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I keep getting random men contacting me on msn. They all hit on me right off the bat, often with such horrific language, usually asking for pictures, webcam et c and also to cyber... and then they get pissed off when I don't go for it and act like they have somehow earned such things.

I mean, what posesses people to think that contacting random strangers online will get them sexual gratification?
And what the hell makes them think they are somehow entitled to it in the first place.

Fucking pigs.

How do they get your addy? And why don't you just refuse all addies that you don't recognise? It's not that hard man.

Muahaha, if I knew your addy I'd start doing something like that just for fun.

Oh, c'mon, all I wanted was a tasteful nude!! :fluffle:

Does this mean I shouldn't keep checking my inbox for it? :eek:

;) :D

Also, the last guy was 300lbs and apparantly couldn't speak english despite claiming to be a 32 year old native new yorker. He thought that somehow he deserved a thin, hot woman, despite the fact that he is obviously overweight and cannot spell in his mother tongue. Plus the fact that the first thing he says to me is "hey sexy" *shudders*

Yes, I just need to rant about this.

How do they get your addy? And why don't you just refuse all addies that you don't recognise? It's not that hard man.
I have no idea how they get my addy. I think there's someone with the same first half of the email address giving out the part before the @ and not telling people the rest, so the idiots just guess it. People have claimed to get it from dating sites and porn sites, but I haven't signed up for anything like that. Does gmail work for msn? Perhaps I should switch to that one.

Also, sometimes my current contacts change their addresses without telling me and this particular guy has the same name as one of my friends who is constantly plagued with a cyber stalker.

Also, the last guy was 300lbs and apparantly couldn't speak english despite claiming to be a 32 year old native new yorker. He thought that somehow he deserved a thin, hot woman, despite the fact that he is obviously overweight and cannot spell in his mother tongue. Plus the fact that the first thing he says to me is "hey sexy" *shudders*

Yes, I just need to rant about this.
Lol, aww, poor you getting harrassed by nasty, dirty old men.

I have no idea how they get my addy. I think there's someone with the same first half of the email address giving out the part before the @ and not telling people the rest, so the idiots just guess it.

Also, sometimes my current contacts change their addresses without telling me and this particular guy has the same name as one of my friends who is constantly plagued with a cyber stalker.

I've never had anything like this happen to me.

It's a sad fact of life that most people are complete idiots. And it seems that guys act even stupider when females are involved. I've spent most of my adult life gigging as a musician, and the things I've heard guys say to women in bars that they actually thought would work! I'm under the assumption that women like to be treated like a person, rather than a glorified blow up doll. But that's just me. Just try to keep in mind we're not ALL like that.

Plus the fact that the first thing he says to me is "hey sexy" *shudders*
Lol, I get that a lot too. When will guys understand that initiating a conversation with something along the lines of "hey sexy" isn't going to get you anywhere?

Dakini, you posted your pic online. That's why.

Lol, I get that a lot too. When will guys understand that initiating a conversation with something along the lines of "hey sexy" isn't going to get you anywhere?

Hello nice looking person?!

Is that any better?

Dakini, you posted your pic online. That's why.
I've never accompanied it by my email address.

Hello nice looking person?!

Is that any better?
How about just "Hi, I'm <insert name>"?

It's a sad fact of life that most people are complete idiots. And it seems that guys act even stupider when females are involved. I've spent most of my adult life gigging as a musician, and the things I've heard guys say to women in bars that they actually thought would work! I'm under the assumption that women like to be treated like a person, rather than a glorified blow up doll. But that's just me. Just try to keep in mind we're not ALL like that.
I know not all guys are like that.

All the idiots who contact me online are though.

And this whole thing has given me a very bad impression of arbic men, really, since they are the ones who contact me most often demanding sex in broken english.

I've never accompanied it by my email address.

Oh...people see a nice girl, and then they look for the email address. Eventually, with the Internet so leaky security-wise, they'll find it.

Gmail accounts work. Use that for your MSN.

How about just "Hi, I'm <insert name>"?

You've got it all wrong, the ladies love "asl?"

I know not all guys are like that.

All the idiots who contact me online are though.

And this whole thing has given me a very bad impression of arbic men, really, since they are the ones who contact me most often demanding sex in broken english.
lol the decent Arabic men are hot and have sexy accents but there comes a fair share of jackasses.

How about just "Hi, I'm <insert name>"?

Lol, that's so boring!

maybe its because your name rhymes with bikini and this (to them) implies you are willing for cyber sex

maybe its because your name rhymes with bikini and this (to them) implies you are willing for cyber sex

That's a far out theory!

You've got it all wrong, the ladies love "asl?"
I usually just answer 17/F.

I usually just answer 17/F.

You could lie to these people, say you are like 56/m and then they might leave you alone.

You could lie to these people, say you are like 56/m and then they might leave you alone.
I don't have the problem, Dakini does.

I don't have the problem, Dakini does.

Oh yeah, lol....

Well, that post was directed at Dakini then.

You could lie to these people, say you are like 56/m and then they might leave you alone.

Or even 7/F, which might deter them even more.

Or even 7/F, which might deter them even more.

That might make them even more interested and excited!!!!

That might make them even more interested and excited!!!!
Exactly what I was thinking.

If you can some how convince these people, or even put the doubt in their mind, that you are in fact a man/boy, it will put most creeps off.

I keep getting random men contacting me on msn. They all hit on me right off the bat, often with such horrific language, usually asking for pictures, webcam et c and also to cyber... and then they get pissed off when I don't go for it and act like they have somehow earned such things.

I mean, what posesses people to think that contacting random strangers online will get them sexual gratification?
And what the hell makes them think they are somehow entitled to it in the first place.

Fucking pigs.
See, this is why someone needs to invent a method of remotely tasering people over IP.
When someone starts spamming your MSN with "Show me your tits!", just hit the "SHOCK" key, and BAM! 200 KV of electricity courses through his mouse!

To be serious, I find it rather annoying how people manage to get ahold of people's chat account names and such and asks for sexual favours and such. You know, if they did that repeatedly in real life, it might count as harrassment. I wonder if it is the same over the internet?

That might make them even more interested and excited!!!!

Ok...maybe she should change her MSN address to Metric_boner, then.

Ok...maybe she should change her MSN address to Metric_boner, then.
Lol, might deter them I suppose.

Ok...maybe she should change her MSN address to Metric_boner, then.
LOL! I wanna do that now.

If anyone asks who I don't know, I'm at least 18, and live in the Leicestershire county in England. That said, do not pretend to be something you're obviously not. (I once pretended I was dutch (which I partly am, but not a Dutch speaker) and the guy started talking to me in Dutch :S At which point I quit the game)

If anyone asks who I don't know, I'm at least 18, and live in the Leicestershire county in England. That said, do not pretend to be something you're obviously not. (I once pretended I was dutch (which I partly am, but not a Dutch speaker) and the guy started talking to me in Dutch :S At which point I quit the game)

Lol, I always lie to people on MSN about who I really am!

What I don't understand about this sort of behavour is this: These men are asking people for rude pictures etc... the internet is 99.9% Tit and Ass orrientated! Even a tiny child could find a picture of a fanny on the internet so why are theses guys so desperate to be MSM'ed one?

What I don't understand about this sort of behavour is this: These men are asking people for rude pictures etc... the internet is 99.9% Tit and Ass orrientated! Even a tiny child could find a picture of a fanny on the internet so why are theses guys so desperate to be MSM'ed one?
Because it is free on MSN and there is the added bonus that the person may have a cam so they can watch 'things' live and for free.

Well, I'm 54/F and I sometimes get this kind of email. Obviously they have never seen my picture on NS or else they would know I'm a dog with a problem with incontinence. Anyway, I figure that most of these cretins are teenagers with way too many hormones and way too much time alone on the computer. I figure most adult men have figured out that the aggressive approach doesn't work with women. I usually email back from a dummy address (used just to answer spam and such) that I am the director of a private security agency and that steps are being taken to identify their location, seize their computer equipment, and initiate criminal prosecution for cyber molestation. None of them have ever written back. :confused:

Lol, I always lie to people on MSN about who I really am!
Hi, I'm a carpenter from the Middle East.

Well, I'm 54/F and I sometimes get this kind of email. Obviously they have never seen my picture on NS or else they would know I'm a dog with a problem with incontinence. Anyway, I figure that most of these cretins are teenagers with way too many hormones and way too much time alone on the computer. I figure most adult men have figured out that the aggressive approach doesn't work with women. I usually email back from a dummy address (used just to answer spam and such) that I am the director of a private security agency and that steps are being taken to identify their location, seize their computer equipment, and initiate criminal prosecution for cyber molestation. None of them have ever written back. :confused:

Don't say it's teenagers fault! There are far more dirty old men in this world.

Lol, I always lie to people on MSN about who I really am!
I don't lie to people on MSN, but then again, if its someone I don't know, I just remove them from my contact list.

I don't lie to people on MSN, but then again, if its someone I don't know, I just remove them from my contact list.
Well, yeah you can do that as well. Or just not even add them to begin with.

Don't say it's teenagers fault! There are far more dirty old men in this world.

I don't know that it's all teenagers doing this, but if you look at it as the modern version of the prank phone call, then bored kids are likely involved in this activity. Next time you get one asking for a nude photo, just find a really gross nasty one on the net and send them that.

I don't know that it's all teenagers doing this, but if you look at it as the modern version of the prank phone call, then bored kids are likely involved in this activity. Next time you get one asking for a nude photo, just find a really gross nasty one on the net and send them that.
But prank phone calls are a bit different to cyber sex lol.

I keep getting random men contacting me on msn. They all hit on me right off the bat, often with such horrific language, usually asking for pictures, webcam et c and also to cyber... and then they get pissed off when I don't go for it and act like they have somehow earned such things.

I mean, what posesses people to think that contacting random strangers online will get them sexual gratification?
And what the hell makes them think they are somehow entitled to it in the first place.

Fucking pigs.
nah, just pigs... if they were Fucking pigs, then ... well that would just be disgusting. :D

You should find a picture of someone that's just horribly ugly. 400+lbs, bald with skin problems and missing teeth. Whenever they asked for a picture, send them that.

If they demand to meet say something like "You know I have AIDS, right?"

I keep getting random men contacting me on msn. They all hit on me right off the bat, often with such horrific language, usually asking for pictures, webcam et c and also to cyber... and then they get pissed off when I don't go for it and act like they have somehow earned such things.

This is the one of the best cases against easy access.

Oh...people see a nice girl, and then they look for the email address. Eventually, with the Internet so leaky security-wise, they'll find it.

Gmail accounts work. Use that for your MSN.
But I've never got anyone claiming to be from a forum I frequent or having seen me there.

And most forums I use have an older email address that used to be my secondary until I kept forgetting to log in every now and then.

I keep getting random men contacting me on msn. They all hit on me right off the bat, often with such horrific language, usually asking for pictures, webcam et c and also to cyber... and then they get pissed off when I don't go for it and act like they have somehow earned such things.

I mean, what posesses people to think that contacting random strangers online will get them sexual gratification?
And what the hell makes them think they are somehow entitled to it in the first place.

Fucking pigs.

Shit..that was you? *grins*Kiddin'.

I've never done that, nor do I know of any other males who have. It's rather sad to do go about begging/demanding sexual gratification from others, especially on the 'net. But, there are women who respond to that, and, on the other hand, do the same thing that those men do.