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For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?

Well duh ... cuz it's hot.

Dumbest. Question. Evar.

Well it's two or more girls instead of just one, and it just seems a little more naughty. There's just something wonderfull about hot girls getting it on with each other.

because it is more "porn efficent"

You get pleasure and girls without having to have a guy present

(being bi I like just about everything but yeah)

I'm not really into it.

There's no ugly hairy man butt or penis to get in the way, duh.

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?Because gay porn revolts us so much? No clue.
(Note that I'm only talking about my point of view, and that I'm straight :D )

As a guy...a straight guy...I really don't know. Mind you, I don't get much of a kick out of porn in general, and my best friends mother is a lesbian.
I think a load of guys like the idea there is no guy involved, and they don't want to get off over a man, especially those guys are so uptight that calling someone gay is an insult etc...

Because men are just lesbians in male bodies. I know I wish I was a hot chick so that I could have lesbian sex with other women.

Because men are just lesbians in male bodies. I know I wish I was a hot chick so that I could have lesbian sex with other women.
I found a soul-mate, i see...

Because men are just lesbians in male bodies. I know I wish I was a hot chick so that I could have lesbian sex with other women.
And you know all the hot lesbians are the really horny ones too

I think a load of guys like the idea there is no guy involved, and they don't want to get off over a man, especially those guys are so uptight that calling someone gay is an insult etc...

It's not that, I mean, when faced with the opportunity of having balls and a hairy arse removed from the equation and replaced with a woman, well... :rolleyes:

EDIT- Another point to add to that...think about it. Most male porn stars are simply ugly.

I have a question. Is it really "lesbians" that are socially accepted or is it "bi-girls"?

I have a question. Is it really "lesbians" that are socially accepted or is it "bi-girls"?

If we're talking about the majority of society, i'd say neither. If we're talking about youth culture...it's pretty exclusive to bisexual women.

I found a soul-mate, i see...


lol - will you be there to hold my hand as I get breat implants?

I think both...

And you know all the hot lesbians are the really horny ones too


which only goes to show you... um... something profound

I have a question. Is it really "lesbians" that are socially accepted or is it "bi-girls"?
Good question...what i can tell you, living in a traditionally-conservative country, is that for quite some time all "sexualy- deviant lifestyles" met public disaproval...things are changing slowly, but for the matter of the thread, and from extensive talks with male friends on this matter, is that men prefer to watch two lesbian in intercourse...

I don't go nuts for it...

lol - will you be there to hold my hand as I get breat implants?
No, we´ll keep it at a strictly platonic stage...

I don't go nuts for it...

Why watch any porn then, if it doesn't make you go for your nuts? :p

I think everybody likes bissexual sex, men or women, doesn't matter...

Why watch any porn then, if it doesn't make you go for your nuts? :p

Something told me you'd say something like that...

*grabs coconut*

Something told me you'd say something like that...

*grabs coconut*

:eek:

Who cares?
*goes back to slapping the one-eyed monster* :D

:eek:

Oh yeah, I went there.

No, we´ll keep it at a strictly platonic stage...


fine be that way! :p

Usually lesbian sex fascination is for voyeurs and porn afficiandos, not for any actual "going nuts" over real lesbians.

It stems from the fact that in many pornos there are two or more hot girls going at it. Most men don't want to see other men having sex.

It ignores the unfortunate reality that most lesbians are not porn stars, and that lesbians have no interest in men, so even meeting two hot lesbians is only sexy in that "Gee, two women who'll never have sex with me" kind of way.

I don't like seeing naked men in general so that ruins a lot of porn for me. With not left I gotta say lesbians rile men up more than anything because...uhh...think of it like math.

Women = +1
Men= -1
If x > 3 then it just gets confusing and absurd.

Basically I love a woman's body and a man's body just flat out turns me off. Hence two women going at it is fantastic.

I can't believe I just wrote that :p

I enjoy the lack of penis.

However, it annoys when people think lesbian sex is 'hawt', but say that they hate gays.

I enjoy the lack of penis.

However, it annoys when people think lesbian sex is 'hawt', but say that they hate gays.

What I find even more disturbing is the Kirby porn in your sig...

Well, someone hasn't been in touch with their masculine sides lately. The reason is because men don't like watching other men--it takes away from the effects of "Naked Woman Syndrome"--which include the release of Nitrous Oxide in the bloodstream, and hence increased bloodflow to the phallus, for that swelling of pride men know so well.

Well, someone hasn't been in touch with their masculine sides lately. The reason is because men don't like watching other men--it takes away from the effects of "Naked Woman Syndrome"--which include the release of Nitrous Oxide in the bloodstream, and hence increased bloodflow to the phallus, for that swelling of pride men know so well.
Well, we have a schollar among us...

Because. Most guys don't like checking out another guys 'member' and when they're nothing but women, it's all good.

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?
simple scientific truth:

more girls = better ;)

because....hello! what's better than a hot chick...two hot chicks! :fluffle:

because....hello! what's better than a hot chick...two hot chicks! :fluffle:
I'm a greedy bastard.
I DEMAND 3 hot chicks! :fluffle: :gundge: (well, what other emoticon can I use than a venom-spitting, green-faced monster when trying to show a typical woman? :D Just kidding, of course...)

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?
no dicks other dicks involved

I'm a greedy bastard.
I DEMAND 3 hot chicks! :fluffle: :gundge: (well, what other emoticon can I use than a venom-spitting, green-faced monster when trying to show a typical woman? :D Just kidding, of course...)

well dammit, I want 3 hot chicks too but they don't have an emoticon showing that either!

Let me simplify it for you,

1 girl great...

2 or more girls awesome!


Also when a guy sees fit lesbians we think we can 'convert' them, thats my opinion anyway.

Also when a guy sees fit lesbians we think we can 'convert' them, thats my opinion anyway.

or at least die trying huh?!

I thought guys like it because they fantasize about being in that pile of naked horny women - all I know is that out of all my male friends, only one does not get that glazed look in his eyes when I mention a bunch of us girls are having a slumber party ...LOL...guys and their dirty minds :P twisting an entirely wholesome get-together into an orgy....

lol, for some reason I find lesbian sex or MFF threesomes in porn fascinating, put the thought of actually have such a threesome makes me feel very uncomfortable (1. I don't like to share or be shared and 2. I'm afraid they would like eachother more than they did me ;) )

I thought guys like it because they fantasize about being in that pile of naked horny women - all I know is that out of all my male friends, only one does not get that glazed look in his eyes when I mention a bunch of us girls are having a slumber party ...LOL...guys and their dirty minds :P twisting an entirely wholesome get-together into an orgy....
One can always dream, right? I, for one, think that men deep down know that only a woman has the necessary insight to please another woman in a fulfilling way

I thought guys like it because they fantasize about being in that pile of naked horny women - all I know is that out of all my male friends, only one does not get that glazed look in his eyes when I mention a bunch of us girls are having a slumber party ...LOL...guys and their dirty minds :P twisting an entirely wholesome get-together into an orgy....

slumber party huh? can I cum? I mean come?

wow! I'm not even a guy and I twisted it...

One can always dream, right? I, for one, think that men deep down know that only a woman has the necessary insight to please another woman in a fulfilling way
speak for yourself man :cool:

Well, the thinking on my end goes that lesbians are generally a more sensual kind of sex, but also that anything a woman can do to a woman, a man can do to a woman- so yeah, I'd rather look at women.

*takes off chauvanist hat*

As a bisexual chick woefully deprived of proper porn...

I'd have to say -I- like watching two women because in general, the following applies:

1) Women are sexier
2) Women have less hair in places that would be better un-hairy
3) Goddamnit, women are sexier
4) Women generally tease each other a lot more (and better)

As a bisexual chick woefully deprived of proper porn...

I'd have to say -I- like watching two women because in general, the following applies:

1) Women are sexier
2) Women have less hair in places that would be better un-hairy
3) Goddamnit, women are sexier.
But, as a bisexual, do you only lesbian porn?what about gay porn? By the way, do you leeave "straight" porn totally out of the equation?

Because they kiss more sexy.

It's an obvious thing. Lesbians rock!! :headbang:

I'm also a bi female who prefers lesbian porn and it's really simple as to why for me. The women please each other more efficiently and as a female you can fantasise about being pleased more easily.

You know, lesbian porn doesn't do a thing for me in the least. Of course, I'm a gay man...

I'm also a bi female who prefers lesbian porn and it's really simple as to why for me. The women please each other more efficiently and as a female you can fantasise about being pleased more easily.
A question if you please, should lesbians be allowed to use dildos, after all ,they made their choice? ;)

I'm a straight man and I do not like lesbian porn. In fact, I consider watching it a waste of time, since I could be watching better, non-lesbian porn.
You just can't beat watching a guy go at it with some hot chick :p
Call me a homosexual if you want, I don't mind, gays can be cool too.
There ain't nothing wrong with a bit of homoeroticism ;)

A question if you please, should lesbians be allowed to use dildos, after all ,they made their choice? ;)

I personally don't have a problem with it, but I don't like watching that no...lol maybe we should start the Lesbians using dildos police squad!

And you know all the hot lesbians are the really horny ones too

I think that's the crux of the fantasy. Girl on girl porn isn't really the same as real lesbian porn, or grrl on girl. A friend of mine, who is a lesbian, showed me such porn once. It nearly made me sick. I felt like I was watching transvestite porn. Fortunatly, she has, for the most part, much better taste in porn than that.

The fantasy that guys are getting into isn't two women who don't want men, but women who are just so sex starved that they will descend on each other in the absence of a man. That way the fantasy leaves room for the guy to show up and get pounced on by a room full of horny women without having to go to all the trouble of seducing them. It's like a sex buffet in his head.

I think that's the crux of the fantasy. Girl on girl porn isn't really the same as real lesbian porn, or grrl on girl. A friend of mine, who is a lesbian, showed me such porn once. It nearly made me sick. I felt like I was watching transvestite porn. Fortunatly, she has, for the most part, much better taste in porn than that.

The fantasy that guys are getting into isn't two women who don't want men, but women who are just so sex starved that they will descend on each other in the absence of a man. That way the fantasy leaves room for the guy to show up and get pounced on by a room full of horny women without having to go to all the trouble of seducing them. It's like a sex buffet in his head.
I don´t agree...many men just like to watch the girl-on-girl thing playing out without even considering joining in

I think it's disgusting.

My best friend, and ex-girlfriend is bi and I always thought the mention of her with another woman was disgusting. Also, I'm a born & Raised Italiano boy, so I was taught to have higher morals and values.

Women in a mans dress shirt, sexy, women in a mans dress shirt kissing each other, disgusting.

I don´t agree...many men just like to watch the girl-on-girl thing playing out without even considering joining in

Men like to look at the big boobs without even considering her ability to breast feed his children or the curvy hips without thinking about her ability to deliver them. That doesn't mean that it isn't tickling some part of his hindbrain somewhere.

Meh, it doesn't really arouse me. I don't see the point in fantasizing about a situation in which you'd have a low to no chance of joining in on the fun. I've seen it before, in person, and while it's interesting, it's not all that different from any two other people going at it.

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?


I think the idea is that it's a thing not many of us get the opporunity to experience. I know I wish I had that opportunity.

I guess my question would be how do you get your wife to pick up another chick to gain such an experience.

I think the idea is that it's a thing not many of us get the opporunity to experience. I know I wish I had that opportunity.

I guess my question would be how do you get your wife to pick up another chick to gain such an experience.

Be really really rich and marry a woman who's really really insecure.

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?

I'm getting tired of answering this... here's my page explaining it (don't worry, it isn't illustrated):

http://www.safalra.com/special/menlikelesbians/

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?

Most men? I always fast forward that part...

Because gay porn revolts us so much? No clue.

Interesting!! This might actually have something to do with it!!

There is, after all, a psychological phenomenon known as "splitting" in which one cannot conceive of something as a "whole" -- all the good aspects get split onto one object, and the bad aspects onto another.

The most common form of this is the "madonna/slut" division in how men think of women -- all women are either "pure" or "slutty" with no real women in the middle. There is also the "good father / bad father" split.

But it can happen with other things as well.

What if the reason men love lesbian sex, is that we find it so hard to let ourselves recognize the beautiful, sexy aspects of male homosexuality... so we take all of those positive things and push them into female homosexuality, concentrating our disgust on the male act?

Hmmm... we could be onto something here!!

Twice the breasts

*nod*

It's 99% more astheticically pleasing.

I watch for the beauty of it.

Okay, here we go. Deep breath.

First of all, you have to put yourself in the place of a man looking for ummmmm... excitement. Now in such a state, are you going to think "I want to find the most realistic (meaning 2 member male on female) erotic situation possible."? No, you will probably want look for something without a man in it (In most cases). I assume this for one of four reasons (Three of which have already been well explained):

1)Lack of competitive spirit in the viewer: the presence of another man makes an unfit person feel (in the more instinctual meaning of the word) that he has no way to compete with the other male and, more likely,

2)The presence of the other man dilutes the eroticism of the experience: as this was so well described by Bene-Gesserit it takes away from the effects of "Naked Woman Syndrome"--which include the release of Nitrous Oxide in the bloodstream, and hence increased blood flow to the phallus, for that swelling of pride men know so well.

3)The actual fantasy isn't lesbianism, it is a set up for heterosexual eroticism:The fantasy that guys are getting into isn't two women who don't want men, but women who are just so sex starved that they will descend on each other in the absence of a man. That way the fantasy leaves room for the guy to show up and get pounced on by a room full of horny women without having to go to all the trouble of seducing them. It's like a sex buffet in his head.. And let me add 'or themselves' after "descend on each other"



4)The woman being satisfied is in a possibly greater state of ecstasy: [A man doesn't have] the necessary insight to please another woman in a fulfilling way. A sort of Women’s Intuition? Maybe more accurately, a sort of physical sympathy.



The result therefore is a choice between one woman, two women, or more. Excluding the latter, I attribute the success of the second to one or more of the following (Again, two have been said before):

1)A very common response, "Two are better than one"

2)It seems more satisfying that the one (only in cases where this is true) who is getting the majority of the echem... attention, is being pampered by the other, by this I mean she doesn't have to work for it.

3)A woman acting on her own cannot see what she is doing, inciting the idea that she is not being pleased as efficiently, quickly, or effectively as possible. This is an extension of #4 above.

4)A preconceived notion brought on by today's media that to be placed in such a situation (modified to include the man) where two women are willing etc. is erotically ideal, despite the fact that in real life it is actually quite alien, uncomfortable, unnatural, confusing, make your pick.

The interesting thing is the common use of the term 'Lesbian' and it's association with an increased level of heteroeroticism in males ignoring the obvious fact that lesbians are as willing (if not less) to initiate a heterosexual relationship with these men as(than) a gay male is willing to with a woman. I link this fact with one quite well used one, and this is the most important point I have yet to make. I believe, as do a great majority of women, that MOST men think with their penises. Here however is where my opinion differs, I think, therefore I know that it is possible for men to think; thus, I know that such behaviour as would be attributed to a man 'thinking' by his penis is limited to time during which they are aroused or planning on becoming aroused. So I believe that a man does not even consider the possibility that the women he is watching wouldn't find him attractive, the instinctual processes in his brain realize that these women are being sexually pleased in his presence and attribute this to the fact that he is there. The question isn't whether he can actually have sex with them, it is whether he thinks he already is having sex with them.

Wow, Exhausting. Please send retorts, I would love to know if my argument can stand to questioning.

Well, It does seems as though most males are attracted to it, I think there are quite a few reasons. The best I can think of is that most male porn stars aren't that good looking, so by eliminating them the guys might enjoy the porn more? Some also seem attracted to femal masturbation pornos as well... so this could be applied in that situation as well...*shrugs*

Then again I know quite a few straight males that are complete repulsed by lesbians and lesbian porn.

I am a female, I am not bi or lesbian, but I am attracted to lesbian porn... then again I am attracted to gay(male) porn, infact I least like straight porn, even though the sexuality I identify with is closest to straight. (I'm not confused about my sexuality... though I think most everyone else would be if I took the time to explain it, heh...)

There was some movie, I can't remember the exact quote, but in it a guy was asked this, and he said something along the lines of 'Girls are... soft, so lesbians (or lesbian sex) are just really... soft"

I don't think I'm really making a point, but oh well... "Lord Bruce Campbell" seems to have the best basic reason covered

Hmmm that is one long reply! Quite interesting to read too. I quite often ask guys that and either

a) don't get a straight answer
or
b) get the answer about "conversion" and the whole pride thing.

Personally the question I would now like answering is: Why are men so against gays? They like anything involving females but guy on guy is such a big no no for them.... Gays are sweet :)

I spoke with several psychiatrists on this issue. They said, when it comes right down to it, either consciously or unconsciously/latently, guys don't want a guy in the picture there to compare themselves to when they are with two women.

It's a bit of an insecurity thing. Rather than watching a 3some, take the competition/comparison out.

I believe this to be true as well.

Ding ding! I think this is the winner. And all the guys will say "no way, I'm not insecure, blah blah blah" and I will look you square in the screen and say, "unconsciously/latently". :fluffle:

Because we don't have to look at a naked guy.

Hmmm that is one long reply! Quite interesting to read too. I quite often ask guys that and either

a) don't get a straight answer
or
b) get the answer about "conversion" and the whole pride thing.

Personally the question I would now like answering is: Why are men so against gays? They like anything involving females but guy on guy is such a big no no for them.... Gays are sweet :)

Women can sometimes get into guy on guy AND girl on girl, easier as well, because, and studies show this, women's brains are wired to be more bi-sexual than men's brains.

However, men still have that insecurity "latent fear" thang going on. If they deny it, 50% of the time or more, it's just latent.

If woman is with a woman, that doesn't make her a lesbian. If a guy is with a guy, that doesn't make him a homosexual. So There!

Don't fret about it!

Because we don't have to look at a naked guy.

As I said. It makes you uncomfortable, while a woman looking at a naked woman doesn't make us freak.

Personally the question I would now like answering is: Why are men so against gays? They like anything involving females but guy on guy is such a big no no for them.... Gays are sweet :)
I'm a straight man and I have nothing against gays.

Why do women go nuts for gay male sex? ;)

As I said. It makes you uncomfortable, while a woman looking at a naked woman doesn't make us freak.
That's because in general men tend to go for the extremes of sexuality: most men are either very much gay or very much straight. Women tend to be more in the middle. This is why there are more female bisexuals than male bisexuals.

I'm a straight man and I have nothing against gays.

Why do women go nuts for gay male sex? ;)
You SO intended for that pun....;)

Why do women go nuts for gay male sex? ;)

It's great! :p (probably for the same reason guys like f/f)

For some time i´ve been entertaining this question: Why is it that most men greatly enjoy lesbian porn? What´s your view on the matter?

There are many reasons (sexuality is quite complex). Heres one, there are men who are not satisfied with their body (as opposed to their gender). They are attracted to women, but would rather have a female body. Lesbian porn is simply a means of fantasy full-fillment...

On a side note, I wonder how many women out there feel the same way towards men, attracted to men but would rather have a male body.... And how much gay porn do such women consume as a means of fantasy wish full-fillment (women being less visual then men, as demonstrated by lower sales of playgirl)?....

Any one have statistics?

heh http://forums2.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=9461168&postcount=2222 ;)

I still insist this is the one true theory:

http://www.safalra.com/special/menlikelesbians/

Extract:

This page answers the commons questions, Why do men like lesbians? and Why are so many women bisexual? I doubt the theory of mine detailed below is original - it seems too elegant in its demonstration that these two obversations can be easily explained by evolutionary theory, and do not contradict it as many insist.

*Ooh Oooh* No like other males in territory. Want wo-man. Want many wo-man. *ooh ooh*

Or something like that I think.

(apologies to Sluggy Freelance)

Why do so many girls like yaoi/boy-boy love?

Men like lesbians for two reasons:

a) It implies a strong female sex drive. Since society drills women to be passive and men aggressive, men are shocked and intrigued by the idea that two women would be assertive and lustful enough to have a sexual relationship.

b) They don't have to see/think about another guy's penis.

It implies a strong female sex drive. Since society drills women to be passive and men aggressive, men are shocked and intrigued by the idea that two women would be assertive and lustful enough to have a sexual relationship.Nothing takes the fun out of sex faster than a scientific analysis...

Nothing takes the fun out of sex faster than a scientific analysis...

I'm an 18 year old male. That's impossible. Sorry if I ruined it for the rest of you, but frankly old people shouldn't be having sex anyway; it's bad for the mental health of the rest of us.

Confessions of a Perverted Mind:

I've never been that much into lesbians, the reason being that it's my opinion that there are three things that make porn enjoyable.

1) Stunning women
2) Penetration(s)
3) Semen (preferably on the stunning women)

While lesbian porn usually has the first in abundance, it's seriously lacking in the second and is completely devoid of the third. Off course I don't mind watching lesbian encounters, but in most cases I'd describe them more as beautiful than sexy.

Why do men go nuts for lesbian sex?

Was the title of this thread ment to be a terrible pun?

Was the title of this thread ment to be a terrible pun?
No, actually when i put it out (no pun there too) i never thought it could be interpreted that way...my bad,i guess, but the alternative title ("why do men enjoy in such a lascivious fashion lesbian sex?") didn´t seem marketing savy.

One woman: good
Two women:better

Porn lesbian sex is great however the majority of real life lesbians are short fat ugly and more butch than me...not that great.

the majority of real life lesbians are short fat ugly and more butch than me...not that great.

Tread carefully, for you tread on many men's dreams. :)

I still insist this is the one true theory:

http://www.safalra.com/special/menlikelesbians/

Extract:

Insist away... that doesn't mean it IS true.

I think that too many people in here have their pet theories, that they think can cover as broad a spectrum as sexuality.

I'm sure some guys do seek 'lesbian' activity because of alpha-male/lesbian female mechanisms.

I'm sure some guys do seek 'lesbian' activity because they are hung up about their supressed same-sex sexuality.

Some guys think they can convert lesbians. Some guys can only enjoy bi-sex activity.

On the other hand, of course - perhaps some guys just don't find testicles attractive... it could really be THAT simple.

Personally, there is nothing to interest me about straight or gay porn with guys in it, and nothing interesting about 'lesbian' porn that has ANY indication of maleness.

It is purely aesthetic... one girl kissing another girl is just art.

On a related topic: does anyone agree that the growing use of strapons in lesbian porn is slowly but steadly eroding the "original purity" of the genre by mimicing hetero intercourse, or, on the contrary, consider it a welcomed novelty item?

On a related topic: does anyone agree that the growing use of strapons in lesbian porn is slowly but steadly eroding the "original purity" of the genre by mimicing hetero intercourse, or, on the contrary, consider it a welcomed novelty item?
Welcomed here :)

On a related topic: does anyone agree that the growing use of strapons in lesbian porn is slowly but steadly eroding the "original purity" of the genre by mimicing hetero intercourse, or, on the contrary, consider it a welcomed novelty item?

no it adds the much needed hard screwing missed in lesbian porn which is mainly soft loving

its also fun to see some virgins face as a industrial sized dildo is pulled out the draw :D

Personally, there is nothing to interest me about straight or gay porn with guys in it, and nothing interesting about 'lesbian' porn that has ANY indication of maleness.

It is purely aesthetic... one girl kissing another girl is just art.I am a female, I am not bi or lesbian, but I am attracted to lesbian porn... in fact I least like straight porn, even though the sexuality I identify with is closest to straight. (I'm not confused about my sexuality... though I think most everyone else would be if I took the time to explain it, heh...)

There was some movie, I can't remember the exact quote, but in it a guy was asked this, and he said something along the lines of 'Girls are... soft, so lesbians (or lesbian sex) are just really... soft"

I don't think I'm really making a point, but oh well... "Lord Bruce Campbell" seems to have the best basic reason covered
Thank you for the compliment. Yeah! I get to talk again! Now about the use of "soft" and "art".

I realize that many men (Including myself) feel this way. I myself am catholic, do not seek out pornography for erotic purposes, and have on occasion seen lesbian pornography (though not for erotic purposes). All I can say for myself is that the lack of a penetration seems to make the entire activity more sensual and less sexual or primal. Pornography has never excited me erotically, but for some reason, the lesbian variety seems to stimulate me emotionally, especially in movies which are not meant to be pornographic and the actresses are good. This brings my religion and the gay issue into argument; according to the catholic church I am called to help as many people as possible evade a lifestyle which leads them to hell, homosexual practices being one; I take this as, "If you are not gay, you are supposed to make sure that those who are know what It will get them".


Sidenote:
Hopefully nobody thinks I have anything against homosexuals, to me they are normal people who have gone astray, so after I initially talk to them about their sexual preference I continue my relationship with them like I would any other person. I know this is a touchy subject for many people, so I'll just say, I am not gay and that is all that matters to me.


And running back a sentence to get back on topic:
I take this as, "If you are not gay, you are supposed to make sure that those who are know what it will get them". I suppose this is why such artistic films tickle my fancy, the fact that I am unable to fully inform the actresses of exactly what they are doing and despite the fact that I cannot reach them, they seem fully aware that most people would shun them and that what they are doing is forbidden. Even with such knowledge the strength of their connection forces them to move forward. I think that the only reason I feel differently about males in this situation is that the whole Idea of yaoi/male-homosexual sex seems to be less clean and sensual while at the same time more vicious; this is probably because of both the idea of penetration itself added to 'anal' penetration. Male sexuality (whether hetero- or homosexual) is in most cases, violent (best word to describe it); Violent not in the normal meaning, but only to represent a complete lack of sensitivity.

Overall I can only say that I prefer lesbian sexuality to hetero or gay sexuality as an art, Aesthetically pleasing and emotionally stimulating. It is just beautiful.

I still think it is gross....

Quit the bullshit, men like lesbian porn because

1. Theres no guy with his arse in the shot all the time
2. Theres twice more woman to wank over.

I really don't see the appeal. If they are supposed to be lesbian, then by definition they don't like men and ain't gonna sleep with you, so I couldn't really picture it in a fantasy. Bi sexual porn I can understand, but still not into it that much.

Maybe it's just cause I have a (unwanted) prejudice against Lesbianism, meh.

Double everything :p

I applaud all of you who've made arrogant statements. :rolleyes:

Quentin's got it right, but, I have the urge to say something rather ignorant. I will. Lesbian porn is for men who are insecure about their own sexuality. I had to say it. I just had to.

Originally Posted by Sergio the First
On a related topic: does anyone agree that the growing use of strapons in lesbian porn is slowly but steadly eroding the "original purity" of the genre by mimicing hetero intercourse, or, on the contrary, consider it a welcomed novelty item?
Mimicing hetero intercourse? Most homosexual relationships mimic heterosexual relationships. I'm the type of lesbian that doesn't really have that many male traits about me-- and the male/female idea doesn't just apply in the bedroom-- I go for the more manly type, just by personal preference.



Originally Posted by Call to power

its also fun to see some virgins face as a industrial sized dildo is pulled out the draw :D

Lmao! Hah! Let's see those little 'I only do women for the money' amateurs deal with something like that-- wait, my bad, it's only happened in a vast majority of lesbian porno :D :p