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NS Gender Bender Society

Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:30
Have you ever been confused for a member of the opposite sex by another NSer? Why? Sound off here!

Also, here's something totally inane and pointless for you to put into your sig. :p

Member of the NS Gender Bender Society (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?p=9095405)

Personally, I referred to myself as a "slut" once and two NSers instantly assumed I was female...and proceed to hit on me. :headbang:

(To get the code for the sig, just hit QUOTE on this post and take the code from there.)
Colodia
19-06-2005, 17:32
Yes

I'd wanna see more people declare their abuse before putting THAT THING in MY sig! :D
Daistallia 2104
19-06-2005, 17:35
Funny thing - that happened to me for the first time today.

But I'm with Colodia on putting in my sig. ;)
Bottle
19-06-2005, 17:38
Just about everybody around here assumes I am male at first. I take it as a compliment, most of the time.
Colodia
19-06-2005, 17:39
Funny thing - that happened to me for the first time today.

But I'm with Colodia on putting in my sig. ;)
Half-sure he got the idea from you.

Whatta girl! ;)
The Green Plague
19-06-2005, 17:39
no thanks on the signature.... but great idea..

worth a bumpity bump..
Colodia
19-06-2005, 17:41
Just about everybody around here assumes I am male at first. I take it as a compliment, most of the time.
Wow, been awhile since I've seen your name...hmm

*uses chloroform to render Bottle unconscious and dumps her body in the river*

Oh wait, dammit I should've killed her first!
Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:43
Half-sure he got the idea from you.
You can be ALL-sure, because that little incident most definitely inspired this thread. :D
The Chocolate Goddess
19-06-2005, 17:44
< erm... no.
Ravea
19-06-2005, 17:46
Quite A few people habe assumed that I am a female becuase of my user name, although I can't see how that could be.
Swimmingpool
19-06-2005, 17:49
For an extremely long time I thought Nadkor was male. Just sounded too masculine to be female.

Just about everybody around here assumes I am male at first. I take it as a compliment, most of the time.
Why, do you think men are superior to women? ;)
Santa Barbara
19-06-2005, 17:49
Yeah people see "Barbara" and assume I'm female.
Bottle
19-06-2005, 17:50
Wow, been awhile since I've seen your name...hmm

*uses chloroform to render Bottle unconscious and dumps her body in the river*

Oh wait, dammit I should've killed her first!
Mwah ha ha! I shall return!!!
Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:50
< erm... no.
you could be a gay male. http://www.dasmusik.net/forums/images/smilies/look.gif
Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:52
Yeah people see "Barbara" and assume I'm female.
Must be a non-American thing. I saw your name and instantly thought "city name...probably male".
Bottle
19-06-2005, 17:53
Why, do you think men are superior to women? ;)
I don't...but many people do. And many of the qualities that I most prize are considered "masculine" by the majority of people.

Besides, men can do math and open jars! :)
Santa Barbara
19-06-2005, 17:54
Must be a non-American thing. I saw your name and instantly thought "city name...probably male".

Nah... it's American alright. You just recognize it as a city name because you are more familiar with Spanish town and city names in general, I think. Well that and you've got a head on your shoulders, that probably helps.
Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:55
Yes

I'd wanna see more people declare their abuse before putting THAT THING in MY sig! :D
There you go, ya wussies! I put it in my sig first. :p
Texpunditistan
19-06-2005, 17:58
Besides, men can do math and open jars! :)
Q: What's the difference between women and sheep?

A: Sheep can't wash dishes. *rimshot crash groan*

-and just for balance's sake-

Q: What's the difference betwen men and vibrators?

A: Vibrators can't mow the lawn. *more rimshot crash groan*

:p
Colodia
19-06-2005, 18:21
Hey, why are diamonds a woman's best friend. But a man's best friend is some crappy dog?
Santa Barbara
19-06-2005, 18:23
Hey, why are diamonds a woman's best friend. But a man's best friend is some crappy dog?

Well why is a boy's best friend his mother? Mother to dog, thats an odd change in preferences.

But hey at least the males are making friends who are, you know, living.
Thermidore
19-06-2005, 19:01
very old joke - balanced in the sexism though

the perfect woman and the perfect man are driving in a car on christmas eve, when suddenly Santa claus who's got a flat reindeer falls from the sky. All but one peron dies.

Who survives?


.
.
.
.



The Perfect Woman, cause the other two don't exist!

But if that's the case.... how'd she drive there?
Liskeinland
19-06-2005, 19:27
Quite A few people habe assumed that I am a female becuase of my user name, although I can't see how that could be. It's the "a" at the end. Like with Keruvalia (yes, I know Keruvalia is male).
Colodia
19-06-2005, 19:28
It's the "a" at the end. Like with Keruvalia (yes, I know Keruvalia is male).
Yep, same problem with me.
Dobbsworld
19-06-2005, 20:05
I mostly ignore the gender reference stuff. If you know me, you know my gender identity. I don't usually make a big noise about it, unless some pinhead starts slagging TGs unduly.

Just call me Dobbs. It's easiest.
Gataway_Driver
19-06-2005, 20:48
Quite A few people habe assumed that I am a female becuase of my user name, although I can't see how that could be.

because it ends in an A
Lord-General Drache
20-06-2005, 02:38
On another forum, yes. I'd been referred to as female for months, despite numerous people correcting the person.

I've yet to be referred to as the opposite gender on NS, probably because of the "Lord" in my name. I'm sure there'll come a time when someone does, though.

When refering to other posters, I generally say "He/she/it" to be on the safe side.
Nureonia
20-06-2005, 02:41
Hey, Tex. Does it count if you haven't on NS, but have in real life? :P

(I used to have long hair, and... well, I'm not very muscular. Apparently I was a cute girl, as I got HIT ON.)
Liverbreath
20-06-2005, 02:48
Nope, my name negates even the remotest need for the slightest concern. That is by design. :D
Daistallia 2104
20-06-2005, 18:21
You can be ALL-sure, because that little incident most definitely inspired this thread. :D

Ya know what? I suspected as much when I first saw it. :D
Daistallia 2104
20-06-2005, 18:28
It's the "a" at the end. Like with Keruvalia (yes, I know Keruvalia is male).

Yep, I suspect that is sometimes the problem. But when so many nation names end in "-a" or "-ia", one might expect a forum based on nations to have quite a few genderless names with those endings.
Zeladonii
20-06-2005, 18:31
ive been mistaken for a guy SO many times on NS and in real life!!!
Czardas
21-06-2005, 03:08
Yep, I suspect that is sometimes the problem. But when so many nation names end in "-a" or "-ia", one might expect a forum based on nations to have quite a few genderless names with those endings.I know. If I accessed the forums as 'Mauvasia', people would have been far more likely to mistake my gender.

As it is with 'Czar' in my name, and my general posting style, no-one's ever mistaken me for a female. :p
Hyperslackovicznia
21-06-2005, 05:18
My name ends in "a", and I'm mistaken for male a lot. Maybe because it's so weird and long... but it is for a reason.
Barlibgil
22-06-2005, 06:40
Lol, I so put it in my sig.

It was either last week, or the week before, and Texpunditstan assumed I was a girl, for no particular reason, I guess. :confused:

Does it make me special that the person who mistook me for a girl started the
NS Gender Bender Society (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?p=9095405)?
Neo Rogolia
22-06-2005, 07:02
Yeah, apparently a lot of people thought I was a male too -.-


/angry
Harlesburg
22-06-2005, 08:17
Wow, been awhile since I've seen your name...hmm

*uses chloroform to render Bottle unconscious and dumps her body in the river*

Oh wait, dammit I should've killed her first!
Dont worry she will drown or maybe float....

I know. If I accessed the forums as 'Mauvasia', people would have been far more likely to mistake my gender.

As it is with 'Czar' in my name, and my general posting style, no-one's ever mistaken me for a female. :p
Thats a lie... :p
Psst what is Neo Anarchist(s) and Jordaxia???
Jordaxia
22-06-2005, 10:19
So anyway I was cruising through my pages and pages of Ego-search hits (beloved, beloved ego-search, which informs me whenever someone mentions me by name so that I may investigate the worship), when I fell upon this.


Harlesburg, I'm transsexual. I hope that answers your question.

Would I join the NS gender bender society? That all depends on whether or not I get dental.
Harlesburg
22-06-2005, 10:35
So anyway I was cruising through my pages and pages of Ego-search hits (beloved, beloved ego-search, which informs me whenever someone mentions me by name so that I may investigate the worship), when I fell upon this.


Harlesburg, I'm transsexual. I hope that answers your question.

Would I join the NS gender bender society? That all depends on whether or not I get dental.
Ego search aye i must try this..

So do you like boys or girls or niether or both?