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in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg
you Sir, have large eyebrows. argle.

Girls are into the Bum look this summer! :p

Bask in it man, I have the same grunge-look and I can't keep the ladies away with a stick.

Girls are into the Bum look this summer! :p
if that's it then you should've seen me before the beard got trimmed.
<photo incoming> <no longer incoming>

You do actually look cute. Smile a little and it'll come out.

if that's it then you should've seen me before the beard got trimmed.
<photo incoming>
Ha HA :D

You do actually look cute. Smile a little and it'll come out.
:eek: another one! when are people going to stop saying this, it scares me.
me? smile? too much effort. <starts smiling>

you look like a mondo stoner, and, therefore, my kind of dude :D
in a strictly heterosexual fashion you understand ;) (i'm a dude in case you didn't know)

as for "cute", i really don't know...

You are cute, in a "very chic for the season," cam-whore way. The eyebrows could use a trim, and I bet you'd be adorable in a head band so that we could see your pretty face....

Up to you to figure out if I'm sarcastic or not. Go!

:eek: another one! when are people going to stop saying this, it scares me.
me? smile? too much effort. <starts smiling>

Hehehe chibi! ^_^

Your appearance is comical to me. [/simpsons]

If girls say you are cute, they think you are harmless. Use that to your advantage until they let down their guard

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg

You should let the fab five get a hold of you...

Pluck the eyebrows.. get a nice hair cut.. heheh... shave all the facial hair..

You should let the fab five get a hold of you...

Pluck the eyebrows.. get a nice hair cut.. heheh... shave all the facial hair..

Don't listen to Mesatecala. He has no taste in men (he likes twinkish boymen) and no perception of you being right this season. :p

If girls say you are cute, they think you are harmless. Use that to your advantage until they let down their guard

Ugh, yeah...When they let down their guard they are definitely going to have random sex with you on your insistence, because they see you as harmless. Yes. :rolleyes:

you look like a mondo stoner, and, therefore, my kind of dude :D
in a strictly heterosexual fashion you understand ;) (i'm a dude in case you didn't know)

as for "cute", i really don't know...
i think the looking like a stoner is from me trying to look at the webcam and the monitor at the same time. and from the fact that i had at least 6 beers earlier today.
nice to know that i can pull off the stoner look though.

My name is Liverbreath to keep the pervs at bay. It didn't work, so I am not surprised the skid row look didn't work either. Chalk it up to your animal magnitisim, take a shower, shave and reconsider where you party.

You should let the fab five get a hold of you...

Pluck the eyebrows.. get a nice hair cut.. heheh... shave all the facial hair..
NO. that is a very bad idea. i DO NOT want to go to uni looking like i'm 15. no girl i've met so far thinks that's a good idea. except for the one who wanted me to shave and dress up as cardcaptor sakura (damn you CLAMP!).

Ugh, yeah...When they let down their guard they are definitely going to have random sex with you on your insistence, because they see you as harmless. Yes. :rolleyes:
You are assuming that they are given a choice.

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".Cut the hair, and you'd be more than "cute." But, of course, you don't seem to want to be cute, which is fine, too.

Liverbreath']My name is Liverbreath to keep the pervs at bay. It didn't work, so I am not surprised the skid row look didn't work either. Chalk it up to your animal magnitisim, take a shower, shave and reconsider where you party.
won't work for 2 reasons:
1. the people who called me cute go the same uni as i do and waste their time in the same place as me
2. if i do shave and get a haircut, they'll continue calling me cute because they know how much it pains me, especially if i'm trying to get them to stop

if the photo is really what you look like i think that in this case "cute" means "you would be devastatingly handsome with the right make-over"

You are assuming that they are given a choice.

Oh, so you get them drunk and rape them or something?

Cut the hair, and you'd be more than "cute." But, of course, you don't seem to want to be cute, which is fine, too.
i don't mind it when people say i'm good looking (especially if they're female people) but the way they say "cute" when they talk about me is not exactly a way that comes out like that. hence why i say "cute"

Oh, so you get them drunk and rape them or something?
Yes, of course I do. :rolleyes: Don't you?

Yes, of course I do. :rolleyes: Don't you?

Well, what did you mean then? Please explain what you mean by "not giving them a choice".

i don't mind it when people say i'm good looking (especially if they're female people) but the way they say "cute" when they talk about me is not exactly a way that comes out like that. hence why i say "cute"
Seriously though, I don't think "cute" is bad. Now "sweet", well that's the kiss of death.

If girls say you are cute, they think you are harmless. Use that to your advantage until they let down their guard

Oh, you poor thing? Can you only get girls who aren't able to turn you down? That surely must suck.

Maybe you should consider a personality transplant. I hear they do wonders for not getting your genitals ripped out by girls' brothers/fathers/rogue cops.

Or by, for those reading this who aren't living in a phallic-centred world, the woman you plan on taking advantage of. Some of us have pretty nifty sets of teeth on us, you know.

You are assuming that they are given a choice.

Well, yes. That's because Kanabia can get girls who are actually conscious, and no doubt finds the idea of 'taking advantage' of girls utterly sickening. Might as well fuck a corpse, for all it'll do for your reputation. If you don't give them a choice, you're basically acknowledging the fact that, given a choice, they'd run a mile if even approached by you. Way to give us girls such an early warning.

But then again, we have a case here in Aus of a family of rapists whose father watched a tape of one of his sons raping a comatose 13 year old, and whose only comment was "...Wouldn't he make a great gynecologist...", so... yes. Nothing regarding male-depravity would surprise me right now.

...

This all combined with my readings of the Kitty Genovese case is making me wonder how long it'll be 'til we can revoke humanity.

i don't mind it when people say i'm good looking (especially if they're female people) but the way they say "cute" when they talk about me is not exactly a way that comes out like that. hence why i say "cute"Ohhh, I think I get it. They're saying it in a sarcastic manner?

i don't mind it when people say i'm good looking (especially if they're female people) but the way they say "cute" when they talk about me is not exactly a way that comes out like that. hence why i say "cute"

Doesn't sound like something to worry about - when I call guys cute, I'm normally referring to mannerisms, not looks. Adorable, cute and sweet all mean the same thing - "I am amused by what you are doing, but in the good 'it improves my opinion of you' way, not the bad 'hahaha I point and laugh' way".

Oh, you poor thing? Can you only get girls who aren't able to turn you down? That surely must suck.

Maybe you should consider a personality transplant. I hear they do wonders for not getting your genitals ripped out by girls' brothers/fathers/rogue cops.

Or by, for those reading this who aren't living in a phallic-centred world, the woman you plan on taking advantage of. Some of us have pretty nifty sets of teeth on us, you know.



Well, yes. That's because Kanabia can get girls who are actually conscious, and no doubt finds the idea of 'taking advantage' of girls utterly sickening. Might as well fuck a corpse, for all it'll do for your reputation. If you don't give them a choice, you're basically acknowledging the fact that, given a choice, they'd run a mile if even approached by you. Way to give us girls such an early warning.

But then again, we have a case here in Aus of a family of rapists whose father watched a tape of one of his sons raping a comatose 13 year old, and whose only comment was "...Wouldn't he make a great gynecologist...", so... yes. Nothing regarding male-depravity would surprise me right now.

...

This all combined with my readings of the Kitty Genovese case is making me wonder how long it'll be 'til we can revoke humanity.
Note: everything on the internet is dead serious and requires some douchebag essay on morals and ethics.

Note: everything on the internet is dead serious and requires some douchebag essay on morals and ethics.

Well, if it was a joke, it wasn't in the least bit funny. So I guess you fail either way.

Well, if it was a joke, it wasn't in the least bit funny. So I guess you fail either way.
Meh. You can't please everybody.

Note: everything on the internet is dead serious and requires some douchebag essay on morals and ethics.

Note: If you act like a fucking douchebag, people will assume you are and react accordingly.

Don't want to read essays on morals? Don't talk about date raping girls on a public forum.

Meh. You can't please everybody.

Or, like... anybody?

You two need to get the stick out of your asses. There is nothing worse than getting a finger wagging lecture on your sense of humor.

You two need to get the stick out of your asses. There is nothing worse than getting a finger wagging lecture on your sense of humor.

Maybe you should get your sense of humour checked, then.

You two need to get the stick out of your asses. There is nothing worse than getting a finger wagging lecture on your sense of humor.

Except, maybe, your sense of humour in the first place.

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg

Dude.. They were lying, you look closer to 'Charles Manson' than 'Chibi Cuteness'.

Maybe you should get your sense of humour checked, then.
Maybe you should lighten up and stop being so offended you crybaby.

Maybe you should lighten up and stop being so offended you crybaby.

...

You think this is me offended?

I'd laugh, but you haven't been around long enough to know better, I don't think.

And for future reference, most people reserve 'crybaby' for people who post on the Moderation board. Don't waste all your witty comebacks now, or you'll be all dried out when the inevitable complaints begin.

Fass, that's a very nasty thing to say about me.

NO. that is a very bad idea. i DO NOT want to go to uni looking like i'm 15. no girl i've met so far thinks that's a good idea. except for the one who wanted me to shave and dress up as cardcaptor sakura (damn you CLAMP!).

Hahah... I don't get much flak for it, but then again I'm gay...

Fass, that's a very nasty thing to say about me.

It was a joke, based in truth. You really need to grow some thicker skin or stop taking everything so personally. It was a friendly jibe - you're supposed to either jibe back, or cleverly argue for your point of view.

Not everything is an attack. Some things are actually attempts at making you feel like part of the crowd here, you know, by not walking on egg-shells around you. :rolleyes:

/I don't know why I bother.

It was a joke, based in truth. You really need to grow some thicker skin or stop taking everything so personally. It was a jibe - you're supposed to either jibe back, or cleverly argue for your point of view.

Not everything is an attack. Some things are actually attempts at making you feel like part of the crowd here, you know, by not walking on egg-shells around you. :rolleyes:

/I don't know why I bother.

Well it was just the seriousness.. jokes usually lack it..

I don't know why I bothered saying anything in response to it.

Ah Shaed, looks like we scared him off. ;)

Well it was just the seriousness.. jokes usually lack it..

I don't know why I bothered saying anything in response to it.

This smiley " :p " indicates it was a small, unserious tease (you know, just like putting your tongue out does in real life). I added it just to make it apparent that I was joking with you, since you apparently have a completely different taste in men than I do. I'll remember not to do so in the future, since you obviously don't get things like these.

Ah Shaed, looks like we scared him off. ;)

Awwww
But I wasn't done batting him around and watching him squeak!
Siiigh... back to the catnip with me then.

Awwww
But I wasn't done batting him around and watching him squeak!
Siiigh... back to the catnip with me then.

Hehe. Drugs are bad, mmkay? Go back to your scratching...post....thing. Or kill and eat some small animal.

Hehe. Drugs are bad, mmkay? Go back to your scratching...post....thing. Or kill and eat some small animal.

That's what I was trying to do! Bah! And also humbug! And also, isn't there a topic we're neglecting!?

That's what I was trying to do! Bah! And also humbug! And also, isn't there a topic we're neglecting!?

Yes, I believe there was. *fades into background*

You look kinda funny, dude.
Can't really say if you'er "cute" as I save that word for females, but I think there's plenty of them willing to call you so, even without sarcasm. I have couple of friends who are actually trying hard to look like a bum, and are beeing kinda succesful with women, so it is very likely.

You two are pathetic. I'm not going to sit here all day and argue for the validity of making offensive wisecracks. Feel free to keep talking about it though.

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpgIt's got to be the hair. Don't worry about it. "Cute" is not an insult.

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpgAwwww!
You're so scruffy!
I love your look. I'd tap that.

You look like a pirate, and we all know pirates are bad ass - only slightly less so than ninjas

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several people (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".


Brush up the hair a bit more for my tastes, but yeah, I do see it. Yummy. Rather easy on the eyes.

FUCK!

How could I miss... That... Fuck all. Urgh. I want to tear somebody to shreds!

*listens to Husker Du to further piss himself off*

The good news is that your outward appearance does not reflect what your value is as a person.

Bask in it man, I have the same grunge-look and I can't keep the ladies away with a stick.

would you really want to? That is the question. hehe

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg

There's no accounting for taste. :rolleyes:

in the past couple of days at uni, i had the very scary experience of having several poeple (female people, i might add) call me <shudder> "cute".
honestly, i don't believe them, so i whipped out my webcam and here's a pic so you can give me your opinion.
http://images.faces.com/io/141038.jpg
[ shudders ] Well, all I can say is, "You're definitely not MY type!" Heh! :D

Oh no pic

[ shudders ] Well, all I can say is, "You're definitely not MY type!" Heh! :DDon't lie. You know you think he's sexy.

Damn you're ugly! In a cute way... aw, heck I can't be mean. While in my book you fall into the "good-looking" category, I wouldn't put you in the "cute" section. To me "cute" refers to the type of guys with babyish features.

In reality it depends on the body language and voice quality of the women involved to explain in what way they found you cute.

There is the " Oh my GAWD he is soooo cute." Translation: They think you are absolutely gorgeous.

Oh.. he's cute. Translation: He is acceptable... has possibilities or they are just playing it cool.

Your just so cute. Translation: Sees something you did as funny/made them happy/ or ....the bane one.....see you like a brother.

Ect.

So think back and try to decipher what they were really saying

Oh yeah... I forgot... some might just think you are cute lol.

Truth be told, you are kinda cute. You just need a trim, your hair brushed once and a whild, and to make your stubble a little neater. Other than that, you are kinda cute.

You have a cute face.

Your ugly but adorable.

Truth be told, you are kinda cute. You just need a trim, your hair brushed once and a whild, and to make your stubble a little neater. Other than that, you are kinda cute.Nooooooooooooo!!!!!
That'd totally ruin him!

You are perfect just the way you are, my scruffy friend.

Except, maybe, your sense of humour in the first place.

This wins "Burn of the Week".

But then again, we have a case here in Aus of a family of rapists whose father watched a tape of one of his sons raping a comatose 13 year old, and whose only comment was "...Wouldn't he make a great gynecologist...", so... yes. Nothing regarding male-depravity would surprise me right now.ew


This all combined with my readings of the Kitty Genovese case is making me wonder how long it'll be 'til we can revoke humanity.For those of you who don't know: this (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitty_Genovese) is Kitty Genovese. I only happen to know because my psych teacher talked about the case occasionally.

*Sorry to be so slow in responding to this post. I am only just now reading everything between the original post and my response to it. And I agree. Totally, and with everything you said.

ew


For those of you who don't know: this (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitty_Genovese) is Kitty Genovese. I only happen to know because my psych teacher talked about the case occasionally.

Seconded.

*cringe*

why did ever decide to do something as insane as start this thread? my lack of self confidence/respect is never going to let me live this down. how can so many people agree that i'm cute, or at least not entirely unnattractive :headbang: . oh well, i guess i'll just have to accept this.
BTW. they were saying it in the sort of way you describe a cute toy, etc. they were also playing with my hair going curly, straight, curly, straight.
would have been wore active in this thread had my net connection not have exploded. damn you chariot netconnect, you win this time :mp5:

Objectively compare your face to these 'characteristics of beautiful faces' and you'll be able to determine if you're 'cute' or not: here (http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakultaeten/phil_Fak_II/Psychologie/Psy_II/beautycheck/english/prototypen/prototypen.htm)

Objectively compare your face to these 'characteristics of beautiful faces' and you'll be able to determine if you're 'cute' or not: here (http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakultaeten/phil_Fak_II/Psychologie/Psy_II/beautycheck/english/prototypen/prototypen.htm)
I don't think a person can "objectively" judge their own appearance, even given a model like this.

It must be a bummer to be the "ugly guy" model.

I don't think a person can "objectively" judge their own appearance, even given a model like this.

It must be a bummer to be the "ugly guy" model.
Well, depends what you mean by objective. Or what I meant. If you just kind of get out some calipers and measure proportions and compare, then sure, you have some sort of objective measure. If you're saying the good looking person in the picture isn't an objective standard, well you have a point, beauty is in the eye the beholder. On the other hand, a lot of the eyes tend to agree on what is beautiful. ;)

Well, depends what you mean by objective. Or what I meant. If you just kind of get out some calipers and measure proportions and compare, then sure, you have some sort of objective measure. If you're saying the good looking person in the picture isn't an objective standard, well you have a point, beauty is in the eye the beholder. On the other hand, a lot of the eyes tend to agree on what is beautiful. ;)
Probably so. But on the other hand, a lot of women would be attracted to the "ugly guy" there.

Probably so. But on the other hand, a lot of women would be attracted to the "ugly guy" there.
That's good news for him. :) The other ('handsome') guy is actually a computer generated composite. I tried it out with my face and Gregory Peck's once, and I have to admit, to me we both looked better than individually (although, not according to some people, so what do I know?).