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I just saw an news item... and Im just wondering...

Science daily: "About 20 percent of adult males have premature ejaculation at any one time"

I just saw an news item... and Im just wondering...

Science daily: "About 20 percent of adult males have premature ejaculation at any one time"

Use condoms. That good for "endurence" (I guess).
But you want us to do WHAT??? :confused:

im so glad you shared that with us.

did you catch "dear abby" too?

But you want us to do WHAT??? :confused:

this is Poll has 2 "episodes"

first poll( this one) I want you to tell me how long aprox DO YOU THINK it last..

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...and later on(next week or so)I want you to use a stop wacht( next time you do it)

and I will link a second Poll for that massive "scientific reseasch" :D

He wants us to collect experimental data. Get a stop watch. Start it at insertion end it at ejaculation. Post the time. It's for science! ;)

What's premature ejaculation? Maby the woman's suffering from delayed orgasm. Ever consider that one?

He wants us to collect experimental data. Get a stop watch. Start it at insertion end it at ejaculation. Post the time. It's for science! ;)
Yes that for next poll...

this Poll is for your instant Impressions (off the head)...dont research just clik whatever time option you think its closer to the average time (its not your reality...its what do you think its the average for all men)

please dont Google-it...just tell me whatever timing comes to your head (its an anonymous poll)

thanks.

Yes that for next poll...

this Poll is for your instant Impressions (off the head)...dont research just clik whatever time option you think its closer to the average time (its not your reality...its what do you think its the average for all men)

please dont Google-it...just tell me whatever timing comes to your head (its an anonymous poll)

thanks.

I did and found out 2 different things.

im so glad you shared that with us.

did you catch "dear abby" too?actually I want the girls input too :D :D

I dont suffer from premature ejaculation.



I enjoy it.

I dont suffer from premature ejaculation.



I enjoy it.

Youre great.

Youre great.

Well thanks, I'd like to take credit for that but I think I stole it from somewhere. Cant remember where though.

I dont suffer from premature ejaculation.



I enjoy it.good sport...

What's premature ejaculation? Maby the woman's suffering from delayed orgasm. Ever consider that one?YEAH how can she possibly judge in 30 seconds??

YEAH how can she possibly judge in 30 seconds??
Exactly. Who is she to determine that intercourse should last more than three thrusts?

i heard that on average British men last longest with something like 7minutes 36seconds and Americans come (no pun intended) second with 7minutes, i also heard that on average it takes men like 2 minutes to reach orgasm but it takes women 20minutes :(

i heard that on average British men last longest with something like 7minutes 36seconds and Americans come (no pun intended) second with 7minutes, i also heard that on average it takes men like 2 minutes to reach orgasm but it takes women 20minutes :(
2 minutes? That seems like way too little time.

2 minutes? That seems like way too little time.
yeah, that's what i thought, but meh, that's what i heard

I think that most men are minutemen.

You can do better than that, but it takes experience. So someone along the line has to be disappointed.

Well, penetration shouldn't occur untill at least 20 minutes, 50 minutes, and 97 minutes into the act anyway. To rest of the time is just fun.

2 minutes? That seems like way too little time.
it IS too little time. but with 20% of men at any one time taking 10 seconds... it lowers the average eh? then you have all those men in hongkong (the worlds worst lovers in some survey or other)

on the other hand you have women who NEVER orgasm screwing up the curve for the length of time it takes women. (not to mention the question of "extras" in intercourse)

supposing they are talking about orgasm in intercourse only.

on the other hand you have women who NEVER orgasm screwing up the curve for the length of time it takes women. (not to mention the question of "extras" in intercourse)what extras? :confused: :confused:

what extras? :confused: :confused:

Maybe refering to multiple ones?

Maybe refering to multiple ones?
you mean orgies make males (or females) get to the Orgasm faster...

what extras? :confused: :confused:
oh PLEASE be kidding. if not, there are plenty of books on the topic. go get one (or 2 or 4) and read up. there are LOTS of fancy extras that make sex more fun.

you mean orgies make males (or females) get to the Orgasm faster...


Oh nooooooooo :headbang:
i meant multiple orgasms :headbang:

oh PLEASE be kidding. if not, there are plenty of books on the topic. go get one (or 2 or 4) and read up. there are LOTS of fancy extras that make sex more fun.

But these extras do not have much to do with the statistics you refered to, do they?

But these extras do not have much to do with the statistics you refered to, do they?
i want to know what is considered to be normal time...

and If anything affects that "time"...I want to know...

If having multiple partners affect the time...if "extras"(whatever that is) affects the "time"...then you are still on topic.

But these extras do not have much to do with the statistics you refered to, do they?
yes i think they do. not that im sure what statistics i quoted besides hongkongmen being bad lovers. but if you want to have your lover orgasm during intercourse there are things you can do to help it along. techniques, control, even toys. "extras"

i want to know what is considered to be normal time...

and If anything affects that "time"...I want to know...

If having multiple partners affect the time...if "extras" whatever that is affects the "time"...then you are still on topic.
hhahahah NOOOOOO

mulitple partners will just mean that you disappoint more people. time is affected by knowing what you are doing and having control over your own sexual response.

practice makes perfect.

i heard that on average British men last longest with something like 7minutes 36seconds and Americans come (no pun intended) second with 7minutes, i also heard that on average it takes men like 2 minutes to reach orgasm but it takes women 20minutes :(

20?!? I need to go talk to someone... be right back. ;)

Disclaimer: try to keep it "scientific"...do not link to porn pictures...

and stop if the mods ask you to stop doing...whatever you are doing...bad girl :D

yes i think they do. not that im sure what statistics i quoted besides hongkongmen being bad lovers. but if you want to have your lover orgasm during intercourse there are things you can do to help it along. techniques, control, even toys. "extras"

OK, you are right, did not consider that.

here is the article that got me going

Wonder drug promises sexathon for women

If Viagra has made sex possible for men suffering from impotence, a new drug introduced in the United States aims to make it last longer. Much longer... The new wonder medicine named dapoxetine unveiled at an annual meeting of the American Urological Association is designed to help millions of men around the world cope with premature ejaculation wreaking havoc on their sex lives.

According to the association, between 27 per cent and 34 per cent of males of all age groups are suffering from this condition, which is usually diagnosed when sperm release occurs two minutes or less into the sexual act, or even before penetration. “The impact premature ejaculation can have on men and their partners can be devastating for a relationship and, currently, there are no truly optimal therapies for PE,” said Doctor Jon Pryor, the chief urologist at the University of Minnesota and lead researcher during dapoxetine’s clinical trials. The test involved 2,614 men aged between 18 and 77, who maintained monogamous sexual relationships of more than six months and suffered from premature ejaculation. Each received 30 milligrams or 60 milligrams of dapoxetine over 12 weeks in two identical placebo-controlled trials. The results showed the drug helped them lengthen intercourse three to four times. What’s more, dapoxetine increased their staying power with the first dose and helped maintain the increases over the whole study period.

supposing they are talking about orgasm in intercourse only.

What??? Without foreplay????

What??? Without foreplay????
no i dont think so

depending on what you consider foreplay....

i THINK they mean warmed up but hasnt had an orgasm yet, move on to intercourse, no toys, no hands, no <whatever else i dont know nothing about> added in to increase clitoral stimulation.

What??? Without foreplay????
no no erase that other one, i had to read back to the quote you took that from.

the TIME thing (2 min. for men, 20 for women) i assume is about during lovemaking of some kind or other.

in oral sex or masturbation all the times would be different eh?

no i dont think so

depending on what you consider foreplay....

i THINK they mean warmed up but hasnt had an orgasm yet, move on to intercourse, no toys, no hands, no <whatever else i dont know nothing about> added in to increase clitoral stimulation.toys should afect time...

What's premature ejaculation? Maby the woman's suffering from delayed orgasm. Ever consider that one?

ROFL

There's nothing wrong with it lasting 2-3 minutes if you're in a hurry, otherwise why not take your time?

Premature ejaculation should not be frowned upon. It is efficient.

There's nothing wrong with it lasting 2-3 minutes if you're in a hurry, otherwise why not take your time?
*gives patra the look*

nothing wrong as long as BOTH of you have a good time

Premature ejaculation should not be frowned upon. It is efficient.

Not really, because it might make the Ladies sick of sex.

There's a wee problem with the poll: define 'normal'.

I just saw an news item... and Im just wondering...

Science daily: "About 20 percent of adult males have premature ejaculation at any one time"
I just saw a news item on TV about a new drug that's suppose to help with that problem. The company is saying they hope it'll be "the next Viagra." If your stats are correct, it probably will be! Fortunately, that's never been one of my problems. :D

i heard that on average British men last longest with something like 7minutes 36seconds and Americans come (no pun intended) second with 7minutes, i also heard that on average it takes men like 2 minutes to reach orgasm but it takes women 20minutes :(
They all need to study Tantric Yoga. :)

I can't imagine humping for more than 15 minutes. By then wouldn't your hips hurt? There's such a thing as foreplay ya know.

Imo 6-9 minutes should be ideal.

Hah.. I'm spot on with the majority.

The question is whats so Premature?
Think about it!....

EDIT:
DAMN!
See Below! :(

What's premature ejaculation? Maby the woman's suffering from delayed orgasm. Ever consider that one?

I read somewhere... that most some women can't get orgasm by intercourse. Probably it hurts or too small or it's just not stimulating her correctly or enough.

I read somewhere... that most some women can't get orgasm by intercourse. Probably it hurts or too small or it's just not stimulating her correctly or enough.
Most women get orgasms easier by stimulating clitoris. If you want to stimulate it while in intercourse you got to know some technics. Women can get orgasm by just stimulating the g-spot but not all.

Some poor women think that they will never be able to have orgasm with their partners. Well, that my dear mates, is the partner's fault.

I can't imagine humping for more than 15 minutes. By then wouldn't your hips hurt? There's such a thing as foreplay ya know.


You can take turns ;)

By then wouldn't your hips hurt?

Err, no?

Err, no?

After 15 minutes? 30 minutes? Continously? You must have super strong hips my friend.

Maybe I should go down to the gym tomorrow :)

And where is the other poll?

... that's never been one of my problems. :DNot one of my problems either...I think :confused:

actually I dont know if my time is normal...because I dont have a clue what normal time is...

heck...I dont even know what my time is...(never used the stop-watch before)...all I know is that the ladies never complain... ( almost never :D )

BTW its that new wonder drug that gave the Idea for the Poll...

Now I'm interested to get an exact time. Why is my boyfriend at work? Bah! I said 10-14. Ten minutes isn't asking too much.

And where is the other poll?I proposed a week...so most have time to do it...

but if most players have their "scientific data" ready...I would do it sooner...

There's a wee problem with the poll: define 'normal'.good question...

what do you all think?

After 15 minutes? 30 minutes? Continously? You must have super strong hips my friend.
It's called: the woman on top :p

I proposed a week...so most have time to do it...

but if most players have their "scientific data" ready...I would do it sooner...

My ex-gf and i did it just for fun once...but now i dont have the opportunity to do it anymore. Besides, I think I would feel quite stupid if I said to my girlfriend: "Hey you, we have got to measure how long it takes, this guy from ns wants to know..."

It's called: the woman on top :p

But for 15-30 minutes on top!! It's going to be very hot and tiring. I understand if it's a 'few' session. But duration of a sexual intercourse. We're talking about one happy lesson of her riding for 30 minutes.

My ex-gf and i did it just for fun once...but now i dont have the opportunity to do it anymore. Besides, I think I would feel quite stupid if I said to my girlfriend: "Hey you, we have got to measure how long it takes, this guy from ns wants to know..."
What's really sad is that my boyfriend would fully understand (that forum whore). "Oh, this is for a forum? Sure! Climb right on."

What's really sad is that my boyfriend would fully understand (that forum whore). "Oh, this is for a forum? Sure! Climb right on."

:D I guess you could give him any reason.

My ex-gf and i did it just for fun once...good...you already have your data.

good...you already have your data.unless you wanna do it with different partners to see if that affects the "timing"

I wonder if orgasm comes faster when you do it with a new girl/boy friend...or with a stranger

Some poor women think that they will never be able to have orgasm with their partners. Well, that my dear mates, is the partner's fault.

Ah yes, the assumption that men are bad in bed and its incredibly hard for them to please their partner, which is fine, but completely ignores the fact that the vast majority of women are also bad in bed and assume that all they have to do to please their partner is spread their legs. Whilst "insert, thrust, repeat" may be enough for some men, there are some of us who find that attitude incredibly sexist and that it inevitably leads to boring sex. Women have such a selfish attitude towards sex and that the act must be entirely centred around her having an orgasm and enjoying it, and not the both of you.

And women think they're the only ones who fake orgasm...

Rant over. I have issues. :D

What's really sad is that my boyfriend would fully understand (that forum whore). "Oh, this is for a forum? Sure! Climb right on."
Now that's what I call true "dedication!" The man is willing to give his all for the cause! Wow! :D

unless you wanna do it with different partners to see if that affects the "timing"

I wonder if orgasm comes faster when you do it with a new girl/boy friend...or with a stranger
It does if that's a turn-on for you! Wheeeee! :D

It does if that's a turn-on for you! Wheeeee! :DI think my timimg is afected by the color of her hair :confused:

But for 15-30 minutes on top!! It's going to be very hot and tiring. I understand if it's a 'few' session. But duration of a sexual intercourse. We're talking about one happy lesson of her riding for 30 minutes.

"It's all in the reflexes".
-- Kurt Russell as Jack Burton in "Big Trouble in Little China"

20?!? I need to go talk to someone... be right back. ;)
so what about the girls ?

20?

I don't really get this. My girl and I can make it happen as fast or as slow as we want!!?!?!

I want the unforced time...I know that if you think about your moma-in-law...you can probably make it last longer...
I don't really get this. My girl and I can make it happen as fast or as slow as we want!!?!?!what about when you are with a new girl (1 nite stand)

I think my timimg is afected by the color of her hair :confused:
Really? Mine too. I have this thing about black or dark brown hair that just ... well, let's just say things can get a bit intense! :D

I don't really get this. My girl and I can make it happen as fast or as slow as we want!!?!?!
Ahhh! You are close to true wisdom ( or whatever! ), grasshopper! :D

See, if this kind of Science was on the National Curriculum, then I would have taken Biology at A-Level...

See, if this kind of Science was on the National Curriculum, then I would have taken Biology at A-Level...
"Anatomy By the Braille Method!" Mmmmm! :D

unless you wanna do it with different partners to see if that affects the "timing"
If I had the opportunity to do so, i maybe would, but im not good at getting somenone into bed (i suppose, i never really tried it in fact, dunno where how to start it).
And i think i would not sleep with someone right away.