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Oh no! I am infected with the virus caused by being bit by the love bug :)

Zilam
17-11-2005, 05:21
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles. So with that being said here is my predicament. I had really liked this girl for like..well forever :P...Now she knew i liked her...but she wasn't mutual about it :(...But recently I have been thinking about her...like every moment i can...Im pathetic... So know i realize its more than like..and well I love her... So, do i tell her i love her?

Also (this is more for a christian to answer), although i pray that she is ulitmatly happy, should I pray to God, to ask him to bring us together?


Please help me guys and gals! I can't take this much longer!


Thomas
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:24
I'm Catholic, so clsoe enough. No you shouldn't pray to God because he doesn't excist. Aside from that, if he did (which he doesn't) he would take issue to be used to cricumvent free will. So grow some balls and tell her how you feel.
Erisianna
17-11-2005, 05:25
*blink*

You should probably see a doctor, those symptoms sound pretty bad, if they escalate, could be too late.
Erisianna
17-11-2005, 05:25
I'm Catholic, so clsoe enough. No you shouldn't pray to God because he doesn't excist. Aside from that, if he did (which he doesn't) he would take issue to be used to cricumvent free will. So grow some balls and tell her how you feel.

You're catholic but don't believe god exists? How does that work?
Zilam
17-11-2005, 05:26
I'm Catholic, so clsoe enough. No you shouldn't pray to God because he doesn't excist. Aside from that, if he did (which he doesn't) he would take issue to be used to cricumvent free will. So grow some balls and tell her how you feel.


Wait...how are you catholic, but don't believe in God? Thats confusing. And I have pretty big balls, BUT I don't want to make things wierd. :)
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:27
You're catholic but don't believe god exists? How does that work?
I didn't say I was against hypocrisy...

I'm a black man who thinks every other person of equal or darker shading is going to rob him, but noone complains about that!
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:29
Wait...how are you catholic, but don't believe in God? Thats confusing. And I have pretty big balls, BUT I don't want to make things wierd. :)
Because God doesn't excist. The Catholic Church excists. Simple

As for your situation; how do you think she will know how you feel unless you tell her? Is she telepathic? Thought not. Tell her you putz
Quaiff
17-11-2005, 05:29
Get her drunk and date rape her. If she doesn't love you, atleast you can have some fun.
Erisianna
17-11-2005, 05:29
I didn't say I was against hypocrisy...

I'm a black man who thinks every other person of equal or darker shading is going to rob him, but noone complains about that!

But what part of the catholic religion do you actually believe in? Or did you mean you were just raised catholic, but you don't believe any of it?
Zilam
17-11-2005, 05:30
I didn't say I was against hypocrisy...

I'm a black man who thinks every other person of equal or darker shading is going to rob him, but noone complains about that!


-cries- Thanks for adding to the confusion already rampant in my life! :P
Zilam
17-11-2005, 05:31
Get her drunk and date rape her. If she doesn't love you, atleast you can have some fun.


Ok Quagmire. lol
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:33
But what part of the catholic religion do you actually believe in? Or did you mean you were just raised catholic, but you don't believe any of it?
I believe most of it. I follow every dogma and follow most doctrines that donot conflict with my conscience. Which I am entitled to under Freedom of Conscience granted under Vatican II. I do not however believe in God.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:34
-cries- Thanks for adding to the confusion already rampant in my life! :P
I live to please.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 05:35
Get her drunk and date rape her. If she doesn't love you, atleast you can have some fun.
Waste of rohypnol
Erisianna
17-11-2005, 05:42
I believe most of it. I follow every dogma and follow most doctrines that donot conflict with my conscience. Which I am entitled to under Freedom of Conscience granted under Vatican II. I do not however believe in God.

Cool. :)
Kinda Sensible people
17-11-2005, 05:50
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles.

I suggest bedrest for 24 hours and then visiting a doctor if the symptoms persist.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 06:05
I suggest bedrest for 24 hours and then visiting a doctor if the symptoms persist.
or masterbation...
Potaria
17-11-2005, 06:05
or masterbation...

*Masturbation.

*runs like the wind*
X Fayne x
17-11-2005, 06:13
Because God doesn't excist. The Catholic Church excists. Simple

As for your situation; how do you think she will know how you feel unless you tell her? Is she telepathic? Thought not. Tell her you putz

Isnt it EXISTS?
*blink*
Potaria
17-11-2005, 06:15
Isnt it EXISTS?
*blink*

Heh, nice first post. :D
Quaiff
17-11-2005, 06:55
Waste of rohypnol

You can always just hit her in the head with a shovel and save money.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 07:39
Isn't it EXISTS?
*blink*
Bad move for your first post boy. The rest of your short tenure at NS will be spent being ruthlessly harangued by me... and I hold a grudge no no ones business.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 07:41
*Masturbation.

*runs like the wind*
I'm sorry, some of us are attractive enough to not feel the need to investigate that much depth into the fine and messy art of self pleasure.
Khodros
17-11-2005, 07:45
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles. So with that being said here is my predicament. I had really liked this girl for like..well forever :P...Now she knew i liked her...but she wasn't mutual about it :(...But recently I have been thinking about her...like every moment i can...Im pathetic... So know i realize its more than like..and well I love her... So, do i tell her i love her?

Also (this is more for a christian to answer), although i pray that she is ulitmatly happy, should I pray to God, to ask him to bring us together?


Please help me guys and gals! I can't take this much longer!


Thomas

That's actually a very malicious virus, I believe cydoor/trojan. You'll have to cold-boot your system and clean your registry, and even then you might not be rid of it. This is what happens when you go to pronsites.
Rotovia-
17-11-2005, 07:50
That's actually a very malicious virus, I believe cydoor/trojan. You'll have to cold-boot your system and clean your registry, and even then you might not be rid of it. This is what happens when you go to pronsites.
Actually it's what happens when you don't download the security patch for MS Outlook and are stupid enough to open an email titled "I Love You"
Saladish
17-11-2005, 07:51
First off you have to ask yourself how much you actually know her.
Second off if you think you know her well enough to the point you could tell her that you love her move to step three.
Thirdly make sure she will actually talk to you again if you tell her that you love her. Last time I told that to a female that was in bed beside she never talked to me again :p

If you can go through all three steps with a positve result for each go for it.
Chellis
17-11-2005, 08:57
1. You aren't in love, you are infatuated with her. Grow some balls and learn the difference.

2. Tell her you love her, and you will never, ever get anywhere with her. You will dream of a day that 1st base with her might have been possible. The choice is yours.
Heron-Marked Warriors
17-11-2005, 10:34
I'm a black man who thinks every other person of equal or darker shading is going to rob him, but noone complains about that!

Wouldn't that be because it's true?:confused:
Heron-Marked Warriors
17-11-2005, 10:36
Last time I told that to a female that was in bed beside she never talked to me again :p



You already had her in bed? What the fuck were you thinking?
The Similized world
17-11-2005, 10:54
You already had her in bed? What the fuck were you thinking?
Obviously it was the government mindcontrol bugging out. Always wear tinfoil hats when you take your women to bed.
Pure Metal
17-11-2005, 11:26
i've got the love bug too :fluffle:
i can't stop thinking about her... she runs through my mind all day, sometimes just at the back of it, a presence but i know she's there, sometimes she's the only thing i can think of and everything that i am screams out to be with her.
shame we can't meet up till April then :( :p

as for telling her how i felt... it just kinda happened, and she reciprocated, so w00t!

ergo, i have no advice to give to this thread. i'll just shut up now...
Harlesburg
17-11-2005, 11:41
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles. So with that being said here is my predicament. I had really liked this girl for like..well forever :P...Now she knew i liked her...but she wasn't mutual about it :(...But recently I have been thinking about her...like every moment i can...Im pathetic... So know i realize its more than like..and well I love her... So, do i tell her i love her?

Also (this is more for a christian to answer), although i pray that she is ulitmatly happy, should I pray to God, to ask him to bring us together?


Please help me guys and gals! I can't take this much longer!


Thomas
Yes do it.
Pray

It isnt love it is a flesh eating virus!
Harlesburg
17-11-2005, 11:42
Wait...how are you catholic, but don't believe in God? Thats confusing. And I have pretty big balls, BUT I don't want to make things wierd. :)
Seem my sig and everything is explained.
Der Drache
17-11-2005, 15:04
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles. So with that being said here is my predicament. I had really liked this girl for like..well forever :P...Now she knew i liked her...but she wasn't mutual about it :(...But recently I have been thinking about her...like every moment i can...Im pathetic... So know i realize its more than like..and well I love her... So, do i tell her i love her?

Also (this is more for a christian to answer), although i pray that she is ulitmatly happy, should I pray to God, to ask him to bring us together?


Please help me guys and gals! I can't take this much longer!


Thomas

If it makes you feel any better I'm in the same situation. There is a girl that has known that I've had a crush on her for over a year, but she doesn't know that I love her. The feelings weren't mutual. A while back we didn't see eachother for a month and when we saw each other again she was extremely friendly and obviously missed me. I sort of thought she might be changing her mind about me, but things quickly became normal again. My point is that I'm in a similar situation and whatever I'm doing isn't helping so don't be too trusting of my advice. Though I've been able to hold unto the friendship so that is something.

In my experience how the girl reacts all depends on how she feels about you. If she feels the same way she will think its sweet. If she doesn't she will think its creepy.

Since her feelings weren't mutual then I don't think she will react well to being told that you love her. Now girls sometimes change their mind about guys so maybe you should do something to show that you still like her and see if she likes you anymore then she used to. If she has changed her mind then you can consider saying something. But again saying you love her is a bit extreem and you might want to wait for her to become more comfortable with you first. Maybe wait until you have been dating her for a bit before you say it. If you can't get her to date you then I wouldn't say anything.

I am a Christian but I think what I said applies to Christians and non-Christians alike.

Though as a Christian I think it's important to pray about things. Try asking God if she really is the girl for you. You can pray that God puts a good girl in your life. But I wouldn't limit it by praying that this girl become part of your life. Maybe God has someone better in mind.

Who wants a girl who doesn't love them back anyway? In my situation the girl has behaved in a way that I can tell she truely cares about me, though based on her responsiveness to me I assume its the type of careing someone has for a relative and not someone she is interested in. Does this girl even care about you?
Czardas
17-11-2005, 15:55
<snip>
You're hopeless, PM. :p

As for my advice -- to get rid of this problem, post more than 30 times a day on internet forums like this one and never leave the house. Eventually you will become very cynical, as all people who post on this forum must at some point, and bitter. You will cease to believe in love, like Hamlet (I wonder what his NS ID was).

Trust me, I've been doing that since February and I have never gotten that virus in my life. I think I'm immune to it by now! :p
Cluichstan
17-11-2005, 16:26
You will cease to believe in love, like Hamlet (I wonder what his NS ID was).

The Incestuous Principality of Elsinore :p
Czardas
17-11-2005, 16:31
The Incestuous Principality of Elsinore :p
Oh, that guy? No wonder I never endorsed him. :p
Monkeypimp
17-11-2005, 16:33
Rotovia has clearly pwned this thread.



Solution: Masturbate.
Cluichstan
17-11-2005, 16:36
Rotovia has clearly pwned this thread.



Solution: Masterbate.

No...solution: learning to spell "masturbate." :p
Eutrusca
17-11-2005, 16:36
Help! I have been bit by the love bug. I am all sweaty, have rapid heart beats and my mind is in jumbles. So with that being said here is my predicament. I had really liked this girl for like..well forever :P...Now she knew i liked her...but she wasn't mutual about it :(...But recently I have been thinking about her...like every moment i can...Im pathetic... So know i realize its more than like..and well I love her... So, do i tell her i love her?

Also (this is more for a christian to answer), although i pray that she is ulitmatly happy, should I pray to God, to ask him to bring us together?

Please help me guys and gals! I can't take this much longer!
You got it bad, fella. This sort of "love" comes from allowing yourself to focus your lust on someone you can never bed. Get over it! :p
Pure Metal
17-11-2005, 16:37
You're hopeless, PM. :p
lol :D

...to get rid of this problem...
i like this problem :)

post more than 30 times a day on internet forums like this one and never leave the house.
already do, and i don't!

Eventually you will become very cynical
yup already that too :cool:

You will cease to believe in love, like Hamlet
i had, but now i learned otherwise (w00t!! :fluffle: )


(I wonder what his NS ID was).
its monkeypimp but don't tell anyone *shhhhh* ;)

Trust me, I've been doing that since February and I have never gotten that virus in my life. I think I'm immune to it by now! :p
does that make you allergic to fluffles? :fluffle: :fluffle:
that might explain your problems with tink then :p
Eutrusca
17-11-2005, 16:37
No...solution: learning to spell "masturbate." :p
ROFLMAO! :D
Cluichstan
17-11-2005, 16:37
You got it bad, fella. This sort of "love" comes from allowing yourself to focus your lust on someone you can never bed. Get over it! :p

The old guy speaks the truth. ;)
Monkeypimp
17-11-2005, 16:38
No...solution: learning to spell "masturbate." :p

It thought I had it wrong, but then decided not to check.




leave me alone, it's 4.30 in the morning.
















*post edited*
Czardas
17-11-2005, 16:52
lol :DWell, it's true.


i like this problem :) I was talking to the OP.


already do, and i don't!

yup already that too :cool:
You're on the right track.


i had, but now i learned otherwise (w00t!! :fluffle: )
See, there is your problem. You're not bitter enough and you don't have enough to be upset about. *secretly hacks PM's pr0n link to make him more depressed*

its monkeypimp but don't tell anyone *shhhhh* ;)Don't worry, I didn't..... not anyone important at least. <_< >_>


does that make you allergic to fluffles? :fluffle: :fluffle:
that might explain your problems with tink then :p
I am allergic to them and I use them only sparingly.

In fact, I've used up my monthly allowance of fluffles today. Any more will cause me to become very, very ill.
Righteous Munchee-Love
17-11-2005, 17:00
I'm Catholic, so clsoe enough. No you shouldn't pray to God because he doesn't excist.


Made me me laugh very, very hard.
I had jaw surgery 3 days ago, may I sue you if the wound opens again? ;)
Stelleriana
17-11-2005, 22:02
Words will do nothing to communicate what I know you feel. Go kiss her, in the next few minutes if at all possible. You have nothing to lose but the pain.
Harlesburg
18-11-2005, 20:30
It thought I had it wrong, but then decided not to check.




leave me alone, it's 4.30 in the morning.
















*post edited*
Shit you're on fire.
Banduria
18-11-2005, 20:39
Words will do nothing to communicate what I know you feel. Go kiss her, in the next few minutes if at all possible. You have nothing to lose but the pain.
...And any semblance of secrecy...and possibly your dignity...and a whole lot of other things. This isn't a perfect world and that won't solve anything.

I recommend that the OP not follow the above advice.
Super-power
18-11-2005, 20:59
[caustic post]Ouch....in any case, cupid's gonna need to ditch his bow-and-arrows for a sniper rifle if he wants me to fall in love[/caustic post]