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Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?
it is normal to be jealous, it is not normal to go around "busting heads" because people admire your girlfriend, if you do she will dump you super quick because it will look like a big huge red flag that you are jealous and abusive.

just smile at them, and say "I know she is cute, good thing she likes me" and then treat her with respect and hope that she appreciates it.;)

I dunno man, that is begining to get personal. How does she react to it?

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

Why is it an either/or situation? Take it as a compliment that you have a hot girlfriend, then bust their heads for hitting on your girlfriend.

Ultimately, it comes down to trust. If you trust this girl to be faithful to you, then just accept it as a compliment. If you don't trust her, well, you should tell her to fuck off.

Why is it an either/or situation? Take it as a compliment that you have a hot girlfriend, then bust their heads for hitting on your girlfriend.

Ultimately, it comes down to trust. If you trust this girl to be faithful to you, then just accept it as a compliment. If you don't trust her, well, you should tell her to fuck off.

That's pretty much it, yea. Only beat the shit out of those competitors if they act in agressive/insulting way towards your girl. If she tells them to gtfo and they refuse to obey, then physical violence could do some good. :p

Solution:

1. Punch the guy who say he wants to bang your girl.
2. Surprise sex her IDB.
3. Posts links to pics and vid in General.
4. ????
5. Profit!

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

Or... maybe you should consider the fact that: a) strong relationships are based on mutual trust... and you need to trust your significant other; b) you don't 'own' her.

I'd suggest you get over it.

Solution:

1. Punch the guy who say he wants to bang your girl.
2. Surprise sex her IDB.
3. Posts links to pics and vid in General.
4. ????
5. Profit!
Don't know what IDB means...

Plus we're high schoolers, so that'd kind of be illegal to post that...I'm not getting into the whole law thing with this...

Plus we're high schoolers, so that'd kind of be illegal to post that...I'm not getting into the whole law thing with this...

Oh...neeeeeeeeeevermind! :p

http://www.p0stwh0res.com/images/pwned3.jpg

http://www.p0stwh0res.com/images/pwned3.jpg
Genius! :p

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

If you are not around, how do you know what they are saying?

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?
Are they literaly saying: "I would like to fuck your girlfriend" or are they saying "nice ass" sort of things.
If they are literally saying that they desire to enter her pants, then it is time to bloody a few noses.
If they are merely saying whe's "hawt" sort of stuff, then you can act offended and verbally defend her honor. And if they do it a second time, then it is time to bloody a few noses.

Don't know what IDB means...
ye, what does it mean?

ye, what does it mean?
In Da Butt, as I recall. Alternately, it could mean Internet DataBase, as in IMDB (Internet Movie DataBase).
Finally, it could mean Intentionally Dramatic Bleeding.

If you are not around, how do you know what they are saying?
She told me that they literally said that they want to have sex with her.

In Da Butt, as I recall.


Teh WINNAR! :D

She told me that they literally said that they want to have sex with her.

I'll kill 'em for you...for a price, of course... :cool:

She told me that they literally said that they want to have sex with her.
It is time for a few broken bones (preferably, break other people's, but breaking your own could work out toward some pity sex) then.

EDIT: And I'll work at 80% of Cluichistan's price, and I'll throw in a free toaster!

EDIT: And I'll work at 80% of Cluichistan's price, and I'll throw in a free toaster!


Hell, if there are enough of 'em, I can give you the package discount. Plus, I'll throw in this kewpie doll.

http://www.theglassjunkie.com/kewpie-kneescrossed.jpg

She told me that they literally said that they want to have sex with her.


I have to ask: is it common for your male friends to ask your female if the will have sex with them? If it is then I think you need some new friends. If this is new behavior then I would be concerned that your new girlfriend is causing trouble somehow. At any rate something seems very fishy about the story. I wouldn't do anything rash before I new the truth. And don't use violence.

The response to this post confirm once again Goodthoughts first rule about taking advise on Nationstates. Never ever, ever follow the advice from the first several posters.

Hell, if there are enough of 'em, I can give you the package discount. Plus, I'll throw in this kewpie doll.
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Fine, I'll also do it on a Motorcycle with a Katana while singing the British National Anthem and wearing a Darth Vader mask.
AND, I'll give you my special Bloody Sunday discount package, hire 2 hits, and the third one is free.
Because at Krazy Fiddlebottoms' Discount Disembowlment and Beheading Outlet, ALL MUST GO!!!!!

EDIT: And I'll work at 80% of Cluichistan's price, and I'll throw in a free toaster!
Ha, I'll beat both of you by doing it for free, since all I have to do is think about them dying and they're dead! What are their names? ;)

Fine, I'll also do it on a Motorcycle with a Katana while singing the British National Anthem and wearing a Darth Vader mask.
AND, I'll give you my special Bloody Sunday discount package, hire 2 hits, and the third one is free.
Because at Krazy Fiddlebottoms' Discount Disembowlment and Beheading Outlet, ALL MUST GO!!!!!

I have a job for you

N H Fiddlebottoms VIII

I have a job for you

N H Fiddlebottoms VIII
You have discovered the location of my good twin?
WHERE!?! He must be found and destroyed at once!

You have discovered the location of my good twin?
WHERE!?! He must be found and destroyed at once!

He's behind you.

You have discovered the location of my good twin?
WHERE!?! He must be found and destroyed at once!
He's hiding in Myrth's house.

He's hiding in Myrth's house.
Alright then, the time is nigh, oh Dyslexic One! YOUR DOOM IS AT HAND!
*Begins fashioning a McGyver style RPG out of soap and baking powder*
Wait a second, I can't go out and kill him now, Monty Python is almost on.
GODDAMMIT! You may have escaped me now, vilely righteous twin, but tommorow I will- Wait, tommorow I've got work all day.
So, then, the day after tommorow,- Damn, gotta study for midterms.
Can't do it on a weekday, next weekend I have to visit my aunt . . .
SOME DAY, TWIN, SOME DAY IN THE DISTANT, BUT NOT TO DISTANT, FUTURE, I WILL COME FOR YOU!

Ha, I'll beat both of you by doing it for free, since all I have to do is think about them dying and they're dead! What are their names? ;)


Got me beat. I don't do anything for free.

Except drink all your beer if you'll let me. :p

Are these your friends or just random dudes? I'd ask your friends to stop, but random dudes are always going to hit on your girlfriend. You're just going to have to learn to deal with it, unless it's particularly offensive.

I have to ask: is it common for your male friends to ask your female if the will have sex with them? If it is then I think you need some new friends. If this is new behavior then I would be concerned that your new girlfriend is causing trouble somehow. At any rate something seems very fishy about the story. I wouldn't do anything rash before I new the truth. And don't use violence.

The response to this post confirm once again Goodthoughts first rule about taking advise on Nationstates. Never ever, ever follow the advice from the first several posters.
No, they aren't my friends. They're just guys that talk to her.

No, they aren't my friends. They're just guys that talk to her.

Then I have to ask, is she leading them on and then telling you what they say to her to get you jealous?

Then I have to ask, is she leading them on and then telling you what they say to her to get you jealous?
I'm not sure...but it sure is working...

I'm not sure...but it sure is working...

I think you better find a time to have a heart to heart with her. Tell her how you are feeling about all of this. You may want to wait for awhile and try to find out just what is really happening with these guys who are asking her to go to bed with them. Have the two of you had sex yet? Is this her way of telling you she wants to? I don't know, but you need to find some of this stuff out. Is she just really insecure and wants your attention all of the time? Before you do anything find out some more of the facts--not just what you think is happening.

No, we haven't. We're just Freshmen

In college? Or high school?

No, we haven't. We're just Freshmen

I take it the two of you seem to care about each other. And this is the only thing that seems to be bothering you about the relationship. So I would say that she is just being honest with you about what guys are saying to her. Unless there is something else going on that is troubleing you it is time to have that heart to heart. Just tell her how you feel about these guys hitting on her. Just be sure that you don't accuse her of leading them on. Because even if she is it will turn into a mess and a big fight. To go back for a minute, if this is not a real problem for you and you can ignore it, it might be best to let it go. It seems to be bothering you quite a bit and festering so I think it may need to be talked about.

In college? Or high school?
High School

bump

High School

So that makes you, what, 15?

Any more info on these guys? Any reason they would want to piss you off?

If there isn't, they're likely to just be dumbasses acting like they're the man. As long as you trust this girl to tell them no, there should be no problem. If you do decide to step in, don't be a jackass about it; be calm, authoritative and quiet.

Although, if you can take them all at once, that would also be cool and make you the man. And alpha males get all the girls (just sayin'). And this was proper advice up to the last paragraph.

Just stay cool. There is no point in getting into a fight because some guys as real jerks. If for some reason she is wanting you to fight these guys then find a new girl.

Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

A little of both, but not too much either way.

Yeah, if you guys remember my thread two weeks ago about the two girls and Homecoming and how one was just a friend and the other one really liked me. So anyway, the second girl is now my girlfriend. But now I'm in an interesting situation. People say to her when I'm not around that they want to sleep with her. Should I take that as a compliment or should I bust their heads?

Take it as a compliment then beat their heads in. :D

I think you better find a time to have a heart to heart with her. Tell her how you are feeling about all of this. You may want to wait for awhile and try to find out just what is really happening with these guys who are asking her to go to bed with them. Have the two of you had sex yet? Is this her way of telling you she wants to? I don't know, but you need to find some of this stuff out. Is she just really insecure and wants your attention all of the time? Before you do anything find out some more of the facts--not just what you think is happening.

It has to be said, unless the behaviour of the other boys is upsetting the lady, this guy would be resorting to violence PURELY to assert his 'ownership'.

If the girl is okay with it, this guy needs to get over it... duelling is SO 18th century...

Although, if you can take them all at once, that would also be cool and make you the man. And alpha males get all the girls (just sayin'). And this was proper advice up to the last paragraph.
Yay for being a jock!