Need your advice once again...
For those who read the story of my intrusive (yet heroic and stupid) intervention and the result of me getting back with my ex, I'm asking for help. She's (my ex-girlfriend) wanting to 'take things a bit more seriously'. Which I don't get.
I treat her with all my heart seriously, i dont joke around unless it is a good moment, and i am committed. I'm not sure how serious she wants me to be, but if anybody can tell me how serious, then thanks for your advice...or lack thereof.
Eurocountry
13-05-2005, 00:41
why don't you try to listen to her, that usually helps :D
Istenert
13-05-2005, 01:27
For those who read the story of my intrusive (yet heroic and stupid) intervention and the result of me getting back with my ex, I'm asking for help. She's (my ex-girlfriend) wanting to 'take things a bit more seriously'. Which I don't get.
I treat her with all my heart seriously, i dont joke around unless it is a good moment, and i am committed. I'm not sure how serious she wants me to be, but if anybody can tell me how serious, then thanks for your advice...or lack thereof.
All right my friendly canuk, put those colourful bills into motion and get down on one knee.
I joined today (duh) so i have no idea what your relationship is like, but if your already as serious as it gets in terms of bf/gf then its not bf/gf she wants. Mind you, my psychology teacher has determined that i have a very male brain for a female so whatever, but my friends and i agree that she's fishing for a purposal.
Ashmoria
13-05-2005, 01:40
how old are you? why did she break up with you before? did you ask her to "go steady"? (or whatever the local equivalent is of being exclusive to one another without getting engaged).
being serious usually means taking it to the next level. Istenert is right. she is probably pushing for the sort of committment that you arent ready for yet.