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Married, single, divorced, other?

I'm single...and hating every second of it. :(

Ooooh, join the club, although tis more a confidence crisis atm, we should start a club :(

what a coincedence, im single too

Single.

I hate it.

Anyone know if Aerou is single?

Anyone know if Aerou is single?

Who?

I'm single, and I neither love nor hate it. I have no interest in pursuing relationships, they aren't for me. I'm not a people person.

Married, single, divorced, other?

I guess I'm an "other."

Long term relationship, currently monogamous (though we've been "open" in the past), dreading the shadow of a possible proposal that is falling over our otherwise-kickass situation.

Who?

The most pulchritudinous woman on this planet.

married and loving every second of it :D

I'm single, and I neither love nor hate it. I have no interest in pursuing relationships, they aren't for me. I'm not a people person.

Eww I can hook you up with some rejection issues types that will follow you around like a puppy. :p

Who?

If you had been in the babe thread recently, you'd know who he was talking about! :p

I'm currently single, and hating it as well.

My (now ex) girlfriend broke my heart a couple of months ago completely out of the blue, and I haven't really recovered yet. That might have had something to do with us trying to be friends, but I've just finally realised that you can't be friends with your ex (Yeah, I know, I'm slow!), and so I told her that I can't speak to her anymore, at all. Things were getting awkward anyway.

I really loved her. More than anything in the world. But she changed, and I just now realised I didn't miss her anymore ... I missed the girl that I had first fallen in love with.

So I told her this, and I also told her that I don't care who she next falls in love with, or who she ends up marrying, and that I don't care how much they tell her that they love her ... No one will ever love her as much as I do.

So I told her this, and I also told her that I don't care who she next falls in love with, or who she ends up marrying, and that I don't care how much they tell her that they love her ... No one will ever love her as much as I do.
now that is romance. I wish more people knew how to do it right.
believe me whatever she chooses she will always remember that. :)

I'm in a really weird sort of relationship with a girl I'm good friends with. We're both very fond of each other, but have no idea if we could work as a couple. So we're just in a sort of limbo of friends/more than friends.

RL: single and not too happy about it
online: e-married and lovin' it :D ;)

(i win the wierdness) :p

Single, and quite enjoying the lack of commitment, but quite dissatisfied with the lack of smooching. I know that is terrible thing to say but that is how it has been lately.

we should start a NS singles club...

Other- never had a girl friend yet at age 17 lol.

I'm thinking of getting a girl friend in college.

Other- never had a girl friend yet at age 17 lol.
ditto, aged 20... bah

I'm thinking of getting a girl friend in college.
pick me up one while you're there, ok?

38, single, would love a commitment, but have given up hope of ever having one.

ditto, aged 20... bah


pick me up one while you're there, ok?


Nice! I thought I was the only one. I gotta a long time until college, about 2 yrs. , but I'll get you a hot one.

Nice! I thought I was the only one. I gotta a long time until college, about 2 yrs. , but I'll get you a hot one.
cheers buddy, get us some smokes while you're there too, i don't mind the wait :P

and btw, you're by no means the only one... not on this forum anyway. a recent poll on sex revealed many, many of us crawling out of the woodwork...

Married, single, divorced, other?

I'm single...and hating every second of it. :(
You forgot "separated," not to mention the obligatory "Myrth!" :p

I'm in 7th grade, dating a girl. (So I'm not engaged or married) Dating my best friend's (Gordon, see my posts in your heroes thread, couldn't get exact thread name) older sister.

OOC: Description of relationship:
She's the greatest person I have ever gone out with. We give eachother notes in the halls, cause she's in 8th grade, before we ever leave eachother to go to our classes we give eachother a hug. We call eachother everyday. It's going great for the both of us, and I hope it lasts 'til the end of the year. Today (September 30) was supposed to be our school dance, and I wanted to go with her, but she had to go on a family holiday **coughs**camping**coughs**. So I got nuttin to do tonight. Anyhoo, I hope our relationship doesn't end 'til the end of the school year cause she's gotta go to High School and I gotta go to 8th grade. But I wander if she'd keep the relationship, even in HS.

Married, and my wife and I are swingers.

very Happily Married for 4 yrs now....and still Loving it......It gets better Day by Day.....

Married, single, divorced, other?

I'm single...and hating every second of it. :(

Um, "other."

I have girlfriend, but she's in France which may as well be a million miles away since I am stuck in Liverpool :(

Other- never had a girl friend yet at age 17 lol.


Meh, don't worry about it.

very Happily Married for 4 yrs now....and still Loving it......It gets better Day by Day.....
Good job!
I only wish that it was possible to marry my girlfriend at this age. Wait! that's possible right? Though that would be stupid if I asked her that at this age.
Oh well, all I know is that it would be a great marriage.
OOC: I know, not think, because I'm already doin' something with my life. I'm writing books!

In a very close relationship with an awsome girl. She might live two states away, but we're still unbelivebly close.

+1 For me!

Good job!
I only wish that it was possible to marry my girlfriend at this age. Wait! that's possible right? Though that would be stupid if I asked her that at this age.
Oh well, all I know is that it would be a great marriage.
OOC: I know, not think, because I'm already doin' something with my life. I'm writing books!
Congratulation on Your 100th post

Single, but only mildly disliking it. I can get by quite well without a girlfriend (I have my entire life, after all).

Congratulation on Your 100th post
Thanks!

single and enjoying it..iam not much of a people person

Anyone know if Aerou is single?

Yes, she is, but you have a lot of competition (including me :D .)

Single and working on the capacity to be in a relationship. The thing is, people enter into relationships for the wrong reasons. People get this idea that there is something missing from their life and seek out someone else to fill the void. Strangely enough, the person they hook up with is looking for the same thing. As a result, you wind up with two people that have less than they started with.

Really though, the only way to be in a successful relationship is to already have a full life and want to share the bounty of your life with someone else.

I'm in a close relationship. I'm not thinking of ending it at the moment, but there have been times where I have.

Geez single life is soooooooo much fun. :rolleyes:

Geez single life is soooooooo much fun. :rolleyes:"Gee, it's great being single and young." - Local H

I'm single and I have conflicted feelings about it. I love being able to fantasize about every good-looking guy and not feeling guilty afterwards. On the other hand, I miss being in a serious relationship and close to someone I love.

Gee, it's great being single and young." - Local H

Umm a question, did my sarcasm take a detour?? I think it was lost on you. :D

chose "other" 'cause i'm single but neither hating nor loving it. it's more like..sometimes i'd like to, but thne other times i see couples around (i live with one) and i think no, i defibitely don't want that..so meh.

off-topic: PM, what's this? ->"crawling out of the woodwork..." i guess it qualifies for the weird english phrases thread once i open it..:)

Umm a question, did my sarcasm take a detour?? I think it was lost on you. :D
I don't think so. The line I quoted was sarcastic in its nature. So the only way it wouldn't make sense is if you were making fun of people who are complaining about being single.

I'm the stereotypical nerd: Pathetically single for 19 years and counting.

EDIT: Though recently in a party a miracle happened: An attractive girl who was at least relatively sober came and asked me to go dancing. Well, she didn't so much ask as grind herself against me, but dancing was implied. It could have been a possible end to my aforementioned status, but I valiantly defended my singlehood with the immortal line, "dancing isn't my thing".

I loathe myself...

I'm the stereotypical nerd: Pathetically single for 19 years and counting.
Hang in there, I'm a card carrying geek but I managed to find me a wonderful woman who even agreed to marry me.

As for me, engaged with the wedding to be in August 2006. The problem being (and the irony of our situation) is that she is Japanese and currently living in America, whereas I'm American and am currently living in Japan. Long distance relationships SUCK!

Single and in the recovery phase of a break up. (Single and not minding it)

I don't think so. The line I quoted was sarcastic in its nature. So the only way it wouldn't make sense is if you were making fun of people who are complaining about being single.

Well I wasn't making fun of anyone, I was owning up to my sad social life but trying to soften the announcement by hiding behind this :rolleyes:

That smiley has to be one of my faves. :cool:

now that is romance. I wish more people knew how to do it right.
believe me whatever she chooses she will always remember that. :)

Yeah, I know she will.

I hope that one day we can be together again ... But I won't hold my breath over it! If it's meant to happen, then it will. But if it's not, then I'll move on and find someone else who does want to be with me.

And if we aren't one day together again, I hope I don't lose her completely from my life. During the time we were together she became one of my best friends, as well as being my girlfriend. But if I didn't have a break from seeing her, or talking to her, then we could have ended up as enemies, which would have been a tragedy.

I'll call her sometime next year, when I feel I can be her friend, and we'll see if it can work that way, but I'll only do that when I'm confident I can handle it ... No matter how much I want to call her before then! :p

I'm in a really weird sort of relationship with a girl I'm good friends with. We're both very fond of each other, but have no idea if we could work as a couple. So we're just in a sort of limbo of friends/more than friends.
I'm in exactly the same position...and it's terrible. She split up with her ex a few months ago, and she's not ready for a new relationship yet. And we're both worried that if we do start a relationship at any point it might screw up what we have as friends :(

I'm single, and I neither love nor hate it. I have no interest in pursuing relationships, they aren't for me. I'm not a people person.
I am like this too, i am for the most part a loner, i can only take other people in small doses.

Married to the same lovely lady for 37 years.

Ooooh, join the club, although tis more a confidence crisis atm, we should start a club :(

Oooh, is this the single, angry and bitter club? Sign me up! :D

I'm sort of in a relationship and sort of not. It's a bit of a weird situation. I'm in love with a guy, but he's going to Uni over in the States at the moment, so we don't get to see each other. I told him that the whole 'long-distance relationship' thing was probably not the most fabulous idea and that he shouldn't feel any obligation to me, but he was and is insistent (for the past few years, in fact) that he's found what he wants and is going to feel obligated to me no matter what I say. Which is fine by me, since I AM in love with him, but it was unexpected.

But we both agreed that we can screw whoever we want while we're apart as long as we're safe, and it all seems to be working for now. It's a pretty odd situation, but it does seem to be working for both of us.

Married, single, divorced, other?

I'm single...and hating every second of it. :(
So every moment of life is agony?

The most pulchritudinous woman on this planet.
That's a lofty statement. Got pics to prove your point?

RL: single and not too happy about it
online: e-married and lovin' it :D ;)

(i win the wierdness) :p
Yes, that is rather weird.

I'm in exactly the same position...and it's terrible. She split up with her ex a few months ago, and she's not ready for a new relationship yet. And we're both worried that if we do start a relationship at any point it might screw up what we have as friends :(

Ah, that's sad.

We're not quite like that though, whatever we decide, we're still going to be friends. The problem is that I'm nonsexual and she's never been laid. So yeah, I think we're kind of holding out for when she loses her virginity or something, but either way, I'm not that arsed, because what we have is still good.

So many hating singles in the first page!

I'm 16, so I have no reason to hate being single - it's not exactly uncommon. I have no interest in relationships. Strange I know, but that's me.

Picked single and hating it, but truth be told, i'm more ambivalent towards it rather than caring one way or the other.

I'm the stereotypical nerd: Pathetically single for 19 years and counting.

EDIT: Though recently in a party a miracle happened: An attractive girl who was at least relatively sober came and asked me to go dancing. Well, she didn't so much ask as grind herself against me, but dancing was implied. It could have been a possible end to my aforementioned status, but I valiantly defended my singlehood with the immortal line, "dancing isn't my thing".

I loathe myself... You are the God of Geeks! Geeks, bow down to his single-minded devotion to not getting near a female! :D ;)

I've been married for nearly thirty years. I count winning and keeping her love and trust as one of my greatest accomplishments.

Like all good Muslims, I have many wives.

No, not really. Anyway, yes, I'm married. To one woman.

You are the God of Geeks! Geeks, bow down to his single-minded devotion to not getting near a female! :D ;)
Praise the valiant warlord!

have just gone to uni

no relationships here

some kinda in existance at home

You left out "single - Dealing with it!"

In a loving relationship, though it's recently become a bit long distance, as I go to college now and she's a year younger than me, and 70 miles away :(

We've been together for a little over nine months now, and I yearn for her company so much. I wish she was the same age as me and we went to the same college.

I'm single and ambivalent. Knowing the pain that relationships cause and how they make life more difficult, I'm satisfied when I read about the many unsuccessful ones that I have never encountered something like this. At the same time, it's kind of sad that I have no-one at all to talk to. Even my psychologists are all driven to suicide.

I don't hate myself for being single, I just am not all too interested in relationships. I don't even find myself attracted to any members of the opposite sex (or the same sex for that matter), although I suspect that I'm heterosexual.

Single and wishing I could pull. I live in a damned paradox - when sober I can't work up the nerve, when drunk I am the least appealing blob of male fecal matter known to womankind. Bah.

Never fear, though - personality is the only real way I can 'pull' so give me some time at uneh to get to know girls and maybe...just maybe... :p

Single, and quite enjoying the lack of commitment, but quite dissatisfied with the lack of smooching. I know that is terrible thing to say but that is how it has been lately.

Same here!

voted other. I'm single, not sure if I love or hate it. I just am. :(

Single, and quite enjoying the lack of commitment, but quite dissatisfied with the lack of smooching. I know that is terrible thing to say but that is how it has been lately.my sentiments exactly.

I'm single and I have conflicted feelings about it. I love being able to fantasize about every good-looking guy and not feeling guilty afterwards. On the other hand, I miss being in a serious relationship and close to someone I love.

This is a very good way of phrasing that. I am the same way, but replace guy with girl. :p

Eww I can hook you up with some rejection issues types that will follow you around like a puppy. :p

I can hook you up with some vicious rottweilers that won't follow you around like a puppy. ;)

I'm single and ambivalent. Knowing the pain that relationships cause and how they make life more difficult, I'm satisfied when I read about the many unsuccessful ones that I have never encountered something like this. At the same time, it's kind of sad that I have no-one at all to talk to. Even my psychologists are all driven to suicide.

I don't hate myself for being single, I just am not all too interested in relationships. I don't even find myself attracted to any members of the opposite sex (or the same sex for that matter), although I suspect that I'm heterosexual.
heh yeah, except here, rather than read about unsuccesful relationships, i get to see my friends fall blindly into them. i mean i've had two friends who've had even vaguely long-term girlfriends, and both of the relationships have turned out horrifically - and i lived with one of the couples for a year too (that was scary i can tell ya)

though i do wish i could at least sample what its like :(
to have someone who knows & understands me, who cares about me, who i'm comfortable just being with... i get kinda freaked out even around friends nowadays, so this is becoming less and less likely

see my problem is i'm attracted to girls, but i have no idea how to express it. i have no 'passion' - or at least not on the outside. then there's the whole nervousness thing, and i can't dance to save my life... so i've now pretty much given up all together :(
edit: what makes it worse is the feeling that no woman could ever be interested in me, and not being able to recognise any signals when they are... i sat next to, hung out with and was good friends with a girl who fancied me (it has now become apparent) for 4 years at school, and i didn't pick up so much as a hint of interest :headbang:

I'm posting on an internet forum at 1 am on a Saturday night.

Take a wild guess.

I'm posting on an internet forum at 1 am on a Saturday night.

Take a wild guess.
you're dating a geek? ;)

I'm posting on an internet forum at 1 am on a Saturday night.

Take a wild guess.you don't work on Sundays?

Well, that's the last time I try to be humourous.

(Ironically, I do have to work Sunday.)

Well, that's the last time I try to be humourous.

(Ironically, I do have to work Sunday.)and so do I.

On saturdays also.

Friday Nights are free... really free.... no dates, no parties... :(

and so do I.

On saturdays also.

Friday Nights are free... really free.... no dates, no parties... :(

Given that the poll is looking like showing the comfortable majority as being single, and of them a majority disliking that status, would it be fair to assume that this is to an extent accountable for the popularity of the 'Paradise Club' and its various incarnations? It's an idea I've never really been able to get into. But it perhaps makes a little more sense in the context of these poll results.

heh yeah, except here, rather than read about unsuccesful relationships, i get to see my friends fall blindly into them. i mean i've had two friends who've had even vaguely long-term girlfriends, and both of the relationships have turned out horrifically - and i lived with one of the couples for a year too (that was scary i can tell ya)

though i do wish i could at least sample what its like :(
to have someone who knows & understands me, who cares about me, who i'm comfortable just being with... i get kinda freaked out even around friends nowadays, so this is becoming less and less likely

see my problem is i'm attracted to girls, but i have no idea how to express it. i have no 'passion' - or at least not on the outside. then there's the whole nervousness thing, and i can't dance to save my life... so i've now pretty much given up all together :(
edit: what makes it worse is the feeling that no woman could ever be interested in me, and not being able to recognise any signals when they are... i sat next to, hung out with and was good friends with a girl who fancied me (it has now become apparent) for 4 years at school, and i didn't pick up so much as a hint of interest :headbang:
Patience, Grasshopper. All will become clear as you age. :)

Patience, Grasshopper. All will become clear as you age. :)
damnit, what is with you and giving me advice tonight? :p ;)
you should start one of those 'Ask...' agony aunt threads :D
(wait, didn't you do that already, ages ago?)

but i mean, seriously, how am i (and my nerdy friends here) ever going to get experience (which i assume you mean by 'as you age') in these matters if i don't get any.... experience? :confused:

damnit, what is with you and giving me advice tonight? :p ;)
you should start one of those 'Ask...' agony aunt threads :D
(wait, didn't you do that already, ages ago?)

but i mean, seriously, how am i (and my nerdy friends here) ever going to get experience (which i assume you mean by 'as you age') in these matters if i don't get any.... experience? :confused:*prepares to take notes*

got a bf; been together almost 5 yrs now. :fluffle: we've been talking about marriage & baby names; only time will tell

I'm single...and hating every second of it. :(


My status is as the above quote says...

Single and enjoying it, though not averse to a change.

The personal benefits of being an asshole are far too great to give them up for some chick.

The personal benefits of being an asshole are far too great to give them up for some chick.

You highlighted why I like being single...No compromises!

You highlighted why I like being single...No compromises!

One of the many reasons why I never become involved in relationships.

Her: But honey, I made dinner reservations. You can't sit on your ass in front of the computer tonight!

Me: Yes I can, wench. Get out of my house.

wow, so like my friend and i are gonna start going out, but we haven't officially started going out, but everyone thinks we are. i guess its just unoffical cuz we haven't been on a date yet currently me ->:headbang: hopefully me b4 halloween -> :fluffle: lol you'll -> :eek:

Relationships are stupid. All they bring are pain and suffering, along with self-pity.

Besides, you have to trust everyone. How can you trust someone when everyone lies? Trust is death.

Relationships are stupid. All they bring are pain and suffering, along with self-pity.

Besides, you have to trust everyone. How can you trust someone when everyone lies? Trust is death.
Emo

Emo

Undelia is a retard.

I'm on the verge of asking out my ex-girlfriend again, I know for a fact that she likes me from her body language but I'm playing it cool for the moment until I decide what I want to do. We're still very good friends and I'm not sure if I'm willing to risk losing her for good if we split up again.

I'm sort of in a relationship and sort of not. It's a bit of a weird situation. I'm in love with a guy, but he's going to Uni over in the States at the moment, so we don't get to see each other. I told him that the whole 'long-distance relationship' thing was probably not the most fabulous idea and that he shouldn't feel any obligation to me, but he was and is insistent (for the past few years, in fact) that he's found what he wants and is going to feel obligated to me no matter what I say. Which is fine by me, since I AM in love with him, but it was unexpected.

But we both agreed that we can screw whoever we want while we're apart as long as we're safe, and it all seems to be working for now. It's a pretty odd situation, but it does seem to be working for both of us.
I don't know how it feels but I'm sure I am going to experience this. I'm in 7th grade and my girlfriend's in 8th grade, but soon to high school and me in 8th grade. If we hold out long enough we might break up, but I NEVER want to, so if we still date, when she's in high school and Im stuck in middle school, it will be a LD relationship, and I don't want that. Luckily, her brother is my best(est) friend and I can find out what's going on, on top of that, call her all the time. This is the girl I truly love and I don't want our relationship to end, I want to marry her and grow old with her. So, I might be going through the same situation too. But I just want to think about the present and not the future.

Why did you agree to screw other people, when you have a BF? That seems like having affairs even though your BF allows it? :confused:

I don't know how it feels but I'm sure I am going to experience this. I'm in 7th grade and my girlfriend's in 8th grade, but soon to high school and me in 8th grade. If we hold out long enough we might break up, but I NEVER want to, so if we still date, when she's in high school and Im stuck in middle school, it will be a LD relationship, and I don't want that. Luckily, her brother is my best(est) friend and I can find out what's going on, on top of that, call her all the time. This is the girl I truly love and I don't want our relationship to end, I want to marry her and grow old with her. So, I might be going through the same situation too. But I just want to think about the present and not the future.

Why did you agree to screw other people, when you have a BF? That seems like having affairs even though your BF allows it? :confused:

That's just what we agreed on. Both of us being male, we decided it was a pretty stupid (and completely unworkable) idea to stay sexually monogamous while we have the Pacific Ocean separating us. Celibacy appealed to neither of us, so we agreed that we could have sex with other people while we're not together. It's no big deal really.

Quick point everyone.

I'm a 16(ish) emo kid, I need relationship start help :(

That's a complicated question. Very complicated in my case... in love, yes. In a relationship, yes. For a little over two years, and we've actually seen each other for 48 hours so far...

Quick point everyone.

I'm a 16(ish) emo kid, I need relationship start help :(
No, what you need is a swift kick in the nuts.

Undelia is a retard.
Nope. Just honest.

Nope. Just honest.

No, I contend that you're a retard. I've based my analysis on the extensive information I have about you as a human being.

Relationships are stupid. All they bring are pain and suffering, along with self-pity.

Besides, you have to trust everyone. How can you trust someone when everyone lies? Trust is death.

Being completely alone is so much better.

Long term monogamous relationship for me :D

Undelia is a retard. No, Undelia rox0rz.

Yeah, I agree with Sdaeriji. 'Tis better to be unified - ie alone. Uni = one. :)

see my problem is i'm attracted to girls, but i have no idea how to express it. i have no 'passion' - or at least not on the outside. then there's the whole nervousness thing, and i can't dance to save my life... so i've now pretty much given up all together :(
edit: what makes it worse is the feeling that no woman could ever be interested in me, and not being able to recognise any signals when they are... i sat next to, hung out with and was good friends with a girl who fancied me (it has now become apparent) for 4 years at school, and i didn't pick up so much as a hint of interest :headbang: This is called being male.
It's not worth it.

Relationships are stupid. All they bring are pain and suffering, along with self-pity.

Besides, you have to trust everyone. How can you trust someone when everyone lies? Trust is death.
Yes, that's how I feel too.

Hamlet: What news, friends?
Guildenstern: None, my lord, but that the world's grown honest.
Hamlet: Then is doomsday near. But happily your news is not true.
~Hamlet, Act II, scene ii, l. 348-50

Yeah, I agree with Sdaeriji. 'Tis better to be unified - ie alone. Uni = one. :)

I was attempting to show how ludicrous Arribastan's statement was that all relationships are stupid.

Yes, that's how I feel too.

Hamlet: What news, friends?
Guildenstern: None, my lord, but that the world's grown honest.
Hamlet: Then is doomsday near. But happily your news is not true.
~Hamlet, Act II, scene ii, l. 348-50 Hmm… I predict that the birth of the "NS singles society" is imminent…

The only person you can really trust to be honest in a relationship is yourself. Therefore look to thyself.
Now look what's happening. I sound like a Satanist.

I was attempting to show how ludicrous Arribastan's statement was that all relationships are stupid. Oh. Um… well I agree that it's better to be alone. I agree with the respone given that it's not sarcastic, but it is. *large selection of confused smileys*

heh yeah, except here, rather than read about unsuccesful relationships, i get to see my friends fall blindly into them. i mean i've had two friends who've had even vaguely long-term girlfriends, and both of the relationships have turned out horrifically - and i lived with one of the couples for a year too (that was scary i can tell ya)

though i do wish i could at least sample what its like :(
to have someone who knows & understands me, who cares about me, who i'm comfortable just being with... i get kinda freaked out even around friends nowadays, so this is becoming less and less likely

see my problem is i'm attracted to girls, but i have no idea how to express it. i have no 'passion' - or at least not on the outside. then there's the whole nervousness thing, and i can't dance to save my life... so i've now pretty much given up all together :(
edit: what makes it worse is the feeling that no woman could ever be interested in me, and not being able to recognise any signals when they are... i sat next to, hung out with and was good friends with a girl who fancied me (it has now become apparent) for 4 years at school, and i didn't pick up so much as a hint of interest :headbang:
I just don't feel attracted to them at all. I don't think I've ever felt attracted to anybody -- male or female. Physically, anyway.

No, Undelia rox0rz.

Yeah, I agree with Sdaeriji. 'Tis better to be unified - ie alone. Uni = one. :)

Undelia is a retard, and I have the facts to back it up.

P.S. Uni = one, fied = made, unify = to make one. You're already one, unless you suffer from a split personality.

Undelia is a retard, and I have the facts to back it up.

P.S. Uni = one, fied = made, unify = to make one. You're already one, unless you suffer from a split personality.

You're able to determine mental retardation over the internet?

Undelia is a retard, and I have the facts to back it up.

P.S. Uni = one, fied = made, unify = to make one. You're already one, unless you suffer from a split personality. The only thing I can think of that I really have against Undelia is that he (he?) dislikes the Catholic church - but I shouldn't hold a plague against him. :p

Fine, I'm just uni.

I was attempting to show how ludicrous Arribastan's statement was that all relationships are stupid.
It's not ludicrous. Relationships are a sign of weakness.

You're able to determine mental retardation over the internet?
From their post quality...

It's not ludicrous. Relationships are a sign of weakness. I have to disagree. They're a sign of the fact that people are different. You hardly have the soul of a human, so you wouldn't understand.

You're able to determine mental retardation over the internet?

Of course, just as Undelia has the ability to determine whether someone is emo over the internet based off of a single post.

Single, enjoying the independence, but still lonely betimes. I haven't met anyone I feel I could be happy with in the long run, and even if I did I would probably lack the courage to approach them.

I have to disagree. They're a sign of the fact that people are different. You hardly have the soul of a human, so you wouldn't understand.
Obviously. :rolleyes:

I'm in a relationship with a guy who I've seen pretty much every day of my life for the past two years. Of course, it was only until I was completely content with being single that he and I got together. Go figure, no?

Obviously. :rolleyes: They're odd creatures. You won't understand them in a thousand years.

Why are relationships a sign of weakness? I feel no need for them, but I don't think they're a sign of weakness.

They're odd creatures. You won't understand them in a thousand years.A thousand years? You mean about one KV Nanosecond? I've lived >16 KV Years and I still don't understand them! :rolleyes:

Why are relationships a sign of weakness? I feel no need for them, but I don't think they're a sign of weakness.
They're a sign that you trust somebody, and trusting a member of another sentient species is usually not the best idea. I know, from experience.

Used to hate being single... until now. I have a great b/f :)

Married. We never saw it as a necessary step (it's quite common especially in Scandinavian countries for people to have very long-term/permenant relationships without feeling the need to get married), then one day a couple of years ago, we suddenly thought -hmm, it's a good excuse for getting all our friends/family together at once and having a big party!

But, it's nice to be married as well... although I don't think it's made any real difference to our relationship (well, i guess my wife's surname... ).

Single and ambivalent. I don't really have time for a relationship anyway.

Single, but hopefully not for long... :D

Single, and quite enjoying the lack of commitment, but quite dissatisfied with the lack of smooching. I know that is terrible thing to say but that is how it has been lately.

Although commitment is not a bad thing. It has just been so long since I haven't had it is kind of not to for a while. I probably wouldn't avoid it though if the situation presented itself (and I liked her).

I'm engaged to be engaged, as we say. Nerdy, yes, but so what?! :)

i just gave up on relationships

This is called being male.
It's not worth it.
Did you just suggest suicide?

I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking it sucks.

We pretty much broke up on saturday, but I caved when he asked to try to fix things on sunday.

I think it might be nice to be single again and just fool around with random guys.

Single. The closest I have came to romance lately was arranging the boinking of two very nice wiener dogs in the hopes of puppies. Yes, My love life has literal went to the dogs. :p

Relationship Status: LDR - International
Relationship Type: Switch - M/M - Political discussion
Relationshop Length: 3 months
Orientation: Bi
Sexual Status: Open to clean and reasonably carefull encounters (details will be disclosed). Have had some.

Biggest issue: I've been with *counts* 3 males and had advances from 6... And nothing from a female. WTF?! Does a man's man actually EXIST?! Am I it?!

Single and never had a boyfriend :( ...i would love to have one but i am kinda shy around guys except my friends who i would never date...on the other hand i have seen some of my friends relationships and part of me realizes maybe its not that bad not having one...idk

well, im kinda in a few relationships and im trying to choose which one i want to be with. theres just so many things i like about each of them. its really hard to choose.

Myself, I have a few people who Are as close as girlfreinds, 3 actualy, but I would have to kill you if I told you there names.....

But I fell washed out and twerpy near girls, like every joke I make is bad, or mean to something. And my hands get numb, and I get clumsy

(Is twerpy a word??)

I'm engaged, just waiting til I turn the big one eight before I get married.

I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking it sucks.

We pretty much broke up on saturday, but I caved when he asked to try to fix things on sunday.

I think it might be nice to be single again and just fool around with random guys.

I'm always here for you. ;)

Single and ambivalent. I don't really have time for a relationship anyway.

...sums me up quite nicely.

Single.

I hate it.

ditto, it sucks.

Single, and I don't find it fun. :(
I love interaction, and have yet to experience it on a deep level.

I nearly ended up in a relationship once. Typically I bungled it.

I'm 20, by the way.

I've been in a great relationship for two-and-a-half years, and we live together most of the time nowadays. Neither of us want children, but we have discussed getting married at some point; we'll spend a good while living together and see how it goes. I'm 22 and he's 32.

I'm 16. Been going out with my gf for a tad under 6 months now. Not sure whether it's "close" or "casual" considering the age. Hmm, I guess for 16 it's pretty close. There we go. Close relationship.

other: im at uni and my girlfreinds at home, 300 miles away. still very close though.

I love interaction, and have yet to experience it on a deep level.



heh heh heh...

I'm 20 and don't have a girlfriend it kinda sucks.