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## sexual science... is the devil in the details?

OceanDrive3
11-12-2005, 00:33
So my boyfriend (yeah, I haven't broken up with him, I'm a wuss) called me and everything's fine for a while and then he starts to bring up how bad it makes him feel that i like uncut penises better (out of the fucking blue he brings this up) and how he'd never felt self conscious until he found that out and how I make him feel so fucking bad about himself, despite how many times I tell him I don't give a flying fuck. And it's not like he's not obsessed with huge breasts, which I most certainly don't have. But I don't bitch about how much it hurts my self esteem that he likes big breasts and I don't have big breasts.

And at any rate, he gets to a point where he's standing outside in a t-shirt freezing his ass off and refusing to go inside and talking about how he let all his friends down any everything and I'm trying to convince him that his friends make their own decisions in life. Their failures are their own, they're not a reflection on him. And then he starts in about how his friends look up to him and so if they fail, it's because he's failed and then he's says "My freinds look up to me, they call me dad. What do your friends call you? Well, I guess most of them call you sperm recepticle.".Do this details make any difference... for sexual attraction ...or sexual feeling...

I am curious... Coming poll is 100% anonymous
OceanDrive3
11-12-2005, 00:36
hmm ...for some reason I am not able to make the poll...
The South Islands
11-12-2005, 00:36
I see boobs and penises.
Ashmoria
11-12-2005, 00:44
it depends on your approach to sex.

if you are out to find someone to fuck, you have your preferences. cut/uncut, blond/brunet, asian/black whatever. you look for whatever fits your fantasy best.

if you are in love, you dont give a damn about the fine details of your lovers body. you might even come to prefer his specifications because you come to associate them with your ideal. (it happened to a friend of mine who always insisted that her men be virtually hairless until she fell for a really hairy guy. now she finds hairless men a bit creepy)
OceanDrive3
11-12-2005, 00:49
What's an uncut penis? I can't say I've ever heard of a cut penis to give me any frame of reference as to what an uncut penis is..and here is the answer for that question...Uncircumcised.
Gracerograd
11-12-2005, 00:50
it depends on your approach to sex.

if you are out to find someone to fuck, you have your preferences. cut/uncut, blond/brunet, asian/black whatever. you look for whatever fits your fantasy best.

if you are in love, you dont give a damn about the fine details of your lovers body. you might even come to prefer his specifications because you come to associate them with your ideal. (it happened to a friend of mine who always insisted that her men be virtually hairless until she fell for a really hairy guy. now she finds hairless men a bit creepy)

Very true. I find that if I am attracted to someone's personality I just appreciate their physical attributes as they are. Sounds clichéd but I think beauty does radiate from within; once I like someone they somehow seem far more physically attractive anyway :)
OceanDrive3
11-12-2005, 01:08
iinteresting... Poll is pretty even....
OceanDrive3
11-12-2005, 01:36
i have a theory on penises...

they look strange to women because when they are doing you the most good, you cant see them.Why didnt I think about that? :D
Hyridian
11-12-2005, 04:28
I like boobs.

:fluffle:

just want to :p 'em
H N Fiddlebottoms VIII
11-12-2005, 04:30
I like boobs.

:fluffle:

just want to :p 'em
So you get off at sticking your tongue out at women's breasts with your eyes closed in a generally mocking manner? That is, quite possibly, the weirdest fetish I have ever heard of.
No, come to think of it, the one about the canned ham and underwear made of Jello was weirder.
Hyridian
11-12-2005, 04:35
So you get off at sticking your tongue out at women's breasts with your eyes closed in a generally mocking manner? That is, quite possibly, the weirdest fetish I have ever heard of.
No, come to think of it, the one about the canned ham and underwear made of Jello was weirder.

Go on, just try sticking your head in there.

*sticks tongue back out*

:p
Super-power
11-12-2005, 04:35
I see boobs and penises.
Hahah you said boobs....and penises [/immature]
The Squeaky Rat
11-12-2005, 10:13
So you get off at sticking your tongue out at women's breasts with your eyes closed in a generally mocking manner? That is, quite possibly, the weirdest fetish I have ever heard of.
No, come to think of it, the one about the canned ham and underwear made of Jello was weirder.

Not the one about the man who can only cum in a bathtub filled with baked beans ? He preferred fresh over canned..
Cabra West
11-12-2005, 10:18
Hmm... cut is something I haven't tried yet.
As for boobs, as long as they feel soft and natural, I'm game. But I don't mind the size much.
Forfania Gottesleugner
11-12-2005, 10:58
Do this details make any difference... for sexual attraction ...or sexual feeling...

I am curious... Coming poll is 100% anonymous

...what. The quote you are talking about is clearly from someone who is very upset or very drunk. How you can even pull this thread out of that quote amazes me.
Callisdrun
11-12-2005, 11:02
My ladyfriend had very small breasts when we first got together. I didn't really care all that much, though, I must admit that I didn't complain when she gained a few pounds and the only way to tell was that her breasts increased in size (not by very much, but enough to tell up close). Small boobs have their qualities (they're cute in a way) as do large ones. Enormous ones are kinda strange though.