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A question for the men (and the gay women)

Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 18:51
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute
Colodia
02-08-2005, 18:52
Either, I'm a fan of almost all of the entire genre of women. Almost all of it.
Bolol
02-08-2005, 18:57
I'd like to think I wouldn't limit myself like that. I can see how both could be attractive.
Andaluciae
02-08-2005, 19:00
I'd have to come in with a solid both. Like 'em equally.
Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 19:03
Man, the gay men and women were a lot more interesting. STop being so PC.

Of course women of any shape and size can be attractive. What I'm getting at is which of these two are you more often attracted to.

I'm going with A. I've known a lot of lovely thin girls but there is something primal in my blood that cries out for flesh, and lots of it. Oooga Booga.

*takes a second to wipe the sweat off of hairy forehead*
The Similized world
02-08-2005, 19:08
Hahaha! I don't believe people are such chickens!

Anyway, B every time.
Russ The Great
02-08-2005, 19:19
Nah number 1.

Summat to grab hold of. :D
UpwardThrust
02-08-2005, 19:20
b
Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 19:21
Nah number 1.

Summat to grab hold of. :D
*high five* *chest bump*
Hemingsoft
02-08-2005, 19:21
Gotta have cushion for the pushin!

Need something to hold on to, front or back, but both is better!

But the best is girl who can keep some meat to her, but tone that stomach. Gets me going just thinkin about it.
Cadillac-Gage
02-08-2005, 19:21
I'm marrying a "Curvy" gal. Does that answer the question?
Laerod
02-08-2005, 19:23
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minuteI don't think I'd prefer either of the two based on looks. Both would be fine. :)
Carnivorous Lickers
02-08-2005, 19:25
I'm marrying a "Curvy" gal. Does that answer the question?


"Curvy" is great!!

Enjoy!
Swimmingpool
02-08-2005, 19:25
I choose thee A.
Cheese Burrito
02-08-2005, 19:26
Give me a nice set of 36 DD's and a sweet behind, legs that go from here to ya-ya, brain optional, and I'll be as happy as a pig in poop. Just don't let my wife find out! :D
Bokannon
02-08-2005, 19:31
C) All of the above...preferably simultaneously........ :fluffle:
Hemingsoft
02-08-2005, 19:34
Give me a nice set of 36 DD's and a sweet behind, legs that go from here to ya-ya, brain optional, and I'll be as happy as a pig in poop. Just don't let my wife find out! :D

So how many of those qualities does your wife have? :D
Liskeinland
02-08-2005, 19:41
Well, there's more eating on A.

Somebody had to say it. Cometh the hour, cometh the man.
Seriously though, A is much better. I think…
Cheese Burrito
02-08-2005, 19:49
So how many of those qualities does your wife have? :D


She had all of them (including brains), once, let's just say these 28 years haven't been too kind in regards to gravity. :eek:

BTW She just slapped me. :(
Saxnot
02-08-2005, 19:52
A. Easy.
Eutrusca
02-08-2005, 19:53
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute
A ... without a doubt. :D
FatTron
02-08-2005, 19:54
I would pick A any day of the week.

I'm not a big fan of breasts. Just as long as she doesn't look like a twelve year old boy, I'm fine.

BUT, as for the booty, well, she gotta have some ump for the rump.
Hemingsoft
02-08-2005, 19:54
She had all of them (including brains), once, let's just say these 28 years haven't been too kind in regards to gravity. :eek:

BTW She just slapped me. :(

Yea, mine has all but the legs, she's a bit short. (Luckily she won't know I wrote this.) Plus she's a bio-medical engineer. You heard me, a hot engineer. (Now that she would hit me for.)
FatTron
02-08-2005, 19:55
I would pick A any day of the week.

I'm not a big fan of breasts. Just as long as she doesn't look like a twelve year old boy, I'm fine.

BUT, as for the booty, well, she gotta have some ump for the rump.

But I would much rather have a bigger woman, than some skinny little stick figure.
Norgopia
02-08-2005, 19:55
It's all good. I'm happy with either :D
Liskeinland
02-08-2005, 19:55
Yea, mine has all but the legs, she's a bit short. (Luckily she won't know I wrote this.) Plus she's a bio-medical engineer. You heard me, a hot engineer. (Now that she would hit me for.) Short is good, yesno?
Laerod
02-08-2005, 19:57
BTW She just slapped me. :(You DID deserve it ;)
Anyway, where are the gay women? :confused: What would they prefer?
Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 20:04
Maybe we have no lesbians. Or maybe the ones we have are feminists who think this thread is disgusting.

The lesbians I have known in my time are of the white trash variety that dress like bikers and drink me under the table. My observation is that they like em big.
Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 20:48
bump

this thread can't die.
Anarchy 2005
02-08-2005, 20:51
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute

A) nice 'n' squishy
Intangelon
02-08-2005, 21:07
A mixture of A & B, please.

Breasts are lovely, but they needn't be big, or indeed any bigger than small. Flat-chested to many is apparently a problem. Not me. It's all about proportion and whether or not I can get my arms all the way around her. Affection shouldn't be too affected by morphology, unless it's grossly disporportionate or otherwise out of whack (which is why women with fake tits such as Pamela Anderson will be forever unattractive, and in fact repulsive to me).

What a woman needs to be mostly, is herself. Honesty helps.
Copiosa Scotia
02-08-2005, 21:10
Either, both. I'm not picky.
Spartaxis
02-08-2005, 21:26
I have to say a gigantic 'B.' It is the way I am. I have never ever been fond of a lotta rump, and as far as breasts go, more than a handful is a waste, eh?

But seriously, smaller girls are just better. Easier to carry, move, etc. However, anorexic takes it too far. Much too far...
Jah Bootie
02-08-2005, 21:49
. However, anorexic takes it too far. Much too far...
Well, that's a given. I would guess that the majority of the men who voted the other way aren't into obese women either (although such men definitely exist).

I often find smaller girls attractive if they are short. For some reason the tall skinny supermodel look does nothing for me.
Ritlina
02-08-2005, 22:00
b
Laerod
02-08-2005, 22:02
I often find smaller girls attractive if they are short. For some reason the tall skinny supermodel look does nothing for me.I agree... tall women scare me...:(
Tluiko
02-08-2005, 22:26
A.
Liskeinland
02-08-2005, 22:37
I agree... tall women scare me...:( I agree. Probably because I'm a small person.

I don't see what the attraction of skinny people is. I mean, I certainly wouldn't be attracted to myself, and I'm like a snake. Remember all the fertility idols of huge women people used to make? ;)
CthulhuFhtagn
02-08-2005, 22:43
If I had to choose, A.
Kleptomanion
02-08-2005, 22:48
I'm marrying a "Curvy" gal. Does that answer the question?

Actually no, you could be marrying for many reasons other than looks:
money
political oomph
she's royalty
your parents hate her
her parents hate you
she decided the restraining order never worked anyway
she's preggo and you're Catholic
...

Nothing personal, just playing devil's advocate
Gourdland
02-08-2005, 22:54
Healthy women. I don't like those rail-people, I need something I can bounce up and down on.
Kentuckistan
02-08-2005, 22:55
A, most definately.

I hate these extremely skinny girls.
The Similized world
02-08-2005, 23:07
Maybe we have no lesbians. Or maybe the ones we have are feminists who think this thread is disgusting.

The lesbians I have known in my time are of the white trash variety that dress like bikers and drink me under the table. My observation is that they like em big.
I've met one couple that partially fits that description. They were conservative bordering on NeoConism, they didn't drink and I'm pretty sure they would have shot you dead for the above comment.

All the other dykes I've met have been perfectly normal girls. Granted, most of them have been punkers, but no different from any other punk chicks I've ever met. Still, they'd prolly put a boot to your face for the above, but so would any other punker - myself included.
Chuloon
02-08-2005, 23:07
That question so totally depends on wether she is hot in the face and if I can stand her.
Chuloon
02-08-2005, 23:14
I agree. Probably because I'm a small person.

I don't see what the attraction of skinny people is. I mean, I certainly wouldn't be attracted to myself, and I'm like a snake. Remember all the fertility idols of huge women people used to make? ;)
That was when food was a major commodity and when you couldn't just pop into a 7-11 and grab a bag of cheese poofs. Now what is valued is fitness of the body, as a sign that you have the time and (sometimes) money to work out and stay healthy, in the same way that what was valued then was a sign that you did not have to do manual labour and had plenty to eat (i.e. "A little junk in the trunk.")
Hemingsoft
03-08-2005, 13:05
That question so totally depends on wether she is hot in the face and if I can stand her.

Being able to stand her is only for long term relationships ;) .
And there's nothing better than the bounce action.
77Seven77
03-08-2005, 13:05
A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt.

Without a doubt, I do not find skinny women in any way attractive
SimNewtonia
03-08-2005, 13:19
I'm not too fussy. I don't go after s*x, as it's not who I am (almost 20, still haven't "done it" and actually happy about it!). Haven't had a relationship yet, either... but that's another story. Personality is the most important trait of a person to me. I'd actually PREFER a long term relationship, unlike many males (at least from what I've heard). With the right person of course.
Spaam
03-08-2005, 13:29
A definitely, but it depends on the personality really. I know a few B's that I'd want. But I definitely prefer A's...

On an unrelated note, is someone in their last year of highschool too young for a 22 year old? :p
Hemingsoft
03-08-2005, 13:37
A definitely, but it depends on the personality really. I know a few B's that I'd want. But I definitely prefer A's...

On an unrelated note, is someone in their last year of highschool too young for a 22 year old? :p

18 or not? Anyways, Think of it this way, when you graduated from HS she was either 7th or 8th grade. Creepy. Then again, My fiance was a grade younger, but almost two years younger. So it may work in the other way.
Jah Bootie
03-08-2005, 13:43
A definitely, but it depends on the personality really. I know a few B's that I'd want. But I definitely prefer A's...

On an unrelated note, is someone in their last year of highschool too young for a 22 year old? :p
Nah. I mean, she could be, depending on how mature you both are. I wouldn't worry abotu numbers as long as she's legal.
Hemingsoft
03-08-2005, 14:14
One thing i doslike about some of these replies is that I assumed a good lookin' face was implied.
Stelleriana
03-08-2005, 14:30
boobs.
Jah Bootie
03-08-2005, 16:21
One thing i doslike about some of these replies is that I assumed a good lookin' face was implied.
I forgot to add the caveat that I put in the analagous thread, but basically we are assuming everything else that attracts you to females is equal.
Xeropa
03-08-2005, 16:27
b






no, a







no, b









ah whatever - put your hands together
Zarastua
03-08-2005, 16:32
so long as she is healthy () or ||
Hemingsoft
03-08-2005, 16:32
thin on top and curvy on the bottom is bad news friend. Proportion is important.

I don't know, it could make you more aerodynamic if you try the running dog.
Zarastua
03-08-2005, 16:33
better yet how about curvy on top and thin below or vice versa, just so long as she can stand up on her own.
Jah Bootie
03-08-2005, 16:35
better yet how about curvy on top and thin below or vice versa, just so long as she can stand up on her own.
thin on top and curvy on the bottom is bad news friend. Proportion is important.
Anthil
04-08-2005, 14:25
A) most definitely

(having one at home and loving it)
German Nightmare
04-08-2005, 14:56
The answer would be be "a)" without entering the battleship zone of female anatomy :p
Jjimjja
04-08-2005, 15:04
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute

A over B. Those runway women are just bags of bones.

banging bones (shudders)
Jester III
04-08-2005, 15:06
a)
I hate cuddling with barely covered bones. If i can count the ribs without touching its icky. But i like small breasts, so 3/4s a) with a shot b)
Unified Japan
04-08-2005, 15:29
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute

There are plenty busty runway models. Is this another dig at "society's unrealistic standards of beauty" (i.e anorexically thin and boyish looking) that is in fact made up and not really what society thinks is beautiful?
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 15:34
There are plenty busty runway models. Is this another dig at "society's unrealistic standards of beauty" (i.e anorexically thin and boyish looking) that is in fact made up and not really what society thinks is beautiful?
Fact, most runway models are rail-thin. The camera adds ten pounds, and if you see them in real life you would not believe how skinny they are. I'm sure there are some busty runway models, although I bet most of them are considered "plus-size" or whatever.

I'm not making any political statements though so you have found the wrong place for the chip on your shoulder. Not that this poll is scientific, but a decisive majority of the men on this board chose option a). I know there are straight men who prefer skinny women but I think the ultrathin model look is driven more by women and gay men. I mean, it's not like straight men are exactly in control of the fashion scene.
Druidville
04-08-2005, 15:39
Where do redheads fit in this question? :)

A. I'm afraid of breaking B, anyway.
Thermidore
04-08-2005, 15:43
Oi that's stereotyping just a bit isn't it?

I agree that there are a high percentage of gay men in fashion, but the real question is who's behind the consumer driven issue of "fashion" that makes people feel like they can't be complete/beautiful/socially acceptable with out the latest accoutrement - and that's fashion houses that thrive on insecurity and they have more than their fair share of rich straight men in their ranks.

(Oh and in my brief phases when I have a more than platonic interest in the ladies, I always go for A, but I'm talking a proper rubenesque A. I like my women healthy looking not a stick insect that needs to have a head to head conversation with the toilet bowl at the mere smell of food, but also not someone who actually looks like Roseanne Barr and calls themselves "rubenesque")
Tyma
04-08-2005, 15:46
Have never cared for overly thin women which is what seems to be the "in thing" unfortunately. Definately prefer women with some meat on her :) No question about that one. Actually given the choice between the two Id lean more to the overweight then "model" thin ones any day. :fluffle:
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 15:50
Oi that's stereotyping just a bit isn't it?

I agree that there are a high percentage of gay men in fashion, but the real question is who's behind the consumer driven issue of "fashion" that makes people feel like they can't be complete/beautiful/socially acceptable with out the latest accoutrement - and that's fashion houses that thrive on insecurity and they have more than their fair share of rich straight men in their ranks.

(Oh and in my brief phases when I have a more than platonic interest in the ladies, I always go for A, but I'm talking a proper rubenesque A. I like my women healthy looking not a stick insect that needs to have a head to head conversation with the toilet bowl at the mere smell of food, but also not someone who actually looks like Roseanne Barr and calls themselves "rubenesque")

Well, someone who works in the industry can probably tell me this better, but my impression is that white straight white men might be pulling in the money from the fashion industry, it's gay men and women who are deciding what will and will not be fashionable. Of course it's a stereotype but stereotypes are true more often than people give them credit for.

And yes, if a woman calls herself "rubenesque" she is probably fat. And if a woman is genuinely reubenesque she probably calls herself fat. The female mind is a strange, strange thing.
Call to power
04-08-2005, 16:01
I would go for A so long as she isn't Jabba the Hut and is sex on legs all I ask is that she keeps herself in shape after all I don't want to have to stop in the middle of some hot all night banging because she’s too tired :rolleyes:
77Seven77
04-08-2005, 16:11
Men are generally more affected by looks ................
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 16:17
Men are generally more affected by looks ................
Simply not true, at least when it comes to female looks. Women can sometimes look past a man's physical flaws to love him, but women talk about women's looks as critically as men do.
Jjimjja
04-08-2005, 16:25
Men are generally more affected by looks ................

yeah......won't stop us sleeping with them, but you'll hide her from your friends :p
77Seven77
04-08-2005, 16:39
Men are generally more affected by looks ................

I should have added in my opinion and in comparison to gay women, as a gay woman myselgf ....
Jjimjja
04-08-2005, 16:43
I should have added in my opinion and in comparison to gay women, as a gay woman myselgf ....

so what do you prefer 77777? bag of bones or curvy?
E Blackadder
04-08-2005, 16:50
Would you prefer:

A) a woman that has a little extra weight (not overweight) with nice breasts and a nice butt

or

B) a very thin toned girl who is flat chested (a la runway models)

I'll give my answer in a minute


I choose choice C: Not much fat at all...in fact quite fit..but with Nice breasts and arse.. :) >.> <.<
77Seven77
04-08-2005, 16:55
so what do you prefer 77777? bag of bones or curvy?

Well I do prefer curvy, I don't find skinny women atractive generally.
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 16:58
I choose choice C: Not much fat at all...in fact quite fit..but with Nice breasts and arse.. :) >.> <.<
That's not a choice here. This is a choice between two options that are less than ideal. I'm trying to get at what is more important, t & a or flat stomachs.
Kanabia
04-08-2005, 16:59
Either way is nice.
Georgegad
04-08-2005, 17:08
That's not a choice here. This is a choice between two options that are less than ideal. I'm trying to get at what is more important, t & a or flat stomachs.
Does that mean i cant choose D,Huge breasted fat assed women?
I LOVE the BBW
FAT CHICKS ROCK
WOOOOOOOOOOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jjimjja
04-08-2005, 17:08
Well I do prefer curvy, I don't find skinny women atractive generally.

yeah. no fun slapping a flat ass.
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 17:18
Does that mean i cant choose D,Huge breasted fat assed women?
I LOVE the BBW
FAT CHICKS ROCK
WOOOOOOOOOOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a friend that feels the way you do. He will go into great detail about the pleasures of making love to big women. And man do they love him. He's a big bodybuilder type and gets more nookie than any person I know.
Georgegad
04-08-2005, 17:21
I want to see the stats. I find most guys dont mind a little extra weight(i like a little extra extra) and mostly its women who find overweight women unattractive. and unless there gay, i dont see that there opinion counts for much.

If a poll gets started can it have
1 male likes a
2 male likes b
3 female likes a
4 female likes b
Jah Bootie
04-08-2005, 17:24
Well, I didn't count but looking through the thread I noticed that (a) was the overwhelming winner. And judging by the caveman like responses (mine included, obviously) I think most of the votes came from men.
Georgegad
04-08-2005, 17:27
There are plenty busty runway models.

Not trying to be offensive but are you sure they are real?

Is this another dig at "society's unrealistic standards of beauty" (i.e anorexically thin and boyish looking) that is in fact made up and not really what society thinks is beautiful?

i dont see it as society so much as the media
Jjimjja
04-08-2005, 18:08
Well, I didn't count but looking through the thread I noticed that (a) was the overwhelming winner. And judging by the caveman like responses (mine included, obviously) I think most of the votes came from men.

well we do like going out clubing :D
Sumixia
04-08-2005, 18:15
Probably B, because breast size isn't extraordinarily critical. Anything more than a handful is a waste, as far as I'm concerned. Plus, I'm a skinny guy, and I don't want to be skished.
Unified Japan
04-08-2005, 18:28
Not trying to be offensive but are you sure they are real?

I see no reason why that would offend me. Yeah, some are plastic (which personally I don't like, they always seem to be very obvious and fake-looking) but plenty are for real.
Cana2
04-08-2005, 18:30
I want to see the stats. I find most guys dont mind a little extra weight(i like a little extra extra) and mostly its women who find overweight women unattractive. and unless there gay, i dont see that there opinion counts for much.

If a poll gets started can it have
1 male likes a
2 male likes b
3 female likes a
4 female likes b
Ya, there should be a poll. I think that us girls would vote more for b than the guys will. As long as the boob is a lil more than just a nipple I would choose b. but scince I think girl b is supposed to be textbook flat I am going to choose a.
77Seven77
05-08-2005, 09:53
and mostly its women who find overweight women unattractive. and unless there gay, i dont see that there opinion counts for much.

What the f*** do you mean by that?? :rolleyes:
Aligned Planets
05-08-2005, 09:57
Number one every time
RIGHTWINGCONSERVANIA
05-08-2005, 10:01
The best woman to have is the one that will have you.

I do, however, prefer smaller women with petite, but not frail physiques.

I'm not a fan of large breasts at all.
Not Quite Goth
05-08-2005, 10:07
A very young looking, somewhat flatchested girl who is above 18. >.>
Not Quite Goth
05-08-2005, 10:07
The best woman to have is the one that will have you.

I do, however, prefer smaller women with petite, but not frail physiques.

I'm not a fan of large breasts at all.

Exactly! ^^
Aligned Planets
05-08-2005, 10:09
Welcome to the forums :-)
[NS]Amestria
05-08-2005, 10:21
On purely sexual grounds I prefer partners who are plump or voluptuous (not fat!! theres a difference) We don't look good skinny, in my opinon those who are super skinny either look like they have an eating disorder or have an eating disorder!

A question for the men (why were on this subject), who do you prefer dominant?
Turkishsquirrel
05-08-2005, 10:23
I'm goin with A all the way, those super skinny girls creep me out.
Harlesburg
05-08-2005, 10:25
I wouldnt say B creeps me out.

But A sounds better.

I dont mind a bit of ......... at all in fact its cute.
Asengard
05-08-2005, 10:27
Gahhhhh.... can't choose, can't choose!!

It's not a fair question.
Ok, are you saying it's the same girl who's been on a diet so that she loses some breast and arse fat but still looks as attractive facially?
If so, she's not going to lose all her breasts is she? And it might tone her arse and stomach up to more than compensate.

I've got it! If you say Bridget Jones or Roxy I'd go for Bridget Jones because Renee Zellweger goes too far with her dieting.

However the fittest bird I ever went with was almost completely flat chested, she was very petite, very pretty, long blonde hair and the most gorgeous curvy arse you would ever want to see. She never wore a bra, and glimpsing her tiny breasts down her dress was a right turn on. MMmmmm...
Jester III
05-08-2005, 10:52
Amestria']A question for the men (why were on this subject), who do you prefer dominant?
None, i prefer a equal partnership. Unless you mean during "playing" where i like to switch but prefer sub.
Kevin Ciorra
05-08-2005, 11:33
all good things in moderation, i wouldnt go for either extrrem!! minging!
BackwoodsSquatches
05-08-2005, 11:37
A or B.......?


Yes, please!
Ealdwode
05-08-2005, 13:23
I'm not too fussy. I don't go after s*x, as it's not who I am (almost 20, still haven't "done it" and actually happy about it!). Haven't had a relationship yet, either... but that's another story. Personality is the most important trait of a person to me. I'd actually PREFER a long term relationship, unlike many males (at least from what I've heard). With the right person of course.

*Gives Sim a high-five.*
Wahoo! Yay chastity!

As for my answer: A. But it's a toss-up.
Jah Bootie
05-08-2005, 14:13
Haven't had a relationship yet, either... but that's another story. .... I'd actually PREFER a long term relationship, unlike many males (at least from what I've heard).

Yeah, this too will pass.