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How many sex partners?

Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:33
How many sex partners did you have?
Recently I read most do not have more than 5 till they marry.
Does not have to have be sexual intercourse, just general.
And showing off does not work in the poll, no one will know.
Dakini
04-06-2005, 16:35
What the hell do you mean by sex partners if you don't mean intercourse, exactly?

Does making out with someone count them in as a sex partner?
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:40
What the hell do you mean by sex partners if you don't mean intercourse, exactly?


Anything that leads to orgasm (no, masturbating does not make you a sex partner to yourself, I guess).
Eutrusca
04-06-2005, 16:40
How many sex partners did you have?
Does not have to have be sexual intercourse, just general.
And showing off does not work in the poll, no one will know.
I lost track many years ago. Besides, it's not about quantity, it's about repeatable quality. :D
Drunk commies deleted
04-06-2005, 16:40
Why are all the questions in the poll repeated twice? Is one set for males and one for females? Perhaps one for gays and one for straights? Which one is which?
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:42
Why are all the questions in the poll repeated twice? Is one set for males and one for females? Perhaps one for gays and one for straights? Which one is which?

The questions are repeated twice???
Demented Hamsters
04-06-2005, 16:43
How many sex partners did you have?
Recently I read most do not have more than 5 till they marry.
Does not have to have be sexual intercourse, just general.
And showing off does not work in the poll, no one will know.
Why do you want to know these things?
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:44
I lost track many years ago. Besides, it's not about quantity, it's about repeatable quality. :D

Er, I did not say that I want to make a poll about whether someone has good sex or not.
Eutrusca
04-06-2005, 16:45
Er, I did not say that I want to make a poll about whether someone has good sex or not.
Where did I indicate that you had???
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:45
Why do you want to know these things?

Good questions.
I would like to know what is normal. Asking people one the street would be weird.
And I almost want to know everything unless it is really boring.
Demented Hamsters
04-06-2005, 16:49
Good questions.
I would like to know what is normal. Asking people one the street would be weird.
And I almost want to know everything unless it is really boring.
Reasonable explanation, but it does beggar the question:
What makes you think NS posters are normal in any regard, let alone when it comes to sex?
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:49
Where did I indicate that you had???
Besides, it's not about quantity, it's about repeatable quality.
I interpreted ""it's (not) about" as "for good sex it is (not) important to have".
Completely wrong?
Carnivorous Lickers
04-06-2005, 16:50
Good questions.
I would like to know what is normal. Asking people one the street would be weird.
And I almost want to know everything unless it is really boring.


I dont think you'll get a good idea of whats "normal" in here.
LiazFaire
04-06-2005, 16:52
why does it only go up to 10?! I hit that category before I was 16!
Eutrusca
04-06-2005, 16:53
I interpreted ""it's (not) about" as "for good sex it is (not) important to have".
Completely wrong?
Totally. It was just a comment that I thought needed saying. :)
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:53
I dont think you'll get a good idea of whats "normal" in here.
Why not?
Of course every poll here only addresses a relatively small group. But I am a part of this group and therefore it might a least to "normal" to this group I am part of.
Drunk commies deleted
04-06-2005, 16:54
The questions are repeated twice???
My bad. I didn't notice the difference between "I intend to have more" and "I don't intend to have more. My brain's not firing on all cylinders after last night's Rolling Rock beer and 100 proof vodka soaked evening.
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:56
why does it only go up to 10?! I hit that category before I was 16!

Somewhen one stops counting I guess.
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 16:58
My bad. I didn't notice the difference between "I intend to have more" and "I don't intend to have more. My brain's not firing on all cylinders after last night's Rolling Rock beer and 100 proof vodka soaked evening.
Oh, you even confused "question" and answer".
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 16:59
DOes this include involuntary partners?

What about unwitting partners?

Believe me, not everybody who has given me an orgasm knows it. ;)
The Tribes Of Longton
04-06-2005, 17:00
DOes this include involuntary partners?

What about unwitting partners?

Believe me, not everybody who has given me an orgasm knows it.

Lunatic Goofballs finally admits he has a problem... :eek: :p
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 17:02
Lunatic Goofballs finally admits he has a problem... :eek: :p

Problem? I thought it was rather enjoyable. :)
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 17:02
Believe me, not everybody who has given me an orgasm knows it. ;)

I really do not want to know the details.
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 17:02
I really do not want to know the details.

That kind of ignorance makes it easier for people like me. :)
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 17:04
That kind of ignorance makes it easier for people like me. :)

Just say it is nothing illegal and its fine.
The Nazz
04-06-2005, 17:04
why does it only go up to 10?! I hit that category before I was 16!
When I saw your answer and your nation name, I immediately thought of the Liz Phair song "Fuck and Run," which seems appropriate given the thread title.
The Tribes Of Longton
04-06-2005, 17:04
Problem? I thought it was rather enjoyable. :)
That previous comment just reminded me of an advert I saw some years ago.

A man is sitting on a stool and a beautiful woman walks over, smiling. He smiles back. However, as she gets close his features change. He goes wide eyed, looks shocked then finally ashamed as he looks at his crotch. Guess what the caption said. :p
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 17:09
Just say it is nothing illegal and its fine.

Let's call it Quasi-legal. What a great term; quasi-legal. :)
Monkeypimp
04-06-2005, 17:09
That kind of ignorance makes it easier for people like me. :)

I want to hear every detail. With diagrams.
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 17:11
That previous comment just reminded me of an advert I saw some years ago.

A man is sitting on a stool and a beautiful woman walks over, smiling. He smiles back. However, as she gets close his features change. He goes wide eyed, looks shocked then finally ashamed as he looks at his crotch. Guess what the caption said. :p

"Hey! Where's the creme filling?!?"
LiazFaire
04-06-2005, 17:15
When I saw your answer and your nation name, I immediately thought of the Liz Phair song "Fuck and Run," which seems appropriate given the thread title.

lol, not quite... maybe (I forget the artist) but "Fuck the Pain Away"

anyway I'm trying to be more of a good boy now... But I know a *lot* of people for whom you'd need a whole lot larger a set of numbers...

some of them make me look prudish and innocent!
Lunatic Goofballs
04-06-2005, 17:16
I want to hear every detail. With diagrams.

It's a bit like reading stereo instructions. But it's worth the time to study. :)
Robot ninja pirates
04-06-2005, 17:16
I really do not want to know the details.
Yes you do. You know you want to.
OceanDrive
04-06-2005, 17:20
I want to hear every detail. With diagrams.hmm sometimes...it happens to me...like this...

its usually at college parties in private homes and at the raves...and we all have so much to drink...all kinds of stuff, and some pills too...

then next tusday this random blonde girl comes and touches me and...and I just do not remember her...

...or this other girl calls me...and I dont have a clue about her...but she remembers about my secret "tatuage"...etc, etc,etc...

and sometimes you know you would have not slept with that one if you were sober...
Tluiko
04-06-2005, 17:20
Good questions.
I would like to know what is normal. Asking people one the street would be weird.
And I almost want to know everything unless it is really boring.
I really do not want to know the details.
Actually I contradicted myself, though i am not a woman ;) .
Coranon
04-06-2005, 17:35
Is anyone surprised that the largest group responding to a NS poll are people who haven't had sex?
OceanDrive
04-06-2005, 17:37
Is anyone surprised that the largest group responding to a NS poll are people who haven't had sex?FYI
most people here comes from the Virgin Islands.
The Nazz
04-06-2005, 17:40
hmm sometimes...it happens to me...like this...

its usually at college parties in private homes and at the raves...and we all have so much to drink...all kinds of stuff, and some pills too...

then next tusday this random blonde girl comes and touches me and...and I just do not remember her...

...or this other girl calls me...and I dont have a clue about her...but she remembers about my secret "tatuage"...etc, etc,etc...

and sometimes you know you would have not slept with that one if you were sober...
Well, when I left my wife 11 years ago, I was at 1, and I've been tame for the last 5 years, but in between, there's been a lot of blurriness. I think I actually passed my number of partners with my age a couple of years ago, but I can't be positive, because I'm not sure I remember them all. Sometimes these memories just pop up out of nowhere, usually with an "oh my god" attached.
Dakini
04-06-2005, 19:07
Anything that leads to orgasm (no, masturbating does not make you a sex partner to yourself, I guess).
Orgasm for both parties?
If so, I'm sure that the men may end up pretty far off sometimes...
The Nazz
04-06-2005, 19:11
Orgasm for both parties?
If so, I'm sure that the men may end up pretty far off sometimes...
Yeah--by that definition, I'll imagine there are some pretty promiscuous virgins out there. :p
Werteswandel
04-06-2005, 19:34
Orgasm for both parties?
If so, I'm sure that the men may end up pretty far off sometimes...
Oh ye of little faith.
LiazFaire
05-06-2005, 04:37
Orgasm for both parties?
If so, I'm sure that the men may end up pretty far off sometimes...

lol... although on my side of the sheets its pretty clear if one party isn't getting quite as much out of it as the other... But thats why we invented poppers, instant fix if the other guys a bit useless
Bottle
05-06-2005, 04:40
How many sex partners did you have?
Recently I read most do not have more than 5 till they marry.
Does not have to have be sexual intercourse, just general.
And showing off does not work in the poll, no one will know.
13 men, 5 women. That is, if we aren't being limited to penis-vagina sex, of course. I don't plan to have any more partners because I am in a monogamous relationship with a fellow I would be content to stay with indefinitely.
The Nazz
05-06-2005, 05:04
13 men, 5 women. That is, if we aren't being limited to penis-vagina sex, of course. I don't plan to have any more partners because I am in a monogamous relationship with a fellow I would be content to stay with indefinitely.
Nice post count--you ought to take a screen shot of that one.
Texpunditistan
05-06-2005, 05:07
How many sex partners did you have?
Recently I read most do not have more than 5 till they marry.
Does not have to have be sexual intercourse, just general.
And showing off does not work in the poll, no one will know.
I guess I'm a slut. :cry:

Actually, I was pretty much a slut through my late teens and twenties. I finally settled down right about the time I hit 30. I'm just glad I was "responsible" about it. No kids, no diseases, not even crabs.

I'm not saying exactly how many (because I don't know how many it's been) but I think I passed into triple digits somewhere around my mid 20's. :eek:
The Plutonian Empire
05-06-2005, 05:20
I think I passed into triple digits somewhere around my mid 20's. :eek:
Can i be one of them? :D
Eutrusca
05-06-2005, 05:27
Can i be one of them? :D
Down boy! Didn't you hear the woman? She's reformed ... um ... I think, yes??? :D
Texpunditistan
05-06-2005, 05:28
Can i be one of them? :D
Sorry, but hairy, bobbing man-ass does nothing for me.

:p
Texpunditistan
05-06-2005, 05:33
Down boy! Didn't you hear the woman? She's reformed ... um ... I think, yes??? :D
Woman?!?

D00d, does this look like a woman to you?

http://armageddonproject.com/images/personal/mick_1998.jpg
The Nazz
05-06-2005, 05:41
Woman?!?

D00d, does this look like a woman to you?

You called yourself a slut--I imagine that to some people that defaults to female. Sadly.
Eutrusca
05-06-2005, 05:42
Woman?!?

D00d, does this look like a woman to you?

http://armageddonproject.com/images/personal/mick_1998.jpg
You want an honest answer, or an attractive lie? :D
Texpunditistan
05-06-2005, 05:44
You want an honest answer, or an attractive lie? :D
You are hereby fined 4.3 internets. :mad:
The Plutonian Empire
05-06-2005, 05:55
Woman?!?

D00d, does this look like a woman to you?

http://armageddonproject.com/images/personal/mick_1998.jpg
D'OH! :headbang:

I thought you were female. :headbang:

thanks for correcting us. my apologies.
Commie Catholics
05-06-2005, 06:16
I only intend on ever having 1 sex partner.
Eutrusca
05-06-2005, 06:18
You are hereby fined 4.3 internets. :mad:
LOL! Hey! I don't pay the other girls that much! Hehehe!

Hmm. come to think of it, I haven't paid for it since Vietnam ... well, at least not in direct monetary exchange at time of transaction. :D
Texpunditistan
05-06-2005, 06:19
Hmm. come to think of it, I haven't paid for it since Vietnam ... well, at least not in direct monetary exchange at time of transaction. :D
A sperm deposit does not count as barter.

:p
Eutrusca
05-06-2005, 06:21
A sperm deposit does not count as barter.

:p
Wow! No shit?? Damn! :(
Monkeypimp
05-06-2005, 12:07
I only intend on ever having 1 sex partner.

Your hand?



Zing!
Spaam
05-06-2005, 12:26
I just want to beat my best friend, and she's stopped now ;)

So thats... 4 more to equal. I think.
Tluiko
05-06-2005, 21:32
Are more than 6% of the people here really asexual???
Swimmingpool
05-06-2005, 21:48
Good questions.
I would like to know what is normal. Asking people one the street would be weird.
And I almost want to know everything unless it is really boring.
Don't worry about what is "normal". It's completely arbitrary.
Tluiko
05-06-2005, 21:50
Don't worry about what is "normal". It's completely arbitrary.

Well, I dont worry. Just curious.
Jello Biafra
06-06-2005, 09:44
Sorry, but hairy, bobbing man-ass does nothing for me.
How about hairless bobbing man-ass?
Heron-Marked Warriors
06-06-2005, 13:13
Are more than 6% of the people here really asexual???

Or just ugly realists? :p
Tluiko
06-06-2005, 13:25
Or just ugly realists? :p

"Having the intention" does not neceassarily mean you think you will succeed.
Maybe they really have given up.
Eriadhin
06-06-2005, 14:04
How many?
One. Only one. And she is my wife. And not til after we were married.
Dancing Penguin
06-06-2005, 14:09
Wherer's the "none, and I'm waiting for marrige?"

...

SINNERS!!!!!
*Runs around spraying people with holy water and weilding a huge cross*
Legless Pirates
06-06-2005, 14:10
One......secretly
Heron-Marked Warriors
06-06-2005, 14:13
Wherer's the "none, and I'm waiting for marrige?"

...

SINNERS!!!!!
*Runs around spraying people with holy water and weilding a huge cross*

That would be none, and I intend to have some more, wouldn't it?
Hyperslackovicznia
06-06-2005, 14:19
You called yourself a slut--I imagine that to some people that defaults to female. Sadly.

I'm a female, and I've always called men sluts if they are. The word doesn't pertain to one gender! :p
IImperIIum of man
06-06-2005, 23:03
only been sexually active in any way with 2 women and the second is my wife, hell it would have only been 1 if i had met her sooner.
:cool:
Tluiko
06-06-2005, 23:17
That would be none, and I intend to have some more, wouldn't it?

Dancing Penguin is right, that wouldnt fit, because then it would not be "some", but "one". Maybe thats the reason why so many clicked "0 and not wanting more".
Damn, these things always occur to me later.
Tluiko
06-06-2005, 23:23
Orgasm for both parties?
If so, I'm sure that the men may end up pretty far off sometimes...

HA!!!!!!!!!
1. Not me. :D
2. It's your own fault if you dont tell.