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Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?

(I'm gay.)

A thin guy over muscle/flab any day. I'm not one to go for muscle - I actually find it quite repulsive. Flab, on the other hand, is okay, if the personality makes up for it. However my "type" is most definately thin guys, in accordance with the prophecy.

Depends on what kind of tire we're talking.

It suits a big guy to have a bit of bulk. That's what I usually go for anyway ;)

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Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?A muscular man, any day. My ex was skinny. Knowing that you could kick your man's ass in a fair fight is not sexy. And I think he had manorexia. That wasn't cool either.

Either would be okay, actually, as long as they both had nice chest hair.

Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?

A thin guy. I'm gay and thin too.. so is my boyfriend.. he's slender.. cute stomach.. nice chest... I'm smooth.. and so is my boyfriend... I'm pretty much into my looks.. I have waxed my legs (bah, that's my own preference).. heheh..

(I'm straight)


Muscles. Frail, thin males just don't appeal to me.

A muscular man, anyday. My ex was skinny. Knowing that you could kick your man's ass in a fair fight is not sexy. And I think he had manorexia. That wasn't cool either.

Completely agree.

I mean, skinny guys can be quite yummy, but I don't want to date a guy I could beat up.

Call me old fashioned, but I like a guy to be able to protect me, not visa versa.

Completely agree.

I mean, skinny guys can be quite yummy, but I don't want to date a guy I could beat up.

Call me old fashioned, but I like a guy to be able to protect me, not visa versa.



Yeah, I feel much safer and more secure with a muscular guy.

Mmm, chest hair... *drool*

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00051hww

Mmm, chest hair... *drool*

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00051hww

I prefer none heheheheh..

http://myspace-338.vo.llnwd.net/00156/83/36/156076338_l.jpg (and yes that's me)

I prefer none heheheheh..
http://myspace-338.vo.llnwd.net/00156/83/36/156076338_l.jpg (and yes that's me)

Not even a treasure trail? Blasphemer! :mad:

Also, you're a kid! I can't be ogling you. Much...

Not even a treasure trail? Blasphemer! :mad:

Also, you're a kid! I can't be ogling you. Much...

Hahahah.. I wax my legs.. my chest is smooth.. no treasure trial.. my boyfriend doesn't have one either. :)

Eh, well I'm 20...

Mmm, chest hair... *drool*

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00051hwwomg *add that to her "special folder" of "special links"*
wow
Soooooooo hot. Fass, can I have them for christmas?

omg *add that to her "special folder" of "special links"*
wow
Soooooooo hot. Fass, can I have them for christmas?



Mine!

Mine!I'll fight you for them.

Hahahah.. I wax my legs.. my chest is smooth.. no treasure trial.. my boyfriend doesn't have one either. :)

Why?!? It looks freakish with everything waxed!

Eh, well I'm 20...

Yeah, well, I'm 22 and you look way too young. Then again, I like 30+ year olds (50 is generally a cut-off though, before you get the idea I'm some sort of grave robber), so I guess everybody younger than me looks too young to me.

omg *add that to her "special folder" of "special links"*
wow
Soooooooo hot. Fass, can I have them for christmas?

I can telegram you the link to the series gallery I got that shot from. They reveal a lot more...

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00052rtc

Why?!? It looks freakish with everything waxed!

I'm such a fruit lol.

I don't like body hair. Borderline androgynous I know.

Yeah, well, I'm 22 and you look way too young. Then again, I like 30+ year olds (50 is generally a cut-off though, before you get the idea I'm some sort of grave robber), so I guess everybody younger than me looks too young to me.

Hey I like looking younger.. isn't that a good thing heheheh? The media and stuff is always saying people should look younger these days..

I'll fight you for them.



Fine, but beware! I took 6 karate classes over a course of 3 weeks when I was 6 years old! Fear the dreaded white-belt!

I can telegram you the link to the series gallery I got that shot from. They reveal a lot more...



Well Fass, we may disagree on everything under the sun, but at least you have good taste in guys :D

I can telegram you the link to the series gallery I got that shot from. They reveal a lot more...

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00052rtcPlease do.
I would offer sexual favours in return, but....
I'm not sure if you'd fully appreciate what I have to offer.

how about leanly muscled? not anorexically (manorexically?) skinny, but not hulking or pump-that-iron muscled either, just.... nice. that work?

Fine, but beware! I took 6 karate classes over a course of 3 weeks when I was 6 years old! Fear the dreaded white-belt!Aw, never mind. It sounds like even my ex could take you. I'd feel bad hurting you. :p
We could share?

Please do.
I would offer sexual favours in return, but....
I'm not sure if you'd fully appreciate what I have to offer.
*ahem*

I'm such a fruit lol.

I don't like body hair. Borderline androgynous I know.

I won't hold it against you. I have other stuff to do that with! :p

Hey I like looking younger.. isn't that a good thing heheheh? The media and stuff is always saying people should look younger these days..

There's younger, and then there's prepubescent. Lack of hair is very pederast, but that has always been a popular leaning.

*ahem* :confused:

I'd go for the thin-ish guy rather than the muscular one. Of course, a balance is best.

Fass, your value on this message board cannot be underestimated. mmmm

Please do.

Done.

I would offer sexual favours in return, but....
I'm not sure if you'd fully appreciate what I have to offer.

It wouldn't be the first time I did it with a woman, so I'm not all that opposed to the idea. Mind you, I would be very rusty.

:confused:
Let's try not to have the wrath of the mods sweeping down upon this thread, okay?

I won't hold it against you. I have other stuff to do that with! :p



There's younger, and then there's prepubescent. Lack of hair is very pederast, but that has always been a popular leaning.

Well.. I guess I'm androgynous.. and I like being this way.. heheheh.. feels quite nice..

Well Fass, we may disagree on everything under the sun, but at least you have good taste in guys :D

That will be my comfort as I burn eternally.

It wouldn't be the first time I did it with a woman, so I'm not all that opposed to the idea. Mind you, I would be very rusty.Hello Fass. My name is Mrs. Robinson. ;)

Well.. I guess I'm androgynous.. and I like being this way.. heheheh.. feels quite nice..

If it floats your boat, but I will forever proselytise the superiority of hair.

If it floats your boat, but I will forever proselytise the superiority of hair.

Well if anything.. you should see how many hair styles I have.. I had a mohawk for a while...

I like hair on my head.. I can do so much with it..

Hello Fass. My name is Mrs. Robinson. ;)

Here's to you Mrs. Robinson (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00053kw7)

Well if anything.. you should see how many hair styles I have.. I had a mohawk for a while...

I like hair on my head.. I can do so much with it..

Head hair is fleeting. Body hair is forever. :D

Fass, your value on this message board cannot be underestimated. mmmm

Purveyor of delicious smut, at your service!

If it floats your boat, but I will forever proselytise the superiority of hair.

Hear, hear!

Or should that be here boy, here. ;) I am within you age range after all. :p

Head hair is fleeting. Body hair is forever. :D

Eh my grandfather had a full set of hair all the way up to the end of his life.. he passed away last summer..

I'll probably have the same.

Here's to you Mrs. Robinson (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00053kw7)I think I've just changed my long-held opinion of tighty-whiteys. :fluffle:
I'd tap that.

Hear, hear!

Or should that be here boy, here. ;) I am within you age range after all. :p

As long as one part of you is rigid, we're good to go! :)

I think I've just changed my long-held opinion of tighty-whiteys. :fluffle:

I know what you mean, I don't like tighty-whiteys either, but there is something about him that just makes you realise they'll be coming off in the end, anyway, so who cares.

I'd tap that.

Tap? Things like those need to be whacked! But don't tell me I'm going to remain the only filth peddler here?

I am straight but I can Imagine I would like a buff guy, or maybe skinny/tonned.

As long as one part of you is rigid, we're good to go! :)

Well, not at the moment, but that is always subject to change. :p

I'll never understand why so many guys now shave their chests, pluck their eye brows, or wax their backs. I like men who look like men. Even here in rural Texas I notice guys walking in the park now with shaved legs. Blech!

Well, not at the moment, but that is always subject to change. :p

Look at my sig! :p

I'll never understand why so many guys now shave their chests, pluck their eye brows, or wax their backs. I like men who look like men. Even here in rural Texas I notice guys walking in the park now with shaved legs. Blech!

Tell me about it. Everytime I go out clubbing nowadays I find myself wondering why I bother at all since they all look like women and children, anyway. But, there are still some guys out there who keep me on the right side of the tracks... thank god for locker rooms!

I know what you mean, I don't like tighty-whiteys either, but there is something about him that just makes you realise they'll be coming off in the end, anyway, so who cares.True story. You are so wise. :)

Tap? Things like those need to be whacked!Agreed.
But don't tell me I'm going to remain the only filth peddler here?Sorry. None of my filth is PG-13...

Look at my sig! :p

Not to sound like a dolt, but "sig?" I don't see a sig line at the end of your post.

Tell me about it. Everytime I go out clubbing nowadays I find myself wondering why I bother at all since they all look like women and children, anyway. But, there are still some guys out there who keep me on the right side of the tracks... thank god for locker rooms!

I gave up on clubbing a long time ago. Too many narcisists. Mind you, its just as bad when the guy you're going out with tries to talk you into shedding your hair. I've had that happen more than once. I don't know which is creepier, guys who want to look like pre pubesent boys, or guys who want me to look like a pre pubesent boy. Oh well, there is always the "bear" community. :)

Clubbing in gay Los angeles: www.tigerheat.com

Never again for me. A few times is enough...

Look I pluck my eyebrows, and wax my legs and do all those things some don't like.. but I'll agree with you on one thing.. I will never do clubbing again.

True story. You are so wise. :)

The bitter among my people tend to be. :D

Sorry. None of my filth is PG-13...

Aww. Well, I must rise to the challenge yet again:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00054wg0

Don't miss this one that's too big to link to in-line. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00055xg2)

The bitter among my people tend to be. :D Your people? I love it.

Aww. Well, I must rise to the challenge yet again:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00054wg0

Don't miss this one that's too big to link to in-line. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00055xg2)Thanks once again. Makes me wish I were gay. *sighs wistfully*

Not to sound like a dolt, but "sig?" I don't see a sig line at the end of your post.

You have to enable signatures in your settings (under "profile" just under the big nationstates banner up there) to see them. The thing is, it's probably best to leave them disabled, 'cause some people just abuse them.

I gave up on clubbing a long time ago. Too many narcisists.

That's why clubbing is so great in Europe. You pop over to places like Brighton or Barcelona, spend a few days having fun, and once it gets old, you go home, never to see the people again.

I don't care if my man is skinny or buff as long as he's hawt.

Nerd glasses and tight pants optional. :cool:

You're people? I love it.

I am. :p

Thanks once again. Makes me wish I were gay. *sighs wistfully*

You're half-way there. You just need to find yourself a guy into strap-ons.

That's why clubbing is so great in Europe. You pop over to places like Brighton or Barcelona, spend a few days having fun, and once it gets old, you go home, never to see the people again.Thank god for that. If I ever had to see anyone from that club in Castello ever again... :eek:
On the other hand, another night with that handsome North African man I "encountered" might be nice...

On the other hand, another night with that handsome North African man I "encountered" might be nice...

Ooh, ethnic. The other other "white" meat. ;) Black or Arabic? Both are good, in their own ways.

Muscle every time..even with the spare tyre. I like a man to look like a man.

You have to enable signatures in your settings (under "profile" just under the big nationstates banner up there) to see them. The thing is, it's probably best to leave them disabled, 'cause some people just abuse them.

Thanks. I feel like I just got a pair of x-ray specs. *lol* Interesting sig. But I require proof of it's accuracy. :D We can't have you midleading the public.

That's why clubbing is so great in Europe. You pop over to places like Brighton or Barcelona, spend a few days having fun, and once it gets old, you go home, never to see the people again.

I'll have to give that a try when I visit my sister. She lives in your general neck of the woods.

Ooh, ethnic. The other other "white" meat. ;) Black or Arabic? Both are good, in their own ways.He was black, but with light skin. Usually I don't go for that... but, damn! My fez and her friends were like, ew, but I saw him the next night, and he was still drop-dead gorgeous, so it wasn't beer (rum) goggles.
I loved Spain. I was the hot foreign exchange student. It rocked.

Thanks. I feel like I just got a pair of x-ray specs. *lol* Interesting sig. But I require proof of it's accuracy. :D We can't have you midleading the public.

Oh, the public already knows where it's at! :D

I'll have to give that a try when I visit my sister. She lives in your general neck of the woods.

Don't say it's Denmark!

He was black, but with light skin. Usually I don't go for that... but, damn! My fez and her friends were like, ew, but I saw him the next night, and he was still drop-dead gorgeous, so it wasn't beer (rum) goggles.

Ah, see, I used to not be into black guys either, but, boy, was I wrong to discount them!

I loved Spain. I was the hot foreign exchange student. It rocked.

I was the the "Sweeeeedish tourist" playing all coy, but teasy anyway, so I quite enjoyed my stay, too.

Don't say it's Denmark!

No, not Denmark. I was being *very* general.
She's in Glasgow. But that's only about 600 or 700 miles or so from Sweden. That's not too far. I regularly travel over 1000 miles to visit friends in Minneapolis.

No, not Denmark. I was being *very* general.
She's in Glasgow. But that's only about 600 or 700 miles or so from Sweden. That's not too far. I regularly travel over 1000 miles to visit friends in Minneapolis.

US = large country. Europe = small continent. Glasgow is far. Not too far, but still far.

Don't have anything Scottish, so this will have to do. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000566wa)

I did have something Spanish, though:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00058ec7

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000578ae

Don't have anything Scottish, so this will have to do. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000566wa)

And it did nicely. But I have to go to bed now, and I'm going to have a hell of a time getting that image out of my mind. Not that that's a bad thing. *l* I can certanly think of worse thoughts to fall asleep to.

Oh, and just as a side note, Minneapolis claims to have the largest Swedish population outside of Stockholm. Mind you, I think most of them are Swedish decendants as I met few native born Swedes. But they certanly still love their lefse and lutefisk.

You know, I added "gay men" to this as an afterthought, but I'm glad I did. This thread turned out hilarious.

B! The muscle guys scare sorton types of people. Like the girl across from my house. She said her birth father's so strong he lifted her mom's car up so her mom could fix it once. Past that, he owes her a hundred bucks for better grades in math:p

For me it's not bulk vs. skinny, but handsome + hairy vs. smooth and pretty.

Now I'm in the latter category (and modest too :D ), and I always think logically that's where my taste lies too, but I keep ending up with big burly men by accident???

It's like I'm walking down the street and suddenly I fall on handsome hirsute guy and next thing we're going out??? Well that's what my lovelife's like anyways - :D

However nowadays I'll be actively looking for a proper dark-haired 5-0-clock shadow (at 12am) irish guy when I get home - I'm in Finland at the moment and I'm so sick of blonde Calvin Klein model types!! And in Sweden it's worse. You just become numbed to them.

Well its nice if the guy has broad shoulder nice chest etc. Personally I'm not mad on really skinny guys. but I wouldn't say no:)

I worked too hard to try to make this the new hunk thread to just let it die.

Resuscitation attempt one. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000592by)

I'm glad to see a lot of people here appreciate a man with body hair. Makes me feel a bit better, especially since all you see in the media are hairless boys.

I am a little worried about the hair that is slowly spreading up my back though. :(

For me it's not bulk vs. skinny, but handsome + hairy vs. smooth and pretty.

Now I'm in the latter category (and modest too :D ), and I always think logically that's where my taste lies too, but I keep ending up with big burly men by accident???

.
I would say this makes sense. Only a total narcissist wants someone exactly like himself.

I'm glad to see a lot of people here appreciate a man with body hair. Makes me feel a bit better, especially since all you see in the media are hairless boys.

Hair has been on its way back these last years. I've seen several high-profile ad campaigns with guys that look normal, so there is still hope.

I am a little worried about the hair that is slowly spreading up my back though. :(

You have my permission to get it waxed.

Resuscitation attempt two. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005azkr)

*clear*

You have my permission to get it waxed.

lol thanks

Ah, see, I used to not be into black guys either, but, boy, was I wrong to discount them!Oh, no, I've always loved black guys. I've just never gone after the light skinned ones before. I'm usually attracted to Africans from the West coast (Ghana, Cote d'Iviore) or central Africa. They are the ones who are all quiet and respectful (but not in the asexual way that white boys are so fond of); quite charismatic... Then they get so freaky in bed! Love it.
This guy looked like he might have been half black, half Arab.

I was the the "Sweeeeedish tourist" playing all coy, but teasy anyway, so I quite enjoyed my stay, too.Very fun, indeed. I'm going back next summer, for sure. I can't go back to the same club, though. I kind of got kicked out (they really don't like PDAs in Spain).

Why not just go for a skinny guy with muscle, like a track runner?

Very fun, indeed. I'm going back next summer, for sure. I can't go back to the same club, though. I kind of got kicked out (they really don't like PDAs in Spain).

Like so many other things, you haven't been to many clubs if there isn't at least one you've been kicked out/banned from. They hate PDAs?

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005b76c

Pick it up. *getting tired and running out of PG-13 material*

Like so many other things, you haven't been to many clubs if there isn't at least one you've been kicked out/banned from. They hate PDAs?Sorry.
PDA is a pre-personal digital assistant term. Very low-tech. Public Display of Affection.

Why not just go for a skinny guy with muscle, like a track runner?
Cause that's not one of the options here.

Actually, the genesis of this was a friend of mine who is pretty out of shape and starting to work out. He's saying that he just wants to run and lose weight, and I was telling him he should lift because most women were more attracted to muscular guys than skinny ones.

Oh, no, I've always loved black guys. I've just never gone after the light skinned ones before. I'm usually attracted to Africans from the West coast (Ghana, Cote d'Iviore) or central Africa. They are the ones who are all quiet and respectful (but not in the asexual way that white boys are so fond of); quite charismatic... Then they get so freaky in bed! Love it.
This guy looked like he might have been half black, half Arab.
You're joking! :eek: The girls at my university tell me that the West African guys are incredibly obnoxious and are convinced that white women are always willing.

Sorry.
PDA is a pre-personal digital assistant term. Very low-tech. Public Display of Affection.

Oh! *smacks head* I hadn't noticed, but I'm not terribly public with my affections. :\

You're joking! :eek: The girls at my university tell me that the West African guys are incredibly obnoxious and are convinced that white women are always willing.Maybe they don't seem obnoxious to me because I am always willing. I over-generalized, and I shouldn't have. My mum is from West Africa. I know a lot of West African men. Every West African man I have met has been charming. It depends on what you like. A lot of women get offended if a man makes sexual advances outside a relationship. I am only offended if they are rude about it.

Maybe they don't seem obnoxious to me because I am always willing.

We should really meet. ;)

http://www.terra.com.mx/Galeria_de_fotos/images/118/235709.jpg

http://www.veraanderson.com/2003/ColinFarrell106.jpg

http://images.allposters.com/images/PF/PF_973761.jpg

Colin Farrell is hot, in large part because I heard that the sex sceens had to be cut out of "Alexander" because the size of his unit was distracting.
Yum.

Cause that's not one of the options here.

Actually, the genesis of this was a friend of mine who is pretty out of shape and starting to work out. He's saying that he just wants to run and lose weight, and I was telling him he should lift because most women were more attracted to muscular guys than skinny ones.
Haha, well tell him to lift some weights. I'll take a strong man over a six-pack any day.

Fass, keep the pics comming :D Makes a lovely break from all the politics, gaybashing and religion going around here.

Personally I'm more attracted to guys with body hair.. But strangely, I don't think it's all that great. I mean, it looks good and shit, but it's a pain in bed. playing with your tounge around a nipple is great and all, but it kind of kills the pleasure for the guy with the tounge if it's like licking a pelt. Same with other body parts (that I'm not entirely sure I can mention here?).

Anyway, tall, strong guys with lots of tatoos are a huge turn on. All men should look a bit dangerous. Women are a seperate part of the species for a reason :p

We should really meet. ;)If you happen to be a handsom W African man... Hells yes! :fluffle:

If you happen to be a handsom W African man... Hells yes! :fluffle:
umm...two out of three ain't bad is it? :(

Maybe they don't seem obnoxious to me because I am always willing. I over-generalized, and I shouldn't have. My mum is from West Africa. I know a lot of West African men. Every West African man I have met has been charming. It depends on what you like. A lot of women get offended if a man makes sexual advances outside a relationship. I am only offended if they are rude about it.It seems to have been because of differences in culture. The thing was, the Cameroonians especially would go for the girl even if she was in a relationship. A friend of mine asked about this and it turns out, until the girl is married, she's open game... Not all of them were like this, mind you, just the ones that you notice. (I shouldn't overgeneralize... :( )
Funny thing was, if the girl was with an African, they left her alone... :rolleyes:

Colin Farrell is hot, in large part because I heard that the sex sceens had to be cut out of "Alexander" because the size of his unit was distracting.
Yum.

Good ones! I didn't like him that much, since I find smoking the biggest turn-off ever, but then I saw him guest starring in an episode of Scrubs, and there was no denying his outstanding persona any more

I like another Colin myself. Colin Firth. (http://www.grin.net/~meluchie/images/lapk3.jpg) Zero on-screen chemistry with Rene Zellwegger, but all the more with Hugh Grant. There's material there for some really good slash.

It seems to have been because of differences in culture. The thing was, the Cameroonians especially would go for the girl even if she was in a relationship. A friend of mine asked about this and it turns out, until the girl is married, she's open game... Not all of them were like this, mind you, just the ones that you notice. (I shouldn't overgeneralize... :( )
Funny thing was, if the girl was with an African, they left her alone... :rolleyes:A woman hasn't made her final decision until she has signed a legal contract, is the thinking behind that one. You can still try to win her affections; compete with her current boyfriend. That in itself could offend some women, but like I said, unless they were being rude about it, I wouldn't mind. It's pretty dirty to compete with your friend over his woman though, which explains why any girl with another African was off-limits. Either they actually did know each other or there was some sense of brotherhood among the black men at that university.
That said, Cameroon is a wee bit further east than the countries that I consider to be "West African". I have no experience with Cameroons, so I can't say.

Good ones! I didn't like him that much, since I find smoking the biggest turn-off ever, but then I saw him guest starring in an episode of Scrubs, and there was no denying his outstanding persona any more

I like another Colin myself. Colin Firth. (http://www.grin.net/~meluchie/images/lapk3.jpg) Zero on-screen chemistry with Rene Zellwegger, but all the more with Hugh Grant. There's material there for some really good slash.See, that's a large part of the reason I loved Spain... Here in Canada, smoking is a sign of immorality, or something, and everyone is anti-smoking. I like people who smoke just because I know for sure that they won't bitch me out for it.

A woman hasn't made her final decision until she has signed a legal contract, is the thinking behind that one. You can still try to win her affections; compete with her current boyfriend. That in itself could offend some women, but like I said, unless they were being rude about it, I wouldn't mind. It's pretty dirty to compete with your friend over his woman though, which explains why any girl with another African was off-limits. Either they actually did know each other or there was some sense of brotherhood among the black men at that university.
That said, Cameroon is a wee bit further east than the countries that I consider to be "West African". I have no experience with Cameroons, so I can't say.I know where Cameroon is... I'm pretty sure they could make it into ECOWAS if it wasn't for Taylor... That makes them West African in my eyes... But if you have different criteria, fine with me ;)

I'd prefer the guy with the nice arms and spare tire rather than the thin man. BUT thats a personal preference, I don't like my man's bones poking me! Some hard muscle and a soft tummy.....s'ok with me...lol

I know where Cameroon is... I'm pretty sure they could make it into ECOWAS if it wasn't for Taylor... That makes them West African in my eyes... But if you have different criteria, fine with me ;)I'm not disagreeing with your definition, only telling you what I meant when I said West Africa. Ghana, Cote d'Ivoire, Guinea, Senegal...

umm...two out of three ain't bad is it? :(White boys have to work harder for it. Unfair, but true.
Oh, the tragic plight of the down-trodden white man... :p

A woman hasn't made her final decision until she has signed a legal contract, is the thinking behind that one. You can still try to win her affections; compete with her current boyfriend. That in itself could offend some women, but like I said, unless they were being rude about it, I wouldn't mind. It's pretty dirty to compete with your friend over his woman though, which explains why any girl with another African was off-limits. Either they actually did know each other or there was some sense of brotherhood among the black men at that university.
That said, Cameroon is a wee bit further east than the countries that I consider to be "West African". I have no experience with Cameroons, so I can't say.
To be honest, I somewhat agree with them. Unless the guy has asked her to marry him or otherwise declared serious intentions, I would say that it's ok for me to take my chances with her. My assumption is that both parties are just together for now and neither is ruling out the possibility of something better coming along. I presume that she has the power to tell me to buzz off is she's not interested.

That said, I would never try to hit on the girlfriend of a good friend. I wouldn't want to cause my friend any heartache, nor would I want to lose him as a friend. After all, my friends have been by my side for years while women have come and gone.

I'd prefer the guy with the nice arms and spare tire rather than the thin man. BUT thats a personal preference, I don't like my man's bones poking me! Some hard muscle and a soft tummy.....s'ok with me...lolTrue story. My ex's hip bones were lethal. Ouch!

Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?

A. Absolutely. He wouldn't even need much muscles, I just like people who are a little chubby. Or a little more :D

O, no you don't! The pics must keep coming:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005czwy

O, no you don't! The pics must keep coming:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005czwy


Mmmm, cocktastic! :p

Anyways, I'd take A. He doesn't eve have to be muscular, nice, chubby, and soft will do it for me!

*wanders off *

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005d86y

So cute. So hot. :)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005et3c

"Virtua" or not, damn!

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005d86y

So cute. So hot. :)Agreed.
It'd be hotter if they weren't facing each other... I can just imagine what is going on outside the frame... ;)
So hot! :fluffle:

What a nice looking couple, not facing each other, as per request. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005fd9q)

What a nice looking couple, not facing each other, as per request. (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005fd9q)Hot, but I don't think the guys are all that attractive.
I prefer him (http://www.fabulousnomads.net/images/wave.JPG).
mmmmmmm
Almost naked-y goodness.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005gp0y

A Scandinavian blonde was simply needed.

Hot, but I don't think the guys are all that attractive.

They look weird in that shot. They're done better justice in the pictures I can't post.

I prefer him (http://www.fabulousnomads.net/images/wave.JPG).
mmmmmmm
Almost naked-y goodness.

What a vexing splash! :fluffle:

They look weird in that shot. They're done better justice in the pictures I can't post.



What a vexing splash! :fluffle:I'm TGing you a link I don't think I can post...

http://photos1.blogger.com/img/171/1525/640/ub025.2.jpg

http://www.chadzboyz.net/pgBZ/kissing/G3/cbk176_std.jpg - more my type lol (homoerotic but appropriate)

http://myspace-385.vo.llnwd.net/00139/58/37/139767385_l.jpg - one of yours truly (me silly.. i'm the one with the mohawk) and my bf (homoerotic, but appropriate)

:D

White boys have to work harder for it. Unfair, but true.
Oh, the tragic plight of the down-trodden white man... :p
Oh? Funny ... I've never noticed that. Perhaps it's just "unfair" for white "boys," but not necessarily white "men?" :D

Oh? Funny ... I've never noticed that. Perhaps it's just "unfair" for white "boys," but not necessarily white "men?" :DAll real men have a chance. I'm all for equal opportunity.

I'm TGing you a link I don't think I can post...

The link was great! There doesn't seem to be anything against the rules there, but better safe than sorry. Just so the rest of the people here know what they're missing (let's hope they don't block linking):

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/iran2.jpg

All real men have a chance. I'm all for equal opportunity.
Wow! An equal opportunity f***er! Me too! :D

http://photos1.blogger.com/img/171/1525/640/ub025.2.jpg (must be copy&pasted)
http://www.chadzboyz.net/pgBZ/kissing/G3/cbk176_std.jpg - more my type lol (homoerotic but appropriate)
http://myspace-385.vo.llnwd.net/00139/58/37/139767385_l.jpg - one of yours truly (me silly.. i'm the one with the mohawk) and my bf (homoerotic, but appropriate)

Twinkish. I see the appeal, though. Your boyfriend and you resemble each other. Weird how that keeps happening to couples.

Twinkish. I see the appeal, though. Your boyfriend and you resemble each other. Weird how that keeps happening to couples.

Yeah my boyfriend does... he has curly black hair and some of the softest skin.. he's skinny... i guess i'm attracted to those type of guys.. but he asked me out heheheh..

Yeah, I'm into those type of guys.. www.xy.com is a magazine I'm also into...

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/izkulsvroee_ixkxv.jpg

Oxwana's link really is something! :)

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/izkulsvroee_ixkxv.jpg

Oxwana's link really is something! :)

Oh boy.. he's a hottie!

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/boymarcineiro.jpg

Muito obrigado, Oxwana!

(im a bisexual guy) back to the origional question, skinny people dont offer much padding for cuddling, with the bones sticking out and all. i like my men (and women) to have a bit more meat without being obscenely ovreweight. muscle has always attracted me, so i go with the muscular with a spare tire.

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/boymarcineiro.jpg

Muito obrigado, Oxwana!De nada.
?Tens mais para mim?

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/boymarcineiro.jpg

Muito obrigado, Oxwana!

The guy on the right has a cute ass ;)

De nada.
?Tens mais para mim?

Mais tarde. Prometo. Eu devo dormir agora, mas deixo-te com este retrato (http://blogsimages.skynet.be/images/000/222/815_dieux-du-stade-2004-rugby-0.jpg).

(I haven't attempted anything in Portuguese in quite a while, but that should be correct.)

The guy on the right has a cute ass ;)

It's the same guy.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005et3c

"Virtua" or not, damn!
Gimme gimme gimme!!!!!

Keep posting real men Fass. That jailbait couple simply won't do; They'd get hurt AND it would be illigal :p

It's the same guy.

Heheh... yeah I don't have a problem with a few more muscles.. heheheh.. he's pretty hot.

Gimme gimme gimme!!!!!

Keep posting real men Fass. That jailbait couple simply won't do; They'd get hurt AND it would be illigal :p

Hey I know you're joking and all (at least I hope lol).. but he's 19 and i'm 20.

I'd go with the muscular-spare tire guy if that spare happened to be a bicycle tire.

;)

Mais tarde. Prometo. Eu devo dormir agora, mas deixo-te com este retrato (http://blogsimages.skynet.be/images/000/222/815_dieux-du-stade-2004-rugby-0.jpg).

(I haven't attempted anything in Portuguese in quite a while, but that should be correct.)Obrigado! Estes homens seja muito quente.
(my portuguese sucks ass... try not to laugh too hard, please)
Seriously, though... I'd tap all of that, at once. Especially at once! :fluffle:

Hey I know you're joking and all (at least I hope lol).. but he's 19 and i'm 20.
Oh.. Hehe, sorry 'bout that :p

But I prefer my lovers to be a bit older and a bit bigger. I doubt I'd hook up with anyone under 25, and I would be very uncomfortable drooling over a 20 year old. No offence or anything, I guess I'm just getting old. Perhaps I'll grow perverted as well some day? :D

I'm such a fruit lol.

I don't like body hair. Borderline androgynous I know.

Androgyny is teh hawt. :D :eek: :D

Androgyny is teh hawt. :D :eek: :D
Fuck no! I crave MEN! Cave men preferrably! Big hairy bastards, with tatoos from their toes to top of their head(s), dreached in sweat and able to flip over a car as if it was a coin.

I'll take a woman over a skinny little... any day.

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/04_04.jpg

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/01_07.jpg

Resuming service. :)

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/04904223347500.jpg

Damn!

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/04904223347500.jpg

Damn!

He has beautiful eyes... and nice lips.. :fluffle:

http://madeinbrazil.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/04904223347500.jpg

Damn!
Heh, normally this wouldn't be my sort of guy, but that innocent look of his is just adorable!

/me drools

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005hxrh

More to your liking, The Similized world?

(Please, henceforth, when you quote any post with an image, snip out the image. No need for repeats.)

More to your liking, The Similized world?
Oh hell YES! Can I have him for christmas?

Edit: No need to wrap him ;)

Or perhaps this (http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005k7t3) and

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005pt28

?

*Whistles* Firefighters! If your next post includes a skinhead, I just might blow a ... Fuse ;)

*Whistles* Firefighters! If your next post includes a skinhead, I just might blow a ... Fuse ;)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005q80g

(I had to dig deep in my collection after this, so you're lucky I found it! If you want me to TG you the URL of the uncropped version, let me know.)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005rskg

Eskimo-ish! :p

Sent you a TG. Good thing enough of my thought process goes on in the head that doesn't care about idiot nazi bonehead scum :D

- Gotta love the irony though! Hahaha!

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005t6cg

Hmm... to be the one asking, or the one telling...? ;)

Heh. Very nice thread.

In regards to the original question - I don't really mind. Just as long as he's not super-muscle-man. Bodybuilders really don't turn me on.

Since I can't contribute any pics (aren't rules and PG ratings a bitch?!), I fugured I'd throw in some gay old lyrics :D

Can you tell what's on my mind
She's with him it's driving me wild
I'd like to hit him on the head until he's dead
The sight of blood is such a high
Ooooohhhh
He gives me head

We made it on a Ballroom Blitz
I took his arms and kissed his lips
He looked at me with such a smile my face turned red
We booked a room into the Ritz

Jet boy jet girl
I'm gonna take you 'round the world
Jet boy I'm gonna make you penetrate
I'm gonna make you be a girl
Ooooohhhh
Jet boy jet girl

I know I'm only just fifteen
I like to kick I like to scream
And even if I had a kink or two in bed with him
You know it's just a dream

The other day what a surprise
I saw him with some other guys
God he was dressed up with a girl around his neck
I could have cried with both my eyes

And if and when I make it though
Or if my brain is stuck on glue
And when the world tries to forget all that I said
You know I'll still remember you

Wow.
Like, wow.
Good job Fass. You are my hero... You've made me a very, very happy girl.

Quick question: Do people really find neo-nazis hot? that's kind of icky.

Lean, but muscled... like a man who knows Karate instead of someone who body builds.

but then again... man boobs ftw

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005w8a7

No, I haven't given up just yet. ;)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005w8a7

No, I haven't given up just yet. ;)mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
*snaps out of x-rated fantasy*
He's ok.

Hopefully this shows up..

http://paris.typepad.com/ohlalaparis/samcarson-thumb.jpg

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005xe8q

Another one of these Virtua People. This one's apparently called "Ted Colunga". Google tells all! ;)

(I repeat what I said yesterday: Henceforth, please, if you quote a post with an image, snip out the image itself. No need for repeats, especially of the bigger pictures, OK?)

He's ok.
He has really nice eyes:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005yat4

Nice. You're really into Abercrombie and Fitch, aren't you? ;)

i have quite a few clothes from them.. :) One of my friends work there too... I'm also into Hollister.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005zcd2

Cute!

He definitely is.. very cute.. and pretty hot... :)

http://www.kingphilip.org/kpnorth/gr8tech/2003/student10/Abercrombie%20Models%20(1).jpg

Great smile on the one in the middle, Mesatecala!

Here's a blast from the past:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00060gqh

wow... this thread gets better each time i get back to it... lol. get read of all the chest hair, a 6 pack is hot, dont cover it up with bear pelt. being a swimmer i suppose i am quite used to seing mostly naked and hairless men in large numbers, so that may be where i get that from.

Wow.
Like, wow.
Good job Fass. You are my hero... You've made me a very, very happy girl.

Quick question: Do people really find neo-nazis hot? that's kind of icky.
Fass is my hero too :D

I don't dig nazis at all. I attack people like that on sight. Still, after looking at a couple of pages in this post, even a nazi bonehead looks tempting. Political concepts fades in proportion to the rerouting of blood from one head to the other. At least in my case.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00061898

Another cute, hairless one. *sigh*

Scruffy, smart and about to be nicely tanned:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000633qh

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00062dyt

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006422w

Tweeky. ;)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006422w

Tweeky. ;)That's hot.

Two gay men kissing.. mmm...

Here are some others... pretty much my types...

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/5.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/4.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/3.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/2.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/1.jpg

What about people who's superpower it is to THINK girly?

(straight chica here)

I'm all for the muscle+flab over skinniness any day. My fella is a big guy and yeah, he's got a gut, but he's also got a delicious, firm chest and arms. And he's good and durable which means I can't break him by accident...if you knew me, you wouldn't have to ask about this.

PS...for those who have mentioned not wanting a bf you can beat up, even though my fella is much larger than me, I can still whoop him, and that's just how I like it ;)

What about guys like me?

Skinny all over but I got a big round gut.

mmmmmmm - *hands you a napkin to wipe up the drool*

mmm hot gay action! rawr!

too much muscle on some of those guys though and I like hairless more than hairy.

too much muscle on some of those guys though and I like hairless more than hairy.

Then I suggest you submit your own pictures of what you find desirable instead of bitching. :p

Then I suggest you submit your own pictures of what you find desirable instead of bitching. :p


But that would require effort.

okay I'll post a couple hot guys:

http://dress-sire.com/KevinAviance/Kevin.jpg

http://www.blue-period.net/androgyny/artists/robin.jpg

http://www.foofighters.com/blackbox/pictures/2003_06_15_tucson/images/FF_2003_TUCSON_9347.jpg

http://www-tech.mit.edu/V123/N27/riverrave3DONE.jpg

http://afireinside.org/archive/davey_rh.jpg

http://www.aroundcinci.com/article_images/Dame-Edna-article(2).jpg HAH!

Damn it's really hard to find good mostly nude full body shots the type of guys I find most appealing but these should give you a clue.

Oh. My. Goodness.

Oh. My. Goodness.

you know you're into Dame Edna!

Uh... nahhh... here are my favorite types..

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=9367776&postcount=167

Comments on that one heheheh?

Don't deny your love for Dame Edna! Embrace your desires. :p

Yeah I saw that post and I gotta say I loved them all. You gotz good taste my friend.

THIN. i like to see hip bones. mmm ^_^. none of that bulky business.

Don't deny your love for Dame Edna! Embrace your desires. :p

Yeah I saw that post and I gotta say I loved them all. You gotz good taste my friend.

The most attractive picture I posted in that one was the first one. He's a cutie.

I'm into the twinkish types.. it is pretty apparent... as I'm pretty much one myself.

yeah I love twinks! come hang out tonight :D

THIN. i like to see hip bones. mmm ^_^. none of that bulky business. some piercings and nice hair wouldnt hurt either...*bites lip*

yeah I love twinks! come hang out tonight :D

LOL....

I think I posted some pictures of me in this thread earlier...

I prefer thin over the muscle/flab combination.

I leave the thread for a day, and look what you do. I have to fix it now. ;)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00065a03

Kudos to Fass for all his hard work on this thread ;) However, in relation to the original question, I can honestly say I don't care. I definitely go more for personality, but if I had to pick a physical 'type' that I like, it's intelligent, nerdy looking men, regardless of their level of their weight or level of fitness.

My bf is really thin.

I don't really like muscle too much.

Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?


I'm attacted to a broader shouldered guy,but married a thin bony weakling...which i have fattened up...LOL.... :fluffle: But his personality was what i fell in-love with....he was 170lbs, 5'11" long hair and soft hands...now he is 190 clean cut slowly but surely i'll bulk him up without his knowledge. ;)
TC

We can't let our sister thread (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=435507), dedicated to such unsavoury elements as straight men and lesbians, beat us, can we? Theirs is a spam thread, while ours has, umm, hard substance!

It's rebound time, guys and girls and all you peeps somewhere inbetween! :)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/000660aa

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00067x0h

Dirty.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00068r63

Freakishly young-looking, but it's still good. :p

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/00069694

Pouty or angry? I can't decide which would be hotter.

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006a8pg

Nicely kinky, If I may say so myself.

I say the muscular, but a little bit flabby type. They're better looking. I wouldn't totally reject a skinny guy, but do skinny guys ever have sex?

I don't care for skinny guys. Show me the muscle!

http://home.elka.pw.edu.pl/~pgrabow1/kolezka.swf?name=Fass

http://home.elka.pw.edu.pl/~pgrabow1/kolezka.swf?name=Fass

Aww, that's cute in its own disturbed, obscene kind of way. I of course call with some of the French National Rugby team:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006bbrb

Aww, that's cute in its own disturbed, obscene kind of way. I of course call with some of the French National Rugby team:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006bbrbWow
I know what (who) I'll be doing when I go to France next summer.

I had to put my head on one of the bodies posted earlier.


http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y19/m00nbeast/Glenshotbod.jpg

I suck at photoshop but it looks good in black and white anyway.


lol

More my type of bois:

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/6.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/7.jpg

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a300/gcarini/8.jpg

They all look good but the guy in the army shorts has a wierd shaped body or something.

Everything else being equal (personality, face, hair, grooming, etc.) would you tend to more attracted to:

a) a guy with nice shoulders, arms and chest but a spare tire

or

b) a thin guy without much muscle?

A

Nice to know you ladies are as shallow as us guys are.

Nice to know you ladies are as shallow as us guys are.

Hey us guys are shallow too! Oh wait you said that already.

Nice to know you ladies are as shallow as us guys are.

I'm a gay guy.

Hey just because i'm posting pictures of hot guys doesn't mean I'm shallow. I just think their attractive. I have a boyfriend and I do love him... not shallow at all.

Or he may have actually meant the ladies in this thread that go for guys based on their looks.

Or he may have actually meant the ladies in this thread that go for guys based on their looks.


That's exactly what I meant. Of course, it was partly sour grapes, since I"m not exactly good looking. :headbang:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0005b76c

Pick it up. *getting tired and running out of PG-13 material*


He looks like my friend Scott, but just a little bigger :)

Nice to know you ladies are as shallow as us guys are.I don't bang guys for their inner beauty. If that makes me shallow, then that's what I am.
I was also looking forward to spending the rest of my life with the sweetest man of all time, who I found attractive because I love him. I know that he's not my type physically, but...
Then he ripped my heart out. Whatever.
I have since banged quite a few hot guys who didn't have a lot going on upstairs. C'est la vie.

I don't bang guys for their inner beauty. If that makes me shallow, then that's what I am.
I was also looking forward to spending the rest of my life with the sweetest man of all time, who I found attractive because I love him. I know that he's not my type physically, but...
Then he ripped my heart out. Whatever.
I have since banged quite a few hot guys who didn't have a lot going on upstairs. C'est la vie.


Yes, that makes you shallow. I'd be willing to bet that you and the other ladies would launch a viscious verbal assault on any guy who posted what you just did. So why was it OK for you to say it? Alright, so I'm not handsome, and guess what? I"m also disabled. But you know what else? I have a brain, I have a heart, and I know how to behave as a gentleman and treat a woman as a lady. But that doesn't count for anything, does it? Oh, and I don't insist on physical beauty in a partner.

Yes, that makes you shallow. I'd be willing to bet that you and the other ladies would launch a viscious verbal assault on any guy who posted what you just did. So why was it OK for you to say it? Alright, so I'm not handsome, and guess what? I"m also disabled. But you know what else? I have a brain, I have a heart, and I know how to behave as a gentleman and treat a woman as a lady. But that doesn't count for anything, does it? Oh, and I don't insist on physical beauty in a partner.

Okay, you're sharing too much and taking things too personally.

Nice to see this thread revived! It was on the way to zombiedome, but not any more:

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006et9q

There's something about a little older guys (not to mention those puppy dog eyes and the pouty expression)...

(bi - female)

I like guys to be bigger than me, (me being size 10Aus - about a 6 US[i think] 60ish kgs as for UK size no idea) no fat tho, thats not cool, i like a man thats stronger than me (and that is most guys!) abit taller (im 5ft8) general tone is really nice, as for Women, about the same 5-7kgs either way is fine,

Honestly, i like men to look like men and women to look like women (yes i know thats not fitting for bi's but its true)

http://pics.livejournal.com/quelconque/pic/0006f5ey

There's also something about eyebrow piercings. Something yummy! :fluffle:

http://home.elka.pw.edu.pl/~pgrabow1/kolezka.swf?name=Fass

Hey, can you show me how to make that? I would really like to send that to someone I know.

Hey, can you show me how to make that? I would really like to send that to someone I know.

Look at the URL. See where it says "name=Fass"? Just replace "Fass" with the name you want to be on the sign:

http://home.elka.pw.edu.pl/~pgrabow1/kolezka.swf?name=Jah

Look at the URL. See where it says "name=Fass"? Just replace "Fass" with the name you want to be on the sign:

http://home.elka.pw.edu.pl/~pgrabow1/kolezka.swf?name=Jah
Thanks friend. Laughs were had.

I'd prefer the thin guy to the one with the spare tire if we're only talking about physical traits.

I think guys like Orlando Bloom are hot...but I don't know how long the bare-chest look would keep me. I like guys who are a bit older, rugged, like to f*ck and are open about it and open to new ideas. So a bit round around the middle, whatever. Overly muscular, and they're probably too stuck on themselves to rock your socks often enough to make it worth it.

I think guys like Orlando Bloom are hot...but I don't know how long the bare-chest look would keep me. I like guys who are a bit older, rugged, like to f*ck and are open about it and open to new ideas. So a bit round around the middle, whatever. Overly muscular, and they're probably too stuck on themselves to rock your socks often enough to make it worth it.

Did you see the pic I posted of myself on the last page? :D

I've gotten a bit more muscular lately

Yes, that makes you shallow. I'd be willing to bet that you and the other ladies would launch a viscious verbal assault on any guy who posted what you just did.Do not presume to know how I would react. I am no hypocrite, and I am not ashamed of my statements. All the men who I have one night stands with find me physically attractive, nothing more.

So why was it OK for you to say it?It's okay for me to say it because it is true, and hurts no one. I would not have a one-night stand with a man who I am not attracted to. If I want to have a purely physical relationship, my criteria for choosing a partner will be purely physical.

Alright, so I'm not handsome, and guess what? I"m also disabled. But you know what else? I have a brain, I have a heart, and I know how to behave as a gentleman and treat a woman as a lady.Congrats.

But that doesn't count for anything, does it? Oh, and I don't insist on physical beauty in a partner.As I said, I would not have a one-night stand with you. For one thing, you have just shown yourself to argumentative, judgemental and bitter.
In a partner; a life partner, the only things that count are the things you can't see. I found beauty in my ex because I love him so. He is not my idea of attractive, and he is the most beautiful man I have ever known. Please do not presume to know my heart.

http://www.male-escort.co.nz/g1-9/g1/g140.jpg

Hot or what? I have a picture of him naked, but I don't think it would go down too well with the mods!

Another one:

http://www.sexforwomen.info/images/rj081_03.jpg

Such a shame he likes women...