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Just a little getting to know your sexual orintation poll.
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Where's the poll? :)

EDIT: Why are there:

What is a sexual orientation anyway?
What is a sexual orintation anyway?

:)

In before the poll!

You definitely are interested in sexuality, aren't you ES? ;)


((Straight, for the record.))

In before the poll!

You definitely are interested in sexuality, aren't you ES? ;)


((Straight, for the record.))


It is a big issue in my life lately.

For once it's not me with all the sex threads! HA CARNIVOROUS, YOU SEE THAT!!??

Do I even need to make a fashionably late appearance here?

I'm physically attracted to women.

But I have no physical or emotional aversion to the male form.

But I learned quite some time ago that having sex with men wasn't what interested me; It was having sex.

Having sex with a woman I truly cared for, on the other hand, is a far more pleasing experience.

So I am monogamously heterosexual.

Sexual orientation is a bother, I mean on top of having to figure out what your own actually is, you also have to deal with the quagmire of other people and the risk that you might be asked for help/advice on the subject. Even worse of course is when you encounter someone who is very obviously completely whack-job lunatic, in denial, or just plain confused.... And somehow befriend them....

someone who is very obviously completely whack-job lunatic, in denial, or just plain confused.... And somehow befriend them....

Gaining another friend..how is that a bad thing? If they are crazy, and you aren't, you are in the position to have a positive influence on that person.

Besides, if you befriend them, aren't you the one with the problem? I mean, you knowingly befriended a lunatic, you must have some issues.

Don't knock it 'till you've tried it. I'll try anything once. (Except skydiving without a parachute!)

Happy to be bisexual. :cool:

Don't knock it 'till you've tried it. I'll try anything once. (Except skydiving without a parachute!)lmao! You should try that, too! It's lots of fun.........trust me............... ;)

Where's the poll? :)

EDIT: Why are there:



:)
JUst a mistake when preparing the poll.

Bi jove

I am a bisexual male, with a leaning towards girls. I plan to get married, have a family, etc.

Gaining another friend..how is that a bad thing? If they are crazy, and you aren't, you are in the position to have a positive influence on that person.

Besides, if you befriend them, aren't you the one with the problem? I mean, you knowingly befriended a lunatic, you must have some issues.

Yeah, I have issues. And besides, it's more just plain *****ing on my part than anything else. I actually enjoy seeing how crazy people can be. Until they turn out to be basically compulsive liars. Then Hulk want smash. But in most cases it's just bothersome because I still have no idea how to approach the situation, and I hate leaving well enough alone when I see something that manages to disturb me. Because if you manage to disturb me, you've got a problem. Regardless of whether you're really a lesbian or just a crazy obsessed bisexual who has latched onto a person and never wants to ever even think of letting go.

Strait as an arrow. :D

I happen to be a delightfully happy bisexual guy who leans towards the opposite gender. I'll try anything once, though.

Straight but not narrow, as the saying goes. :)

Straight but not narrow, as the saying goes. :)

Is that how it goes?

Straight but not narrow, as the saying goes. :)
You're not allowed to make up your own sayings until you are 70 years old, unless you are so, then go ahead

Ihatevacations']You're not allowed to make up your own sayings until you are 70 years old, unless you are so, then go aheadLMAO!

Ihatevacations']You're not allowed to make up your own sayings until you are 70 years old, unless you are so, then go ahead

You young whippersnappers, making up rules about who can make up sayings! In my day, we all made up sayings, and did anyone thank us for it? No! They made us walk through the snow to tell people our sayings, and we were so poor we couldn't afford shoes, but did we complain? No, we did not. Not like you young 'uns, who think you're so goshdarned smart--

*ahem*

Sorry about that. My inner 70-year-old seems to have taken over for a moment. I can't really take credit for that saying - I've seen it on at least a couple of bumper stickers and buttons. I can only take credit for liking it enough to repeat it (and to buy one of the buttons).

Straight.

Straight is the word right now, but the case isn't closed yet.

You left out celibacy! I know it's a poll for sexual orientation, but what about those with a lack thereof?

Brahmacharya 4 LIFE, sucka!

I like to think I'm straight, and in fact thought that for all the healthy years of my life, until last Monday when my boyfriend's little Yoda figure, the one that answers yes or no questions, shot me down.

Well, he didn't really shoot me down at first, actually. See, Am (the bisexual-in-a-lesbian-relationship roommate) asked Yoda if I was a lesbian and he said "No, I sense the answer is" and I was like "OH YEAH! Eat that, biatch!" But then my boyfriend asked Yoda if he was screwing with us and he said yes, he was in fact screwing with us. Which I guess made me a lesbian on the spot.

I haven't noticed the signs yet, however.....

I'm straight, female.

Bi male with a leaning towards women.

Bi male leaning towards other guys...

Used to be bi male, but the older I get the more settled into gay I become. I guess when you are a teenager you will get it up when anyone sticks their hands in your pants, but the novelty wears off after awhile.

Straight pride!

For once it's not me with all the sex threads! HA
[ Faints ] Thud! :D

Bi female leaning towards men, but monogamous at the moment.

When it comes down to it women seem to have the most pleasing attributes. Have a man stand over you naked and try to watch his member jiggle without laughing. Still, gotta have the right tools to get the job done. :fluffle:

Ihatevacations']You're not allowed to make up your own sayings until you are 70 years old, unless you are so, then go ahead
So I still have eight years to go before I can make up my own sayings??? :eek:

Straight, married with two children.

But I love my Gay/Lesbion friends! I know some Drag-Queens who are more of a woman then I'll ever be, and I take care of myself. ;)

I'm straight, but my marriage is cheapened when I know that I'm part of some fucking elite club that is exclusive. I prefer to be inclusive.

You want to defend marriage? Go fucking outlaw divorce! :p

I'm 100% gay and out (to my family too..). :) Heheh.. I have a boyfriend and have been going out with him for two months now. I'm damn proud of who I am, and won't let anyone tell me otherwise. :)

So how many of you bi and gay males/females are out to your family and friends?

As straight as humanly/superhumanly possible.

Used to be bi male, but the older I get the more settled into gay I become. I guess when you are a teenager you will get it up when anyone sticks their hands in your pants, but the novelty wears off after awhile.

The novelty wears off...? ...Pfft.

bisexual woman equally toward both sexes . . . i look at gender the same way i look at race - it shouldn't affect whether i hire someone or not, and it shouldn't affect whether i love someone or not.

to answer a question posted earlier - my family knows i'm bi and i don't try to hide it from friends and such. if we're close i tell them how i feel about it, if we're not i'll tell them if the subject comes up somehow.

Simonist']I like to think I'm straight, and in fact thought that for all the healthy years of my life, until last Monday when my boyfriend's little Yoda figure, the one that answers yes or no questions, shot me down.

Well, he didn't really shoot me down at first, actually. See, Am (the bisexual-in-a-lesbian-relationship roommate) asked Yoda if I was a lesbian and he said "No, I sense the answer is" and I was like "OH YEAH! Eat that, biatch!" But then my boyfriend asked Yoda if he was screwing with us and he said yes, he was in fact screwing with us. Which I guess made me a lesbian on the spot.

I haven't noticed the signs yet, however.....

Better save yourself some time and start stocking up on flannel shirts and combat boots. Yoda couldn’t possibly be wrong. :D

Better save yourself some time and start stocking up on flannel shirts and combat boots. Yoda couldn’t possibly be wrong. :D
Well in my area I actually see more of them in jeans one size bigger than needed and rock/vintage t-shirts, usually sporting a faux-hawk or some similar short hairstyle. So all I need so far is to lose 8 pounds and/or buy some new pants and cut my hair......

I've already got the rainbow coloured laces on a few pairs of my Converse and Reebok Classics, and I've got a hella old pair of Vans that's rainbow. Huh. Crazy foresight for somebody who never liked girls before.

Ahhh, quit pickin' on me just 'cause I'm not outed yet..... :p

So how many of you bi and gay males/females are out to your family and friends?

I'm not, unfortunately :( Where I live and who I'm friends with, I'd jsut be asking to have my life ruined. I'm pretty sure that my family and close friends will be cool with it (and am, in fact, considering to come out to them), but anyone else... No chance in hell of that happening...

Bi female, leaning towards guys.

My friends know, my family, no.

I'm probably never going to tell them because i plan on getting married and having kids, you know, with the whole leaning towards guys thing. Plus my father's an evil bigot and would probably disown me. Not that that would matter though, but it would be nice to still be my father's daughter.

The novelty wears off...? ...Pfft.

Yes I agree unless she is fat, you can only go there so many times before it just becomes to much work.

I am gay but only some of my friends know so far. In the process of coming out... :fluffle:

I am gay but only some of my friends know so far. In the process of coming out... :fluffle:

sexual Orientation is not a big deal, and if any one is suddenly like oh my god i have no idea who you are, then hit on them until they hit you or go away.

Horny gay rabbit.

Straighter than a line between two points.

Straight but sometimes I wish I was gay just to piss off some conservative Christians

Bi female, leaning towards guys. As for being out, lets see... To some friends, and in a way to my mom... lets put it this way, she either asks me if i'm gay, or if i'm pregnant, so i guess she now assumes that i'm bi. i've neither affirmed nor disputed either, so let her wonder...

Me? I'm a lesbian, and I'm not ashamed to say it. (Unless you count my extended family into that figure. My parents know about it, but the rest of the family, they're in the dark. They're too conservative to accept it.) But personally, I don't care about one's sexual orientation. It's the character that makes the person, not who they sleep with. :D

I'm physically attracted to women.

But I have no physical or emotional aversion to the male form.

But I learned quite some time ago that having sex with men wasn't what interested me; It was having sex.

Having sex with a woman I truly cared for, on the other hand, is a far more pleasing experience.

So I am monogamously heterosexual.

Dude! Ditto.

Bi leaning towards girls. I don't like getting into relationships with guys; I just like having sex with them. I'll probably end up marrying a girl.

I would have to go with a straight on this one...

Straight

Hard question to answer. I'm male, I've only ever been involved with females, and I've never found another male attractive nor had any sexual involvement with them. But I don't have any aversion towards men, either. Ho hum.

Bisexuality would be convenient, though. Gay men seem to more frequently find me attractive than straight women :/
Edit: And there'd be more potential victims, too.