I am so sad. What could make me happy?
My girlfriend just broke up with me (on Friday the 13th...).
Yesterday I was at a party and had some fun (though I had to force myself to).
But today Im a little tired and I am sad again.
The only thing I can think of is posting this in a forum and later I can call my friend.
But he does not really understand. I neverexperienced anything alike (he always broke up with his gfs).
FairyTInkArisen
15-05-2005, 13:32
awwwww, you poor thing, you need to find someone to give you a hug, that always works!
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
QuentinTarantino
15-05-2005, 13:33
Go watch some animated porn, its hilarious
Toujours-Rouge
15-05-2005, 13:36
Drugs!
Drugs!
mhhh... alcohol? would be the 4th time in this week i trink something.
Dont want to become an alcoholoic. And my stomach is not alright yet.
Go watch some animated porn, its hilarious
Bahh, no, a hug would be much better, but I dont know who would do that.
Cookie?
*hands Tlukio a cookie*
Jeruselem
15-05-2005, 13:43
Can your parents help?
SimNewtonia
15-05-2005, 13:44
Above all: don't think about it. Find something to occupy your mind.
Far be it from me to condone cold-blooded revenge killings, but...
Cookie?
*hands Tlukio a cookie*
*eats cookie*
thanks
You're in a pretty bad way if you're looking for help on things like this from General posters. You poor poor boy.
Cape Carnivale
15-05-2005, 14:02
Far be it from me to condone cold-blooded revenge killings, but...
I don't see how that would help ... a part from self-satisfaction ... but then that is in a way happiness (for the possibly insane/sadists) ... so go ahead, if you think itwill cheer you up.
FairyTInkArisen
15-05-2005, 14:16
Bahh, no, a hug would be much better, but I dont know who would do that.
your mum?
Murderous maniacs
15-05-2005, 14:22
Above all: don't think about it. Find something to occupy your mind.
i'd have to agree with this piece of advice, having something to take your mind off it can really help.
the only reason i in any way liked the assignment that i did last year that took over 40 hours of my time was that it helped keep my mind off some bad stuff and helped me deal with it by splitting up the pain into bits
Put on some doc martens, shave your head and roll up your levis. Then stomp on anything you can find.
Ashmoria
15-05-2005, 14:47
time is the only thing that will work. it shouldnt take too too long but until then it does hurt.
its spring. ask your mom for a spring cleaning project that will take the rest of the day. cleaning the garage or attic perhaps. good hard productive work wont take the pain away but it will put your mind and energy on something else for a while. and it will get you big points with the parents.
Murderous maniacs
15-05-2005, 14:48
Put on some doc martens, shave your head and roll up your levis. Then stomp on anything you can find.
stomping on things? that's nowhere near as fun as exploding things, which is also a suggestion i am willing to make to help you get over the situation
Children of Valkyrja
15-05-2005, 15:01
My girlfriend just broke up with me (on Friday the 13th...).
Yesterday I was at a party and had some fun (though I had to force myself to).
But today Im a little tired and I am sad again.
The only thing I can think of is posting this in a forum and later I can call my friend.
But he does not really understand. I neverexperienced anything alike (he always broke up with his gfs).
You're mourning the death of a relationship, your confidence had been knocked and you probably have a huge hole in your ego.
No-one likes the feelings of rejection, in a couple of weeks time you will hopefully be able to look back on things and answer truthfuly to yourself about what went wrong, learn by it, get yourself up and get on with life.
*huge hugs*
Skinny87
15-05-2005, 15:06
Well, firstly, hugs to you, breaking up a relationship is awful.
These pictures always make me smile:
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y12/Skinny87/Fluffy.jpg
And
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y12/Skinny87/catspy.jpg
Hakartopia
15-05-2005, 15:08
Panthers will make you happy.
Cape Carnivale
15-05-2005, 15:14
Panthers will make you happy.
Well, they're soft and cuddly for a while ...
Lipstopia
15-05-2005, 15:20
First, realize you do not need a girl to be happy. Also, there is a better one out there.
Of course, despite being true, that all sounds lame and no one wants to hear it when they have just broken up.
How to deal? Go out with friends. Have fun. Do whatever you enjoy doing. I am sure you have a hobby, so do it. Keep busy and active. Sitting around bored is bad, because you will dwell on the breakup.
Were there things you could not do because of the relationship? I know they can take up a lot of free time. Do the things you gave up. There are plenty of positives to being single. Find what makes you happy and do it.
read this: http://outpostnine.com/editorials/teacher.html
not only will you be busy for a couple of hours, but you'll have a few laughs as well
The Elder Malaclypse
15-05-2005, 15:30
You could cellotape your ass to your face and go scare the elderly. ;)
Hakartopia
15-05-2005, 15:37
Well, they're soft and cuddly for a while ...
They're soft and cuddly for life!
The Island of Rose
15-05-2005, 15:44
They're soft and cuddly for life!
....until they kill you.
Hakartopia
15-05-2005, 15:46
....until they kill you.
They won't if you're nice to them.
The Island of Rose
15-05-2005, 15:50
They won't if you're nice to them.
And being nice to them is being their dinner ;)