NationStates Jolt Archive


Pornography

The Mindset
10-10-2005, 21:47
I’m sure that topic got a few of you rushing for the tissues and upped your heart rate a few dozen bpm, but I only do that sort of work on Sundays so you’re out of luck. So here’s the deal: I have absolutely no interest in pornography. In fact, it repulses me. I’m gay, and naturally don’t like the idea of straight sex, but even gay porn is repulsive.

I can’t fathom of any real reason why. I’m not religious, I’m not against porn in any way, I’m not asexual, I’m definitely aroused by the right kind of men, but even those kind of men in a porn film wouldn’t “do” it for me. So I got talking with my boyfriend, he openly admits to having 4GB (!!!) of porn. He’s quite the connoisseur, saying he’d show me stuff that he thinks I would like. Well, I didn’t. It’s not erotic, it’s horrid.

I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, but I suppose artificial sex just doesn’t do it for me. So, I was wondering if I’m considered odd by you lot (I’m guessing you’re all shouting YES at the monitor right now, what with 90% of you being nerds and all – no offence :)), or if people in my situation are more common than I think.
Legless Pirates
10-10-2005, 21:48
How about written porn?
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 21:49
How about written porn?
It's great comedy material, I find.
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 21:50
Well, what is it exactly that repulses you? What aspect, I mean
Kecibukia
10-10-2005, 21:51
Most porn is just stupid. Being a very visual based hetero male, images of women I find attractive ( ranging from dressed to out-n-out hard core ) I find very.... um... stimulating.

Each to his own.
Ashmoria
10-10-2005, 21:53
how about gay erotica? photos of naked men kissing. do those do anything for you?
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 21:53
Pretty much the entire kerfuffle, really. I mean, even if the guys in it are attractive, the entire act is just a total turn off for me.
Carstenia
10-10-2005, 21:53
Some people don't like porn, and that's fine.. What more is there to it really?
I have had numerous girlfriends who didn't like it, and quite a few who did. I guess it's just a matter of personal taste..
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 21:54
how about gay erotica? photos of naked men kissing. do those do anything for you?
Actually, yes. I have no love of emos, but gay emos kissing = hot.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 21:54
I can’t fathom of any real reason why. I’m not religious, I’m not against porn in any way, I’m not asexual, I’m definitely aroused by the right kind of men, but even those kind of men in a porn film wouldn’t “do” it for me. So I got talking with my boyfriend, he openly admits to having 4GB (!!!) of porn. He’s quite the connoisseur, saying he’d show me stuff that he thinks I would like. Well, I didn’t. It’s not erotic, it’s horrid.


Care to hook me up with your boyfriend?;)

Or at least get him to share with me? :D

Edit: Me like porn. Porn makes you feel good. Porn is good for you.
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 21:55
Pretty much the entire kerfuffle, really. I mean, even if the guys in it are attractive, the entire act is just a total turn off for me.

Hmm... well, you could do a movie of yourself? I'll come across as completely pervert and I know it, so save the comments, all of you. But I actually like the movies of me and my current man...
Bakamyht
10-10-2005, 21:56
Grab you fire extinguishers folks, the heinous swearword 'religion' was used in the original post. Any minute now the flames will be descending
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 21:57
Yeah, I'm not attracted to pornography either for some reason. It repulses me too.
Swimmingpool
10-10-2005, 21:57
When masturbating, I find that orgasms are much better without porn.
Pantycellen
10-10-2005, 21:58
yeah I know what you mean

its not paticulaly sexy......
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 21:58
Grab you fire extinguishers folks, the heinous swearword 'religion' was used in the original post. Any minute now the flames will be descending

Come to think of it, I haven't seem Neo Rogolia in quite a while now. Where did she disappear to?
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 21:59
Come to think of it, I haven't seem Neo Rogolia in quite a while now. Where did she disappear to? I looked her up a while ago, she hadn't been on in a fortnight. Maybe something important happened. Wasn't she engaged to somebody?
The Noble Men
10-10-2005, 22:00
That's acceptable. A lot of porn has ugly bitches in there, so I assume it's the same with gay porn.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:01
yeah I know what you mean

its not paticulaly sexy......

Hey, it depends on what porn you're watching.

There's cheap porn, and then there's cheaper porn. :p

Seriously though, I find myself liking porn where the guys act natural. You'd be surprised how arousing seeing actors who smile, kiss and overall seem to be enojoying themselves can be, as opposed to the WHAM-BANG type of porn you can easily find.
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 22:01
I looked her up a while ago, she hadn't been on in a fortnight. Maybe something important happened. Wasn't she engaged to somebody?

Was she? Dunno... maybe she took to preaching in the streets or something... ;)
Hydrogen-Land
10-10-2005, 22:01
Actually, yes. I have no love of emos, but gay emos kissing = hot.

You and me brother, you and me, Emo boys kissing is hot as fuck.

Well, I'm gay, but I have no problem with porn, I find myself viewing it several times a day, it really is quite the bad habit...I'll have to get back to erotica like you my friend!
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 22:02
Was she? Dunno... maybe she took to preaching in the streets or something... ;) Aw, don't be nasty to Neo. :(
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 22:03
Yeah, I'm not attracted to pornography either for some reason. It repulses me too.
Yay!
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 22:03
Aw, don't be nasty to Neo. :(

I wasn't. I was just trying to think of something someone like Neo would enjoy in her spare time. Sorry, no offense. ;)
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 22:05
Yay! Don't be too enthusiastic. I do have *other* reasons for not going near porn.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:06
Don't be too enthusiastic. I do have *other* reasons for not going near porn.

Like what?


(I can't think of a single thing that could get between me and my precious porn. :p )
The Hoebags
10-10-2005, 22:07
orgasms are better without porn
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 22:08
Like what?


(I can't think of a single thing that could get between me and my precious porn. :p ) Religion. :D
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:10
Religion. :D

Reli-what? :eek:
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 22:11
Reli-what? :eek: You know, that thing which makes moderately normal people like me take up the cross and slay your whole family. :)
AllThings Avantgarde
10-10-2005, 22:12
It's great comedy material, I find.

Being an erotic writer, I would suggest that you have not quite found a good piece of erotic literature, then.

All "porn" is ridiculous when it has no plot, uses OOOOooomyyyyygggoood, and with little continuity and poor descriptions, especially if you are someone looking for substance. Porn is hardcore and without much imagination, erotic lit especially, can offer a great plot and excellent writing on par with, well, frankly with whatever style you choose.

When it comes to movies, porn is made to the select mass because that's what sells and by the billions of dollars, although some actually offers high quality and has a high standard from script to actors and even sex, full nude or teasing, its usually erotic rather than porn, though.

Perhaps it's just a matter of 'porn is not what you are looking for' and maybe the movie or story that turns your crank is more erotic in nature than pornographic.

Just a thought.

:)
Norderia
10-10-2005, 22:14
Porn just isn't your thing. Perhaps it's a matter of intimacy -- you may need a close connection to the people you're seeing or (can I get away with the childish here?) doing it with in order to feel aroused.
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 22:14
Being an erotic writer, I would suggest that you have not quite found a good piece of erotic literature, then.

All "porn" is ridiculous when it has no plot, uses OOOOooomyyyyygggoood, and with little continuity and poor descriptions, especially if you are someone looking for substance. Porn is hardcore and without much imagination, erotic lit especially, can offer a great plot and excellent writing on par with, well, frankly with whatever style you choose.

When it comes to movies, porn is made to the select mass because that's what sells and by the billions of dollars, although some actually offers high quality and has a high standard from script to actors and even sex, full nude or teasing, its usually erotic rather than porn, though.

Perhaps it's just a matter of 'porn is not what you are looking for' and maybe the movie or story that turns your crank is more erotic in nature than pornographic.

Just a thought.

:)
Well, to be honest, I find the idea of "porn with a plot" to be hilarious. No offence, of course.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:16
You know, that thing which makes moderately normal people like me take up the cross and slay your whole family. :)

Oh, THAT.

Sorry, I lost mine some time ago.

I think it was around the time where the pope said I was "intrinsically evil and immoral" without knowing me. He also said my mom was "the equal of men, but since she's different she can't do the same job(priethood)".

There was that thing about condoms, too. Something along the lines of not putting one on when you were having sex, because sex is ONLY about procreation(which, incidentally, being a gay male, I don't agree with).

Yup, can't think of a single thing to convince me to drop my precious porn :D
AllThings Avantgarde
10-10-2005, 22:18
Well, to be honest, I find the idea of "porn with a plot" to be hilarious. No offence, of course.

Never any taken, but then if it has a plot, it is erotic and not porn. Ie. James Joyce, Anais Nin, Henry Miller, Marguarite Duras. ;)
Angry Fruit Salad
10-10-2005, 22:18
I kind of understand. I'm strangely repulsed by nude men, yet I'm a bisexual female, and I'm involved with a wonderful guy.

The only reasoning for my situation seems to be that women have curves that are naturally pleasing to the eye. In short, women are easier to look at.

Men, on the other hand, are somehow kind of ugly. I greatly appreciate all they're good for, but looking at them doesn't interest me in the least...
Callisdrun
10-10-2005, 22:19
I enjoy some porn, though my favorite is just pictures of darkly attractive women posing in either very suggestive clothing or in various states of undress. I find though, that my orgasm is better when I use my imagination instead of porn, though.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:19
Well, to be honest, I find the idea of "porn with a plot" to be hilarious. No offence, of course.

Even if I disagree with you whether or not porn is arousing(at least to me it is), I have to agree that "porn with plot" is comedy.


Seriously, who cares if that guy gets the job after he blowed the employer? :p
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:21
Men, on the other hand, are somehow kind of ugly. I greatly appreciate all they're good for, but looking at them doesn't interest me in the least...

Dude, you really have to watch the divers and swimmers next time the Olympics are around... :eek:
The Helghan Empire
10-10-2005, 22:24
I’m sure that topic got a few of you rushing for the tissues and upped your heart rate a few dozen bpm, but I only do that sort of work on Sundays so you’re out of luck. So here’s the deal: I have absolutely no interest in pornography. In fact, it repulses me. I’m gay, and naturally don’t like the idea of straight sex, but even gay porn is repulsive.

I can’t fathom of any real reason why. I’m not religious, I’m not against porn in any way, I’m not asexual, I’m definitely aroused by the right kind of men, but even those kind of men in a porn film wouldn’t “do” it for me. So I got talking with my boyfriend, he openly admits to having 4GB (!!!) of porn. He’s quite the connoisseur, saying he’d show me stuff that he thinks I would like. Well, I didn’t. It’s not erotic, it’s horrid.

I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, but I suppose artificial sex just doesn’t do it for me. So, I was wondering if I’m considered odd by you lot (I’m guessing you’re all shouting YES at the monitor right now, what with 90% of you being nerds and all – no offence :)), or if people in my situation are more common than I think.
I may be young, but I sure as hell do not like erotica. You're not wierd - even if you are homosexual, wich I respect. Some people like it, some don't. But every man on Earth masturbates.

I don't because it can affect your sexual life, and it can affect the way you are when you are around your girlfriend - or boyfriend. I think porn steals people's intimate and romantic side when it comes to dating and sex. So I apparently have something against porn even if you don't.
Longhorn country
10-10-2005, 22:25
no offense, but as a straight guy, i dont want to here from a gay guy how much he doesnt like to masturbate.
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 22:26
Well, I suppose it doesn't help that my "ideal man" is somewhat, er, niche.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:28
no offense, but as a straight guy, i dont want to here from a gay guy how much he doesnt like to masturbate.

Then why are you reading/posting here? :confused:
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:28
Well, I suppose it doesn't help that my "ideal man" is somewhat, er, niche.

Niche? Oh, please, do tell! :D
Fresh2death
10-10-2005, 22:31
Porn Is Disgusting And So Are You If You Like It.
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 22:31
no offense, but as a straight guy, i dont want to here from a gay guy how much he doesnt like to masturbate.
You were not under any obligation to read the opening post. :)
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 22:33
Niche? Oh, please, do tell! :D

Well, without going into specifics, my ideal man would be:

Between 5’8’’ and 5’11’’, slim, flat stomach, small bum, nice chin, straight hairline, nice eyes, fabtastic dress sense, no heavier than 10st/140lbs, male (naturally), no tattoos, only piercing in the left eyebrow or lip, brown hair, medium length and messy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t do drugs, is gay but not particularly camp, doesn’t like Dance music, has a waistline under 30”, is single (hoho), has a sarcastic wit, can spell, can speak English, doesn’t eat boogers when I’m not looking, has a nice accent and pays me shitloads of attention.

Colin (my current boyfriend) fills all this bar one. He's 6'2". :(
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:35
Porn Is Disgusting And So Are You If You Like It.

Then, Disgusting I Am, And At Peace With Myself About It. :rolleyes:
Iscarion
10-10-2005, 22:35
I rather like porn, but I find that I get pickier as time goes on. It's hard to find good porn in both the right category (the specific acts themselves) and with the right kind of. . . "I don't know what". The right atmosphere.

Call it the artiste in me, but I can't stand porn with a hackneyed plot. I'd rather there be none at all.
Liskeinland
10-10-2005, 22:36
Well, without going into specifics, my ideal man would be:

Between 5’8’’ and 5’11’’, slim, flat stomach, small bum, nice chin, straight hairline, nice eyes, fabtastic dress sense, no heavier than 10st/140lbs, male (naturally), no tattoos, only piercing in the left eyebrow or lip, brown hair, medium length and messy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t do drugs, is gay but not particularly camp, doesn’t like Dance music, has a waistline under 30”, is single (hoho), has a sarcastic wit, can spell, can speak English, doesn’t eat boogers when I’m not looking, has a nice accent and pays me shitloads of attention. The bolded ones are the ones that don't apply to me.

Stay away!
Hyndeland
10-10-2005, 22:36
Pornography is the most political form of fiction, dealing with how we use and exploit each other in the most urgent and ruthless way. It is the most powerful of all Literary genres, as is acknowledged by any contemporary writer worth reading - Ballard, Ellis, Palahniuk, Burroughs, etc, etc. They understand and apply to their works the simple fact that sexual imagination is unlimited in scope and metaphoric power, and can never be successful repressed. In many ways, pornography is even the most literary of all forms of fiction - a verbal text with only its own resources to create a complex and exhilirating narrative. More than that, it is a powerful catalyst for social change, and its periods of greatest availability coincided with times of greatest economic and scientific advance.

Just because you have been denying yourself some of the best literature ever written, it doesn't mean it has no value. Read.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:37
Well, without going into specifics, my ideal man would be:

Between 5’8’’ and 5’11’’, slim, flat stomach, small bum, nice chin, straight hairline, nice eyes, fabtastic dress sense, no heavier than 10st/140lbs, male (naturally), no tattoos, only piercing in the left eyebrow or lip, brown hair, medium length and messy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t do drugs, is gay but not particularly camp, doesn’t like Dance music, has a waistline under 30”, is single (hoho), has a sarcastic wit, can spell, can speak English, doesn’t eat boogers when I’m not looking, has a nice accent and pays me shitloads of attention.

Colin (my current boyfriend) fills all this bar one. He's 6'2". :(

Dude, you just pretty much described me :D
(Except the piercing in eyebrow or lips:I don't have those)

Too bad I started seeing someone not so long ago ;)
The Helghan Empire
10-10-2005, 22:41
Porn Is Disgusting And So Are You If You Like It.
Amen.


(Forgot to mention: )
If you are in a relationship and are addicted to pornagraphy it's really, really dishonest to your partner. In fact people doing sexual activities with their body with others and show it to viewers, it's just waaay too wrong. It's against our very nature in our sex lives. Prostitutes, pornstars, strippers are just inhuman. But prostitutes are on thing: letting people have their way with them like a sex slave.
Oh great, I went from porn to prostitutes. :headbang:
Posthumananity
10-10-2005, 22:41
I’m sure that topic got a few of you rushing for the tissues and upped your heart rate a few dozen bpm, but I only do that sort of work on Sundays so you’re out of luck. So here’s the deal: I have absolutely no interest in pornography. In fact, it repulses me. I’m gay, and naturally don’t like the idea of straight sex, but even gay porn is repulsive.
<snip>
Well, there are definately others who share your views on not liking porn. It's not for everyone, I suppose. I doubt that is abnormal to dislike porn based on the 'artificial sex' bit, as I've heard quite a few people comment on that.

no offense, but as a straight guy, i dont want to here from a gay guy how much he doesnt like to masturbate.
Why bother taking time to read it and complain about it then?
Behaviour such as that might lead one to think that what you actually want is something to be offended at.
Hyndeland
10-10-2005, 22:42
Well, without going into specifics, my ideal man would be:

Between 5’8’’ and 5’11’’, slim, flat stomach, small bum, nice chin, straight hairline, nice eyes, fabtastic dress sense, no heavier than 10st/140lbs, male (naturally), no tattoos, only piercing in the left eyebrow or lip, brown hair, medium length and messy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t do drugs, is gay but not particularly camp, doesn’t like Dance music, has a waistline under 30”, is single (hoho), has a sarcastic wit, can spell, can speak English, doesn’t eat boogers when I’m not looking, has a nice accent and pays me shitloads of attention.

Colin (my current boyfriend) fills all this bar one. He's 6'2". :(

See? That's your first problem right there. If you knew the first thing about literary pornography, it would be SHOW, DON'T TELL. Measurements and exhaustive paragraph-long character-long descriptions are definite no-no's. :p
Hydrogen-Land
10-10-2005, 22:42
Well, without going into specifics, my ideal man would be:

Between 5’8’’ and 5’11’’, slim, flat stomach, small bum, nice chin, straight hairline, nice eyes, fabtastic dress sense, no heavier than 10st/140lbs, male (naturally), no tattoos, only piercing in the left eyebrow or lip, brown hair, medium length and messy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t do drugs, is gay but not particularly camp, doesn’t like Dance music, has a waistline under 30”, is single (hoho), has a sarcastic wit, can spell, can speak English, doesn’t eat boogers when I’m not looking, has a nice accent and pays me shitloads of attention.

Colin (my current boyfriend) fills all this bar one. He's 6'2". :(


Nice, but you're scaring me...not only are all of those specifics wonderful...but my name is Colin...MINDFUCK!!!!!
Longhorn country
10-10-2005, 22:43
You were not under any obligation to read the opening post. :)
thank you, but i did, they should have a warning that ALL forums have, and it is an international sign that mean "gay man describes his dislike for porn and masturbation" that they put somewhere near the thread title.
Posthumananity
10-10-2005, 22:44
If you are in a relationship and are addicted to pornagraphy it's really, really dishonest to your partner. In fact people doing sexual activities with their body with others and show it to viewers, it's just waaay too wrong. It's against our very nature in our sex lives. Prostitutes, pornstars, strippers are just inhuman.
What kind of ideology/religion/whatever do you hold that denies the humanity of someone based on what they do in terms of sex?
Archondia
10-10-2005, 22:45
I have to agree with everyone who said that orgasms are better without porn. Not that i don't like porn. I do (although I vastly prefer pictures to movies). The orgasms are easier to achieve with some visual stimulation.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:48
I have to agree with everyone who said that orgasms are better without porn. Not that i don't like porn. I do (although I vastly prefer pictures to movies). The orgasms are easier to achieve with some visual stimulation.

Agreed. Porn is like fast-food for sex: it's quick, but it's cheap.
The Noble Men
10-10-2005, 22:48
Porn Is Disgusting And So Are You If You Like It.

Why thank you. :)

I'm watching porn right now...
Ayroth
10-10-2005, 22:53
I used to like porn. But ever since I met my girlfriend, and we slept together, I find that watching is not as good as doing. Plus, I have alot more respect for women since meeting her. (shrugs) It's just my opinion though. You guys and girls can enjoy it as much as you want, but it seems to me to be a sign that your desperate for sex. No offense.
Skaladora
10-10-2005, 22:57
I used to like porn. But ever since I met my girlfriend, and we slept together, I find that watching is not as good as doing.


That goes without saying. I don't think anyone here was arguing that porn was better than the real thing. I know I never said no to my boyfriend to be free to watch some porn and masturbate! :rolleyes:


You guys and girls can enjoy it as much as you want, but it seems to me to be a sign that your desperate for sex. No offense.

None taken.


After all, we ARE desperate for sex. :p


At least I know I am. :D
Czardas
10-10-2005, 22:58
Yeah, I'm not attracted to pornography either for some reason. It repulses me too.
I could have responded to this thread, but I might as well just quote this reply, because it summarizes my answer nicely enough.
The Helghan Empire
10-10-2005, 23:00
What kind of ideology/religion/whatever do you hold that denies the humanity of someone based on what they do in terms of sex?
:rolleyes:
My own ideology on sex. It's my beliefs for pornography and you will just need to live with it.
Hyndeland
10-10-2005, 23:01
(Written) Pornography is art! It can be the highest form of Literature, and this has nothing to do with sex itself or lack thereof, but with the intrinsic meaning of sex and its metaphoric potential. I don't see anyone saying, "Yeah, painting is cool, but now I have a bow-window, so I get an even better landscape."
The Helghan Empire
10-10-2005, 23:02
You guys and girls can enjoy it as much as you want, but it seems to me to be a sign that your desperate for sex.
I agree.
Hyndeland
10-10-2005, 23:06
The most over-sexed people I personally know are pornography authors... :rolleyes:
The Soviet Americas
10-10-2005, 23:06
it seems to me to be a sign that your desperate for sex. No offense.
Well, that's what I get when I am halfway to being my own personal 40-Year-Old Virgin. :fluffle:
Cabra West
10-10-2005, 23:10
Originally Posted by The Mindset
... is gay but not particularly camp...

The bolded ones are the ones that don't apply to me.

Stay away!


I don't believe it... you mean you're finally out of the closet, Lisk?
The Mindset
10-10-2005, 23:19
thank you, but i did, they should have a warning that ALL forums have, and it is an international sign that mean "gay man describes his dislike for porn and masturbation" that they put somewhere near the thread title.
I never mentioned any dislike for masturbation, now did I.
Cyas
10-10-2005, 23:25
Porn, a way to appease a hormonal teenager for all of 20 minutes.
Dundealgan
10-10-2005, 23:29
Even if I disagree with you whether or not porn is arousing(at least to me it is), I have to agree that "porn with plot" is comedy.


Seriously, who cares if that guy gets the job after he blowed the employer? :p

It sounds like what you're *reading* is comedy, but then it sounds like you're not reading porn with a plot (or erotica). You're just reading porn. There's plenty of good work out there; no need to denigrate it simply because you have uninteresting reading habits.
Indigia
10-10-2005, 23:31
Erotica and Porn are not the same thing, folks.

And for the guy who says he doesn't masturbate? *cough* bullshit *cough*
The Helghan Empire
10-10-2005, 23:33
Erotica and Porn are not the same thing, folks.

And for the guy who says he doesn't masturbate? *cough* bullshit *cough*
True, every man on Earth masturbates (I already said that though)
Ham-o
10-10-2005, 23:34
well, years ago I used to look at porn, and I mean, if it's on TV I'd at least check it out, but personally, I found I feel much better when I'm just thinking about girls (and sometimes guys) I know.
Hyndeland
10-10-2005, 23:36
True, every man on Earth masturbates (I already said that though)
And even some Horses!
Bohunkia
10-10-2005, 23:51
There is a huge difference between written porn/erotica, and video porn/erotica.

A lot of written stories have a plausible plot, and in a lot of instances, reasonably believable sex. Where more mainstream literature basically works around the sex, erotic writers are not afraid to 'go there'. I've read some damn fine smut, thank you.

I have yet to see a porno movie where the story and acting was barely at a level above atrocious. And the dialogue? Puh-leeeze! "Oooh, baby, ah"

That's not to say that there isn't a lot of crappy written stories as well, but given my choice, I'd rather read it than see some silicone Princess squeaking her way through a scene until the money shot.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 00:21
If you are in a relationship and are addicted to pornagraphy it's really, really dishonest to your partner.
Ummm....isn't that making a rather large assumption? Namely that said person is dishonest with their partner about pornography? :confused:
AllThings Avantgarde
11-10-2005, 00:26
Ummm....isn't that making a rather large assumption? Namely that said person is dishonest with their partner about pornography? :confused:

LOL, oh how true and beautiful certain birds are!
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 00:48
LOL, oh how true and beautiful certain birds are!
http://addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/liebe/011.gif
LazyJeannes
11-10-2005, 01:20
I used to like porn. But ever since I met my girlfriend, and we slept together, I find that watching is not as good as doing. Plus, I have alot more respect for women since meeting her. (shrugs) It's just my opinion though. You guys and girls can enjoy it as much as you want, but it seems to me to be a sign that your desperate for sex. No offense.

Did the porn you were watching make you have less respect for women?
Dundealgan
11-10-2005, 01:33
And even some Horses!

:fluffle:

I just had to try out the smilies. That, and it's called "fluffle" - how cute is that?

(Nearly as cute as goslings.)
Longhorn country
11-10-2005, 01:35
if my penis was 100lbs, porn would make me the worlds strongest man by now ;)
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 01:40
(Nearly as cute as goslings.)
Awww....Fluffles to you, horsey ;)
Dundealgan
11-10-2005, 01:47
if my penis was 100lbs, porn would make me the worlds strongest man by now ;)

I should think you'd have other concerns as well.
Longhorn country
11-10-2005, 01:48
I should think you'd have other concerns as well.
there aint (not isnt, AINT) no problem a man with a 100lb penis cant solve.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 01:54
I should think you'd have other concerns as well.
BWAAAHAHAHAHA

If nothing else, shopping for trousers would be quite an undertaking. :D
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 01:54
there aint (not isnt, AINT) no problem a man with a 100lb penis cant solve.
That would be true, possibly, if any blood ever made it to his brain. ;)
Vetalia
11-10-2005, 01:56
there aint (not isnt, AINT) no problem a man with a 100lb penis cant solve.

It's every man's dream to have a penis so large he must hire a small boy to carry it.
Second Russia
11-10-2005, 01:57
Good for you... i have respect for anybody who can resist looking at porn and using it.

I'm not one of those people, and yeah, depending on the content, I can feel pretty guilty. Also, sometimes a search will bring up some stuff you just....dont....want....too...see....

But it gets natural after a while.

I will agree that masturbation orgasms w/o porn is generally more satisfying.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 02:02
Good for you... i have respect for anybody who can resist looking at porn and using it.

I'm not one of those people, and yeah, depending on the content, I can feel pretty guilty. Also, sometimes a search will bring up some stuff you just....dont....want....too...see....

But it gets natural after a while.

I will agree that masturbation orgasms w/o porn is generally more satisfying.
Ah, the good ol' days. I remember being ashamed of looking at and reading porn. I recall feeling guilty.

I don't miss 'em a bit. :cool:
CthulhuFhtagn
11-10-2005, 02:14
It's every man's dream to have a penis so large he must hire a small boy to carry it.
Maddox rules.
Volksnation
11-10-2005, 02:16
Haha. This thread was a bit amusing.
Chelseno
11-10-2005, 02:16
Okay, this whole thing makes me sick to my stomach, you know being gay and all. I'm not here to cridicize but to say: I am a christian, and you all most likely know that I'm NOT for gay. But I completley understand it's your opinion and I respect that. Even if I think it's wrong I still can be friends with gay people and stuff. I just can't be gay myself. So I'm not saying your bad because your gay just saying that even if I'm agianst it I am still up for being friends with any gay/lesbian person. :) Thank you for reading this....
(If you did LOL)

Sincerley: Lodess.....
Asriath
11-10-2005, 02:18
i belive that all porn should be banned. even though i sound hateful and racist i belive its the human thing to do.
Zexaland
11-10-2005, 02:20
*Sigh!*
:rolleyes:
Been here, done that, bought the T-shirt, cleaned the bike with it...
Zexaland
11-10-2005, 02:21
i belive that all porn should be banned. even though i sound hateful and racist i belive its the human thing to do. :sniper: :gundge: :mp5:

Ahhhhh...anti-porn =/= racist or hateful...
Right or wrong...
Volksnation
11-10-2005, 02:25
When I can have a custom name for my country, I am changing it to

"The People's Pornocrazy of Volksnation".

:fluffle:
Soap Sellerz
11-10-2005, 02:25
It's every man's dream to have a penis so large he must hire a small boy to carry it.

Amen.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 02:33
Okay, this whole thing makes me sick to my stomach, you know being gay and all. I'm not here to cridicize but to say: I am a christian, and you all most likely know that I'm NOT for gay. But I completley understand it's your opinion and I respect that. Even if I think it's wrong I still can be friends with gay people and stuff. I just can't be gay myself. So I'm not saying your bad because your gay just saying that even if I'm agianst it I am still up for being friends with any gay/lesbian person. :) Thank you for reading this....
(If you did LOL)

Sincerley: Lodess.....
What are you trying to say, anyway? And what's it got to do with pornography? Just curious, not trying to be bitchy. (and you might want to put on rubber gloves or something before quoting this...you don't know where I've been ;) )
LazyJeannes
11-10-2005, 02:38
Okay, this whole thing makes me sick to my stomach, you know being gay and all. I'm not here to cridicize but to say: I am a christian, and you all most likely know that I'm NOT for gay. But I completley understand it's your opinion and I respect that. Even if I think it's wrong I still can be friends with gay people and stuff. I just can't be gay myself. So I'm not saying your bad because your gay just saying that even if I'm agianst it I am still up for being friends with any gay/lesbian person. :) Thank you for reading this....
(If you did LOL)

Sincerley: Lodess.....


Er, what makes you think gay people want to be friends with you?

:rolleyes:
American inJustice
11-10-2005, 02:43
Gay people are nice! Then again, when you take out the gayness of it, wether or not you like whatever it is you like, everyone is the same. SO its just a little thing. not in todays society though. Oh well... I forgot what I was going to say...
Swabians
11-10-2005, 03:01
How can you tell if a girl is lesbian or not? I asked out this one girl and she said no(basically) and I found out later that she was lesbian after half the school laughed at me.
Oh and on porno, sort of sick but then again sort of not.
Lavender Mist
11-10-2005, 03:18
I gotta say... ;) even though this looks like a guys conversation here :rolleyes:
I'm not exactly all for porn either. Gay guys are actually quite easy to hang with and I have no problem with lesbians... however! If anyone hits on me or makes any kinds of suggestions... that's a BIG no no.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 03:19
I gotta say... ;) even though this looks like a guys conversation here :rolleyes:
Psssst! I hate to ruin it for ya, but there're more posts by women here than ya might think...;)
Longhorn country
11-10-2005, 03:27
i dont care if gays are nice are not. i dont have problems with SOME, but they remind me of the rapters in Jurassic park.
high voices, walk funny, have a tendency to do that thing with thier hands, its hard to explain, i just did alot of backspacing trying.
either way, you can call me a bigot, i dont care, but i dont support.
Angry Fruit Salad
11-10-2005, 05:07
Dude, you really have to watch the divers and swimmers next time the Olympics are around... :eek:

Seen it. Still not interesting.
Dundealgan
11-10-2005, 05:41
Ah, the good ol' days. I remember being ashamed of looking at and reading porn. I recall feeling guilty.

I don't miss 'em a bit. :cool:

How do you know if it's fun if you aren't ashamed of yourself? :confused:

;)

Okay, this whole thing makes me sick to my stomach, you know being gay and all. I'm not here to cridicize but to say: I am a christian, and you all most likely know that I'm NOT for gay. But I completley understand it's your opinion and I respect that. Even if I think it's wrong I still can be friends with gay people and stuff. I just can't be gay myself. So I'm not saying your bad because your gay just saying that even if I'm agianst it I am still up for being friends with any gay/lesbian person. :) Thank you for reading this....
(If you did LOL)

Sincerley: Lodess.....

Damn. I appear to have missed the post where the United Emirates of Carsonography requested a mass conversion of the Lodess population.

Thank you so much, Lodess, for clarifying that you are "NOT for gay." Whatever that might be intended to mean.

i dont care if gays are nice are not. i dont have problems with SOME, but they remind me of the rapters in Jurassic park.
high voices, walk funny, have a tendency to do that thing with thier hands, its hard to explain, i just did alot of backspacing trying.
either way, you can call me a bigot, i dont care, but i dont support.

This ... is the funniest person I have seen in a very long time. I can't get past the "rapters" without tears of laughter.

Shanglan, Majestic Steed of Dundealgan
Filamai
11-10-2005, 08:10
'Sall good. It's just another genre.

Enjoying or not enjoying pornography is much along the lines of enjoying or not enjoying action movies.
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 18:36
This ... is the funniest person I have seen in a very long time. I can't get past the "rapters" without tears of laughter.

Shanglan, Majestic Steed of Dundealgan
. :D .
The Mindset
11-10-2005, 18:44
i dont care if gays are nice are not. i dont have problems with SOME, but they remind me of the rapters in Jurassic park.
high voices, walk funny, have a tendency to do that thing with thier hands, its hard to explain, i just did alot of backspacing trying.
either way, you can call me a bigot, i dont care, but i dont support.
This makes me lol so hard. Sucks that most guys I've dated aren't anything like that. Camp isn't attractive, matey, as you've apparently picked up on. Go, go gadget dinogay!
The Goslings
11-10-2005, 19:58
Go, go gadget dinogay!
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