Problem
Surperier
20-06-2005, 20:02
Ok there is a girl i really care about alot. she means more to me then my own life. i have asked her out as friends but she says " she has other plans". i have been offered other dates by really good looking girls but i always reject them because of her. so now i don't know what to do. ask her out again or just go on like i don't like her. i need your advise.
Kryozerkia
20-06-2005, 20:03
Go out with the other girls. Let this chick come crawling to you.
Whispering Legs
20-06-2005, 20:06
If she means more to you than your own life, you're probably making a mistake.
Go out with other girls. Now.
And don't say, "I'd like to go out as friends". That's as useless as saying, "I want to go out just for sex."
Just go out with them. Love, sex, and all the rest either happens or it doesn't. And you'll know.
Play nice, play well, and don't let yourself get hurt if you can avoid it.
Surperier
20-06-2005, 20:06
the only thing about that is. i don't think she would really care. and i wouldn't be happy with them.
Lascivious Optimus
20-06-2005, 20:22
the only thing about that is. i don't think she would really care. and i wouldn't be happy with them.
You have to try little britches, otherwise youre just wasting time at the starting line of life. If you dont get out and on the track, youll miss the race entirely.
Whispering Legs
20-06-2005, 20:24
the only thing about that is. i don't think she would really care. and i wouldn't be happy with them.
No, when you're as old as I am, you'll be wishing you had chased every one of them down and had the time of your life when you were young.
But it will be way too late.
She doesn't like you. Screw all the other chicks who actually want you.
The Motor City Madmen
20-06-2005, 20:29
Don't worry about her, chicks are a dime a dozen. Screw the rest till you can't blink.
BTW don't be a wuss. ;)
Sdaeriji
20-06-2005, 20:29
Go out with the other girls. Let this chick come crawling to you.
Seconded. Once she sees you around with other girls, she'll care.
Holyawesomeness
20-06-2005, 20:30
Well like all problems you have to look at this logically. Break down what you like about this girl logically. If your reasons seem superficial or too emotional then throw them away. You are not in a position to feel so strongly for this person and that fact alone could even keep them out of your grasp. I suggest that you give up analyze why and how you came to feel this way and use this knowledge to find someone else that could logically be of benefit for you.
You'll get hurt. There's no way out. Accept it. That's life.
If you love her more than life itself, you can stand the pain. If you can't take the pain, find another superficial relationship, where you can always walk away.
Ok there is a girl i really care about alot. she means more to me then my own life. i have asked her out as friends but she says " she has other plans". i have been offered other dates by really good looking girls but i always reject them because of her. so now i don't know what to do. ask her out again or just go on like i don't like her. i need your advise.
If you believe a girl means more than your own life, then you should not be dating ANYBODY. That is a horribly unhealthy position to put yourself in. You owe it to yourself, and to anybody you care about, to work through your personal problems before you enter into a relationship.
Clint the mercyful
21-06-2005, 12:35
alternatively, go up to her and pinch her bum, with a wink.
if she even talks to you after that, you are in luck.
If she doesnt, then forget it
Jello Biafra
21-06-2005, 13:17
If you don't socialize with her regularly, ask her out, but not as friends. If she rejects you, it's not like you're worse off than you were before. And if she does, then move on with someone else. I'm not going to suggest you screw around, because I've never understood the whole promiscuity thing. But move on.
Commie Catholics
21-06-2005, 13:19
Ok there is a girl i really care about alot. she means more to me then my own life. i have asked her out as friends but she says " she has other plans". i have been offered other dates by really good looking girls but i always reject them because of her. so now i don't know what to do. ask her out again or just go on like i don't like her. i need your advise.
You think you've got problems. :rolleyes:
Evilness and Chaos
21-06-2005, 13:21
Ok there is a girl i really care about alot. she means more to me then my own life. i have asked her out as friends but she says " she has other plans". i have been offered other dates by really good looking girls but i always reject them because of her. so now i don't know what to do. ask her out again or just go on like i don't like her. i need your advise.
Forget about her... drive every memory of her deep inside you and refuse to deal with your feelings... crush down your emotions until you can take no more!
Congratulations, you are now a crazy evil dude!
Jester III
21-06-2005, 13:36
Did she ever do anything to encourage you? Is she a good friend? Or someone you admire from the distance?
From the little information you gave it seems like you have an unhealthy obsession with her.