

I have a friend!! **heeds**
Noodle Domination
15-12-2005, 00:57
Hi am nearly new and I just tried to open one thread…

I have a more or less big problem, and I want to hear your meanings what I should do now with my feelings.
I have a beautiful woman and I am married for many years.
My problem is that in bed it´s more than boring with her. So I have to looked for other girls to satisfy my sexual behaviours . I decided to call them for you Ginas.

Gina 1 is a married girl, and with her I have the best sex I have ever had, but I know anytime next year this relationship will be over, because I do not have the opportunity to meet her again, because her man is not on construction job anymore and will stay with her the whole time long.

Gina 2 is a single and a real good friend ( maybe the best friend a man can have) She loves me and I think more than it is good for her. So she tends towards jealousy and enviousness.

Gina 3 is a single and she is very horny so I have decided to meet her once and to have sex with her. From our conversations I know she would like it to, and maybe wanna have sex with me and Gina 2.

Gina 4 finally is a the youngest off all, a 26 old girl, I have had the best sex before I met Gina 1. and she even loves me. I do not know what I feel for her right now, but for 2 years ago. I loved her too…

So what do you think? Should I spend time with anyone of them , or should I try to get the fun with my wife back again ???


That's sad that your not man enough to stick to one woman!!! I think if u don't really love your wife then devorce her but it is wrong to have all these other relationships or w/e especially with a married woman!!!
Good Lifes
15-12-2005, 04:57
My advice is you should give your wife a divorce, give her all the property, and never marry again. There is not a woman alive who is low enough to diserve you.
Nureonia
15-12-2005, 05:11
I suggest circumseppuku.

If you don't know what that is, think about it.
Teh_pantless_hero
15-12-2005, 05:29
I suggest circumseppuku.

If you don't know what that is, think about it.
The penis circumcises itself to death?
Harlesburg
15-12-2005, 12:06
One can hope...
That or nope VD is fine.
Lousy arsehole.
Cluichstan
15-12-2005, 13:28
The penis circumcises itself to death?

Zigactly! :D