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Help me please.
I have recently messed up a pulling oppurtunity which has been hard to live down. I need some advice about what to do when kissing. Please help.
This refers to open mouth kissing obviously and i could really do without some jackass noobs flaming me for my lack of experience.

Help me please.
I have recently messed up a pulling oppurtunity which has been hard to live down. I need some advice about what to do when kissing. Please help.
This refers to open mouth kissing obviously and i could really do without some jackass noobs flaming me for my lack of experience.

* tries to be serious, sees angry generalite pitchfork mob running at me * on second thought...

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Anyway
*arnold voice* Just do it.:p

Open mouth slightly, and imagine that you are eating slowly melting ice cream. After about thirty seconds, slip the tongue in slowly.

Just go with the flow, man. There's no scientific method to kissing, I don't think. It just takes practice and you get your own style.

Help me please.
I have recently messed up a pulling oppurtunity which has been hard to live down. I need some advice about what to do when kissing. Please help.
This refers to open mouth kissing obviously and i could really do without some jackass noobs flaming me for my lack of experience.

To put this advice in perspective, let me first say that pretty much every woman I deal with gushes over how good a kisser I am, even the ones who don't like to give out compliments. That being said, just pay attention to what the other person is doing and do it back to them. I'm assuming your male, so do it a little more aggresively than they are, but other than that just copy their style. People kiss you the way they want to be kissed. On the other hand, if you think something might be sexy don't be afraid to try it. Just wait until you've established that this person thinks you're a good kisser first. That way they'll give you some slack if they don't like it.

I dunno, I just asked her how to kiss (since she had experience and I didn't)
Then we kissed, and she said: that wasn't good enough, you need more practice.:D

Generally, you'll end up open-mouth kissing someone in one of two categories: someone who likes you, or someone who is drunk. The drunk won't notice how good the kissing is, and someone who likes you will be happy to help you practice.

Kissing is for pussies. Wait until she passes out and get your thang on.

Kissing is for pussies. Wait until she passes out and get your thang on.

Is that how your dad made your mom?

Sorry, but with a jackass post like that, you get a jackass response.

Just practice. There's no other way.

I've never attempted it myself.. I don't understand why anyone would.. but that's my own prejudice speaking.. if you're a teenager (which I'm assuming), just go for it.. she probably has no clue about the proper method either.. :p

Is that how your dad made your mom?

Sorry, but with a jackass post like that, you get a jackass response.
You take all of the fun out of flamebait when you apologize for responding.

There is no *Right* way to kiss. It's different with every person.

My last gf just rammed her toungue down my throat straight of, whereas with my current gf tonuges are hardly used.

Both have been very enjoyable for both of us, so just do what feels right for the two of you.

Well, this article I'll give you is actually supposed to be geared towards females, but as I don't know which you are, I'll do it anyway. Technically, the tips really work for either party, they're just from a women's advice site.
Article (http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexkissing/0,,r1db,00.html)

Enjoy.

Then we kissed, and she said: that wasn't good enough, you need more practice.:D
Even though this didn't happen to me, it makes me want to cry and lay in my bath tub.
But here's what I say:
Just do this :fluffle:

If it doesn't go well.... then you can do (A) :headbang: or (B) :mp5:

Just start with pecks, then stay sustained and slowly apply pressure, then introduce tongue.

NO'S
Pizza
Braces
Open mouth attacks
Lip gloss (yuck)

Help me please.
I have recently messed up a pulling oppurtunity which has been hard to live down. I need some advice about what to do when kissing. Please help.
This refers to open mouth kissing obviously and i could really do without some jackass noobs flaming me for my lack of experience.
I could go into detail about how to give the most memorable kisses ever, but the best way to learn is by doing. It also helps if you can find a girl who is a bit more experienced than you who is willing to teach you what she knows.

It's really hard. You're going to mess it up.

It's really hard. You're going to mess it up.
Way to be encouraging! :rolleyes:

Way to be encouraging! :rolleyes:

It doesn't help to be over-confident

Don't be silly. If she likes you, there's no such thing as a bad kiss.

try not to be aware of yourself :) it's a simple thing, and if you let go you'll do fine, so forget about the "am I good?" thing and focus on your senses, that's why people usually close their eyes. try to enjoy as much as you can :) if its good for you its usually good for her too, good luck, moist lips :)

All I can really say is that there are a couple of general rules to follow. I couldn't say any more than that because 1) although those people I have kissed have been generally complimentary, I haven't kissed all that many, and 2) everyone likes things slightly different.

1) Keep your face and mouth relaxed. Don't pucker up like you are kissing your mother or the dog.

2) Gently, gently. When you are moving in and actually going through with it, do everything gently and tenderly. If she starts moving more urgently, reciprocate, but don't do it on your own.

3) Don't dart or stab with the tongue. If at any time she feels like your tongue is penetrating, the gig is up.

I'd advise not trying to play tonsil hockey with her - just gently run your tongue around the inside of her lips and/or touch tongues with her.

I admit it's a matter of personal preference, but most girls I know prefer that to agressive tongue kissing. I hope that helps.

But really, you have to ask her what she likes, every woman's different. And, romance fiction to the contrary, it does not all come naturally. You need practice and maybe instruction.

Don't be silly. If she likes you, there's no such thing as a bad kiss.
Oh, no no no, trust me....there is. She may not say so, if she's a kind girl (though many of us aren't that kind), but there is totally such thing. However, if she likes you, she'll be willing to overlook the bad kisses in the hopes that you'll learn and grow.

*shudders at the recollection*

Braces

*slaps upside the head*

It's really hard. You're going to mess it up.

Your name implies you know vast amounts about romance and all matters romantic.

Your name implies you know vast amounts about romance and all matters romantic.
Heh! As if! :D

The first girl I kissed told me it was the worst experience she had ever encountered in her 17 years of life...

Heh! As if! :D

That was the joke old man,I was being sarcastic

Get her drunk so she won't notice if you're bad. Drink solves all problems if applied to someone else.

you should do what I do, I can flip my toung upside-down,sideways, go on get freaky naughty its fun, believe me they'll enjoy it , I have never recieved a complaint from a boy yet:fluffle:

Don't be silly. If she likes you, there's no such thing as a bad kiss.

No... there is. I had a first kiss with a girl ruin chances of that relationship ever happening.

That, of course, is a sign of bad chemistry. If you have bad chemistry, it probably just won't work. If you have good chemistry, then it will be good no matter how inexperienced you are.

If it's good, good! If it's bad, it's probably no one's fault.

yea but how many times do you kiss someone who you have bad chemistry with?some ones sonds like a bad dater

yea but how many times do you kiss someone who you have bad chemistry with?some ones sonds like a bad dater

You don't have to be dating someone to kiss them.

As long as you don't try to shove your tongue down her throat you're fine. I once had an ex who did that.

You don't have to be dating someone to kiss them.
I agree. Making out with strangers is more fun.

I agree. Making out with strangers is more fun.

I don't know that it's *more* fun: it's nice to actually have someone who cares about you. On the other hand, though, there's something to be said about novelty.

Always use more lip action than tongue action. It's hotter, and that's where the errogenous nerves are bundled. (It'll turn her on).
Do not overdo the tongue, stick it down her throat, or fuck her mouth with it (darting). That will turn her off.
Keep your eyes closed.
An open palm placed gently on her cheek is a nice touch, too.

I don't know that it's *more* fun: it's nice to actually have someone who cares about you. On the other hand, though, there's something to be said about novelty.
Novelty is good. :)

An open palm placed gently on her cheek is a nice touch, too.
Now what type of cheeks are we talking about again? :D

Your name implies you know vast amounts about romance and all matters romantic.
I like that:D
Ok i am male an have braces just to clear a few things up