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me, i listen to heavy music as loud as i dare. right now the selection is Pitchshfter, but the best is the band Exodus and their album Another Lesson In Violence. when some dickheads at the computer store formatted my hard drive without telling me a few years ago, that album went straight in the CD player the only time my hi-fi has been turned up to maximum volume for longer than a few seconds :)

playing drums is also good, but i have no kit here :(

its odd making or listening to heavy, loud noises relaxes me, but it works so i don't argue



anyways, what do you do to "chillax" when you're pissed off?

I like to sit somewhere dark, cold, and silent and just think about what has happened instead of acting on my impulses. When people piss me off online they feel the full extent of my wrath (of khan).

I practice my kata if I need to relax or I just listen to loud music if i want to give in to the anger

tbh it doesn't really happen very often and when it does i just pretend like i'm not then go home and cry

I like to sit somewhere dark, cold, and silent and just think about what has happened instead of acting on my impulses. When people piss me off online they feel the full extent of my wrath (of khan).
KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!!
i think i know what william shatner does to let it all out ;)

tbh it doesn't really happen very often and when it does i just pretend like i'm not then go home and cry
cry? i'm talking about when you get pissed off angry... crying sounds more upset than angry to me.... but hey, whatever floats your boat

I tend to cuss a lot.

Beat shit up with a sword. Seriously.

KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!!
i think i know what william shatner does to let it all out ;)

I think we all know what Leonard Nimoy does as well. He throws bowels of Plowmeek soup and then says "IF I WANT ANYTHING FROM YOU I'LL ASK FOR IT!!!" :p

I remove all facial expressions and don't talk for a while until I sort it out inside my head how I'm going to kill the person that pissed me off.

KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!!
i think i know what william shatner does to let it all out ;)


cry? i'm talking about when you get pissed off angry... crying sounds more upset than angry to me.... but hey, whatever floats your boat
i don't like being angry, when i get angry, i get worked up and that makes me upset

me, i listen to heavy music as loud as i dare. Either that, or play GTA - there's nothing like running over or shooting a few hundred random people to make me feel less stressed :D

Call people who I'm pissed at "motherfuckers", listen to Husker Du at full volume (or any music that fits my mood, which would be really pissed off), and generall get even more pissed off, until my blood pressure gets too high.

I think we all know what Leonard Nimoy does as well. He throws bowels of Plowmeek soup and then says "IF I WANT ANYTHING FROM YOU I'LL ASK FOR IT!!!" :p
lol no, no, no, no, no.... he kicks Tribbles :p :p

It depends on who has made me angry. When it comes to close friends or family, I don't deal well with that. I fly off the handle, say things I don't mean, get shaky and cry in rage (that's right, crying in anger!) and then I need to go get drunk. If it's a stranger...well, again, it depends, but usually I can keep my cool. The way I deal with my anger...I get away from people, play my guitar, go weed the garden, do anything active so I don't dwell on it.

This thread could be useful - when I get fuming at something, I generall do something impulsive and painful. Last time, I damn near broke my knuckles punching a wall in fury. However, the bouts of rage that lead to these excessive acts are few and far between. Otherwise, I'll slam a door or two then turn up my sound system to full with the windows open listening to something like slayer or anthrax - something loud I can shout along to while I headbang and give the outside wrld a big "Fuck you" with 350 watts.

lol no, no, no, no, no.... he kicks Tribbles :p :p

Those damn tribbles, I can't stand people's obsession with them!

Depends. I tend to remove myself from the situation (When possible) that's bothering me, and then write, and/or listen to some loud music, and switch it to quieter, softer music as I calm down. However, if I'm ranting to someone about why I'm pissed, I'll swear quite profusely.

If I'm really, really pissed, I'll just get this..calm..feeling, and that's when the other person (if it's a person) damned well better shut up and leave me alone to cool off. When I'm like that, I'll refuse to speak to anyone but my girlfriend.

This thread could be useful - when I get fuming at something, I generall do something impulsive and painful. Last time, I damn near broke my knuckles punching a wall in fury. However, the bouts of rage that lead to these excessive acts are few and far between. Otherwise, I'll slam a door or two then turn up my sound system to full with the windows open listening to something like slayer or anthrax - something loud I can shout along to while I headbang and give the outside wrld a big "Fuck you" with 350 watts.
now thats my style :fluffle:

i also bite my hand... that muscle just under your thumb is pretty damn solid! i get angry suprisingly frequently when working and for some reason doing that helps me keep it under control. however, normally (when not working) i'm way more calm than that (thankfully) :)

I shout until my throat gets sore. And I swear a lot, too.

Destruction of material objects is also a valid procedure I execute from time to time.

I like to sit somewhere dark, cold, and silent and just think about what has happened instead of acting on my impulses. When people piss me off online they feel the full extent of my wrath (of khan).
SAME HERE!
but if someone was to piss me off enough to get in my head and stay there, i take sleeping pills to knock me out (works very well for me :D) id rather be sleeping it off than being pissed and then depressed for the rest of the day.. i also like to light fires (not kidding) but small ones.. unless i have gas and a bunch of logs.. o=)

music is absolutly great too.. but it has to be alllll bass to the point where the posters on my walls shake

now thats my style :fluffle:

i also bite my hand... that muscle just under your thumb is pretty damn solid! i get angry suprisingly frequently when working and for some reason doing that helps me keep it under control. however, normally (when not working) i'm way more calm than that (thankfully) :)
Both my daughters, when they get mad, tense up and shake with their rage. I remember doing the same damn thing when I was a kid. The first daughter used to hit herself in the head when she got angry. The second bites her hand (like you:)). It's weird though...even though they are doing these things to themselves, the actions are undeniably directed at the person they're angry with! It's like they're little beserkers, just working themselves up into a killing rage!

I have a terrible temper. It flares up with no warning sometimes. I'm the spitting image of my father in this regard. I forgive and forget almost immediately, but my temper has caused me no end of sorrow. It's especially hard for me now that I have kids. I remember walking on eggshells around my dad...I don't want them feeling the same way about me. I feel like a lousy piece of shit when I go overboard and yell at my kids. You can't undo that sort of thing with apologies. I always thought it was cheesy to count to 10, but I've found, if I'm still angry in 10 seconds, I'm at least calm enough to deal with the issue more rationally.

now thats my style :fluffle:

i also bite my hand... that muscle just under your thumb is pretty damn solid! i get angry suprisingly frequently when working and for some reason doing that helps me keep it under control. however, normally (when not working) i'm way more calm than that (thankfully) :)
Oh, dude, I forgot to ask - have you found out your results from uni?

what do you do when you get pissed off?

Take a piss, maybe..

what do you do when you get pissed off?

Take a piss, maybe..
More to the point, what do you do when you get pissed on?

More to the point, what do you do when you get pissed on?
might i suggest showering?

i just think "why am i mad? why be mad when being happy is so much better" and i relax. i also listen to music, although im not a big fan of super heavy metal

might i suggest showering?

There's that, and then there's bathing.

...Wait, you'd be bathing in urine...

*shudder*

might i suggest showering?
Aww, but I just took a golden one!

Eww, that brought filth into my mind.

*joins Potaria in shuddering. And scrubbing oneself with a brillo pad, repeating "Still not clean" over and over*

I am serious.

Drink water and take a long relaxing piss. It helps. :D

Aww, but I just took a golden one!

Eww, that brought filth into my mind.

*joins Potaria in shuddering. And scrubbing oneself with a brillo pad, repeating "Still not clean" over and over*

Me: *Phones hotel reception*
Me: Hi, I was just wondering, do your bathrooms have a golden finish?
Receptionist: Err...no. No they don't.
Me: So a golden shower is out of the question I take it?
Receptionist: *Hangs up*

When I was younger and got angry, things usually got broken. My girlfriend locked herself in my car once when I just wanted to leave. Iwas outside the car. In the spand of 5 minutes, the exterior was similar to that of a golfball with hundreds of fist dents.
A broken hand after foolishly punching a 2x10 pressure treated beam. Let that one heal by itself, rather than admit what happened.
Balcony furniture and buckets of dark meat KFC into the hotel swimming pool upon finding out order was completely wrong.
used to get so mad I'd spit.

Now,I hardly get mad anymore. i have a lot more patience.
And when I do get too mad, going down to hit the bag for a little while usually works fine.

oo, remember once i did get really angry, i was going to the dentist but id forgotton summat so i went back to the house but my sister wouldn't let me in cause we'd had an argument, it ended with me putting my arm through the glass in the door, i had all cuts up my arm for ages, luckily they weren't very deep

oo, remember once i did get really angry, i was going to the dentist but id forgotton summat so i went back to the house but my sister wouldn't let me in cause we'd had an argument, it ended with me putting my arm through the glass in the door, i had all cuts up my arm for ages, luckily they weren't very deep


OW! Avoid glass when angry. Glass always wins.

Me: *Phones hotel reception*
Me: Hi, I was just wondering, do your bathrooms have a golden finish?
Receptionist: Err...no. No they don't.
Me: So a golden shower is out of the question I take it?
Receptionist: *Hangs up*
ahahaha

A broken hand after foolishly punching a 2x10 pressure treated beam. Let that one heal by itself, rather than admit what happened.

If it happens again, go to the hospital and demand to see an angry doctor who deals in angry problems.

What have you to lose?

ahahaha

Why thank you.

What if I said I’m never pissed off enough to do anything about it? I find it very difficult to get extremely angry at people because of that whole thing about forgiving that Jesus was always talking about, and I find it difficult to get angry at situations because I just always feel like everything’s going to be all right.

me, i listen to heavy music as loud as i dare. right now the selection is Pitchshfter, but the best is the band Exodus and their album Another Lesson In Violence. when some dickheads at the computer store formatted my hard drive without telling me a few years ago, that album went straight in the CD player the only time my hi-fi has been turned up to maximum volume for longer than a few seconds :)

playing drums is also good, but i have no kit here :(

its odd making or listening to heavy, loud noises relaxes me, but it works so i don't argue



anyways, what do you do to "chillax" when you're pissed off?


I don't get pissed off.

There's a reason. I used to have a wicked temper. I learned to control and redirect it. Which is wonderful. But it also means that on the exceedingly rare occasion when I do manage to lose my temper, I enter a cold wrathful rage and people usually end up fleeing for their lives.

Fortunately, it doesn't last long and I can go back to handing out tacos to the survivors. :)

What if I said I’m never pissed off enough to do anything about it? I find it very difficult to get extremely angry at people because of that whole thing about forgiving that Jesus was always talking about, and I find it difficult to get angry at situations because I just always feel like everything’s going to be all right.
Some people are hard wired differently. Some people have more control over their impulses, and so don't react as stronger to provaction. I am not among this group.

If it happens again, go to the hospital and demand to see an angry doctor who deals in angry problems.

What have you to lose?


it wont happen again. Thats a really stupid way to get hurt.
Plus, I'd hate to wind up punching the doctor. I'm sure he wouldnt fare as well as large hard lumber.

i think i don't get that angry these days cause i'm far too lazy

Put on Dave Brubeck's Take Five.That's enough to calm down someone whos been buried alive. :p

I very rarely get mad. Its usually easier to just let things go fast...



however, if you are unlucky enough to catch me at the wrong moment, run. Wether it is a physical or verbal fight, I can fight very dirty and will dig for what I know will hurt the other person (I have an odd sense of what bothers/hurts other people, and know the right time to break it out). I also usually don't apologise (if there is one thing my sister taught me, it is how to hold a grudge)

I also swear a bit or punch my bed. I learned that punching 250 year old plaster isnt a good idea. It is pretty hard, and difficult to repair. I also have bad luck and hit the posts most of the time.

i think i don't get that angry these days cause i'm far too lazy
Tink has discovered the fabled 'Student' method of anger management there. Soon, she'l be experimenting with all sorts of weird tea-based substances to further mellow herself.

DO NOT DENY IT! :)

I have a pretty bad temper but I tend to seethe in silent fury for a while. Then I try to play a violent video game. Diablo was always good for that. These days I start Age of Mythology and use the cheat codes and smite everyone on the board with god powers. Then I'm back to my usual self. :D

You guys are really peaceful. I'm impressed. The last time I got pissed I smacked a hole in my wall :headbang:. If I'd known how flimsy the wall was I wouldn't have taken out my anger on it :(

Think I'll try listening to loud music next time.

I KILL PEOPLE :mad:

I KILL PEOPLE :mad:
i think somebody needs a fluffle! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

I KILL PEOPLE :mad:
I'm getting a mental image...about 13...kinda weedy looking...just learned the art of one hand typing...angry at the world. Am I right? :p

i think somebody needs a fluffle! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
And you - enough of that 'tea' already!

Oh, dude, I forgot to ask - have you found out your results from uni?
indeedy :)
somehow i managed to pass all of my modules... its a miracle! :D

you got your a-level results yet?
coming to think about it there really should be a thread for a level and uni results... i'll start it tomorrow when more NSers from the uk are on

indeedy :)
somehow i managed to pass all of my modules... its a miracle! :D

you got your a-level results yet?
coming to think about it there really should be a thread for a level and uni results... i'll start it tomorrow when more NSers from the uk are on
I think the AS/A2 results are on the 17th, so a little more nail-biting yet. I just hate the fact that I think I know I failed one exam. Bloody anticipation. :mad:

EDIT: Jesus, forgot. Well done on passing them all! I hope you got wasted to celebrate, in true british yob fashion :D

indeedy :)
somehow i managed to pass all of my modules... its a miracle! :D

you got your a-level results yet?
coming to think about it there really should be a thread for a level and uni results... i'll start it tomorrow when more NSers from the uk are on
yay! well done! you shoulda told me!! :fluffle: :fluffle:

Both my daughters, when they get mad, tense up and shake with their rage. I remember doing the same damn thing when I was a kid. The first daughter used to hit herself in the head when she got angry. The second bites her hand (like you). It's weird though...even though they are doing these things to themselves, the actions are undeniably directed at the person they're angry with! It's like they're little beserkers, just working themselves up into a killing rage!

I have a terrible temper. It flares up with no warning sometimes. I'm the spitting image of my father in this regard. I forgive and forget almost immediately, but my temper has caused me no end of sorrow. It's especially hard for me now that I have kids. I remember walking on eggshells around my dad...I don't want them feeling the same way about me. I feel like a lousy piece of shit when I go overboard and yell at my kids. You can't undo that sort of thing with apologies. I always thought it was cheesy to count to 10, but I've found, if I'm still angry in 10 seconds, I'm at least calm enough to deal with the issue more rationally.
mm just for the record, i do forgive and forget very quickly and never hold a grudge... however my temper is something wicked to behold! http://www.clicksmilies.com/s0105/sauer/angry-smiley-054.gif

Tink has discovered the fabled 'Student' method of anger management there. Soon, she'l be experimenting with all sorts of weird tea-based substances to further mellow herself.


http://www.teatreasures.com/images/looseleaf.jpg http://www.sixthseal.com/images/canacig/cannabis_shredded.jpg

one of these is tea, the other a certain weed. choose one!


I think the AS/A2 results are on the 17th, so a little more nail-biting yet. I just hate the fact that I think I know I failed one exam. Bloody anticipation.

EDIT: Jesus, forgot. Well done on passing them all! I hope you got wasted to celebrate, in true british yob fashion
right... on the 17th there will be a glut of threads about a-level results then :p

and yes, i was in Amsterdam when i heard i'd passed. you can fill in the rest from there :D :D

yay! well done! you shoulda told me!! :fluffle:
actually since i found out its been pretty much the last thing on my mind - heard about it and immediatley forgot kinda thing (only just remembered really). its pretty easy in Amsterdam, tbh :p :fluffle: :fluffle:

Usually I seethe away quietly, biding my time until a suitable opportunity arises to equal the score.

me if i lose control i'll slam doors, punch walls, and fume for a whole day and night, if i control it i'll lay down on the bed and watch a movie to distract my mind

My best stress / anger relief comes from killing other people's chars they have spent in some cases weeks in others years making. (MMORPGs)

Actually often for best performance when doing that I do add in music to help build the tempo. Eminem, Rob Zombie, KORN, Rage against the Machine, etc.

Anything with hard tempo, hard lyrics, or heavey bass really.

You guys are really peaceful. I'm impressed. The last time I got pissed I smacked a hole in my wall :headbang:. If I'd known how flimsy the wall was I wouldn't have taken out my anger on it :(

Think I'll try listening to loud music next time.



It's a great cycle. You get mad, so you hit the wall. the wall breaks, so you get more mad. At that point, I took a few shots, said "just one of those days" and curled up in a little ball of rage and pitifullness

actually since i found out its been pretty much the last thing on my mind - heard about it and immediatley forgot kinda thing (only just remembered really). its pretty easy in Amsterdam, tbh :p :fluffle: :fluffle:
well i was worried!

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

I take it out on TInk. :p

I sulk and become really mean - to everybody. Don't ever piss me off.

Depends on how pissed I am. If I'm really pissed, I smash the living hell out of things and curse proficiently and loudly. If I'm just annoyed I'll prolly crank the music up.

anyways, what do you do to "chillax" when you're pissed off?


take my anger out on the fencing peste or some other form of combat whare i am guaranteed to win :D

Getting pissed off is for teenagers!

However when I'm stressed I go to the gym and lift big heavy weights. I get stressed quite a lot at work.

what do you do when you get pissed off?


I sometimes have a hissy-fit. Unfortunately, this occasionally degenerates into a complete tizzy. On rare occasions, I have then run amok. Once, I did all three simultaneously and inadvertantly crapped my pants.

me, i listen to heavy music as loud as i dare. right now the selection is Pitchshfter, but the best is the band Exodus and their album Another Lesson In Violence. when some dickheads at the computer store formatted my hard drive without telling me a few years ago, that album went straight in the CD player the only time my hi-fi has been turned up to maximum volume for longer than a few seconds :)

playing drums is also good, but i have no kit here :(

its odd making or listening to heavy, loud noises relaxes me, but it works so i don't argue



anyways, what do you do to "chillax" when you're pissed off?

I listen to music, depending on what has happened to make me angry.upset I choose the music. Yeah drums is good, but generally (cause I actually play) i get annoyed cause I'm not playing very well. Message one of my cool friends or come on here are other options. Or I go for a walk/run

*Waves*

*Waves*

*Waves back*

So on topic :D What do you do when you're pissed off?

Make up complicated revenge plots directed toward whatever has annoyed me. It's great fun! *imagines self hitting Jolt's main server with a cricket bat*

*Waves back*

So on topic :D What do you do when you're pissed off?
Er if i can ill give TInk grief.-Shes so great for putting up with it.
Music is good.
Sulk.-So mature

take out my old baseball bat from my wardrobe and beat the living hell out of my matrass and sometimes my bedroom walls

Rage against the Machine, Oi Polloi and the Angelic Upstarts played loudly. Doors run into, headbutted and punched. Shrill, girlish screams of pain soon follow

i am a cool,very calm ,concentrated person. i like to go hunting-that relaxes me.

For normal "pissed off" I plot, I scheme, and I'll hold a grudge for as long as I remember a favour.

It's very hard for people to make me actually lose my temper, though. I tend to view humans as nothing but a nuisance at the best of times, and if I did lose it I'm quite large enough to make a mess.

Fortunately I'm usually very calm.

I have a nasty temper.

Fortunately, I also have a long fuse.

I rarely, if ever, get pissed off.
I do get annoyed frequently, like most people.

When I get annoyed, I remove myself as quickly as possible, from the source of annoyance, until Im calmer.


However, when I get well and truly pissed off, I mean...really, really, pissed off......something usually gets broken.
Inanimate objects....people...myself....whatever is handy.

See, I have a long fuse, as I said, and hate fighting.
So..in most confrontational situations, I will walk away, If I can.
But if I cant, or the antagonist is persistant, that makes me angry, becuase my attempts to cool the situation have failed, and my threshold has been reached....and now the target deserves it.

take out my old baseball bat from my wardrobe and beat the living hell out of my matrass and sometimes my bedroom walls
Yeah I Key cars too. :eek:

well i was worried!

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worried? aw :) :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

me, i listen to heavy music as loud as i dare. right now the selection is Pitchshfter, but the best is the band Exodus and their album Another Lesson In Violence. when some dickheads at the computer store formatted my hard drive without telling me a few years ago, that album went straight in the CD player the only time my hi-fi has been turned up to maximum volume for longer than a few seconds :)
playing drums is also good, but i have no kit here :(
its odd making or listening to heavy, loud noises relaxes me, but it works so i don't argue
anyways, what do you do to "chillax" when you're pissed off?

First let out what is pissing me off at the time, not bottle it up until it poisons my whole psyche like a stinking cancer later on.
Then take a deep breath and get totally away from whats pissing me off, so as not to get even more pissed off and say or worse do something I'll regret later.
Then when I'm in acooler state of mind, not controlled by rage, I go back to the problem and try to fix it.

i usually listen to inerpol or radiohead to relax. when a family member gets me angry i use a very powerful tactic i learned from my mother, guilt. works well on my family. i may, very occasionally, lose my cool but usually it's somewhat justifiable.......

Head to the range or jump on the X-box. Cathartic releases rule. :D