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Does Great Sex Exist?

Balipo
22-09-2005, 21:46
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?
Galloism
22-09-2005, 21:47
Greatest is such a relative term.

However, in answer to your question:

Yes.

No.
Alinania
22-09-2005, 21:47
Wait... what??
Legless Pirates
22-09-2005, 21:48
Why stop? Just try to have greater sex
Secluded Islands
22-09-2005, 21:50
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

yes

Would you stop after that?

no
Utracia
22-09-2005, 21:50
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?

All you have to do is have sex once and since that's all you've ever had it is the greatest.
Sumamba Buwhan
22-09-2005, 21:51
I've already had the greatest sex I've ever had. The marvelous thing about that is, that I have done it several times and continue to top it.

answers:

yes
no
Khodros
22-09-2005, 21:51
By default there must be a best and a worst. So yes. And I'd probably stop because I wouldn't want to try my luck and end up screwing it up.
Smunkeeville
22-09-2005, 21:52
great sex? yes it is possible
stop after that ? why would you? I mean if you can find someone who you have really great sex with then why stop?
BerkylvaniaYetAgain
22-09-2005, 21:54
great sex? yes it is possible
stop after that ? why would you? I mean if you can find someone who you have really great sex with then why stop?

Well, eventually you might get hungry or need some water or something.
BerkylvaniaYetAgain
22-09-2005, 21:55
All you have to do is have sex once and since that's all you've ever had it is the greatest.

But it's also the worst, which is a mixed message if you ask me.
Smunkeeville
22-09-2005, 21:57
Well, eventually you might get hungry or need some water or something.
maybe that is why I have lost so much weight since I got married

stop to get food and water.... interesting idea...... ;)
BerkylvaniaYetAgain
22-09-2005, 21:58
maybe that is why I have lost so much weight since I got married

stop to get food and water.... interesting idea...... ;)

BEST. DIET. EVER.

Move over, Atkins. We've got something sweatier!
Dark Fall 18235
22-09-2005, 21:59
How do you KNOW it's the greatest sex you've ever had? It's not like you can see into the future and be like, "Oh, no, this one time, when I'm 32, that's gonna be the clincher."

For me, it's a personal mission to never stop having sex. ;)
Smunkeeville
22-09-2005, 22:00
BEST. DIET. EVER.

Move over, Atkins. We've got something sweatier!
and easier to stick to. :) no more boredom :D
Smunkeeville
22-09-2005, 22:00
How do you KNOW it's the greatest sex you've ever had? It's not like you can see into the future and be like, "Oh, no, this one time, when I'm 32, that's gonna be the clincher."

For me, it's a personal mission to never stop having sex. ;)
had would be the operative word here. not going to have.
Taldaan
22-09-2005, 22:01
BEST. DIET. EVER.

Move over, Atkins. We've got something sweatier!

Now all you have to do is find someone willing to sleep with all those obese diet-needing people.
BerkylvaniaYetAgain
22-09-2005, 22:03
Now all you have to do is find someone willing to sleep with all those obese diet-needing people.

Bang! We'll pair em off! Or what is Paris Hilton up to these days? She'll do anyone...er, thing, for a buck.
WastedHeros
22-09-2005, 22:13
paris hilton? fat people's self esteems arent that low! :eek:
Smunkeeville
22-09-2005, 23:29
Now all you have to do is find someone willing to sleep with all those obese diet-needing people.
well being a former fat chick, I can tell you most of the time we are quite funny (had to be) guys like a sense of humor right?
OceanDrive2
22-09-2005, 23:32
Does Great Sex Exist?yes...but not with your wife :D
Bottle
22-09-2005, 23:40
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?
Obviously it is possible to have the "greatest sex you've ever had." If you have sex once, that's the greatest sex you've ever had. Ta-da!

And the answer to your second question is equally obvious...the first time I had sex, that was the greatest sex I'd ever had. I had a good time, and thought, "Say, that was fun! Perhaps I should do it again!" After the second time, I thought, "That was also fun! Perhaps I should do it again!" After the three hundredth time, "Yep, still fun, still getting better and better!"
Tropical Montana
22-09-2005, 23:41
Of course there's such a thing as great sex.

It has to do with the combination, though. Person A can be great in bed with person B, but stink in bed with person C. It takes a good fit and similar preferences.
Jocabia
22-09-2005, 23:43
What a silly question? Um, how would it be possible not to have the greatest sex you've ever had? There are only two answers. I have not had sex or, yes, I've had the greatest sex I've ever had.

Honey, was the the greatest sex you've ever had?
No.
Was the greatest sex you've ever had with me?
Nope.
Have you had sex with anyone else?
Nope
Was it with yourself?
Nope.
Um, does this conversation make any sense?
Nope.

I think you meant is it possible to have the greatest sex you'll ever have? Since greatest is relative you have to have had a greatest and a worst even if every time you've done it it was a tie (assuming you've engaged in the sex act).
The Vatican Realms
22-09-2005, 23:48
Why stop? Just try to have greater sex

I hear ya.
Sierra BTHP
23-09-2005, 16:31
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?

Yes, it is by definition possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had.

Mind you, the sex keeps getting better, and better, and better for me in ways that I could not POSSIBLY imagine.

And no, I'm not stopping, because I know it can get BETTER.
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 16:35
yes...but not with your wife :D
Self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 16:36
Yes, it is by definition possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had.

Mind you, the sex keeps getting better, and better, and better for me in ways that I could not POSSIBLY imagine.

And no, I'm not stopping, because I know it can get BETTER.
I think you should start a swinger advice thread. !
Sierra BTHP
23-09-2005, 16:37
Sinuhue, did you get to read the whole blog?
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 16:56
Sinuhue, did you get to read the whole blog?
I read that first page...I didn't see if there was more because I had to do it on the sly:)
Sierra BTHP
23-09-2005, 16:58
I read that first page...I didn't see if there was more because I had to do it on the sly:)

Well, read the whole thing on the sly then. It tells how we got started.
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 17:10
Well, read the whole thing on the sly then. It tells how we got started.
I did read that part actually...some good ideas there! I like your 'checklist'...especially the princess not biker wench part:). It's a bit more problematic when you live in an isolated rural community though.
Balipo
23-09-2005, 17:28
well being a former fat chick, I can tell you most of the time we are quite funny (had to be) guys like a sense of humor right?

Guys like a naked woman...funny is good as a "side dish" though...
Balipo
23-09-2005, 17:30
yes...but not with your wife :D

My wife? I hope you are not impuning the reputation of my wife...
The Mindset
23-09-2005, 17:54
YES. Holy McChicken sandwich, go for guys over 6'!
Smunkeeville
23-09-2005, 17:58
Guys like a naked woman...funny is good as a "side dish" though...
yeah. I figured out all too quick after I got married. My husband told me once "you don't have to be perfect, when you are the only naked girl in the room, you are the only naked girl in the world"
I thought he was kidding, but apparently not. :p
OceanDrive2
23-09-2005, 22:07
My wife? I hope you are not impuning the reputation of my wife...LOL...

I didnt even think you were married? :cool:

did I hit a nerve? :D

If I did ... I retract my post in shame.
Pencil 17
23-09-2005, 22:12
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?
No.
If I have the greatest meal that I had ever had in my life, I wouldn't stop eating.
Alinania
23-09-2005, 22:17
No.
If I have the greatest meal that I had ever had in my life, I wouldn't stop eating.
Hardly comparable, is it? If you were to stop eating you'd die, if you were to not have sex anymore you'd.... lead a miserable life ;)
Lord-General Drache
23-09-2005, 22:20
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?
Oh yeah. It exists. And no, no stopping.
Long Sword
23-09-2005, 22:20
the greatest sex would be to die at the end of orgasm..so i guess at that point you would be done :)
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 22:21
Hardly comparable, is it? If you were to stop eating you'd die, if you were to not have sex anymore you'd.... lead a miserable life ;)
That's not the comparison though. You could keep eating...crappy, terrible meals...or keep eating the best meal of your life, over and over, discovering new facets to the texture and test and smell...just like you could have crappy sex, or really wonderful sex...
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 22:23
the greatest sex would be to die at the end of orgasm..so i guess at that point you would be done :)
For some reason that made me think of how bees die when they sting. I wonder if it's painful...or really, really good...
Jocabia
23-09-2005, 22:27
That's not the comparison though. You could keep eating...crappy, terrible meals...or keep eating the best meal of your life, over and over, discovering new facets to the texture and test and smell...just like you could have crappy sex, or really wonderful sex...

That doesn't really relate back to the original question. And Pencil did stop eating, which does relate back to the original question. Either way the comparison doesn't really work.
Pencil 17
23-09-2005, 22:30
And Pencil did stop eating.
What does that mean?
Sinuhue
23-09-2005, 22:30
That doesn't really relate back to the original question. And Pencil did stop eating, which does relate back to the original question. Either way the comparison doesn't really work.
Yeah well that isn't the premise of this thread anyway, and Ashmoria said something in this other thread that relates I think, so I guess I've proven my point that the comparison (whatever it was) is actually unemployed.

It's getting close to quitting time on a Friday...what do you expect?
Alinania
23-09-2005, 22:31
That's not the comparison though. You could keep eating...crappy, terrible meals...or keep eating the best meal of your life, over and over, discovering new facets to the texture and test and smell...just like you could have crappy sex, or really wonderful sex...
Yes, but you'd still go on eating. ... ok... even though technically I'm right, it really doesn't make any difference ;)
As I've stated earlier on, I cannot imagine why you'd want to stop at a randomly chosen moment where you happen to think you just had the best sex of your life. ...even if someone's convinced of wanting to stop at that point (for whatever weird reasons) how can you ever be sure that *that* was it? How can you know that never again in your life you'll have such great sex (/food ;) )?
I say just give it the benefit of the doubt and go on having more or less fun :D
Gulf Republics
23-09-2005, 22:32
Sure we've all had memorable sex...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

Would you stop after that?


Logic tells me that you have to have a best and worst as long as youve done it more then once. It also tells me that once youve had "the best" youll keep wanting more of the same, whether you actually have "the best" again doesnt matter cause youll keep trying because youll remember that one time.

Kinda an obvious question...
Alinania
23-09-2005, 22:35
For some reason that made me think of how bees die when they sting. I wonder if it's painful...or really, really good...
Huh...never made that comparison either... ....perhaps because I wouldn't want to compare anything I might do to getting your ass ripped off and dying a most miserable death... :p
Copiosa Scotia
23-09-2005, 22:35
...but do you think it is possible to have the greatest sex you've ever had?

The first time I've had sex, I am certain that it will be the best sex I've ever had. So yes, it is possible.

Would you stop after that?

Of course not.