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What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone?


Don't ask stupid questions. The obvious answer is: Who cares?

Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?
Why rush?

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?
Well if the girl has a nice partner, she might get him to go down on her. Like mutual masturbation with your mouth.

Also, if you believe porn, there must be a genetic trait (linked to boob size and horniness) that means some women love the cock.

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?
I'll answer, even though I'm not a girl.

Oral sex is fun because you give pleasure to your partner. There are some of us who actually enjoy pleasuring each other, as opposed to being egoistical in our lovemaking.

Of course, it should be said that anyone willing to perform oral sex on his/her partner should be rewarded with the same privilege, for equality's sake.

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?
Far about as many reasons as males perform cunnilingus. It drives most partners crazy, it's great foreplay, it pleases someone you care about, etc. :)

To repeat the old adage:

is it worse to swallow a teaspoon of cream or lick a dead and possibly bleeding fish for an hour?

Also, if you believe porn, there must be a genetic trait (linked to boob size and horniness) that means some women love the cock.

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.

I'll answer, even though I'm not a girl.

Oral sex is fun because you give pleasure to your partner. There are some of us who actually enjoy pleasuring each other, as opposed to being egoistical in our lovemaking.

Of course, it should be said that anyone willing to perform oral sex on his/her partner should be rewarded with the same privilege, for equality's sake.

I'm turned on a lot by pleasing my partner, so I know what you mean.

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.

Listen well to this person. No matter what porn has told you, there are no such things as women.

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.
I want to make a whooshing noise, possibly with a ahnd movement suggesting that my post went straight over your head, but I fear that you were simply carrying on the joke and I missed it, so...

*whoosh*

Listen well to this person. No matter what porn has told you, there are no such things as women.
That wasn't quite was I had in mind :p

Well, I suppose that makes hot,sweaty male-to-male sex our only alternative.

Yay! :fluffle:

That wasn't quite was I had in mind :p

Well, I suppose that makes hot,sweaty male-to-male sex our only alternative.

Yay! :fluffle:

*shudders*

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.
Um ... but there really are women who get turned all sorts of on by performing fellatio, just as there really are men who get turned all sorts of on by performing cunniligus ... I know, I'm one of them. :D

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.
So, wait. Women don't like penises?

I want to make a whooshing noise, possibly with a ahnd movement suggesting that my post went straight over your head, but I fear that you were simply carrying on the joke and I missed it, so...

*whoosh*
Curse your evil hidden text! :p

And FYI, I was answering your post seriously for the benefit of all those 13 years old male teenagers who actually expect sex to be like what they watch over the interweb. :rolleyes:

:D Listen well to this person. No matter what porn has told you, there are no such things as women.

i've never understood why women or men for that matter would peform fellatio

cunnelingus I understand

dam I can't spell

*shudders*
What?

Everybody love hot, sweaty male-to-male sex. ;)

Don't you?:p

Sorry to destroy your childish illusions, but porn is not to be believed.

Ever.

Sorry.

Well, there go my plans of a career as a pizza boy with a moustache.

So, wait. Women don't like penises?
*runs back into room, drops coat on a coat-stand*

No, they don't like them. They envy them.

*gets coat*

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

A pleased partner is a more willing partner.

So, wait. Women don't like penises?
Not all of them do.

Well, there go my plans of a career as a pizza boy with a moustache.
*shudders*

Curse your evil hidden text! :p

And FYI, I was answering your post seriously for the benefit of all those 13 years old male teenagers who actually expect sex to be like what they watch over the interweb. :rolleyes:
To be fair, some of porn isn't dissimilar from RL sex. I mean, every time I've had sex with a girl, me and my buddy have taken her at the same time with our 15" penises while she simultaneously goes down on her horny, inexperienced sorority sister who just happens to have perfectly formed plastic breasts while a camera crew films our every movement. That's just how normal sex is.

I thought that only happened to me, Longton... :(

To be fair, some of porn isn't dissimilar from RL sex. I mean, every time I've had sex with a girl, me and my buddy have taken her at the same time with our 15" penises while she simultaneously goes down on her horny, inexperienced sorority sister who just happens to have perfectly formed plastic breasts while a camera crew films our every movement. That's just how normal sex is.
That almost had me choking to death from laughter.

So, are you and your buddy(and your 15'' penises) interested in some hot, sweaty male-to-male sex? Y'know, since women don't exist anyway... :D

To be serious for a moment, and go back to the original post, some things to consider:

1) In a good relationship, oral sex is mutual, and enjoyable for both the doer and the doee. However:

a) in many cases, men receive oral sex and do not reciprocate...sometimes in ANY way. This is generally a phenomena among younger folks. Sometimes it is done out of selfishness, or negative feelings about cunnilingous...and sometimes it is simply taken for granted that the female will do this for you and that's that.

b) sometimes girls (again, usually the young variety of women) perform oral sex as a way to get guys to like them. It's not enjoyable necessarily for them, but they hope it pays off. This is a stupid situation.

c) Often, oral sex is expected by men, but it's a 'treat' for women. That's a load of shit. As Dan Savage has put it...today's model of man or woman should not have oral sex as an optional feature. If you think it's 'ok' that you don't get some oral fun too, you're just fooling yourself.

d) We do plenty of things that are not immediately enjoyable, but which provide enjoyment further down the line. Working = money is one example:)

That almost had me choking to death from laughter.

So, are you and your buddy(and your 15'' penises) interested in some hot, sweaty male-to-male sex? Y'know, since women don't exist anyway... :D
Meh, since women don't actually exist, me and my buddy must have been boning two men anyway, so....ok.

*calls friend*

*slaps out man meat*

LETS GET IT OOOOONNN! [/joe, family guy]

<snipped because I agree with these three>

d) We do plenty of things that are not immediately enjoyable, but which provide enjoyment further down the line. Working = money is one example:)
Hey, I like the work I do. Admittedly, it's mainly because by 'work' I actually mean 'my education which will allow me to get the job I want later in life', but not everyone has a crappy job.

Meh, since women don't actually exist, me and my buddy must have been boning two men anyway, so....ok.

*calls friend*

*slaps out man meat*

LETS GET IT OOOOONNN! [/joe, family guy]

:D

Hey, I like the work I do. Admittedly, it's mainly because by 'work' I actually mean 'my education which will allow me to get the job I want later in life', but not everyone has a crappy job.
Yeah well, the majority of us don't work just because we like it...we work so we can afford to live, and buy some toys. And work is not a state of eternal bliss...so yeah, most of the time you'd rather be doing something more arousing...admit it. The pay off is not immediate.

some women just love the cock.
i so want to put that in my sig...

Is it just me, or does Fellatio sound like a character from a Shakespeare play?

To be serious for a moment, and go back to the original post, some things to consider:

1) In a good relationship, oral sex is mutual, and enjoyable for both the doer and the doee. However:

a) in many cases, men receive oral sex and do not reciprocate...sometimes in ANY way. This is generally a phenomena among younger folks. Sometimes it is done out of selfishness, or negative feelings about cunnilingous...and sometimes it is simply taken for granted that the female will do this for you and that's that.

b) sometimes girls (again, usually the young variety of women) perform oral sex as a way to get guys to like them. It's not enjoyable necessarily for them, but they hope it pays off. This is a stupid situation.

c) Often, oral sex is expected by men, but it's a 'treat' for women. That's a load of shit. As Dan Savage has put it...today's model of man or woman should not have oral sex as an optional feature. If you think it's 'ok' that you don't get some oral fun too, you're just fooling yourself.

d) We do plenty of things that are not immediately enjoyable, but which provide enjoyment further down the line. Working = money is one example:)

I pick option 3-e

i so want to put that in my sig...
Do it. Do it.

Errr, this is a very interesting thread, lol see if it can go all the way


No not to a home run, but all the way to over 10,000 posts lmao

If I had a girlfriend, I would not expect her to do anything for me that I wouldn't be willing to do for her. Sort of like that objectivist rule, don't do anything for anyone else but don't accept help from anyone else.

To be fair, some of porn isn't dissimilar from RL sex. I mean, every time I've had sex with a girl, me and my buddy have taken her at the same time with our 15" penises while she simultaneously goes down on her horny, inexperienced sorority sister who just happens to have perfectly formed plastic breasts while a camera crew films our every movement. That's just how normal sex is.

Haha

Is it just me, or does Fellatio sound like a character from a Shakespeare play?

No, you're thinking of Fellatio, pardon me, Horatio Hornblower, which was a funny-ass name to begin with.

i gave my girl oral today and got it back- it's just fun and feels great. and if your up for it, you can go at it regular style afterwards.

If I had a girlfriend, I would not expect her to do anything for me that I wouldn't be willing to do for her.
exactly, the ol' cock is hardly the most pleasant thing to suck on or taste....(i would guess ;)) i wouldn't suck cock so why should i expect her to? of course if she does i'm not gonna object :p
i would go down on her though no probs so i dunno maybe i should expect it ;)

Do it. Do it.
hehehe too lazy :P (just now)

So, wait. Women don't like penises?


:D heh heh. Nice comment. I believe that some girls actually enjoy giving oral. That is, unless what is being given orally is named "herpes".:D

I'll answer, even though I'm not a girl.

Oral sex is fun because you give pleasure to your partner. There are some of us who actually enjoy pleasuring each other, as opposed to being egoistical in our lovemaking.

Of course, it should be said that anyone willing to perform oral sex on his/her partner should be rewarded with the same privilege, for equality's sake.

This person is a genius!
If your woman gives you pleasure, give her plesure. and visa verca.
It's a mutual thing. And if she's a real nympho, she'll let you do some crazy shit!
My lover and i do some crazy shit to each other.:D :headbang: :fluffle: :mp5: :sniper: :headbang: :rolleyes: :) :cool:
;)

Curse your evil hidden text! :p

And FYI, I was answering your post seriously for the benefit of all those 13 years old male teenagers who actually expect sex to be like what they watch over the interweb. :rolleyes:

Can i just point out that sometimes it CAN be like what you see.
But don't get your hopes up kids.

Is it just me, or does Fellatio sound like a character from a Shakespeare play?
Hmm...

Voice: Ah, Fellatio, good sir, it is a good sight that I may once again behold you this unhappy morn.
Fellatio: Ho, Intercourse; to what to I owe the pleasure of once more our paths of destiny intertwining?
Intercourse: 'Tis a matter of the most extreme contrivance, noble comrade, and I fear this meeting shall be no pleasure of yours. For last night, I didst chance upon to enter the abyss of which our forefathers did most heartily prohibit. Who awaiteth there for me but none other than the accursed Anilingus, of whom much malignance has been remonstrated, and of due reason, I must add?
Fellatio: Is it so? I had feared as much... Our half-brother in peerage has long slipped into arrogant pride that is only further exasperated by his ever-unbending stubbornness and lack of forethought. Of what can you tell my troubled self regarding his passing?
Intercourse: Passing? Why sir, you underestimate the fiendish cunning of young Anilingus. When I did confront him, he had already engaged the dreaded beast Prostate in combat, felling stroke upon deadly stroke onto the abomination with his tongues of fire. Yet the madness I have seen in his countenance doest horrify me still; when engaged in the act, it is as though the devil himself guides his thrusts...

Kamsaki, you now have my undying love and admiration. ;)

Hmm...

Voice: Ah, Fellatio, good sir, it is a good sight that I may once again behold you this unhappy morn.
Fellatio: Ho, Intercourse; to what to I owe the pleasure of once more our paths of destiny intertwining?
Intercourse: 'Tis a matter of the most extreme contrivance, noble comrade, and I fear this meeting shall be no pleasure of yours. For last night, I didst chance upon to enter the abyss of which our forefathers did most heartily prohibit. Who awaiteth there for me but none other than the accursed Anilingus, of whom much malignance has been remonstrated, and of due reason, I must add?
Fellatio: Is it so? I had feared as much... Our half-brother in peerage has long slipped into arrogant pride that is only further exasperated by his ever-unbending stubbornness and lack of forethought. Of what can you tell my troubled self regarding his passing?
Intercourse: Passing? Why sir, you underestimate the fiendish cunning of young Anilingus. When I did confront him, he had already engaged the dreaded beast Prostate in combat, felling stroke upon deadly stroke onto the abomination with his tongues of fire. Yet the madness I have seen in his countenance doest horrify me still; when engaged in the act, it is as though the devil himself guides his thrusts...


you knocked that out very quickly...

Is it just me, or does Fellatio sound like a character from a Shakespeare play?

you're not alone, my brother:gundge:

you knocked that out very quickly...
What can I say? You sit around doing Maths puzzles for two days straight and your literary creativity gets kicked into "Frantic Attention Seeking Mode".

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it?
Why ask the question only about women? It works both ways: why do men give oral to women? Sure it pleases them, but what do they get out of it?
IMO, it's simply because it's stimulating for both and quite nice to give and receive.

IMO, it's simply because it's stimulating for both and quite nice to give and receive.
Especially around the Christmas holiday season.

... Though I don't think your girlfriend would buy that excuse if you didn't get her a present, somehow.

Hmm...

Voice: Ah, Fellatio, good sir, it is a good sight that I may once again behold you this unhappy morn.
Fellatio: Ho, Intercourse; to what to I owe the pleasure of once more our paths of destiny intertwining?
Intercourse: 'Tis a matter of the most extreme contrivance, noble comrade, and I fear this meeting shall be no pleasure of yours. For last night, I didst chance upon to enter the abyss of which our forefathers did most heartily prohibit. Who awaiteth there for me but none other than the accursed Anilingus, of whom much malignance has been remonstrated, and of due reason, I must add?
Fellatio: Is it so? I had feared as much... Our half-brother in peerage has long slipped into arrogant pride that is only further exasperated by his ever-unbending stubbornness and lack of forethought. Of what can you tell my troubled self regarding his passing?
Intercourse: Passing? Why sir, you underestimate the fiendish cunning of young Anilingus. When I did confront him, he had already engaged the dreaded beast Prostate in combat, felling stroke upon deadly stroke onto the abomination with his tongues of fire. Yet the madness I have seen in his countenance doest horrify me still; when engaged in the act, it is as though the devil himself guides his thrusts...


you're funny
but a sicko for thinking this up
please finish the story

Why ask the question only about women? It works both ways: why do men give oral to women? Sure it pleases them, but what do they get out of it?
IMO, it's simply because it's stimulating for both and quite nice to give and receive.

and exhillerating in public places:D
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :headbang: :rolleyes: :cool:

you're funny
but a sicko for thinking this up
*Shrug*
Material to suit the audience. :p
please finish the story
Wait, what? Finish a Shakespearean epic on Fornicomorphism? >_<;;

Hmm...

Voice: Ah, Fellatio, good sir, it is a good sight that I may once again behold you this unhappy morn.
Fellatio: Ho, Intercourse; to what to I owe the pleasure of once more our paths of destiny intertwining?
Intercourse: 'Tis a matter of the most extreme contrivance, noble comrade, and I fear this meeting shall be no pleasure of yours. For last night, I didst chance upon to enter the abyss of which our forefathers did most heartily prohibit. Who awaiteth there for me but none other than the accursed Anilingus, of whom much malignance has been remonstrated, and of due reason, I must add?
Fellatio: Is it so? I had feared as much... Our half-brother in peerage has long slipped into arrogant pride that is only further exasperated by his ever-unbending stubbornness and lack of forethought. Of what can you tell my troubled self regarding his passing?
Intercourse: Passing? Why sir, you underestimate the fiendish cunning of young Anilingus. When I did confront him, he had already engaged the dreaded beast Prostate in combat, felling stroke upon deadly stroke onto the abomination with his tongues of fire. Yet the madness I have seen in his countenance doest horrify me still; when engaged in the act, it is as though the devil himself guides his thrusts...

Maybe it's just because I'm some kind of twisted Shakespeare freak... or maybe it's just my peculiar sense of humour...

But, I'd BUY this book....


Regarding the original topic: I'd assume that some girls get pleasure out of the actual process of fellatio. Personally, I like to give cunnilingus because it gives pleasure to my lover... but I also greatly enjoy the act, itself.

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?
The same reason men perform cunnilingus on women. duh.

Interesting topic, but unfortunately I'm unrealiable when it comes to a hard core factual sourse on the subject! In other words, I have never had oral sex, but I do have an opinion on it.
Being female... I suppose oral could be fun in a sence that it gives guys so much pleasure they're incapacitated with orgasmic emotions. I'd find seeing any guy in that whacked-out state very amusing!!!
But it wouldn't be worth consuming semen, and in turn, putting my heath at risk. Ewww, no.
I understand this isn't the 1800s anymore - Women are now more independant and less reliant on males for anything. But did it ever occur to you that females may still have the instictful need to want to be dominated?
Maybe its instictful that women would enjoy being used as a sex toy, in terms of being pursuaded into doing oral.
But maybe horniness so-to-speak is actually genetic. That would be rather interesting to reserch!
I'm really not sure.
But thats my opinion on the topic. Do as you please with it.

~Katherine

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

WTF? IBTL!!

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

As a gay man, I certainly "love the cock" lol. From speaking with women in general, in ways that only a woman's fag may speak with them ... some women enjoy sucking cock as much as I do. Others highly dislike giving head and only do it because their boyfriends beg them to.

As a man, I can tell you that there's a huge difference in the type of pleasure from a blowjob versus sex. Oral sex doesn't have to be a precurser for sex either ... sometimes it's nice just to get a blowjob and give one in return.

:gundge:

i so want to put that in my sig...
This thread is stocked full of siggable, favable quotes!

What can I say? You sit around doing Maths puzzles for two days straight and your literary creativity gets kicked into "Frantic Attention Seeking Mode".

hehe, it was a joke. with hindsight maybe i should have put 'that sucks!'

As a gay man, I certainly "love the cock" lol. From speaking with women in general, in ways that only a woman's fag may speak with them ... some women enjoy sucking cock as much as I do. Others highly dislike giving head and only do it because their boyfriends beg them to.

As a man, I can tell you that there's a huge difference in the type of pleasure from a blowjob versus sex. Oral sex doesn't have to be a precurser for sex either ... sometimes it's nice just to get a blowjob and give one in return.

:gundge:

A woman's Fag!!!! You are not their Fag, they are your hags. ;)

A big part of sex is exploring your partner; exploring their reactions to things, the feel of them, the smell of them, the taste of them, the shape of them... just getting to know them intimately is enjoyable. Plus the fact you're pleasing them, which pleases you (you're turning them on, which turns you on) and it's an experience which you're sharing.

Hmm...

Voice: Ah, Fellatio, good sir, it is a g.....<snip>

Create a religion, and I will sacrifice virgins to you.

How is a woman giving head different than say, a guy sucking on a woman's breasts. Both are skin with lots of nerve endings. So very pleasurable.

Now this is NOT counting the whole deepthroating and swallowing or even taking a load into the mouth. (my ex would NEVER take in the mouth)

but other than that part, I can't see the difference.

well, i normally wouldn't even think about posting on a forum like this, but i thought i might throw some of you for a loop. im a guy, and i perform on my gf, but i refuse to let her on me. maybe its not that strange, so im throwing it out there, most likely to be berated whether or not its odd

I think a more interesting thing would be how many guys would kiss their GFs after they gave them head.

And yes I would definatly kiss my BF after he had gone down on me, but I'm just a kinky little minx like that ;)

lol... this thread is so funny! :)

I think a more interesting thing would be how many guys would kiss their GFs after they gave them head.

And yes I would definatly kiss my BF after he had gone down on me, but I'm just a kinky little minx like that ;)

good point. my girlfriend (who, to answer the original question, says herself that she loves giving head) always kisses me straightaway.

has the question been adequately answered or do i have to reiterate what others have said and add in a few insights of my own?

the cynical in me would suggest that it gets a woman really good presents from her man. lots of women trade head for jewelry for example. not indicative of a high quality sexual relationship but if it works for them....

oral sex enables the giver to completely please the receiver without any distraction of their own sexual reactions. its hard to think about your partners pleasure when you are on the road to your own orgasm. seperating the 2 orgasms allows each to fully experience both orgasms.

if a woman is never engaging in an act that might lead her to orgasm, there is something else going on. so if a girl blows every boy on the bus without ever getting an orgasm in return, she is in a very bad psychological place.

I think a more interesting thing would be how many guys would kiss their GFs after they gave them head.

And yes I would definatly kiss my BF after he had gone down on me, but I'm just a kinky little minx like that ;)


As long as I didn't come sure. I made that mistake once, and only once... Public Service Announcement: No matter what you think guys, even when she swallows it's not all gone. But I digress.

On a slightly less disgusting note. The answer to the original question is, because I want them to. I'm not going to be having sex with you for very long if you're not giving me head. After all, I f***ing love head, and I make damn sure that continuing to have sex with me is well worth it. Oh, and as a general rule I don't give. Once again, because I make damn sure that my sex game is like that. I only get one orgasm per session. So if you average two (damn you women and your multiples), I'd have to get head once for every time we go at it to break even. Yeah, cause that's gonna happen.

so if a girl blows every boy on the bus without ever getting an orgasm in return, she is in a very bad psychological place.
Either that or she just really, really likes the taste of spermatozoa.

Is it just me, or does Fellatio sound like a character from a Shakespeare play?
Lady McBeth: "Alas poor fellatio! I knew him well. A fellow of infinite jest!" :D

As a gay man, I certainly "love the cock" lol.
*snip*
Oral sex doesn't have to be a precurser for sex either ... sometimes it's nice just to get a blowjob and give one in return.
:gundge:
Soooo....

Do you hang in here often?

* >_> <_< shifty eyes *

well, i normally wouldn't even think about posting on a forum like this, but i thought i might throw some of you for a loop. im a guy, and i perform on my gf, but i refuse to let her on me. maybe its not that strange, so im throwing it out there, most likely to be berated whether or not its odd
I knew a guy who didn't let getting head. *shrugs* So what? Different people like different things. I'm not as wild about receiving oral sex as some women are...that doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I knew a guy who didn't let getting head. *shrugs* So what? Different people like different things. I'm not as wild about receiving oral sex as some women are...that doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Most women I've known think that oral sex is nice, but it's not as satisfying as properly applied penetration.

Emphasis on "properly".

Most women I've known think that oral sex is nice, but it's not as satisfying as properly applied penetration.

Emphasis on "properly".
I agree. It takes a while until your partner really knows how to 'hit the spot' when going down on you...sometimes they just miss it altogether, and it can be annoying trying to get them to apply the right pressure and intensity...I'll take penetration over oral anyday...though a combination of the two is rather wonderful.

That being said, I never gave a guy a second chance if he said something like “I don’t go down on women”. You need to be willing to give in order to get.

I agree. It takes a while until your partner really knows how to 'hit the spot' when going down on you...sometimes they just miss it altogether, and it can be annoying trying to get them to apply the right pressure and intensity...I'll take penetration over oral anyday...though a combination of the two is rather wonderful.

That being said, I never gave a guy a second chance if he said something like “I don’t go down on women”. You need to be willing to give in order to get.

That seems perfectly fair.

I agree. It takes a while until your partner really knows how to 'hit the spot' when going down on you...sometimes they just miss it altogether, and it can be annoying trying to get them to apply the right pressure and intensity...I'll take penetration over oral anyday...though a combination of the two is rather wonderful.

That being said, I never gave a guy a second chance if he said something like “I don’t go down on women”. You need to be willing to give in order to get.

My wife says that she likes the fact that I change up at just the right moment - tempo, pressure, oral, penetration - just to keep her rolling from one orgasm to the other.

I think it's more a matter of paying attention to your partner's body and needs. It's not so much about one thing or another, and if the guy can get off the idea that "it's all about the orgasm" things go far, far better.

My wife says that she likes the fact that I change up at just the right moment - tempo, pressure, oral, penetration - just to keep her rolling from one orgasm to the other. What I hate is when that change happens just as you are about to orgasm...thereby ruining it. Bleh. But then again, I'm a one-shot deal...it takes me a while to recover and I'm totally not into sex during that recovery period. So it's better if I coast until the end:)

I think it's more a matter of paying attention to your partner's body and needs. It's not so much about one thing or another, and if the guy can get off the idea that "it's all about the orgasm" things go far, far better.
Well yes...both partners need to be helping the other along...this is a contact sport people! Make contact! And pay attention! Nothing worse than having a selfish partner...male or female.

My wife says that she likes the fact that I change up at just the right moment - tempo, pressure, oral, penetration - just to keep her rolling from one orgasm to the other.

I think it's more a matter of paying attention to your partner's body and needs. It's not so much about one thing or another, and if the guy can get off the idea that "it's all about the orgasm" things go far, far better.

Tis a pity us men are simple creatures
sex--->orgasm--->sleep--->was it good for you too?
lol

Tis a pity us men are simple creatures
sex--->orgasm--->sleep--->was it good for you too?
lol
Works mighty fine when there are two us us.

:fluffle:

Works mighty fine when there are two us us.

:fluffle:

lol

why am i attracting all the gays all of a sudden?

meh,cant complainor the LGBT Army will be deployed against me.lol.

Tis a pity us men are simple creatures
sex--->orgasm--->sleep--->was it good for you too?
lol
Hmmm, funny, because any of the men I've slept with have enjoyed it way more when I didn't assume that making them come as quickly as possible was the goal. Sure it's EASIER for guys...but that doesn't mean there aren't orgasms that are better than others.

Hmmm, funny, because any of the men I've slept with have enjoyed it way more when I didn't assume that making them come as quickly as possible was the goal. Sure it's EASIER for guys...but that doesn't mean there aren't orgasms that are better than others.

as it happens its a medical fact that female orgasms are more enjoyable than male.oh the strange things tv teaches me.
but dont take me as an authority on sex,im a virgin.

as it happens its a medical fact that female orgasms are more enjoyable than male.oh the strange things tv teaches me.
but dont take me as an authority on sex,im a virgin.
Oh come on now...that's a subjective thing, and situation-specific. There is no point in trying to figure out who has better orgasms...let's just try to make sure everyone gets off nicely.

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

What I'm really curious about is why would males perform cunnilingus on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do guys get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

*This most is not intended to make me seem female, but is only an alteration of the original posters words, alteration into the opposite sex...

What I'm really curious about is why would males perform cunnilingus on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do guys get out of oral sex and why do they do it?

Oh come on now...that's a subjective thing, and situation-specific. There is no point in trying to figure out who has better orgasms...let's just try to make sure everyone gets off nicely.

Thats the spirit
sinuhue are teh ultimate shiz of sex-stuff

lol

why am i attracting all the gays all of a sudden?

meh,cant complainor the LGBT Army will be deployed against me.lol.

It's your wit, charm, and greek god's body.

Quite right about the LGBT army. We prefer to be called "rainbow warriors" though :D

What I'm really curious about is why would males perform cunnilingus on anyone?

Sixtynine anyone? :D

Sixtynine anyone? :D
No doubt. Two birds with one stone.

It's your wit, charm, and greek god's body.

Quite right about the LGBT army. We prefer to be called "rainbow warriors" though :D

ill accept the first 2,a pox upon you for lying on the 3rd,lol.
lol rainbow warriors.

Sixtynine anyone? :D
I've always found that a bit ... distracting. I much prefer to concentrate my full attentions on my partner, and that only draws my attention away from what I should be doing! :p

My wife says that she likes the fact that I change up at just the right moment - tempo, pressure, oral, penetration - just to keep her rolling from one orgasm to the other.

I think it's more a matter of paying attention to your partner's body and needs. It's not so much about one thing or another, and if the guy can get off the idea that "it's all about the orgasm" things go far, far better.
Which is one major reason I've never liked "one-night stands." You don't have time to learn your partner's nerve endings and response patterns. :(

I've always found that a bit ... distracting. I much prefer to concentrate my full attentions on my partner, and that only draws my attention away from what I should be doing! :p

Yeah its hard to give directions when your mouths full....:rolleyes:

Yeah its hard to give directions when your mouths full....:rolleyes:

Oh, I can manage just fine...

All it takes is a lot of grunting and whimpers of pleasure, really. :D

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I want a dirty woman.


Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I need a dirty girl.

Um ... but there really are women who get turned all sorts of on by performing fellatio, just as there really are men who get turned all sorts of on by performing cunniligus ... I know, I'm one of them. :D


Helloooooo Eutrusca! What's your sign? LoL

"Thou must giveth to recieveth"

Really, I'm sure some women honestly like performing fellatio on their men.

Kinda how I have an intense desire to do cunnilingous for my lady. I find the thought of eating her out incredibly arousing.

Also, guys who expect a woman to give them head but refuse to go down on her, quite frankly are self-centered and egotistical, and don't deserve any sexual enjoyment at all. One should not expect a kindness from someone without being willing to do the same for the other person.

So, wait. Women don't like penises?


No, we find them irritating and oddly-shaped. :p

Helloooooo Eutrusca! What's your sign? LoL
ROFLMAO! Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm a Gemini ... a rather old Gemini! :D

ROFLMAO! Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm a Gemini ... a rather old Gemini! :D
You may be old, but you're still kickin'

Prostate or not, YOU DA MAN ;)

No doubt. Two birds with one stone.
And there's some kind of positive feedback thing there too. The fact that you're having fun makes you try extra hard. :P Or something. :D

You may be old, but you're still kickin'

Prostate or not, YOU DA MAN ;)
ROFLMAO! Thank you, but I owe it all to vast years of experience. Ironic, is it not? Just about the time you learn what women want and what they enjoy ( which are, as often as not, two entirely different things ), all of the abilities which enabled you to discover and grant those things begin to atrophy one ... by ... one. Sigh.

Oh, I can manage just fine...

All it takes is a lot of grunting and whimpers of pleasure, really. :D

I find Purring helps too ;)

No, you're thinking of Fellatio, pardon me, Horatio Hornblower, which was a funny-ass name to begin with.

Mercutio?

Lady McBeth: "Alas poor fellatio! I knew him well. A fellow of infinite jest!" :D

*wails in anguish*

That would be HAMLET sir, to HORATIO, of the former Jester, Yorick --- "Alas, poor Yorick! I knew him, Horatio! A fellow of infinite jest..."


(sue me, I teach it every year!)

"Thou must giveth to recieveth"

Really, I'm sure some women honestly like performing fellatio on their men.

Kinda how I have an intense desire to do cunnilingous for my lady. I find the thought of eating her out incredibly arousing.

Also, guys who expect a woman to give them head but refuse to go down on her, quite frankly are self-centered and egotistical, and don't deserve any sexual enjoyment at all. One should not expect a kindness from someone without being willing to do the same for the other person.I agree wholeheartedly.

As an old hippie once told me, "If you want to make sure your package is delivered, you gotta lick the stamp...."

What I'm really curious about is why would females perform fellatio on anyone? Sure, it pleases their partner, but what do they get out of it? Why don't they all just go right to the sex, something both can enjoy?

I guess that's my main question, what do girls get out of oral sex and why do they do it?
I like to:eek:

I like my husband's penis, yep, I will admit it any day. :D

*wails in anguish*

That would be HAMLET sir, to HORATIO, of the former Jester, Yorick --- "Alas, poor Yorick! I knew him, Horatio! A fellow of infinite jest..."


(sue me, I teach it every year!)
What??? No poetic license for those who choose to misquote? Tsk! You're way too particular. :p

Oh come on now...that's a subjective thing, and situation-specific. There is no point in trying to figure out who has better orgasms...let's just try to make sure everyone gets off nicely.
Actually he's quite correct. The entire brain is involved in a female orgasm, whereas the same is not true for the male orgasm.

Actually he's quite correct. The entire brain is involved in a female orgasm, whereas the same is not true for the male orgasm.
You're looking in the wrong place for the male brain in that comparison!

What??? No poetic license for those who choose to misquote? Tsk! You're way too particular. :p


Welll, alright. Since it's you, Eutrusca. ;)

To repeat the old adage:

is it worse to swallow a teaspoon of cream or lick a dead and possibly bleeding fish for an hour?

Ummm... F*** you.

Ummm... F*** you.

I don't know what his problem is... but I wouldn't mind....

Actually he's quite correct. The entire brain is involved in a female orgasm, whereas the same is not true for the male orgasm.
You obviously have never slept with me. :p

why? Im a male, but I find it fun to go down on a girl, and I'l do it to her even if she doesnt do it back (I'l also go around back, and I wouldnt let her do it back) and I suppose some girls are the same, maybe they just find it fun?

why? Im a male, but I find it fun to go down on a girl, and I'l do it to her even if she doesnt do it back (I'l also go around back, and I wouldnt let her do it back) and I suppose some girls are the same, maybe they just find it fun?

so wonderfully kinky! lol