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Alright, there's this chick that's been staring at me for God knows how long. No wait, half a year. Looking at me oddly for a good half a year now.

I was walking from school and I merged behind her and her two friends, not thinking much of it.

She saw me coming closer to her and she seemed to look at me pretty surprised that I was coming her way. Her friends notice this and take a glance at me and say "*name*, he's gay."

Now. Two things. First off I'm not even sure they were talking about me. Although as far as I knew, no other guy was around me.

Two, I never really thought I looked gay....I mean sure, friends have told me that it looks like I wear make up...but really...

...I pretty much don't know what to make of this. I'm rather...confused...with the statement from the girls. Should I be insulted? Complimented? Flattered? A mixture of everything? I mean, this girl really is drop-dead gorgeous. And I don't really mind being called gay at all, because I don't even know these girls in the first place.

She wants your trouser snake.

;)

Alright, there's this chick that's been staring at me for God knows how long. No wait, half a year. Looking at me oddly for a good half a year now.

I was walking from school and I merged behind her and her two friends, not thinking much of it.

She saw me coming closer to her and she seemed to look at me pretty surprised that I was coming her way. Her friends notice this and take a glance at me and say "*name*, he's gay."

Now. Two things. First off I'm not even sure they were talking about me. Although as far as I knew, no other guy was around me.

Two, I never really thought I looked gay....I mean sure, friends have told me that it looks like I wear make up...but really...

...I pretty much don't know what to make of this. I'm rather...confused...with the statement from the girls. Should I be insulted? Complimented? Flattered? A mixture of everything? I mean, this girl really is drop-dead gorgeous. And I don't really mind being called gay at all, because I don't even know these girls in the first place.

If a girl thinks you're gay, and you aren't, that's a good thing. It means that she approves of your fashion sense and thinks you're hot. Make sure you stress around her that you aren't gay.

Just talk to her. Be friends. They'll be dropping hints, though god knows how to pick up on them. You should be able to tell eventually.

we're in the same time zone!!! well, not really cuz I'm in Arizona, which is cool and doesn't do daylight savings, unless of course you're in Canada which doesn't either.

Stick it in her, man.

oh wait, you actually put your location: southern California. Well, right now, we're in the same time zone sort of.

er its 5:47PM

Run now shes seting you up probably to get you bashed.Run!!!

If its not what i said above shes trying to convert you.
Or find out how Gay Guys Poon...

er its 5:47PM

Run now shes seting you up probably to get you bashed.Run!!!
2:01 am over here.

Talk to her some, if you get in a conversation, flirt a little. If she treats you like an ass hole, then she obviously does not want you to be around. BTW, what age group are we talking, if its tennage, then I would like an exact year age, please?

Talk to her some, if you get in a conversation, flirt a little. If she treats you like an ass hole, then she obviously does not want you to be around. BTW, what age group are we talking, if its tennage, then I would like an exact year age, please?
Ahh, I'm 15. I have no clue how old she is. I tried looking for her picture in the year book. Nothing. It's like she only exists to me! :eek:

Ahh, I'm 15. I have no clue how old she is. I tried looking for her picture in the year book. Nothing. It's like she only exists to me! :eek:
Uhm, first off...girl's chat. A lot. Chances are you're paranoid (and maybe not 100% sure of your own sexuality, and I don't mean to imply that you're gay...just that you're 15 and possibly not 100%, and that adds to the paranoia).

She wants your trouser snake.

;)

Sometimes "he's gay," is girlspeak for, "He's mine and I'm warning you off because he won't like you anyway. I'm prettier anyway."

She and her friends all want you man. Now, you just have to be nice to all of them and let them duke it out.

Then again, notice that I said "Sometimes..."

Colodia, a “drop-dead gorgeous” girl is not looking at you, unless you, yourself, are good looking, not in high school anyway. If she is, she thinks you're weird. Her friends calling you gay is just an affirmation of this. So, stop being so egotistical, and get over yourself.

-snip-
Ouch, that was harsh!
:D

Depending on how big the school is I'd just ask her out. Remenmber, rejection is better than worrying: if she turns you down you'll be unhappy for a bit, at the moment you'll worry for ages. Obviously if the school's very small you might not want word about this to get round so maybe you should play it cautious, if you know any girls well you could get them to talk to her and try to find out what she thinks of you (I've done this before and it worked).

Good luck. :)

I was walking from school and I merged behind her and her two friends, not thinking much of it.
you Merged behind her? how Romantic.

Colodia, a “drop-dead gorgeous” girl is not looking at you, unless you, yourself, are good looking, not in high school anyway. If she is, she thinks you're weird. Her friends calling you gay is just an affirmation of this. So, stop being so egotistical, and get over yourself.

Not necessarily true... many eons ago when I was in high school, I thought the same thing Colodia is... a person kept staring at me and in general appeared interested in me. I thought it was unlikely and ignored it. I found out a year later that they had been interested in dating me. This of course was after they moved and their friends decided to tell me about it.
My advice to you is flirt a little and see if it is well received. If not, then move on.

you Merged behind her? how Romantic.
I wonder if he honked his horn and signaled properly

Ihatevacations']I wonder if he honked his horn and signaled properly
you Make me vomit.

Not necessarily true... many eons ago when I was in high school, I thought the same thing Colodia is... a person kept staring at me and in general appeared interested in me. I thought it was unlikely and ignored it. I found out a year later that they had been interested in dating me. This of course was after they moved and their friends decided to tell me about it.
My advice to you is flirt a little and see if it is well received. If not, then move on.

Two questions: Was this girl “drop-dead gorgeous”, and were you good looking at the time?

you Make me vomit.
the joke was quite obviously above your head, moving on

Two questions: Was this girl “drop-dead gorgeous”, and were you good looking at the time?

Well since I have been very careful on this forum not to divulge whether I am male or female I will say this.... they were popular and I was virtually unknown. And even in High School I have seen a handsome man go out with an average looking woman and a gorgeous woman go out with an average man. It is rare though.

Ihatevacations']the joke was quite obviously above your head, moving on
i'm Scared, is it going to drop onto me?

Well since I have been very careful on this forum not to divulge whether I am male or female I will say this.... they were popular and I was virtually unknown. And even in High School I have seen a handsome man go out with an average looking woman and a gorgeous woman go out with an average man. It is rare though.

And I have never witnessed such. Must be on a count of where I live. Also, unknown does not necessarily translate into unattractive. It may just be a result of a particularly odd personality.

Depending on how big the school is
Three thousand and nine hundred kids.

you Merged behind her? how Romantic.
I didn't know how to decribe it. :D

*honks horn that plays the Mexican hat dance*

Just go up to her and say: "WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME?!?" in a kind of strangled scream of anguish, then run away and try to hide behind a tree only three centimeters wide while muttering to yourself and staring at her. It always works for me. ;)

Seriously though, I'd just ask her out. If she says no, you know you were wrong, and if she says yes, it's all good. Either way, all you've got to lose is some pride.

I didn't know how to decribe it. :D

*honks horn that plays the Mexican hat dance*
maybe You should sit the next couple of plays out. boo!

Seriously though, I'd just ask her out. If she says no, you know you were wrong, and if she says yes, it's all good. Either way, all you've got to lose is some pride.

And let me know when she says no, and precedes to humiliate you for even dreaming you deserved to go out with her. That way, I can laugh at you some more.

Dude, you're in. She wants to play Hide the Salami.

What you should do, is stride up to her face-on, John Wayne stylee, unzip and whack your cock out, point at it and sneer: "you know you wanna piece o' that...", then wink... and.....

Oh fuck, no, sorry, wrong advice..

You want to stride up to her face-on, John Wayne stylee, introduce yourself and say "y'know, I'm straight as a die, and I can prove it!", then lob your pecker out..

And let me know when she says no, and precedes to humiliate you for even dreaming you deserved to go out with her. That way, I can laugh at you some more.
Bah, people are too concerned what other people think. You can only be humiliated if you pride. Plus, you'll get over it in the end, and then you can keep on asking her until she gives up and says yes.

Bah, people are too concerned what other people think. You can only be humiliated if you pride. Plus, you'll get over it in the end, and then you can keep on asking her until she gives up and says yes.
You naïve little person. *shakes head sadly*

Dude that's where all guys need to get. Have you ever noticed how all the queers steal the girls when they aren't even interested. You go for her man. It doesn't work for me but if the queer charm works for you at first, go with it, and then make sure to act very straight around her, flirt and all that. So then you have all the good qualities of a gay guy, but you're straight, a girl's dream right.

Why anyone would want to go out with Colodia, I can't imagine! And in high school, "gay" tends to be as much of an insult as it is in middle school, used to mean "stupid"...at least in the lower classes. (Me being a member of the nobility, of course, can avoid such things. :p) Sorry to disillusion you. ;)

Why anyone would want to go out with Colodia, I can't imagine! And in high school, "gay" tends to be as much of an insult as it is in middle school, used to mean "stupid"...at least in the lower classes. (Me being a member of the nobility, of course, can avoid such things. :p) Sorry to disillusion you. ;)
Round my way, 'gay' is often a synonym for 'crap'.

Eg: "Shit, the arial's being all gay again, who's closest to the TV?"
Or: "I just got fired today." / "Oh no, that's really gay!"

I know it's nasty, but oh so funny..

You naïve little person. *shakes head sadly*
What's naive about it? You ask some one out, it works or it doesn't. You don't ask them out, and it nothing happens. Real big success there. Playing it safe would be worth it if there was something to keep safe.

Good point, it depends on the form of "gay" she meant.

She could have meant the kind of gay like he likes other men, or he acts queer.

She also could have meant the 21st century definition of gay, "stupid."

What's naive about it?
The whole asking over and over again, thing. That just comes off as creepy.
You ask some one out, it works or it doesn't. You don't ask them out, and it nothing happens. Real big success there. Playing it safe would be worth it if there was something to keep safe.
If you value pride so lowly, you’ve obviously never lost it.

*shrug* I'm still at a loss for what to think.

And I don't know if I ever even wanted to ask her out...the popular people scare me.

no Wait, I've got it! you stride over to her, looking sexy and mysterious then get a little closer to her and casually say:(great line) (http://outflux.net/sounds/exclamations/god-of-hellfire.wav)

The whole asking over and over again, thing. That just comes off as creepy.

If you value pride so lowly, you’ve obviously never lost it.
Well, I agree you can go over the line of asking too much. But I suspect your point of view is just an excuse for having given up before you've tried. Sure I've been rejected by asking people who weren't interested, and it stung a little, but I got over it, and the next time it was easier.

*shrug* I'm still at a loss for what to think.
Think nothing of it. You are imagining things. That girl might not even have been talking about you when she said “He’s gay,” just looking at you because you were passing by.
And I don't know if I ever even wanted to ask her out...the popular people scare me.
Good. They should. They’re not doing their job otherwise.

*shrug* I'm still at a loss for what to think.

And I don't know if I ever even wanted to ask her out...the popular people scare me.
Have you shown her your willy yet? Girls love it when you do that. They really do!

*shrug* I'm still at a loss for what to think.

And I don't know if I ever even wanted to ask her out...the popular people scare me.
Meh, don't let them scare you. Anyway, I don't think they were talking about you, even if they were, don't worry too much about them and let them think you're gay. Why? Two things: If you try to prove to them you're not, they will think you're either desperate or gay. Second, acting uninterested, but fun and charming at the same time will only make you seem more mysterious, and with luck, unobtainable. Then they will want to go out with you.

And don't ask her out, just say something like "I know you want me, but at the same time have a reputation to live up to, so just meet me at *place*. We'll make it look like we just bumped into each other."

Have you shown her your willy yet? Girls love it when you do that. They really do!
Especially if you draw somthing cute on it. It's that attention to detail that gets to them.

Just walk into her bedroom at night. If she doesn't scream, it means she likes you. ;)

Well, something you should learn from this event. Next time you "merge behind" a group of girls, be sure to have your

I'm a Heterosexual

sign all ready.

Alright, there's this chick that's been staring at me for God knows how long. No wait, half a year. Looking at me oddly for a good half a year now.

I was walking from school and I merged behind her and her two friends, not thinking much of it.

She saw me coming closer to her and she seemed to look at me pretty surprised that I was coming her way. Her friends notice this and take a glance at me and say "*name*, he's gay."

Now. Two things. First off I'm not even sure they were talking about me. Although as far as I knew, no other guy was around me.

Two, I never really thought I looked gay....I mean sure, friends have told me that it looks like I wear make up...but really...

...I pretty much don't know what to make of this. I'm rather...confused...with the statement from the girls. Should I be insulted? Complimented? Flattered? A mixture of everything? I mean, this girl really is drop-dead gorgeous. And I don't really mind being called gay at all, because I don't even know these girls in the first place.

The only thing you know for sure is that her friends suck, becuase they were gossiping about someone, be it you or otherwise.

Secondly, it doesn't sound like you know anything about what kind of person this girl is; only that she's pretty. Don't fall into the temptation of being shallow. If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. You don't choose friends based on how hot they are, and you like hanging around them best. how much more so then should you select a love interest based on who she is?

Thirdly, a gal friend of mine says that she on more than one occasion has been caught stareing at men who interpret it the wrong way--they think she's attracted, but she stares at them because she finds them curiously repulsive. So you never truly know.

Lastly, it nonetheless sounds like she's interested in you. But if you give her a chance, don't let it be becuase she's pretty. Have you ever noticed that when a beautiful person is horrible on the inside, they become less attractive to you? Or that a person who is not attractive on the outside, but a good person on the inside becomes more attractive to you? I didn't notice my wife at all initially, but she's fantastic, man, and i love her so much. aside from just being awesome, and on top of everything else she contributes to our home, she makes me breakfast and irons my clothes for me every morning, and lays my clothes out on the bed. she does this for no reason other than the fact that she loves me and appreciates me. and believe me that i love and appreciate her as well.

Just walk into her bedroom at night. If she doesn't scream, it means she likes you. ;)

and if she does scream, it means you're going to jail. ;)

and if she does scream, it means you're going to jail. ;)
however, when she screams make sure you scream to then look around and yell "what teh fuck, where am i" then claim you must've sleep walked

and if she does scream, it means you're going to jail. ;)
From EuroTrip:
"Dammit! This isn't where I parked my car!"

Brian’s Test, that was great.

The only thing you know for sure is that her friends suck, becuase they were gossiping about someone, be it you or otherwise.

Agreed

Secondly, it doesn't sound like you know anything about what kind of person this girl is; only that she's pretty. Don't fall into the temptation of being shallow. If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. You don't choose friends based on how hot they are, and you like hanging around them best. how much more so then should you select a love interest based on who she is?

Great Point.

Thirdly, a gal friend of mine says that she on more than one occasion has been caught stareing at men who interpret it the wrong way--they think she's attracted, but she stares at them because she finds them curiously repulsive. So you never truly know.

That’s what I’ve been trying to say, in my own jerk way. Don’t try to interpret other people’s body language. Unless you’re a women. They’re good at that, we aren’t.

Lastly, it nonetheless sounds like she's interested in you. But if you give her a chance, don't let it be becuase she's pretty. Have you ever noticed that when a beautiful person is horrible on the inside, they become less attractive to you? Or that a person who is not attractive on the outside, but a good person on the inside becomes more attractive to you? I didn't notice my wife at all initially, but she's fantastic, man, and i love her so much. aside from just being awesome, and on top of everything else she contributes to our home, she makes me breakfast and irons my clothes for me every morning, and lays my clothes out on the bed. she does this for no reason other than the fact that she loves me and appreciates me. and believe me that i love and appreciate her as well.

You are a lucky, lucky man. Did I mention you were lucky?

Ihatevacations']however, when she screams make sure you scream to then look around and yell "what teh fuck, where am i" then claim you must've sleep walked
I'll plead "boys will be boys"

The judge is a cool guy. ;)

Thirdly, a gal friend of mine says that she on more than one occasion has been caught stareing at men who interpret it the wrong way--they think she's attracted, but she stares at them because she finds them curiously repulsive. So you never truly know.
I do that way to much myself. Gets me into some REAL bad situations. *sigh*

I do that way to much myself. Gets me into some REAL bad situations. *sigh*Lol, I can imagine. :D

Lol, I can imagine. :D
The chinless asian...

The Mexican with a mole of 1.5 cm diameter on her chin...

I'm such a bastard.

we're in the same time zone!!! well, not really cuz I'm in Arizona, which is cool and doesn't do daylight savings, unless of course you're in Canada which doesn't either.
we do daylight savings in canada...