Tluiko
19-11-2005, 00:12
It's good to be back at the nationstatesforum (though I really should be preparing some experimrents right now). (And I am sorry for the mistakes... I guess my English suffer a little from not speaking English at all during the last few month.) But maybe I should come to the point.
So, let's tell a little story...
I started studying physics a month ago, so I made some new friends including one girl...
She is a very motivated and good student (best grade possible when graduated from school, has several scholarships), but nevertheless is not very confident and always doubts whether she is good enough. From some intense and interesting conversations with her I know that she had to suffer a lot some years a lot, because a lot of envious(?) other students always said that she just had good grades because she learned a lot and not because she was intelligent. Moreover I started to like her a lot and I guess she also likes me.
Today we had a chemistry lecture and I sat next to her. Because I didn't understand anything I started talking to my other neighbor...
In chemistry lectures the professor in the end always makes some experiments to show how interesting chemistry is (the experiments do not have any connection to the content of the lessons). Nevertheless the girl I mentioned before started to wirte down anything the professor said abeout the experiments. Thus I ironically asked her whether she wanted to learn all that by heart. She just said: "If you were quiet, I would be able to listen."
So I shut up and didnt say anything anymore.
But during the next hours I somehow realised that she was angry at me.
Because I had no opportunity to talk to her before, I asked her via ICQ why she was angry with me and said that I was sorry. She just said that I was right to be sorry and went offline. I tried to call her about 10 times, but she did not answer the phone (she cant know that it was me, so I hope she just wasnt home, which unforutnately is relatively unlike, because 2 times I got the busy signal...
Now I dont know what to do and am a sad...
(I could have told the story in even more detail, but then this would be somewhat long.)
So, let's tell a little story...
I started studying physics a month ago, so I made some new friends including one girl...
She is a very motivated and good student (best grade possible when graduated from school, has several scholarships), but nevertheless is not very confident and always doubts whether she is good enough. From some intense and interesting conversations with her I know that she had to suffer a lot some years a lot, because a lot of envious(?) other students always said that she just had good grades because she learned a lot and not because she was intelligent. Moreover I started to like her a lot and I guess she also likes me.
Today we had a chemistry lecture and I sat next to her. Because I didn't understand anything I started talking to my other neighbor...
In chemistry lectures the professor in the end always makes some experiments to show how interesting chemistry is (the experiments do not have any connection to the content of the lessons). Nevertheless the girl I mentioned before started to wirte down anything the professor said abeout the experiments. Thus I ironically asked her whether she wanted to learn all that by heart. She just said: "If you were quiet, I would be able to listen."
So I shut up and didnt say anything anymore.
But during the next hours I somehow realised that she was angry at me.
Because I had no opportunity to talk to her before, I asked her via ICQ why she was angry with me and said that I was sorry. She just said that I was right to be sorry and went offline. I tried to call her about 10 times, but she did not answer the phone (she cant know that it was me, so I hope she just wasnt home, which unforutnately is relatively unlike, because 2 times I got the busy signal...
Now I dont know what to do and am a sad...
(I could have told the story in even more detail, but then this would be somewhat long.)