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None of my cool friends are on msn right now, so I figured this is as good a place to ask as any.

Does anyone know what's supposedly so hot about being able to tie cherry stems into knots with their tongue? I used to figure it was a demonstration of oral sex skills, but I got to thinking about it today and I don't see how it applies. Unless the guy's penis is the size and shape of a cherry stem (and he enjoys having his genitals tied in a knot), I can't imagine why he'd think it's sexy.

Anybody want to shed some light on this very serious, very important issue?

Anybody want to shed some light on this very serious, very important issue?

I think it's simply that that kind of demonstration of oral dexterity fires the imagination.

It can be easily explained by the following:
People are fucking stupid.

You don't see how a tongue dextrous enough to tie a knot might be pleasurable?

I think it's simply that that kind of demonstration of oral dexterity fires the imagination.

Sure, imagination. But is it really applicable? Is there some amazing blowjob trick my boyfriend is missing on because I can't tie a cherry stem into a knot?

It can be easily explained by the following:
People are fucking stupid.

That's the explanation for nearly everything. Going with that is just taking the easy way out.

Sure, imagination. But is it really applicable? Is there some amazing blowjob trick my boyfriend is missing on because I can't tie a cherry stem into a knot?

Possibly. Who knows what kind of things someone who can tie a cherry stem in a knot with their tongue can accomplish in other oral endeavours?

That's the explanation for nearly everything. Going with that is just taking the easy way out.
If the easy way is the right one, is it still wrong? The hard way is almost never better.

Sure, imagination. But is it really applicable? Is there some amazing blowjob trick my boyfriend is missing on because I can't tie a cherry stem into a knot?

Not really. The wonder of it is overblown. No pun intended.

You don't see how a tongue dextrous enough to tie a knot might be pleasurable?

I can imagine it, yeah, more so for pleasuring girls than boys, even. But is it really the same skillset? Someone might say that being able to make your tongue into 2 or 3 little "u"s as opposed to only one is a demonstration of tongue dexterity, but does it apply to oral sex specifically? And how?

I would think its kinda like an example of things that could be done, and that one has muscular control that others may not, opening up the chance that the experiance will be unlike any other.

though at the same time, just because there is that training doesn't say that there will be, just increase of the potential. Much like an endurance runner should have a better chance of endurance in bedroom affairs, but doesn't make it a final reality.

Possibly. Who knows what kind of things someone who can tie a cherry stem in a knot with their tongue can accomplish in other oral endeavours?

That question can be easily answered if someone who can do that trick posts in this thread. Or their SO.

I can tie a knot in a cherry stem with my hands


does that mean i can give great handjobs?

Not really. The wonder of it is overblown. No pun intended.

lol. Well, that's a relief. I was worried I'd choke to death on a cherry in attempting to teach myself a trick.

lol. Well, that's a relief. I was worried I'd choke to death on a cherry in attempting to teach myself a trick.

Yeah, like you said, it seems like it'd be more useful on a girl than on a guy. That kind of dexterity in the tongue isn't very handy when you have a mouthful of penis.

I would think its kinda like an example of things that could be done, and that one has muscular control that others may not, opening up the chance that the experiance will be unlike any other.

though at the same time, just because there is that training doesn't say that there will be, just increase of the potential. Much like an endurance runner should have a better chance of endurance in bedroom affairs, but doesn't make it a final reality.

Just like having more endurance doesn't mean one would actually be better in bed, only less tired afterwards...

I'm not sure about the oral sex part, but girls in Japan practice this because supposedly it makes you a much better kisser... though no, I DON'T know if you're supposed to tie your boyfriend's tounge into a knot either.

Hmm... my fiancee can do it and I'm well satisfied with her kisses if that helps. ;)

I can tie a knot in a cherry stem with my hands


does that mean i can give great handjobs?

Exactly! That's what I'm wondering. Only with "tongue" where you said "hands", and "blowjob" where you said "handjob". But it's the same question. :D

Yeah, like you said, it seems like it'd be more useful on a girl than on a guy. That kind of dexterity in the tongue isn't very handy when you have a mouthful of penis.

Oh! I had a thought! Maybe it's about learning not to choke. :D

I'm not sure about the oral sex part, but girls in Japan practice this because supposedly it makes you a much better kisser... though no, I DON'T know if you're supposed to tie your boyfriend's tounge into a knot either.

Hmm... my fiancee can do it and I'm well satisfied with her kisses if that helps. ;)

See, now that makes more sense. I can see how making out might be aided by an increase in tongue muscular control.

The influence of tv I suspect...

On that tv series Twin Peaks this girl is trying to get a job in the local brothel and she gets asked what's so great about her that she ought to be allowed to work there and she grabs a cherry from a bowel on the desk ('cause every brothel hiring person has a bowel of cherries on their desk of course) and she puts the whole thing in her mouth and then produces the cherry stalk tied in a knot (I forget what happened to the pip).

As for whether or not it is any help or indication of skill in regards to 'oral pleasure', it sure isnt the way I do things....I use my teeth to hold one end of the stalk in place while I loop the stalk and thread the other end through. Unless I take to dating masochists, I dont see how it could possibly be a useful skill in regards to oral pleasure...

Oh! I had a thought! Maybe it's about learning not to choke. :D

HA!

That's great!

I'm not sure about the oral sex part, but girls in Japan practice this because supposedly it makes you a much better kisser... though no, I DON'T know if you're supposed to tie your boyfriend's tounge into a knot either.

Hmm... my fiancee can do it and I'm well satisfied with her kisses if that helps. ;)

I considered that too, but I can tell from experience that tongue-twister kisses are definitely not more pleasurable than the normal french variety. But then, I don't even know how a tongue is supposed to move to tie a knot on a stem.

Edit: You're satisfied with her kisses, good, but how would you say that special ability enhanced... other skills of hers?

The influence of tv I suspect...

On that tv series Twin Peaks this girl is trying to get a job in the local brothel and she gets asked what's so great about her that she ought to be allowed to work there and she grabs a cherry from a bowel on the desk ('cause every brothel hiring person has a bowel of cherries on their desk of course) and she puts the whole thing in her mouth and then produces the cherry stalk tied in a knot (I forget what happened to the pip).

As for whether or not it is any help or indication of skill in regards to 'oral pleasure', it sure isnt the way I do things....I use my teeth to hold one end of the stalk in place while I loop the stalk and thread the other end through. Unless I take to dating masochists, I dont see how it could possibly be a useful skill in regards to oral pleasure...

Did anyone else just go to a really painful place? eeek

Anyway, thanks for, uh... a really disturbing visual -- but giving me an idea of how it's possible to do that trick (the first time I saw it on tv, I thought they were just joking).

I considered that too, but I can tell from experience that tongue-twister kisses are definitely not more pleasurable than the normal french variety. But then, I don't even know how a tongue is supposed to move to tie a knot on a stem.
Don't look at me, I'm just stating what I have been told by a horde of junior high school girls (Very gigglily ones at that). Though the ability to be able to use your tongue in more acrobatic ways can be good.

Edit: You're satisfied with her kisses, good, but how would you say that special ability enhanced... other skills of hers?
ああ　済みません...　でもそれはひみつです。
Ah, my apologies... but that is a secret!

Don't look at me, I'm just stating what I have been told by a horde of junior high school girls (Very gigglily ones at that). Though the ability to be able to use your tongue in more acrobatic ways can be good.


ああ　済みません...　でもそれはひみつです。
Ah, my apologies... but that is a secret!

Aw... But it's a scientific research! ;)

Alright, you keep your "privacy" for whatever good it'll do you, no interest in the good of science these damned kids grumble grumble...

ああ　済みません...　でもそれはひみつです。
AHH IT IS AN ATTACK OF THE CLONES ON AMERICA SHORES

i hthink we can close this case and say that the chery tri k is eirelevant but sugestive if you tr yto make it suggestive

Aw... But it's a scientific research! ;)

Alright, you keep your "privacy" for whatever good it'll do you, no interest in the good of science these damned kids grumble grumble...
*LOL* Ah, but I would probably not make a good sample for other reasons.

Or to put it this way, my fiancee and I are, and have been for a year and a half now, seperated by the Pacific Ocean while she continues to study in the United States and I teach in Japan (thus the irony of our situation). We see each other twice a year, winter vacation for about a month, and summer vacation for two months. During that time, as you can imagine, things are a little... ah... enthusiastic, and I'm not really consentrating on quality comparisons.

So to ask me would be akin to asking a starving man to rate the first food he's gotten in months. ;)

*LOL* Ah, but I would probably not make a good sample for other reasons.

Or to put it this way, my fiancee and I are, and have been for a year and a half now, seperated by the Pacific Ocean while she continues to study in the United States and I teach in Japan (thus the irony of our situation). We see each other twice a year, winter vacation for about a month, and summer vacation for two months. During that time, as you can imagine, things are a little... ah... enthusiastic, and I'm not really consentrating on quality comparisons.

So to ask me would be akin to asking a starving man to rate the first food he's gotten in months. ;)

My sympathies, friend, I'm living far away from my boy too, but it's not nearly as bad as your situation (at least we're in the same country, so we get to visit each other every month or two). It's teh suk. No pun intended.