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Right starting off.

My Work mate who we will call Chadwick(Not his real name) met a Girl over the Interweb thingy about 2 maybe 3 Months ago.
Now things started off fine but he said she was a bit different i.e. alternative.

Well so she has ambitions to become a Famous Singer and so saved up some money to go to Sydney, Australia to further her 'career'.
Well as soon as she was over there she realised she had forgotten her cellphone charger was still in New Zealand and instead of trying to get it sorted out at a Vodafone shop in Australia she wanted to return to NZ after not even trying to succeed.

On here return the little maddam(or should i say madman) decided she would become a Stripper up in Auckland and while she was away from 'Chadwick' he would be looking after her Horse which is fine especially at this stage becuase she hadnt gone complelty Nuts yet.

Well it took her about a month to get ready to go up there and then what do you know the nut didnt even go instead she stuck about bludging off 'Chadwick' until she finally got a job at a local pub.

Well she got pregnant and 'Chadwick' would have been half happy to keep this baby but she didnt really want it and so she got an Abortion and of course the law here is harm to the mother or mental stress well she was already mental so that was a give in and after swearing at the nurse threatening her she got it done.

Well after this she would always come over to work and take him away from his job and he would go off to talk to her then she would call him on his cell and finally on the work phone.
Now our Bosses are pretty cool but this nut was really stuffing things up.

In here little fits she wouldd push and kick poor 'Chadwick' and yell at him and he being the gentleman he is he would do nothing back and this would go on for ages.

Then she smacked him around the head and ruptured his ear drum-basically he was deaf in that ear for 4 weeks.
But did he leave her????NO

No matter what we would say to him he wouldnt leave her.
Of course they moved into a new flat together after 3 weeks because he felt sorry for her about to be kicked out of her old place.

Well she got pregnant again and decided she wanted to keep this one.
-We reckon it was to try and get 'Chadwick' to stay with her but we finally convinced him otherwise especialy after she demanded he go to their place or she would start smashing his computer well true to her word she started smashing his keyboard-seriously she smashed it in half and so he took the rest of the day off taking all his stuff to storage except for his big TV -he took the small one.-Dont ask me why he didnt take both his answer was ive got the small one.-Yeah Penis you fool.

Well he moved back to his old place with his Brother and has been constantly getting cellphone calls.

These Cellphone calls started happening once a day but have slowly trickled off to one per week but eventually he will have to talk to her with the apparent baby on the way.

Oh yes 'Chadwick' got a new Girlfriend and she 'stayed over' but 'chadwick's' ex decided to comeover and trash his motorbike and yelled at him to get downstairs.
She smashed a mirror outside his place and kicked and ripped off his Licence plate and threw it on his flats roof.

Anyways his new Girlfriend is nice....

So has anyone had an experience like this or known anyone to have one like this?

Heh. That's the kinda women we breed in NZ. Brilliant, we're so lucky.. Sorry for your mate though

Personally i would never have gotten involved with her and ditched her as soon as she started hitting me in a violent manner.
Oh yeah it turns out shes on Medication(By that i mean she should be but isnt....)

Also her Father is a Mind reader and predicted 'Chadwick' only had 1 year to live.
They were also nice enough to put a curse on him.

Heh. That's the kinda women we breed in NZ. Brilliant, we're so lucky.. Sorry for your mate though
Yeah i blame the drugs...

Sounds just like one really fucked up person. My uncles ex-wife called my granddad a "nasty little ****". She was kind of really messed up too.

I had a psycho girlfriend. Oddly enough, I didn't even know until I had dealt with her psycho brother. He threatened to beat me up, and even kill me if I didn't break up with her. The problem was that I liked her. SHe was funny and very sexual. So I came to an arrangement with her brother. We'd fight. I arranged a place at a local gym and a few of my friends and his friends were there. Rules were agreed upon. Then he broke them. Not seriously. There weren't many. I'm an 'anything goes' kind of guy myself. But he outweighed me by about forty pounds and he got the upperhand and kept it. He beat me. But he kept beating on me. Hurt me pretty badly. But it seemed that the more he hurt me, the more he wanted to. When I waws pretty much defenseless, he then grabbed my testicles with both hands and said in the most horrifyingly calm voice I ever heard, "You're never gonna be with a girl again." He then proceeded to crush them in his hands. Well, details were kind of spotty for me(I already had a concussion, and the agony I was suddenly in caused me to sort of grey-out, but my friends rushed in and pulled him off me. Took me to the hospital.

I ended up with two broken ribs, two dislocated arms, a cracked jaw a deflated lung and two badly bruised testicles. Oh, and a concussion.

On the advice of my friends, I told my story to the local police, and they arrested him. I was reluctant to press charges, as I did agree to the fight(as awry as it went). But when I found out that my girlfriend, his sister, went nuts and threw my television out my fourth floor dorm window and threw a cinderblock through my car's windshield, I decided that this was a family I wanted no part of anymore.

Took about three months and a long conversation between me, the police and their mother to finally stop the threatening phonecalls, drive-bys of my dorm and general stalking.

Never date anyone with a relative that's crazier than you are. :p

Well, I haven't had anyone quite that psycho in my life, thank God.

However, a few years ago, I dated a woman who was working on a PhD in philosophy. Radical feminist philosophy, at that. All I can say is: Kids, don't try this at home! :D

It was very instructive in a number of ways. For one thing, I turned out to be a better philosopher than her, even though I'd never even taken Philosophy 101 - I was able to live consistently with my personal philosophy (which she described as "Kantian", and from what I know of Immanuel Kant, I'll accept that as accurate enough), while she was horribly inconsistent with her own personal philosophy. (Why would a woman who insists that men always mistreat women get into a relationship with a man in the first place?)

For another thing, her personal philosophy was horribly inconsistent with reality. As I said above, she'd argue that men always mistreat women - and then be forced to concede that I, at least, did not seem to be inclined to mistreat her, and in fact treated her very well. How did she resolve this? She concluded that I was... not a man! (Despite plenty of physical evidence to the contrary, I must add.) I was a "male person" but not a "man", at least by her definition of the term. When I insisted that I was, in fact, a man, and that her definition of "man" was inconsistent with reality, she responded that reality didn't really have much to do with philosophy - philosophy was about the way the world should be, not about the way it really is. (I found it odd that she included "men mistreating women" in the way she thought the world should be, but I let that one pass...) Therefore, if reality doesn't match her philosophy, the problem was with reality and not her philosophy.

Which, of course, led me to realize the inherent problems with radical feminist philosophy, as well as with modern philosophy in general. But that's another thread entirely.

You might be thinking, at this point, that we spent a lot of time arguing about some pretty esoteric things. And we did. The sex, however, was fantastic. There wasn't much between those extremes, though - it was either sex or philosophy, all the time.

Luckily this relationship didn't last. It made me appreciate my wife that much more when I found her, though. :D

Anyone?

My husband had a girlfriend that he broke up with about 2 months before our first date. He said he had to break up with her because she was crazy.

She worked in a crematarium and always threatened to kill him saying nobody would ever find the ashes......
he called it quits when she started throwing things at him.

I thought wow she was nuts, then after being married to the guy for 5 years I am thinkin "yeah, I'd like to throw some stuff at him sometimes"

she sent him an email not too long ago claiming that they were common law married and that he needs to pay child support on her kids that she had with a different guy. so I switched back to "yup she's nuts"

When I was 19, I had a fight with a girlfriend who was usually stable. I dont remember what the fight was about, but it wasnt a break up type fight. We were sitiing in my car in her parent's driveway at about 1am. I just wanted to go home and forget about it. I asked her to get out and we'll talk in the morning. She refused. The fight escalated. She still wouldnt get out, so I got out and went around to her side to take her out. She locked her door and as I went back to my side, she closed and locked the driver's door too. keys still in the ignition. The fight continued through the closed windows. She wouldnt get out. I pounded on her parent's front door to come and get their crazy little girl out of the car, but later found out the father was scared of me-so they never answered the door.
I began to walk home. About a mile down the road, she pulls up in my car. I'm pissed and keep walking-I dont want to talk and feel stupid for being locked out of my own car and short of violence, cant regain control of the situation with just words. but I'm not caving in. I keep walking.She keeps pulling up even with me, tries to talk as I walk and then has to drive back up to me. Finally, she gets really pissed and guns the accelerator and nails me with the car. I somehow sensed it was going to happen and turned, put my hand on the hood and tumbled up, over the windshield, the roof and over the trunk to the ground. I had bruises, scrapes, cuts, two fingers I'm sure were broken, a gash in my head and gravel in my knees and hands.
That broke the spell of stupidity somehow. She caved, I drove her home in my car, then drove myself home and took an hour long hot shower. I had work early the next day and was going straight to the shore for a long weekend right after work, so I never had to explain fresh injuries to anyone. The main problem was that I loved her, unfortunately she was almost more stubborn than I was.

My first gf ditched me after a concert to bugger off with some people 3-4 years older than her to take speed (at age 15) and then cheated on me a month or so later.

The next one (about a year after we broke up) at age 17 moved in with her 28 year old bf.

Another one pulled a knife on me at a party and was just generally a bit of a nutter.




So not really crazies, just... misdirected.

Why would a woman who insists that men always mistreat women get into a relationship with a man in the first place?
Masochism? Perhaps you weren't mistreating her zealously enough.

Masochism? Perhaps you weren't mistreating her zealously enough.

No, she just drank the Dworkinite Kool-Aid.

Dworkin is famous for saying crap like "All heterosexual sex is rape," not because every man in every instance actually physically overpowers the woman, but because the unequal power structures within society with respect to men and women make it impossible for the woman to freely choose, thus making the sex by definition coercive and, by extension, rape.

The problem with that is obvious: even supposing that power structures were inherently unequal (which I'm not sold on), it still does not follow that every act within that structure is by definition a reflection of that power inequality and therefore coercive. If my father asked me if I wanted to go to the zoo or to the library, and respected my wishes in either eventuality, I have a hard time saying that I was therefore coerced to go simply because society accords an unequal amount of power between a child and his parent.

Of course, that may be a function of my using masculine-dominated logic to come up with a valid counterexample. Dworkin was also famous for arguing that society needed to cast off Aristotelian logic because it favored masculine thinking, although she was a tad vague on what could replace it while getting the same results; she argued that we needed to go with the overthrow of masculinity first, and devise our replacement theory in the aftermath.

No, she just drank the Dworkinite Kool-Aid.

Dworkin is famous for saying crap like "All heterosexual sex is rape," not because every man in every instance actually physically overpowers the woman, but because the unequal power structures within society with respect to men and women make it impossible for the woman to freely choose, thus making the sex by definition coercive and, by extension, rape.

The problem with that is obvious: even supposing that power structures were inherently unequal (which I'm not sold on), it still does not follow that every act within that structure is by definition a reflection of that power inequality and therefore coercive. If my father asked me if I wanted to go to the zoo or to the library, and respected my wishes in either eventuality, I have a hard time saying that I was therefore coerced to go simply because society accords an unequal amount of power between a child and his parent.

Of course, that may be a function of my using masculine-dominated logic to come up with a valid counterexample. Dworkin was also famous for arguing that society needed to cast off Aristotelian logic because it favored masculine thinking, although she was a tad vague on what could replace it while getting the same results; she argued that we needed to go with the overthrow of masculinity first, and devise our replacement theory in the aftermath.
That's perhaps a teeny bit simplified?

Sorry, I know this is a crazy girlfriend thread, but I have to throw in one about a crazy boyfriend. My friend started dating a guy about 4 years ago, they moved in together, everything seemed good. Then some disturbing shit happened. She came home early one day and found her email account, with opened messages on the computer. She hadn't left it that way, and she realised her boyfriend had her password, and had been reading her emails. She had no idea how long this had been going on, and she kind of thought it was too nuts to be believable, so she didn't confront him about it, and pretended she didn't notice.

Then one day I get an email from her (a bulk one to all her friends) saying that someone had been in her account and was sending around emails, posing as her, and to not believe them. I didn't know what she was talking about, so I called her up. Another friend had received an email basically telling her to f*ck off and stop coming around, and now they weren't talking to one another. We realised the boyfriend had done this, since the style of writing in the email wasn't even remotely like hers.

Weirder yet...she started combing back through her archived emails, checking the history, and realised that they had been opened from outside her home. She only ever checks it at home, so she knew it wasn't her. And when she checked the dates on these emails, she realised that someone had been reading them long before she found out her boyfriend was snooping. In fact, this predated her meeting him. She got really freaked out, and we started putting clues together...

We checked up on this guy a bit, and discovered he had once played hockey with my friend's brother. She never recognised him, and he never brought it up. Somehow he hacked her email about a year before they got together...he in fact had been stalking her. She had broken up with her previous boyfriend because that boyfriend accused her of cheating on him...she hadn't, and figured he was just using it as an excuse...but then we found out that stalker-boy had 'accidentally' forwarded (a fake) love letter to this guy, supposedly written by my friend to someone else.

How frickin' creepy is that? She broke up with him, moved out and everything...but she's still certain he's spying on her.

I know a woman who has a totally psychotic daughter and I feel sorry both for this woman's son-in-law and the grand child. When they married, my friend informed me that the future husband was on meds for schizophrenia, but know what, he's not the one who makes all the trouble, he's a really good guy and that bitch beats on him, calls their 4 year old little girl a slut and generally is rotten. He's only staying for the kid's sake.
She should be in a nut-house frankly!

Just a suggestion: maybe some of you guys need to get to know the women before you start dating them? It helps to weed out the psycho chicks.

That doesn't help with the psycho family part, but it might cut down the bad incidents.

Just a suggestion: maybe some of you guys need to get to know the women before you start dating them? It helps to weed out the psycho chicks.
No shit.

Wait a minute...is that why it took me so long to get a date!!!????[/jk]

No, but I have a friend who's really bad with girls and can't talk to them personally, he can only talk to them in the internet... and he stalked one of his so called "loves" to get her name... It's very dodgy.

Just a suggestion: maybe some of you guys need to get to know the women before you start dating them? It helps to weed out the psycho chicks.

That doesn't help with the psycho family part, but it might cut down the bad incidents.

Amen to that. ;) All of these stories seem to possess similar elements of jumping in quickly, and then finding out later that the other person is insane.
Nothing a few months of casual dating wouldn't have helped to figure out first. :)

Amen to that. ;) All of these stories seem to possess similar elements of jumping in quickly, and then finding out later that the other person is insane.
Nothing a few months of casual dating wouldn't have helped to figure out first. :)Except for my stalker-guy story. They dated for six months before moving in together (still to fast in my mind, but who am I to talk...I moved in with my husband after four months:)).

My "girlfriend" (well, I say girlfriend, lets call her an obsessive who thought she was my girlfriend but wasn't and told everyone she was etc. In short she wasn't but in her eyes was) was alright to start off with, as a friend.

Thats where the niceities ended, she began stopping me going out with other people, being violent and trying to mess up my life. I decided I had had enough of it. I told her straight she was to leave me alone, and let me get on with my life. Next day when nobody else was in, she knocked on my door.

I answered, naturally, to see her body coming straight at me and through my door into my kitchen. I calmly said "why are you here" and she looked at me, before yelling out all of the words under the sun.

I told her to get out, she grabbed a knife (my own kitchen knife) and attempted to stab me. I luckily dodged and the knife went into the door. I threw her out on her backside, literally, and slammed the door shut.

She unfortunately did OD on heroin. She was a frequent user of other drugs too. Glad I got out without a hole in my front though.

This is a psycho girlfriend for you!

Except for my stalker-guy story. They dated for six months before moving in together (still to fast in my mind, but who am I to talk...I moved in with my husband after four months:)).
If there is any evidence that he's snooping on her, perhaps she could find somebody to give him a friendly warning to mind his own business? You know: beat the shit out of him out of him or break his thumbs or something.

I had a psycho girlfriend. Oddly enough, I didn't even know until I had dealt with her psycho brother. He threatened to beat me up, and even kill me if I didn't break up with her. The problem was that I liked her. SHe was funny and very sexual. So I came to an arrangement with her brother. We'd fight. I arranged a place at a local gym and a few of my friends and his friends were there. Rules were agreed upon. Then he broke them. Not seriously. There weren't many. I'm an 'anything goes' kind of guy myself. But he outweighed me by about forty pounds and he got the upperhand and kept it. He beat me. But he kept beating on me. Hurt me pretty badly. But it seemed that the more he hurt me, the more he wanted to. When I waws pretty much defenseless, he then grabbed my testicles with both hands and said in the most horrifyingly calm voice I ever heard, "You're never gonna be with a girl again." He then proceeded to crush them in his hands. Well, details were kind of spotty for me(I already had a concussion, and the agony I was suddenly in caused me to sort of grey-out, but my friends rushed in and pulled him off me. Took me to the hospital.

I ended up with two broken ribs, two dislocated arms, a cracked jaw a deflated lung and two badly bruised testicles. Oh, and a concussion.

On the advice of my friends, I told my story to the local police, and they arrested him. I was reluctant to press charges, as I did agree to the fight(as awry as it went). But when I found out that my girlfriend, his sister, went nuts and threw my television out my fourth floor dorm window and threw a cinderblock through my car's windshield, I decided that this was a family I wanted no part of anymore.

Took about three months and a long conversation between me, the police and their mother to finally stop the threatening phonecalls, drive-bys of my dorm and general stalking.

Never date anyone with a relative that's crazier than you are. :p

LG if you found someone crazier than you, that should have been a immediant tip off. Of course you're crazy in a more benovolant way.

Seriously though, that bites.

I had a guy who had a crush on me and was psycho. He stalked me somewhat, except that he didn't have a car and I lived on the other side of the city so he couldn't actually follow me home. He would call me every day and not let me off the phone for hours. He kept asking me out and I kept turning him down and he was like "I'm very determined" and I'm like "Yeah, so am I."
When I started dating someone else, he called my house and cried for an hour and kept acting like I lead him on or dumped him or some shit. He wrote a bunch of poems and emailed them to me and accused the guy I was dating of stealing me from him and shit.

Ew.

I have much experience with psycho women. They are drawn to me for some reason. (I'm a good listener apparently.)
I had a girlfriend about 8 years ago that had the worst PMS episodes I've ever seen. For 2 weeks a month she would be normal and then BAM! all hell would break loose.
Anything would set her off. I left a few crumbs on the counter once, she threw a 15" chefs knife at me. We were arguing in my car, she tried to grab the wheel away from me and when that didn't work, she tried to throw my car into reverse while we were driving down the highway at 65 mph. She used to punch me, kick me, pull my hair and I won't even get into the emotional and verbal abuse. I put up with it because I thought that if I ever hit her back, I might not stop and I would probably go to jail for a while.
Finally, I did it. I was just fed up and it dawned on me that I never fought back (I would leave) and these incidents were becoming more frequent and harsher. She took a swing at me (I left socks on the floor) and made my nose bleed. I hit her as hard as I could (I used to be a bouncer, I'm about 6 feet, 200 lbs.) in the shoulder. She couldn't use her arm at all for a few days.
After that things changed. She would raise her hand to me and I would draw back on her and she got the point. But the verbal and emotional abuse got worse. As luck would have it, she met a guy at work that she was always going on and on about (that was one of the ways she tried to torment me emotionally) and I could see where that was heading. Then one day I woke up and realized that I really hated my life. So I acted like I was going to work, waited for her to leave, packed up all of my stuff and left her with rent due.
I didn't hear from her for about 2 years, then out of the blue, she stopped by my place and we talked for a while then she just asked me,"Want to have sex?" It was OK. Awkward, but she did all the work since she was the one who was drunk and wired.
I talked with her again 3 years ago. She was in Narcotics Anonymous and had to make amends. She told me that she decided to get sober after she was caught in the men's restroom, at her brother's wedding, blowing the best man and so her family had disowned her. Her current fiance was in prison for possession of coke AND meth.
But she made amends and then asked me for my part of the rent. When I stopped laughing, I told her yeah right, sue me. SHE CALLED MY DAD AND ASKED HIM FOR THE MONEY!!!! BWAHAHAHAHA! He told her no.
She still sends me cards at Christmas and my birthday. I don't reciprocate and I actually asked her to stop contacting me but she won't. She always asks me for the rent money and tells me a little about her life. Her most recent job is as a social worker. She visits mental patients that have been recently released from jail and assesses them to see how well they are adjusting.

I had a guy who had a crush on me and was psycho. He stalked me somewhat, except that he didn't have a car and I lived on the other side of the city so he couldn't actually follow me home. He would call me every day and not let me off the phone for hours. He kept asking me out and I kept turning him down and he was like "I'm very determined" and I'm like "Yeah, so am I."
When I started dating someone else, he called my house and cried for an hour and kept acting like I lead him on or dumped him or some shit. He wrote a bunch of poems and emailed them to me and accused the guy I was dating of stealing me from him and shit.

Ew.

Keep a close eye on that one- he is a nutter.

Her most recent job is as a social worker. She visits mental patients that have been recently released from jail and assesses them to see how well they are adjusting.

that nutter is a social worker.hmmm,maybe she locks the ones like her back up again?

that nutter is a social worker.hmmm,maybe she locks the ones like her back up again?

Takes one to know one right?

Well, I haven't had anyone quite that psycho in my life, thank God.

However, a few years ago, I dated a woman who was working on a PhD in philosophy. Radical feminist philosophy, at that. All I can say is: Kids, don't try this at home! :D

It was very instructive in a number of ways. For one thing, I turned out to be a better philosopher than her, even though I'd never even taken Philosophy 101 - I was able to live consistently with my personal philosophy (which she described as "Kantian", and from what I know of Immanuel Kant, I'll accept that as accurate enough), while she was horribly inconsistent with her own personal philosophy. (Why would a woman who insists that men always mistreat women get into a relationship with a man in the first place?)

For another thing, her personal philosophy was horribly inconsistent with reality. As I said above, she'd argue that men always mistreat women - and then be forced to concede that I, at least, did not seem to be inclined to mistreat her, and in fact treated her very well. How did she resolve this? She concluded that I was... not a man! (Despite plenty of physical evidence to the contrary, I must add.) I was a "male person" but not a "man", at least by her definition of the term. When I insisted that I was, in fact, a man, and that her definition of "man" was inconsistent with reality, she responded that reality didn't really have much to do with philosophy - philosophy was about the way the world should be, not about the way it really is. (I found it odd that she included "men mistreating women" in the way she thought the world should be, but I let that one pass...) Therefore, if reality doesn't match her philosophy, the problem was with reality and not her philosophy.

Which, of course, led me to realize the inherent problems with radical feminist philosophy, as well as with modern philosophy in general. But that's another thread entirely.

You might be thinking, at this point, that we spent a lot of time arguing about some pretty esoteric things. And we did. The sex, however, was fantastic. There wasn't much between those extremes, though - it was either sex or philosophy, all the time.

Luckily this relationship didn't last. It made me appreciate my wife that much more when I found her, though. :D

Sex and philosophy... I wish I could find someone like that. I also don't think her behavior qualifies as psycho. And it is possible to be biologicaly male and yet not a man (man is a concept, an idea, and a bad idea/concept in my opinon).

That's perhaps a teeny bit simplified?

Yes, Dworkin never actually said "all sex is rape". But I can't be bothered to explain it. Cat-tribe likes to though, so if you ask him nicely he'll give you the full story.

Another tip gleaned from these posts: Don't date drug addicts. It's not worth it. No matter how hot she (he) is.

Right starting off.

My Work mate who we will call Chadwick(Not his real name) met a Girl over the Interweb thingy about 2 maybe 3 Months ago.
Now things started off fine but he said she was a bit different i.e. alternative.

Well so she has ambitions to become a Famous Singer and so saved up some money to go to Sydney, Australia to further her 'career'.
Well as soon as she was over there she realised she had forgotten her cellphone charger was still in New Zealand and instead of trying to get it sorted out at a Vodafone shop in Australia she wanted to return to NZ after not even trying to succeed.

On here return the little maddam(or should i say madman) decided she would become a Stripper up in Auckland and while she was away from 'Chadwick' he would be looking after her Horse which is fine especially at this stage becuase she hadnt gone complelty Nuts yet.

Well it took her about a month to get ready to go up there and then what do you know the nut didnt even go instead she stuck about bludging off 'Chadwick' until she finally got a job at a local pub.

Well she got pregnant and 'Chadwick' would have been half happy to keep this baby but she didnt really want it and so she got an Abortion and of course the law here is harm to the mother or mental stress well she was already mental so that was a give in and after swearing at the nurse threatening her she got it done.

Well after this she would always come over to work and take him away from his job and he would go off to talk to her then she would call him on his cell and finally on the work phone.
Now our Bosses are pretty cool but this nut was really stuffing things up.

In here little fits she wouldd push and kick poor 'Chadwick' and yell at him and he being the gentleman he is he would do nothing back and this would go on for ages.

Then she smacked him around the head and ruptured his ear drum-basically he was deaf in that ear for 4 weeks.
But did he leave her????NO

No matter what we would say to him he wouldnt leave her.
Of course they moved into a new flat together after 3 weeks because he felt sorry for her about to be kicked out of her old place.

Well she got pregnant again and decided she wanted to keep this one.
-We reckon it was to try and get 'Chadwick' to stay with her but we finally convinced him otherwise especialy after she demanded he go to their place or she would start smashing his computer well true to her word she started smashing his keyboard-seriously she smashed it in half and so he took the rest of the day off taking all his stuff to storage except for his big TV -he took the small one.-Dont ask me why he didnt take both his answer was ive got the small one.-Yeah Penis you fool.

Well he moved back to his old place with his Brother and has been constantly getting cellphone calls.

Hint to the menfolk: If you stop sleeping with the crazy bitches, we can weed "crazy bitchism" out of the gene pool.

Reciprocal hint to the womenfolk: If you stop sleeping with the abusive jackarses, we can weed "caveman jackarsery" out of the gene pool.

I have a ciggarette burn down one arm from a row, that really bloody hurt :(

Hint to the menfolk: If you stop sleeping with the crazy bitches, we can weed "crazy bitchism" out of the gene pool.

Reciprocal hint to the womenfolk: If you stop sleeping with the abusive jackarses, we can weed "caveman jackarsery" out of the gene pool.

Essentially, yes.

It's always bugged me that certain of my friends bemoan the psycho girl/boy friends, but still always choose to date people who anyone else can tell are obviously psychos within the first 5 minutes of meeting them.

Sorry, I know this is a crazy girlfriend thread, but I have to throw in one about a crazy boyfriend. My friend started dating a guy about 4 years ago, they moved in together, everything seemed good. Then some disturbing shit happened. She came home early one day and found her email account, with opened messages on the computer. She hadn't left it that way, and she realised her boyfriend had her password, and had been reading her emails. She had no idea how long this had been going on, and she kind of thought it was too nuts to be believable, so she didn't confront him about it, and pretended she didn't notice.

Then one day I get an email from her (a bulk one to all her friends) saying that someone had been in her account and was sending around emails, posing as her, and to not believe them. I didn't know what she was talking about, so I called her up. Another friend had received an email basically telling her to f*ck off and stop coming around, and now they weren't talking to one another. We realised the boyfriend had done this, since the style of writing in the email wasn't even remotely like hers.

Weirder yet...she started combing back through her archived emails, checking the history, and realised that they had been opened from outside her home. She only ever checks it at home, so she knew it wasn't her. And when she checked the dates on these emails, she realised that someone had been reading them long before she found out her boyfriend was snooping. In fact, this predated her meeting him. She got really freaked out, and we started putting clues together...

We checked up on this guy a bit, and discovered he had once played hockey with my friend's brother. She never recognised him, and he never brought it up. Somehow he hacked her email about a year before they got together...he in fact had been stalking her. She had broken up with her previous boyfriend because that boyfriend accused her of cheating on him...she hadn't, and figured he was just using it as an excuse...but then we found out that stalker-boy had 'accidentally' forwarded (a fake) love letter to this guy, supposedly written by my friend to someone else.

How frickin' creepy is that? She broke up with him, moved out and everything...but she's still certain he's spying on her.

WOW.

That's like a horror movie! Or at least like an episode of Law & Order.

That's perhaps a teeny bit simplified?

Most definately, but the basic argument about existing power structures is, I'm pretty sure, accurate. If I'm wrong, I'd sure like to know at the least.

Hint to the menfolk: If you stop sleeping with the crazy bitches, we can weed "crazy bitchism" out of the gene pool.

Reciprocal hint to the womenfolk: If you stop sleeping with the abusive jackarses, we can weed "caveman jackarsery" out of the gene pool.

Ideally that would be the way to go. However, crazy bitches (men too I guess) sneak up on you. They're manipulators and con artists out of necessity because there is something missing in their lives (unconditional love and rent money in my case).

The whole weeding them out of the gene pool thing doesn't take into account the nurture part of the nature vs. nurture equation.

Wow, how coincidental. I just avoided contact/akward confrontation with my psychotic ex-girlfriend tonight...she's gone bonkers that one has.

Hint to the menfolk: If you stop sleeping with the crazy bitches, we can weed "crazy bitchism" out of the gene pool.

Reciprocal hint to the womenfolk: If you stop sleeping with the abusive jackarses, we can weed "caveman jackarsery" out of the gene pool.


So true. Unfortunately, attraction is illogical and is an involuntary response. "Jackasses" and "crazy bitches" offer a certain degree of excitement, and, with the promise of excitement, sparks have a way of flying.

That's why it's so important that people be willing to walk away from any romantic relationship that isn't working. I don't care if it's Angelina Jolie; if she starts acting like a psycho, or, if the relationship just isn't quite coming together the way you'd like, if you have the confidence to walk away, that's one of the biggest keys to being happy and successful in dating, and to being in control and being able to pick and choose from a huge variety instead of just having to settle for whoever will have you.

I would like to point out that the title of this thread is redundant.

(runs for cover)

Can he change his cell number or block her somehow?

I think one problem is that "psycho" can often be mistaken for something else. Keep in mind most people (men and women) in studies tend towards submission in relationships. A partner who is "psycho" could be mistaken for simply having attractive dominant characteristics, and by the time one figures it out it is too late.

P.S. having out of the mainstream views does not qualify someone as "Psycho" unless those views are crazy, violent or both (racism, Neo-Nazism, est.).

I dated a mormon once. Enough said! Again, met over the internet. Never gunna do that again........................

I once had a girlfriend who left our flat while I was working...taking with her (nearly) everything, leaving me only a sofa, a cupboard and a few books...none of hem mined, luckily. But I got away easily, seems so

I once had a girlfriend who left our flat while I was working...taking with her (nearly) everything, leaving me only a sofa, a cupboard and a few books...none of hem mined, luckily. But I got away easily, seems so

Thats all she did, strip you bare? Thats simply larceny, happens all the time...

Once was enough, but yes, I guess I was getting away easily...but she did so after 10 years relationship :rolleyes:

She must have been planning for a while... Takes time to organize a move and the transport of furniture.

Yes, though I´m at a disadvantage showing my respect :)

Did your insurance cover what was taken, did you get some of it back or did she get away with it?

No insurance, no, I did get nothing back, and yes she get away with that...I know I´m too nice for this world...but I´m now happier than she is...ultimate revenge

How do you know you are happier? What happened too her?

How do you know you are happier? What happened too her?

Yes doctor, I know...we still have mutual friends, and she didn´t get her lifes dreams fulfilled

Nice stories you guys have...

I don't have a story as resent (these events took place in the 70's), but a nasty little story any way.
My father was dating a heir of a somewhat rich old bussiness man. From what I've heard she was quite normal during the time they were together but suddenly she left him (she never told my father the reason) and was unheard of for some time. Anyway, all hell broke loose when my father started dating my mother. First this ex-girl friend only gave them and their employers calls at odd times and put little threatening notes to my parents' mail box. Then she broke to their house about three times breaking stuff and doing little harm like leaving the oven and lights on. Before my parents got rid of her, she flooded their apartment by leaving water running in both bath tub and kitchen sink. No one knows what's up with her nowdays, but she was not held responsible for her doings back then (she didin't have to make it up in any way) and was therefore put to an asylum.

All kinds of freaks running loose among us, it seems :P

Just a suggestion: maybe some of you guys need to get to know the women before you start dating them? It helps to weed out the psycho chicks.

That doesn't help with the psycho family part, but it might cut down the bad incidents.
Keep in mind that several of these stories they had been together for some time before the transformation into psycho took place. Some of the stories I have heard occour after they have been married for upto 5 years after dating for another 5!

I dated a mormon once. Enough said! Again, met over the internet. Never gunna do that again........................
I dated a mormon once only to have her start university in Salt Lake (BYU!) instead of going to U of Calgary. She would call almost daily to tell me about this guy or that guy she had met during the course of her day. after 3 months of this she was finally pushed by the church leadership at the University to end the relationship because I wouldn't become a mormon and if she stayed with me she couldn't get hitched butt naked in the Mormon temple. Not very Psycho but this gives the rest of you a basis to work from in dating a mormon!

Once was enough, but yes, I guess I was getting away easily...but she did so after 10 years relationship :rolleyes:
10 YEARS and still JUST a girlfriend?!?!?!

My story isn't so much psycho as bizarre. My ex was shockingly naïve when it came to human sexuality, not just men's, but women's, people in general, and her's in particular.

For example, the few times she stayed over at my place, she insisted that I sleep in a sleeping bag, on the floor, in another room, with the doors closed between us (I mean, no means no for me, but did she really have to barricade herself in?). She also insisted that when staying with me that I provide her with her own roll of toilet paper so incase I used the roll in there and then she used it right after me, she couldn't accidentally get pregnant (No, I am not kidding).

Once she called me in a panic to say she was a day late with her period and this meant she had to be pregnant. I wanted to know how she thought she could have been considering we never had sex and her response was that since I had put a piece of paper IN HER JEAN POCKET I could have gotten her pregnant.

She also had another scare after breaking up with me and getting another boyfriend (yes, she still insisted that we talk, and yes, my name was welcome mat for a while). She said that she had been hugging her new boyfriend hard and had "felt" him so now she was convinced she was pregnant. I asked if they had been naked at the time, nope both were fully clothed, in jeans (talk about super sperm).

And yet she always insisted that we engage in cybersex. *sighs* I seriously think, given her other weird behaviors that she really wanted me to force her into sex (not rape, but seduce I guess) so she could always claim innocence should something happen. Of course, me being me, I would never do such a thing.

She had all sorts of other little weird quirks, including trying to get me to buy the damn oddest stuff for her, then telling me she didn't want that but that I should buy her designer clothing.

It finally ended after I agreed to come down and see her one last time. I made the 4 hour trip to the San Francisco Bay Area and hung out with her. She had promised me a couch to crash on for the night. At 3am she said that it would be too uncomfortable for her to have a guy in her apartment and kicked me out.

Makes me appreciate my fiancee all the more.

I had a psycho girlfriend. Oddly enough, I didn't even know until I had dealt with her psycho brother. He threatened to beat me up, and even kill me if I didn't break up with her. The problem was that I liked her. SHe was funny and very sexual. So I came to an arrangement with her brother. We'd fight. I arranged a place at a local gym and a few of my friends and his friends were there. Rules were agreed upon. Then he broke them. Not seriously. There weren't many. I'm an 'anything goes' kind of guy myself. But he outweighed me by about forty pounds and he got the upperhand and kept it. He beat me. But he kept beating on me. Hurt me pretty badly. But it seemed that the more he hurt me, the more he wanted to. When I waws pretty much defenseless, he then grabbed my testicles with both hands and said in the most horrifyingly calm voice I ever heard, "You're never gonna be with a girl again." He then proceeded to crush them in his hands. Well, details were kind of spotty for me(I already had a concussion, and the agony I was suddenly in caused me to sort of grey-out, but my friends rushed in and pulled him off me. Took me to the hospital.

I ended up with two broken ribs, two dislocated arms, a cracked jaw a deflated lung and two badly bruised testicles. Oh, and a concussion.

On the advice of my friends, I told my story to the local police, and they arrested him. I was reluctant to press charges, as I did agree to the fight(as awry as it went). But when I found out that my girlfriend, his sister, went nuts and threw my television out my fourth floor dorm window and threw a cinderblock through my car's windshield, I decided that this was a family I wanted no part of anymore.

Took about three months and a long conversation between me, the police and their mother to finally stop the threatening phonecalls, drive-bys of my dorm and general stalking.

Never date anyone with a relative that's crazier than you are. :p
You got me wincing there.

You got me wincing there.

Oddly enough, even though I spent a day in the hospital, that incident helped to cultivate the 'indestructible' reputaion that's gotten me hurt so often in my life.Because I looked a LOT worse than I was. I still have friends who think it's perfectly allright to hit me in the groin whenever they like because they're 'unbreakable'. In all fairness, I usually hit them in the groin first. :p

She also had another scare after breaking up with me and getting another boyfriend (yes, she still insisted that we talk, and yes, my name was welcome mat for a while). She said that she had been hugging her new boyfriend hard and had "felt" him so now she was convinced she was pregnant. I asked if they had been naked at the time, nope both were fully clothed, in jeans (talk about super sperm).
Serious LOLz. Sigged.

I would like to point out that the title of this thread is redundant.

(runs for cover)
Not as i also want to know about everyone elses.

For those of you not familiar with the "psycho girlfriend" firsthand, I submit the following example:

Prom Date (http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/gotoprom.html)

Can he change his cell number or block her somehow?
I suggested he should try and change it but he didnt think much of that idea.

His idea of blocking is to ignore all messages and get someone else to read them.

His brother told their mom about the last one and she told him defeating the plan, but i dont know what it was about.

She sounds charming

My story isn't so much psycho as bizarre. My ex was shockingly naïve when it came to human sexuality, not just men's, but women's, people in general, and her's in particular.

For example, the few times she stayed over at my place, she insisted that I sleep in a sleeping bag, on the floor, in another room, with the doors closed between us (I mean, no means no for me, but did she really have to barricade herself in?). She also insisted that when staying with me that I provide her with her own roll of toilet paper so incase I used the roll in there and then she used it right after me, she couldn't accidentally get pregnant (No, I am not kidding).

Once she called me in a panic to say she was a day late with her period and this meant she had to be pregnant. I wanted to know how she thought she could have been considering we never had sex and her response was that since I had put a piece of paper IN HER JEAN POCKET I could have gotten her pregnant.

She also had another scare after breaking up with me and getting another boyfriend (yes, she still insisted that we talk, and yes, my name was welcome mat for a while). She said that she had been hugging her new boyfriend hard and had "felt" him so now she was convinced she was pregnant. I asked if they had been naked at the time, nope both were fully clothed, in jeans (talk about super sperm).


And that is why we teach sex education in schools (you will not believe what people will believe :D :confused: :( ).

And that is why we teach sex education in schools (you will not believe what people will believe :D :confused: :( ).
She's the poster child for me for why I disagree with abstinance only education.

And after dating her, I have a pretty good idea what some people believe.

Sue her for assault, damage to property, and stealing.

I had a very psychotic boyfriend. It was the only boyfriend I ever had, and the "boyfriend" thing only lasted two days, but we continued to have a relationship, which steadily grew worse.

He was into all this nonsense about traveling on astral planes without gravity and stuff, which was okay, even if I thought it was silly, but eventually he just started creeping me out.

He was totally possessive and he was an egomaniac. I could never, ever, get a word in edgewise.

But it got much worse as time went on. He loved to believe that he was a really tough guy, and he had a serious problem with the way everyone knows I'm crazy and I'll do anything I damn well want to. He thought it was important to prove that he could physically overpower anybody he wanted to.

Ignore the fact that I weigh barely 100 pounds and he's a 235 pound wrestler.

He has also injured one of my female friends, I don't know how that went, but she was really angry and trying to calm down earlier today and screaming she'd snap his neck if she could. I dunno. She was pretty irrational.

That's just wrong.

He's still crazy. He's just kind of... snapped.

He was really creeping me out about a month ago, when he just started treating me like shit, like I was some kind of subhuman creep. I just flat-out have refused to talk to him, and now he's really lost it. I'm stuck sitting behind him in a lot of classes, since his name comes before mine in the alphabet, and like, a fly will land on his shoulder, and he thinks I'm poking him and he hits at what he thinks is me and starts screaming about how I'm a crazy freak and nobody likes me and everybody just stares at him because, well, he's insane.

Or he will just come up to me, and look at me, and start yelling at me for nothing. I never really have anything to say, but it really, really, scares me. He's made multiple death threats and says he'll beat me up if he ever gets the chance.

Since I obviously can't physically overpower someone twice my size, umm... what should I do?

It's a class of sixty people. I don't want to be embarrassed.

How would you get embarrassed?

It's a small town. People spread rumours. I'm already pretty badly off.

I feel bad for you. :( I lived in a small Vermont town for 3 years, but we had about 250 students in each class.

Heh. That's the kinda women we breed in NZ. Brilliant, we're so lucky.. Sorry for your mate though

Yup we're all pretty crazy... and it just gets worse with time... the teenagers alone are worthy or being shot... but wait till they become fully fledged adults and get divorced oooooh then the shitith hitith the fanith

My story isn't so much psycho as bizarre. My ex was shockingly naïve when it came to human sexuality, not just men's, but women's, people in general, and her's in particular.

For example, the few times she stayed over at my place, she insisted that I sleep in a sleeping bag, on the floor, in another room, with the doors closed between us (I mean, no means no for me, but did she really have to barricade herself in?). She also insisted that when staying with me that I provide her with her own roll of toilet paper so incase I used the roll in there and then she used it right after me, she couldn't accidentally get pregnant (No, I am not kidding).

Once she called me in a panic to say she was a day late with her period and this meant she had to be pregnant. I wanted to know how she thought she could have been considering we never had sex and her response was that since I had put a piece of paper IN HER JEAN POCKET I could have gotten her pregnant.

She also had another scare after breaking up with me and getting another boyfriend (yes, she still insisted that we talk, and yes, my name was welcome mat for a while). She said that she had been hugging her new boyfriend hard and had "felt" him so now she was convinced she was pregnant. I asked if they had been naked at the time, nope both were fully clothed, in jeans (talk about super sperm).

And yet she always insisted that we engage in cybersex. *sighs* I seriously think, given her other weird behaviors that she really wanted me to force her into sex (not rape, but seduce I guess) so she could always claim innocence should something happen. Of course, me being me, I would never do such a thing.

She had all sorts of other little weird quirks, including trying to get me to buy the damn oddest stuff for her, then telling me she didn't want that but that I should buy her designer clothing.

It finally ended after I agreed to come down and see her one last time. I made the 4 hour trip to the San Francisco Bay Area and hung out with her. She had promised me a couch to crash on for the night. At 3am she said that it would be too uncomfortable for her to have a guy in her apartment and kicked me out.

Makes me appreciate my fiancee all the more.

O_o talk about paranoia geebus. That's sooo freakn weird. Hopefully she'll never reproduce and then that will end that crazy shit

Since I obviously can't physically overpower someone twice my size, umm... what should I do?

No man; no matter how much he can bench press can stand up to the awe inspiring power of gasoline. Take this advice wisely. And plus, gasoline has so many creative uses! You can go for the splash and throw meathod, you can lay little puddles or even create a little moat! Don't underestimate the power of gasonline, and if there is none around, no man (well, except for eunichs, but they don't count) can move after getting a swift enough kick to the jubilies. A basic lesson I learned all the way back in grade 7 Phys. Ed. (Soccer)...

I've never had a girlfriend... prob something to do with the fact that I am one, and straight :D

Give "Chadwick" a hug from me Harlesburg, oh and you can have one yourself *hugs* :D

Edit: I'm not a girlfriend, I'm a girl :D

She sounds charming
You have no idea.
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For those of you not familiar with the "psycho girlfriend" firsthand, I submit the following example:

Prom Date (http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/gotoprom.html)
ROFLMFAO!!!! OMFG!!!!! ROFL!

Since I obviously can't physically overpower someone twice my size, umm... what should I do? Akido. I'm a big guy, and I do lots of martial arts. Akido is the only one where I can't just physically overpower the small women that train with me. Others In this forum would suggest getting a gun. I disagree, because I don't like guns, but when all's said and done a gun is the greatest leveler out there. Mace and other non leathals work fine as well. She had promised me a couch to crash on for the night. At 3am she said that it would be too uncomfortable for her to have a guy in her apartment and kicked me out.


While she's obviously a psycho, and this sucks majorly for you, I'm with her on this. If someones making me feel uncomfortable in my own home I'll show them the door. end of story. Everones got to feel secure somewhere.

I have no psycho stories of my own...my fiancee and my brother have a few, but none for me, mainly because I have never dated anyone but her...

My fiancee's most recent ex weighed over 500 lbs, was not classy at all, was just smart enough not to be considered retarded, and was a borderline religious fundamentalist. My fiancee is Catholic and he said all Catholics were alcoholics (never mind that plenty of Catholics have healthier attitudes toward alcohol than the "cult", as she described his church, that he belonged to, but that's another story for another thread.) He was really hard to get along with and was actually reprimanded by one of his OWN friends for the way he treated her.

He never did anything reasonably well. He asked her out on a pay phone on his break at work. He made her pay for everything (though in his defense, his father took away the money he got from his shitty job and left him only $10 a week.) For one of the four proms they went to together, he bought her a fake flower for a corsage...he did so because they were going to another prom later and he expected her to wear that flower again...stupid fuckstick. (Not that I really knew anything about prom etiquette in my day, since i never attended a prom, but if I did, I would have read up on it more.)

His attitude toward their relationship was more than a little bizarre...he told her she had to give him head once or he would break up with her, and yet she did it but begged him to be nice to her that week. Not sure why she took that crap from him but takes no crap off of me...maybe because I taught her not to...and created a monster in the process...and I don't mean my evil Yorkie...but again, getting oof topic here...that and my Yorkie is actually very friendly. Later on he said he would kill himself if she broke up with him (I am still waiting for him to go through with that.) Apparently he still talks about her as if they are dating...let's see him back that up with his fists, the punk-ass bitch. I tell my fiancee that if I ever saw that fucker, I probably wouldn't say anything to him, even if the two of us ran into him together. I would just stand there and do nothing unless he threatened her, at which point I might get involved. And as aversed to cursing out loud as I am (you wouldn't know it by my filthy fucking mouth here) I might drop a few on him. Maybe "punk-ass bitch" would work for him.

My brother, on the other hand, has a less psycho but still not too sharp girlfriend in high school. She had been all over him before wanting to get with him, and finally she did, and his senior year of high school, they dated. Things were OK before the end of their last summer home (I met her but thought she was really quiet...I say this by the fact that she didn't talk to me at all, whereas his current girlfriend did when I met her.) Then he broke up with her because he didn't want a long-distance relationship (he's at Purdue and she went to some small school in Ohio.) Yet she still bugged him to get back together constantly, even thinking of transferring to Purdue to get with him. He wanted nothing to do with her at that point, so she was mainly an annoyance rather than a hazard...but I think she showed her true colors when she finally gave up on him. She told him something to the effect of hoping his life was miserable and short. It was a while before he dated again (I thought for a while that, between him and me, only one of us could be in a relationship at a time...I say that because he broke up with his psycho girlfriend right before i asked my current normal girlfriend, now fiancee, out.) Now he's with a girl whose most recent ex was something of a control freak himself...he gets a lot of satisfaction at the fact that the two of them still work together and she's with another guy, and there isn't a damn thing he can do about it.

My current fiancee isn't a psycho. Bossy, sure, and a professional whiner, perhaps. But at least her whining is a source of entertainment and she doesn't get offended when I raise my middle finger to her when she tells me to do something.

My first ever girlfriend turned out to be mental.
First sign of it, which I let slide, was one time when I had hung out with her everyday for three weeks solid, I decided that I'd hang out with my brother who is also my best friend for a night, watch some wrestling and drink some beers. She walked to my house, in a storm, and eat the face off me and then watched tv with me and my brother, giving him dirty looks all night

Thats not too bad to be honest but it was a warning of things to come....she cheated on me with her very own first cousin. And told me one day as if she was telling me what she had for breakfast!! She wanted to stay together, I dumped her.

I know a woman who has a totally psychotic daughter and I feel sorry both for this woman's son-in-law and the grand child. When they married, my friend informed me that the future husband was on meds for schizophrenia, but know what, he's not the one who makes all the trouble, he's a really good guy and that bitch beats on him, calls their 4 year old little girl a slut and generally is rotten. He's only staying for the kid's sake.
She should be in a nut-house frankly!

Update,Pschotic Daughter, Wife and Mother from Hell, just shaved her head! She shaved it completely bald. Store clerks call her 'Sir' ooooooj! Her own mother doesn't want to go anyplace with her, and I feel sorry for her husband and daughter. It should be noted this young lady was NOT raised by her mother, her paternal grandmother raised her. . .

For those of you not familiar with the "psycho girlfriend" firsthand, I submit the following example:

Prom Date (http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/gotoprom.html)

That was... really pathetic.

That was... really pathetic.
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This is a good friend of mine's tragic story.

When my friend met her first boyfriend, she was only 18 and just started her freshmen year at the University. Now I have to tell you that my friend is a very innocent girl who was a virgin and have no experience with boys or drugs and comes from a good family. The guy she met also seemed like a nice person at first. She found out later that he's dyslexic, regularly uses marijuana, lives in a hut with his handicapped father and a psycho sister, and not a virgin. Well, they were together for two years and everything was fine and dandy. During the summer, my friend's parents told her to stay with them to save money and she agreed. When she told this to her boyfriend, the guy completely flipped out, accusing her to wanting to leave him (Does he really think she won't come back? I mean, if he knows that she really loves him, he would trust her and let go, right?) But no, her boyfriend made a big deal out of it so my friend decided to ignore her parents and move in with him. Big Mistake. My friend soon found out that his father's exgirlfriend with her six year old son was taking a refuge at her house from her convicted ex-husband. That ex-girlfriend was annoying, ignorant and close-minded and later physically hurt my friend. Her boyfriend watched that happen without doing anything!!!! They broke up that day because there were too many people involved and too many people were in between. Okay, so my friend finally left to stay with her parents. But her psycho boyfriend has to spread lies about her and her family just because they like to destroy her life and reputation. They told lies to her professor and her friends like: She and her family is like a plague that everyone avoids, she's thief, her father is a lazy person, she borrows money from her relatives, she has credit debt and among many others! As you can see, my friend did a right thing breaking up with him.

Well, what goes around comes around and the jerk will certainly get what he deserves!

While she's obviously a psycho, and this sucks majorly for you, I'm with her on this. If someones making me feel uncomfortable in my own home I'll show them the door. end of story. Everones got to feel secure somewhere.
And normally I would agree with you on this. However she begged me to come down, and stated that I could have a couch as there was no way in hell I could afford a hotel room (gas was pushing it).

I could even accept it if she had told me at 10pm (it's a four hour drive and I had been working all day), or 11, or even midnight. I could have even accepted it if she had let me nap for a half an hour so I wasn't dangerous on the road but, nope, just randomly after watching a movie, kicked me out.

But at least I got to find out that Interstate 80 has NO cars on it at 3:30 in the morning and it's possible to actually speed up to over 75mph going through the Bay Area. ;)

I had a very psychotic boyfriend. It was the only boyfriend I ever had, and the "boyfriend" thing only lasted two days, but we continued to have a relationship, which steadily grew worse.

He was into all this nonsense about traveling on astral planes without gravity and stuff, which was okay, even if I thought it was silly, but eventually he just started creeping me out.

He was totally possessive and he was an egomaniac. I could never, ever, get a word in edgewise.

But it got much worse as time went on. He loved to believe that he was a really tough guy, and he had a serious problem with the way everyone knows I'm crazy and I'll do anything I damn well want to. He thought it was important to prove that he could physically overpower anybody he wanted to.

Ignore the fact that I weigh barely 100 pounds and he's a 235 pound wrestler.

He has also injured one of my female friends, I don't know how that went, but she was really angry and trying to calm down earlier today and screaming she'd snap his neck if she could. I dunno. She was pretty irrational.

That's just wrong.

He's still crazy. He's just kind of... snapped.

He was really creeping me out about a month ago, when he just started treating me like shit, like I was some kind of subhuman creep. I just flat-out have refused to talk to him, and now he's really lost it. I'm stuck sitting behind him in a lot of classes, since his name comes before mine in the alphabet, and like, a fly will land on his shoulder, and he thinks I'm poking him and he hits at what he thinks is me and starts screaming about how I'm a crazy freak and nobody likes me and everybody just stares at him because, well, he's insane.

Or he will just come up to me, and look at me, and start yelling at me for nothing. I never really have anything to say, but it really, really, scares me. He's made multiple death threats and says he'll beat me up if he ever gets the chance.

Since I obviously can't physically overpower someone twice my size, umm... what should I do?

It's a class of sixty people. I don't want to be embarrassed.
If he has uttered threats of harm against you or any of your family then you can have him charged and a restraining order issued against him, in Canada and the States anyway. If a restraining order is issued and it can not be effectively enforced with you both at the same school then HE and his family must make adjustments to comply with the order even if that means he is to be home schooled. You most definitely should at least file a complaint since someone like what you have described can become a violent offender!

Akido. I'm a big guy, and I do lots of martial arts. Akido is the only one where I can't just physically overpower the small women that train with me. Others In this forum would suggest getting a gun. I disagree, because I don't like guns, but when all's said and done a gun is the greatest leveler out there. Mace and other non leathals work fine as well.
Jujitsu is also a good form! Small circle Jujitsu can allow a 75 lber to make a 200 lber kiss the floor!

For those of you not familiar with the "psycho girlfriend" firsthand, I submit the following example:

Prom Date (http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/gotoprom.html)
lmao... i still feel kinda sorry for that girl though :p

edit: actually watching it again, when she gets to the "and dance and dance and danynce and danynce" bit, i want to shoot her myself ;)

lmao... i still feel kinda sorry for that girl though :p

edit: actually watching it again, when she gets to the "and dance and dance and danynce and danynce" bit, i want to shoot her myself ;)
Was it worse than this?
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