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Lovely love. This is what you've done to me.

This chick I was in love with has suddenly turned cold on me after I tried the second time to bring up how I liked her. We were friends at first, laughed and the whole deal. Hung out and stuff at school. Nothing too different from other friends.

Now she's just cold to me. I try talking to her, she's so uncoopertive. She's known I liked her since the start of May, and we were still friends. I bring it up again and now I get this crap.

Well today was the last time I see her until the next school year. Her cell called me, I asked her about it. She immediatly denied that she called and said her friend called. Well, I don't deny that her friend called me. I just think that the way she said it was kinda screwed up.

But I think I screwed up too somewhat somewhere.

Man I'm just a mixture of pissed off and depressed, as well as stressed.

*rambles on*

Perhaps your expectations don't jive with reality?

Wow, that sucks. Did this just happen randomly, totally out of the blue?

How did you bring up the fact that you liked her?

man i know what thats like, i feel bad for ya man :(

Lovely love. This is what you've done to me.

This chick I was in love with has suddenly turned cold on me after I tried the second time to bring up how I liked her. We were friends at first, laughed and the whole deal. Hung out and stuff at school. Nothing too different from other friends.

Now she's just cold to me. I try talking to her, she's so uncoopertive. She's known I liked her since the start of May, and we were still friends. I bring it up again and now I get this crap.

Well today was the last time I see her until the next school year. Her cell called me, I asked her about it. She immediatly denied that she called and said her friend called. Well, I don't deny that her friend called me. I just think that the way she said it was kinda screwed up.

But I think I screwed up too somewhat somewhere.

Man I'm just a mixture of pissed off and depressed, as well as stressed.

*rambles on*

Forget about her. I don't see why you should waste your time on someone who doesn't feel the same.

Ah ...

I've had a similar experience.

Try not to think too much into it is a good idea although it's difficult. It sucks, but I guess you gotta move on!

Unlucky man.

I don't love her anymore. She's just annoying me in my head. I keep thinking about her. About the stuff I've done. Thinking what the hell have I done along the way. Realizing that there's nothing I can do until September.

I don't love her anymore. She's just annoying me in my head. I keep thinking about her. About the stuff I've done. Thinking what the hell have I done along the way. Realizing that there's nothing I can do until September.

*socks you in the face*

Snap out of it man!

Well when I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago, I couldn't stop thinking of her, and little things kept reminding me of her .. it was a pain.

But i'm fine now, and i've moved on. You just need a little time, and you'll be fine!

You can do better.

I don't love her anymore. She's just annoying me in my head. I keep thinking about her. About the stuff I've done. Thinking what the hell have I done along the way. Realizing that there's nothing I can do until September.

"What does not destroy me, makes me stronger."

"What does not destroy me, makes me stronger."
Well thus far it's weakened me. I can't concentrate of stuff anymore. But I think that's a whole mixture of my life's problems.

I would oblige you but you live too far away :p

Well lad, you are a tad young to be depressed and want abuse over a woman.

Your intentions are known so keep your distance from her. Be polite but leave it at that.

If you she is your friend, etc. she will get over what is bugging her and have a talk with you.

If not, find somebody else. There are far many more of them then us.

So says somebody who once downed a bottle of wild turkey over a woman. Never again....... ;)

Well thus far it's weakened me.

Which is, interestingly, enough how muscle-building works - they get bigger due to self-repair.

Well I feel a tad better. 3 month vacation from her though.

Lovely love. This is what you've done to me.

This chick I was in love with has suddenly turned cold on me after I tried the second time to bring up how I liked her. We were friends at first, laughed and the whole deal. Hung out and stuff at school. Nothing too different from other friends.

Now she's just cold to me. I try talking to her, she's so uncoopertive. She's known I liked her since the start of May, and we were still friends. I bring it up again and now I get this crap.

Well today was the last time I see her until the next school year. Her cell called me, I asked her about it. She immediatly denied that she called and said her friend called. Well, I don't deny that her friend called me. I just think that the way she said it was kinda screwed up.

But I think I screwed up too somewhat somewhere.

Man I'm just a mixture of pissed off and depressed, as well as stressed.

*rambles on*

I highly recommend the sock in the face over that. You get to see it coming, the pain explodes, then fades away instead of the other way around and it'll leave less scarring.

Why would you demand a punch in the face when you can politely ask for a plump girl to take off her shirt? Seriously, this girl sounds like a snooty bitch, to me. I've dealt with some girls like that in my day, and my best bet was always to drink some booze and hit on other girls, preferably goofy, tolerably unattractive ones. Sharpen your skills, have a little{or a lot, if you like 'em that way} fun, and build your confidence on those and then go after the good ones. That's how I got my girl, who is waaay too hot for me.

Or you can go on a downward spiral of self destruction, but that's stupid unless you go all the way and crash and burn. Too much Palahniuk and you'll think on shit like that, the whole, you have to destroy everything in order to build something better idea. Amusing, but a bad idea in the end.

Canadian Mist is the answer. And you'll still probably want the punch in the face.

This chick I was in love with

We were friends

She's known I liked her

we were still friends.

Those are the only words in your post that matter. Why the hell you decided to be friends with someone you had deeper feelings for is your fault. Learn from it. Don't do it again. If the woman you're intersted isn't interested in you, do not fall for the 'friends' crap. End it. Nip it in the bud and move on to greener fields.

This chick I was in love with has suddenly turned cold on me after I tried the second time to bring up how I liked her. We were friends at first, laughed and the whole deal. Hung out and stuff at school. Nothing too different from other friends.


To be fair to her, she did try and give you the chance to pretend that your little faux pas never happened. I suppose when you did it the second time, she began to worry that you were going to get all weird around her and not stop telling her things that made her uncomfortable.

At any rate, this should explain the whole thing to you. It's a long read, but profitable. cliky (http://www.dallaslynn.com/iw/masterladder.html)

Meh. Girls are just evil. My advice is to either give up completely or turn gay, because at least guys know how guys work.

Hey, girls aren't evil... :(

Colodia, i reckon you should just get over her, if at all you possibly can... she's not worth it... seriously, find a girl who feels the same for you, and just chill out and have some fun with your friends for the hols :) , and come talk to us...

You're better off without her. Do you really want to spend your time with someone who behaves like that? Think about it. Just forget her. You'll find the right girl when you're not looking. It ALWAYS happens that way! :)

If she's rude to you again... blow her off coldly.

I've dealt with some girls like that in my day, and my best bet was always to drink some booze and hit on other girls, preferably goofy, tolerably unattractive ones. Sharpen your skills, have a little{or a lot, if you like 'em that way} fun, and build your confidence on those and then go after the good ones. That's how I got my girl, who is waaay too hot for me.



That is just disgusting... Pathetic... :rolleyes: As if the other girls were just garbage you used to up your non-existant self esteem.

Commiserations fellah :( . Its happened to most of us at some time or another. We've probably done it to others ourselves. Live and learn.

Hell that's what happened to me some 2 years ago. I "ruined" a good friendship by trying to take it further. In the end we had to stop seeing each other all together. Sad.

Perhaps its only me, but I've often heard that your lover is supposed to be your best friend...She apperantly heard differently ;)

That is just disgusting... Pathetic... :rolleyes: As if the other girls were just garbage you used to up your non-existant self esteem.

And who said they were garbage? Not me, so save the flames. I'm actually quite fond of all girls, especially those gracious enough to have a tumble with me. Who are you to say it's 'pathetic' for me to go out, have fun with a few girls, and leave them with a memory to smile about?

Save your stigma. I've never hurt a woman, nor done anything with them they didn't want to do. Every girl I've ever been with has been an adult, fully capable of making her own decisions. Is it wrong, pathetic or disgusting to have consensual sex with no intention of persuing the relationship? If you say so, but again, save the flames.

I stand by what I said. Girls are girls are girls. Some may be more attractive or desireable, but all are deliciously special in their own way. All are worth keeping, I'm sure, but only a few wet my whistle just how I like it, so until I found the whistle-wetter, I had fun and polished my skills with the 'others'.

I would punch you like you asked, but I can't quite reach to California.

I have the same problem sometimes. It probably won't work between the two of you, you should probably try to move on, and I know, easier said than done.

And who said they were garbage? Not me, so save the flames. I'm actually quite fond of all girls, especially those gracious enough to have a tumble with me. Who are you to say it's 'pathetic' for me to go out, have fun with a few girls, and leave them with a memory to smile about?

Save your stigma. I've never hurt a woman, nor done anything with them they didn't want to do. Every girl I've ever been with has been an adult, fully capable of making her own decisions. Is it wrong, pathetic or disgusting to have consensual sex with no intention of persuing the relationship? If you say so, but again, save the flames.

I stand by what I said. Girls are girls are girls. Some may be more attractive or desireable, but all are deliciously special in their own way. All are worth keeping, I'm sure, but only a few wet my whistle just how I like it, so until I found the whistle-wetter, I had fun and polished my skills with the 'others'.

Whatever you believe about that, but from a girls perspective i'm sure you've hurt alot of girls... they get emotionally attatched, and you just use them to "practise" on... :rolleyes:

Love = FUCKING SUCKS.

I'd elaborate, but I'm too tired, cranky, and pissed off. :p

I've been down the same tunnel, just about. Flung me into a multiple-month depression and I'm out now, but it was tough. However, there is good news.
Life will go on. I've moved to other guys, and you will move to other women too. Hopefully, the women will actually be non-bitches and realize your worth and not treat you like shit. I know right now it sounds like empty words, because they are empty. Then they get filled eventually, and I know that sounds like shit too, since at this point, it's tough to be consoled.

So basically this effort on my part to help you is useless.

But just know, you have people cheering for you, and I hope things work out for you. If you need to talk, just tg me your aim screenname and we can talk.

good luck darlin

Lovely love. This is what you've done to me.

This chick I was in love with has suddenly turned cold on me after I tried the second time to bring up how I liked her. We were friends at first, laughed and the whole deal. Hung out and stuff at school. Nothing too different from other friends.

Now she's just cold to me. I try talking to her, she's so uncoopertive. She's known I liked her since the start of May, and we were still friends. I bring it up again and now I get this crap.

Well today was the last time I see her until the next school year. Her cell called me, I asked her about it. She immediatly denied that she called and said her friend called. Well, I don't deny that her friend called me. I just think that the way she said it was kinda screwed up.

But I think I screwed up too somewhat somewhere.

Man I'm just a mixture of pissed off and depressed, as well as stressed.

*rambles on*
Forgive her, pray for her, and move on. You are very young yet and have a whole lifetime of experiences to look forward to. Don't get held back by one failed relationship.