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.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??

That question does remind me of the "third date rule"... as a general answer : It depends on the person and the circumstances ;)

Want to? Yes otherwise I wouldn't be on a date with them, would I havn't yet and probably wouldn't

Of course, she might be able to run away faster next time.

[not a rapist]

Of course, she might be able to run away faster next time.

[not a rapist]
lol, that reminds me of the "pick up line" "does this smell like chloroform?"

The best pickup line goes as follows:

[in a soft spoken shy voice] "hey... nice shoes... ... ...... wanna fuck?"

I think it is pretty bloody obvious you want to fuck them otherwise you wouldn't be there wasting your time would you...

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It's been a while since I've dated, but I would often meet people from the internet sight unseen.

Date to fuck someone? Silly heterosexuals...

I rather "make love" than "fuck" someone. So, if I was already in love with that girl, then the answer is yes. In most cases, I would be just getting to know her, and therefore the answer would be No.

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??
I didn't want to have sex with my husband until at least half way through the first date (not that I did on the first date or anything)

I mostly went out with him the first time because he seemed to be intelligent and hadn't really annoyed me yet.

Being just about the only non-virgin girl in the tri-state area who's not all about booty calls, I can safely say that my first dates are rarely about sexual attraction.

Now last night, I was at a Halloween party and kinda messed around with the guy throwing the party, whose family I've known for a couple years. He's also my boyfriend's best friend (good thing we're 'open'....). THAT was about sexual attraction, and a little bit of substance abuse. And that he looked a LOT like Billy Idol. Mmmmmm.

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??I wouldn't want to sleep with someone that'd want to sleep with me on the first date.
I'd have serious doubts about health and safety..

Date to fuck someone? Silly heterosexuals...

and poor homos....i don´t thonks its a question of a sexual paasion, but a general discussion point...

and I think nearly all people here know what I mean...

I suppose it depends on what one considers "meeting" someone for the first time. If it's someone that you meet in a bar, rushing off to have sex is going a little too fast, but if it's someone that you have been talking to for four hours a day for three months over the internet and you finally meet in person, it seems like forever trying to get clothes off fast enough.

I mostly went out with him the first time because he seemed to be intelligent and hadn't really annoyed me yet.

That's actually a surprisingly good basis for a relationship. An extremely cynical (but nonetheless very wise - or perhaps the two are correlated) friend of mine once said that 99% of any successful relationship is being able to put up with the other person's crap. I think he was a bit too cynical that time; I think it's closer to 95% myself. So if you find someone who doesn't instantly annoy you, you're doing extremely well.

:p

An extremely cynical (but nonetheless very wise - or perhaps the two are correlated) friend of mine once said that 99% of any successful relationship is being able to put up with the other person's crap. I think he was a bit too cynical that time; I think it's closer to 95% myself. So if you find someone who doesn't instantly annoy you, you're doing extremely well.

:p
I find that recently with my relationship it's been almost 100% of the time....so probably like, 99.76492% or so. And it's not a fair bet that if somebody doesn't instantly annoy you, you're doing well.....some people fake it really well. REALLY well. It doesn't take more than a little study of body language and psychology until you can cold-read anybody and make a new best friend, just by making them think that you have so much in common with them.

That's actually a surprisingly good basis for a relationship. An extremely cynical (but nonetheless very wise - or perhaps the two are correlated) friend of mine once said that 99% of any successful relationship is being able to put up with the other person's crap. I think he was a bit too cynical that time; I think it's closer to 95% myself. So if you find someone who doesn't instantly annoy you, you're doing extremely well.

:p
yeah we will have been married for 5 years in December, he only really annoys me now about once a month, but I am overly hormonal then, so it doesn't really count :p

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??
never had a date = wouldn't know.

[/sad pathetic bastard] :(

never had a date = wouldn't know.

[/sad pathetic bastard] :(
Were you closer, I'd meet ya coffee or something. Maybe take a nice little walk. See the sights. But I've pushed the boundaries of my relationship enough this week, and more than 25 miles or so is pushing it for me.

Simonist']Were you closer, I'd meet ya coffee or something. Maybe take a nice little walk. See the sights. But I've pushed the boundaries of my relationship enough this week, and more than 25 miles or so is pushing it for me.
aww thanks, thats nice... you get fluffles :fluffle: :fluffle: :p

there's already an NSer who lives suprisingly close to me who i'd just love to meet for coffee and things, but i feel kinda stupid about saying so (plus she's a tad younger than me which just complicates things).
er, anyways, i'll stop hijacking this thread now :headbang:

never had a date = wouldn't know.

[/sad pathetic bastard] :(

*pats*

I've only had two. And to answer the question, not really. Neither of them went very well. The first was a little weird to put it mildly, and the second...meh. I'm still friends with the latter girl though.

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??
No No No... You sex them on the phone BEFORE the date :p

No No No... You sex them on the phone BEFORE the date :p
Wait. If you've already done it, why bother with the date?

Just seems superfluous to me :rolleyes:

Simonist']Wait. If you've already done it, why bother with the date?

Just seems superfluous to me :rolleyes:
Do Not roll those eyes at me young boy. NO Big Words Either.

You gotta test out their minds to see if they can be kinky before you have the meet up with them!

Do Not roll those eyes at me young boy. NO Big Words Either.

You gotta test out their minds to see if they can be kinky before you have the meet up with them!
Hahaha, I'm a girl. It says so in my location. Don't worry, common mistake early on, but you'll learn in time. Either that or you won't believe me from the start and you'll start thinking "This is the FREAKIEST guy I've ever met....."

I guess it doesn't really matter if I have to do a date with somebody after having already done the deed, because boys pay anyway. I'm all for selective female repression if it means my tab is picked up by a strapping young gentleman.
Welcome to the feminist hypocrisy :D

Simonist']Wait. If you've already done it, why bother with the date?

Just seems superfluous to me :rolleyes:

So you can do 'em again, obviously.

So you can do 'em again, obviously.What? The same one twice?

So you can do 'em again, obviously.
Oh, cha. Of course. My bad.

I just naturally assumed that if I'm in a scenario that might involve a date with somebody I've already done before, then it was a one-night-stand situation, and then why would I WANT to do them again?

That's like re-climbing the huge tree when you're a kid -- nothing will make you feel quite as awesome as the very first time you made it all the way to the top, so why bother? Move on to the next great tree.

Simonist']
That's like re-climbing the huge tree when you're a kid -- nothing will make you feel quite as awesome as the very first time you made it all the way to the top, so why bother?

Oh, but the next time, apples are growing up there.

I don't know what that means either. I'm just being a pain in the butt. Don't mind me.

Simonist']Hahaha, I'm a girl. It says so in my location. Don't worry, common mistake early on, but you'll learn in time. Either that or you won't believe me from the start and you'll start thinking "This is the FREAKIEST guy I've ever met....."

I guess it doesn't really matter if I have to do a date with somebody after having already done the deed, because boys pay anyway. I'm all for selective female repression if it means my tab is picked up by a strapping young gentleman.
Welcome to the feminist hypocrisy :D
:fluffle:
Lets go on a date, yes? *perverted grin*

Ive never met someone ive immediately wanted to jump in bed with, takes me a long time to figure out if i really even like them well enough.:p

Neither of them went very well. The first was a little weird to put it mildly
*sits down crossed-legged, expectantly waiting for a story* :D

*sits down crossed-legged, expectantly waiting for a story* :D
*leans over to PM* "It's this whole lecture on why he doesnt like S&M any more.." :(

if i didnt wanna sleep with someone I wouldnt waste their time (or my own) by going out with them. its just rude.

:fluffle:
Lets go on a date, yes? *perverted grin*
I'll require a few basic elements before agreement:
1. live webcam feed (clothes on from the start, just in case....)
2. current bank statement, though you can blank out the account number if you wish. I just want to know if you're loaded.
3. tell me how often you shower

After this, we'll negotiate....

Simonist']I'll require a few basic elements before agreement:
1. live webcam feed (clothes on from the start, just in case....)
2. current bank statement, though you can blank out the account number if you wish. I just want to know if you're loaded.
3. tell me how often you shower

After this, we'll negotiate....
*looks around* no web cam.. how about photobucket?
Oh Oh Oh I have money. Not mine.. But I still have it.. :D
I shower when needed. ;)

*looks around* no web cam.. how about photobucket?
Oh Oh Oh I have money. Not mine.. But I still have it.. :D
I shower when needed. ;)
TG me your photobucket link, I suppose.....I can deal :rolleyes:

get ready for sexynass

there's already an NSer who lives suprisingly close to me who i'd just love to meet for coffee and things, but i feel kinda stupid about saying so (plus she's a tad younger than me which just complicates things).
er, anyways, i'll stop hijacking this thread now :headbang:

...

Does living in Billingshurst count as "surprisingly close" and does being born in 1990 count as "a tad younger"?

If I'm guessing right, she'd really love to meet up with you too but she's not sure if certain things about her life would allow. She'd probably want to talk to you later on msn (she can't right now) to explain why she can't, however much she'd like to, because she'd want you to understand. And she'd be really sad if she was to lose you over this because she needs friends like you right now and she'd really miss you.

If I'm guessing wrong, I blame my headache and the workings of an evil-maths test today... or perhaps an over-inflated head....

Either way:

1. My advice is to talk to her at some point
2. I hope you got my email.
3. :fluffle:

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??

Yes. Next question?

.....and you see a person for the first time, do you want to make sex with her/him ??
Yes, of course. I don't even have to be on a date and look at a girl and think about sex...based on looks. I made the mistake about not figuring out the true attitude of a girl once. Long story short she was a psychotic bitch, so I have to be more careful in the screening now.