NationStates Jolt Archive


Age / longest lasting relationsship.

Tluiko
06-07-2005, 13:43
How old are you and how long did your longest relationship last till know (or did you not yet have one)?
Are you still in this relationship?

I'm 19, my longest (and till now only) relationship lasted 2 years and 2 month, but we are not together anymore.
Salarschla
06-07-2005, 13:53
How old are you and how long did your longest relationship last till know?
Are you still in this relationship?

I'm 19, my longest (and till know only) relationship lasted 2 years and 2 month, but we are not together anymore.

6 years and 2 months, my salvation from making to many mistakes as a teen.
The relationship is over since 2½ year, I ended it. He deserved better.
I am 24.
Dakini
06-07-2005, 13:55
I'm 21 and my current relationship has been going on for just short of 2 years so far.
Dragons Bay
06-07-2005, 13:58
Two days. Three years ago (15 then).
Jester III
06-07-2005, 13:59
Four and a half years and i am 34.
Ancient Valyria
06-07-2005, 14:03
four and a half months, and I'm 18 (was 17 at the time)
EvaMade
06-07-2005, 14:09
i'm 24, and my longest romantic relationship is my current one. 7 years, 7 months, and 27 days so far.

--dunerat, Dominar of EvaMade
The Charr
06-07-2005, 14:10
Almost three years. Ended a short period of time ago. I'm 20.
Commie Catholics
06-07-2005, 14:11
15 and still haven't had a relationship. Lucky me.
Helioterra
06-07-2005, 14:16
26 and the longest relationship has lastest about 4 years (still together) the second longest 3 years.
Katganistan
06-07-2005, 14:32
I am WAY over 21, and my longest lasting relationship is 5 years and counting. :)
Quedas
06-07-2005, 14:34
I'm 22 years old and (I'm not joking - I wish I was) my longest relationship lasted for about 4, 5 hours.
imported_Jet Li
06-07-2005, 14:36
I'm 23, longest relationship is my current one... 3 and a half years.

I'd get less for Manslaughter.
Katganistan
06-07-2005, 14:45
I think that what we are seeing here is, generally speaking, that the older one is, the more likely it is that the relationship will be longer lasting. This has much to do, I think, with discovering who we are and what we really want in life -- which often takes a while.

For some people, knowing themselves takes nearly their whole lifetime. Others may be very in tune with their personality at a fairly young age.
Salarschla
06-07-2005, 14:50
I think that what we are seeing here is, generally speaking, that the older one is, the more likely it is that the relationship will be longer lasting. This has much to do, I think, with discovering who we are and what we really want in life -- which often takes a while.

For some people, knowing themselves takes nearly their whole lifetime. Others may be very in tune with their personality at a fairly young age.

Nah, I was 15 when I started my 6 year relationship, I think it depend on more than maturity, because I was in no way mature then, just happened to meet a person who was willing to commit himself for that long (even longer had I not ended it).
Sableonia
06-07-2005, 14:54
I am 34. I have been married for 13 years, with him for 18 years altogether.
He has however, become a "bad man", and the relationship will not last much longer. :(
Squirrel Nuts
06-07-2005, 15:01
I'm 19. I'm currently in my longest relationship which is at 4 months now. I'm like the only person to never have dated in high school.
Intangelon
06-07-2005, 15:03
I am 34, and my longest relationship lasted three years and change. Actually, change wasn't part of the relationship, which is why it ended.
Sarkasis
06-07-2005, 15:04
I'm 31. :eek:

Longest: current relationship, 6 years (incl. 1 year marriage), living together since the beginning, looks good

Previous: 3 1/2 years, we were living in different cities, it helped keeping that disaster alive for too long...
Screegor
06-07-2005, 15:14
24 - Longest realtionship is going on 18 months,

my relationship with beer has been over 6 years though....
Ancient Valyria
06-07-2005, 15:15
I'm like the only person to never have dated in high school.
no you're not :p
Tluiko
06-07-2005, 15:18
no you're not :p

I never ever had anything like a "date". At least nothing I would consider a date.
Blackdespondency
06-07-2005, 15:20
I'm 17 and have never been in a relationship.

They can be a waste of time. I want the guy I date to fascinate me; I find it pointless to have a relationship with someone who doesn't captivate you.
Jello Biafra
06-07-2005, 15:46
I'm 22 (soon to be 23) and my longest relationship is my current one, 5 years and 4 months. I'm not sure of its prognosis for the future, though.
Kiwi-kiwi
06-07-2005, 16:03
17, and have never technically been in a relationship.
Laerod
06-07-2005, 16:16
I'm 21 and my longest relationship lasted about six months.
A word of encouragement to the lonely youngsters that haven't been in a relationship: I was 19 when I had my first real girlfriend, and things have turned out to be fine.
Spaam
06-07-2005, 16:24
~sigh~

22 and 7.5 months.
Squirrel Nuts
06-07-2005, 19:43
no you're not :p
Good :) That makes me feel better.
Dempublicents1
06-07-2005, 19:44
24, 4 years (and still going).
Sinuhue
06-07-2005, 19:55
I'm 27. I've been with my husband for just about 10 years (sounds more impressive than 9 and 1/2:))