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Personal question time. You don't have to post an answer if you don't want to, but I am curious to see what the majority is....

Poll coming.....

I think it's a no brainer that the majority isn't

Suprisingly, yes and I've been presented with the chance to lose it many, many, MANY times. I'm such an idiot :headbang:

Not since I was eighteen. This is probably irresponsible of me to say, but I wish I had sex younger. It would have allowed me to get more comfortable with it faster and have a 'swinging single fun time' before I settled down which I never had.

Not since I was eighteen. This is probably irresponsible of me to say, but I wish I had sex younger. It would have allowed me to get more comfortable with it faster and have a 'swinging single fun time' before I settled down which I never had.

Don't be so sure. I lost my virginity when I was fourteen and I regret it. I wasn't mature enough at the time to handle having sex. I wish I'd waited a few years.

As long as you have absolutely no follow up questions whatsoever...

...no, I am not a virgin.

:p

My girlfriend is a nymphomaniac, so probably more than most. She wears me out though :( :D Think twice a day for 7 months. But at first about 6 times a day. She was a virgin, but I had "sex" once before that. I guess that's what happens when sexual repression gets thrown aside. A sexual revolution if you will.

I don't want to rub that in anyone's face though. It's just the truth.

*Thinks, "damn, if THIS revolution was so successful, maybe I should go get my gun!"*

Don't be so sure. I lost my virginity when I was fourteen and I regret it. I wasn't mature enough at the time to handle having sex. I wish I'd waited a few years.

Fourteen might be a bit too young, but I really do wish I had sex earlier then just before I turned nineteen.

Yes, I am. Not really by choice, though it's not a big deal to me.

My girlfriend is a nymphomaniac, so probably more than most. She wears me out though :( :D Think twice a day for 7 months. But at first about 6 times a day. She was a virgin, but I had "sex" once before that. I guess that's what happens when sexual repression gets thrown aside. A sexual revolution if you will.

Hey, what can I say? I'm a horny beast. :fluffle:

actually.. yes i am ^^;; and im glad, but.. at the same time.. i wish i wasnt :headbang:

Hey, what can I say? I'm a horny beast. :fluffle:


I know! :fluffle:

No, I'm currently in a monogamous relationship, and have been in others before this. However, in between relationships I was a slut. I'm not sure how I'll be if this one ends.

Ah, nope and haven't been for a while...

...does anyone find though that once you are in a relationship that more opportunities with others come your way than when you are single?

Don't be so sure. I lost my virginity when I was fourteen and I regret it. I wasn't mature enough at the time to handle having sex. I wish I'd waited a few years.

I'm 14 and I've never had a girlfriend, so that was a bit young.

To be specifc, I'm gay yet open minded, and between gay guys there are a few different sexes. And technically I'm a virgin (depending on how you look at it) with guys, yet I'm not a virgin when it comes to girls. How backwards is that? Hey, I take what I can get :D :fluffle: Anyone interested :P

Yes.

...does anyone find though that once you are in a relationship that more opportunities with others come your way than when you are single?
Yes, it certainly seems that way to me, though in my case there could be other reasons.

Nope , not a virgin, yet I wish I was. Don't get me wrong, sex was great fun, and I wish I could do it again, and there are a few people i wouldn't mind doing it with, Yet at the same time, I hope to not do it again until married, and then to have sex with only that person for the resot of my life.

no i am not a virgin, and i am single as of last night. cheating bitch. occidio was right about her. god dammit.

Yes, it certainly seems that way to me, though in my case there could be other reasons.

I think so too, no idea why, but since i have been with my gf i've been asked by more girls than before me and my gf got together. Strange.


you mentioned reasons....? :p

you mentioned reasons....? :p
Turning 18 certainly opened up my options quite a bit. :D

Ah, nope and haven't been for a while...

...does anyone find though that once you are in a relationship that more opportunities with others come your way than when you are single?
so true...I guess it's because people look happier, more confident etc

Turning 18 certainly opened up my options quite a bit. :D

Yeah...as soon as I hit Uni it was a whole different world to my local 6th form.

so true...I guess it's because people look happier, more confident etc

I suppose all someone like you needs to do however is smile and bat your eyelashes and you have men falling over themselves ;) :D

I suppose all someone like you needs to do however is smile and bat your eyelashes and you have men falling over themselves ;) :D
You keep saying these kind of things and still wonder why girls are after you? You cheeky devil ;)

Yeah...as soon as I hit Uni it was a whole different world to my local 6th form.

I haven't found that at all, quite the opposite actually. People don't seem to want to know eachother at my campus.

Yes.

Is this directed at the post above yours, or the thread starting post? :confused:

Is this directed at the post above yours, or the thread starting post? :confused:

The starting post. I'm a virgin.

EDIT- Ha! I didn't read the post above me. Bad move :p

What's the expression, again? "Single and alive!"?

Yeah.

I put other, I'm not glad, but I'm not unhappy either...

I just want to wait for the right person sorta thing... having random sex seems kinda pointless (fun as it may be), I'll stick to my hand for now I suppose :/.

Hell no I'm not a virgin. And I have a message for all of you repressed, religously-indoctrinated (mostly teenage) morons. If there is some deity up there, he/she/it, as sure as my pubes will turn grey, does not give a flying fuck if you're a virgin or not. Also,

- There is nothing virtuous in remaining a virgin until marriage. This will merely make you shit in bed, and lead to a miserable, sexless existence and the eventual breakdown of your marriage. Oh, and of course your husband/wife going elsewhere for their orgasms.

- Sex in a loving relationship is wonderful, but it's not for everyone. Many people like one night stands (both male/female) and this is perfectly valid, so don't get sanctimonious on them, pricks.

- Virginity is nothing to be proud of, and similarly, nothing to be ashamed of either. It's just sex, and unless you're a morbidly obese, smegma-infested goat lover, you will get some eventually.

Tip: If you spend less time on the internet complaining about how you're a virgin, you will have more time for sex.

That is all, you may return to masturbating over Jessica Alba pics.

Well, I'm a virgin. There, I said it. But I'm not worried about that. I would rather do it after I'm married anyway - it'll mean so much more.

Turning 18 certainly opened up my options quite a bit. :D


Haha, did you really wait until it was legal? :rolleyes:

"Sorry darling, I really am attracted to you and yes my penis does seem to be turning blue..but it's against the law. I simply couldn't. No please get off me. Put your panties back on. Hailmaryfullofgracemypenisiswiththee."

You keep saying these kind of things and still wonder why girls are after you? You cheeky devil ;)

:D :cool:

Thing is, i can say that kind of stuff to others despite being with my gf, therefore genuinely meaning it and not using it as a chatup line.

"lubricated hedonism" is an awesome name. And you're right. Follow his (presumably) advice.

EDIT- Ha! I didn't read the post above me. Bad move :p

I was beginning to wonder but....


I haven't found that at all, quite the opposite actually. People don't seem to want to know eachother at my campus.

A sexless campus :eek: Blasphemy!

A sexless campus :eek: Blasphemy!

I think it's because I was only 17 when I started last year. The average is like...19 or 20...so I guess most of them are already half settled down...and if it does go on, i'm too young by comparison and miss out on it :p

I think it's because I was only 17 when I started last year. The average is like...19 or 20...so I guess most of them are already half settled down...and if it does go on, i'm too young by comparison and miss out on it :p

Awwwwww, go find Tink she will give you a fluffle...

Just wait til they all split up and you can be there for the rebound ;)

Awwwwww, go find Tink she will give you a fluffle...

Just wait til they all split up and you can be there for the rebound ;)

Heh, i'm past caring about it. I've really given up on relationships. The few i've had have lasted a maximum of 2 weeks. At least this way I save money :p

Heh, i'm past caring about it. I've really given up on relationships. The few i've had have lasted a maximum of 2 weeks. At least this way I save money :p

Yeah thats true...i don't really want to think about how much i have spent on flights this year so I could see my gf.... :(

Haha, did you really wait until it was legal? :rolleyes:
Oh, no, it was a response to the question "now that you're in a relationship, do you find that you have more options than you did?" I said that I did, for other reasons, and one of those reasons was that I turned 18...I wouldn't have been the one busted for "statutory rape". Although I do believe the age of consent in PA is 16, most people don't know that.

Oh, no, it was a response to the question "now that you're in a relationship, do you find that you have more options than you did?" I said that I did, for other reasons, and one of those reasons was that I turned 18...I wouldn't have been the one busted for "statutory rape". Although I do believe the age of consent in PA is 16, most people don't know that.

While I already like Pennsylvania, it has just gained a buttload of my respect for this.

I'm 14 and I've never had a girlfriend, so that was a bit young.


I lost mine at 13 and didn't regret it ;)
I just tried to have as much as I can. Of course I am a girl so it is much easier for me to get layed

Yeah thats true...i don't really want to think about how much i have spent on flights this year so I could see my gf.... :(
i've spent at least 5 thousand dollars on my gf since we got started, and she's been cheating on me for almost half of our relationship. maybe more. this came to a head last night, so im a little......distraught. a year and a half. wasted.

Last time i checked.

what catagory should I be under if the girl got me drunk and I dont remember it?

what catagory should I be under if the girl got me drunk and I dont remember it?
Small percentage of Male Date Rape? :eek: :confused: :(

i've spent at least 5 thousand dollars on my gf since we got started, and she's been cheating on me for almost half of our relationship. maybe more. this came to a head last night, so im a little......distraught. a year and a half. wasted.

Damn man, thats bad. :(

what catagory should I be under if the girl got me drunk and I dont remember it?

Man, that's what happened to me!!!!!!!!! And she was ugly as Sin!!!!

Small percentage of Male Date Rape? :eek: :confused: :(
well... I can deal with that

:mp5:

Damn man, thats bad. :(
yeah. i'd be all bitter and upset, but for two things. one, i already knew, though i had convinced myself otherwise, and two, i just went for a six mile run in the cold. i feel great. oh, and i started flirting pretty heavily with her best friend once i found out all of it.

Man, that's what happened to me!!!!!!!!! And she was ugly as Sin!!!!
i know a guy who thought he was gay for a long time because heis first time was like that. he didn't enjoy it, and she was not at all nice to look at or talk to.

Still a virgin.

Hopefully an NS girl will come and sweep it away! :D

Isn't it funny how so far the biggest category is 'yes but i wish i wasn't'
what does that say about the ppl who r reading this thread?
my guess is that there's quite a few teens/young ppl reading that use their computers too much... like me! :D :P

No I'm not a virgin but it's been monogamous although I do wish I had saved myself until I get married.

yeah. i'd be all bitter and upset, but for two things. one, i already knew, though i had convinced myself otherwise, and two, i just went for a six mile run in the cold. i feel great. oh, and i started flirting pretty heavily with her best friend once i found out all of it.

Heh, if you can cope with it and move past it soon enough it'll be fine, its dwelling on the past that makes it worse.

I was talking to a girl once *Yeah laugh it up* and she said she wish she had 'it' back losing it in the back of a car wasnt much fun apparently.

yeah. i'd be all bitter and upset, but for two things. one, i already knew, though i had convinced myself otherwise, and two, i just went for a six mile run in the cold. i feel great. oh, and i started flirting pretty heavily with her best friend once i found out all of it.

You need to get your damn money back, or at least half.

Heh, if you can cope with it and move past it soon enough it'll be fine, its dwelling on the past that makes it worse.
the only problem is that now i'm single. i gotta get me some this weekend, i think. or, alternatively, have a thing with her best friend. that could be fun. heh. so vindictive. what ever are you talking about? i'm not bitter! :D

I had to vote other: Yes, I'm a virgin, but it doesn't bother me in the least. It's a meh point. I've never looked for sex, so I've never gotten it. Simple as that, really.

(and I'm 18.)

Personal question time. You don't have to post an answer if you don't want to, but I am curious to see what the majority is....

Poll coming.....
not for quite some time now. currently in my first monogamous relationship (4-5 years running now), and it's actually pretty durn cool. maybe i'll keep this one for a while yet.

Isn't it funny how so far the biggest category is 'yes but i wish i wasn't'
what does that say about the ppl who r reading this thread?
my guess is that there's quite a few teens/young ppl reading that use their computers too much... like me! :D :P
Hey i worked hard on my *checks 4139*posts*
Maybe i should put more effort into other stuff
*Ponders nah*
21
*4140 after this.

I was talking to a girl once *Yeah laugh it up* and she said she wish she had 'it' back losing it in the back of a car wasnt much fun apparently.
*laughs it up*

the only problem is that now i'm single. i gotta get me some this weekend, i think. or, alternatively, have a thing with her best friend. that could be fun. heh. so vindictive. what ever are you talking about? i'm not bitter! :D

Bitter? word never crossed my mind...

Hey Harlesburg u from New Zealand? or u just talking about it?

(btw a good way to describe it)

@ New Sarcas^*$ (sp?)

That sucks. I have had, had something similar (but not quite so bad) happen and it blew goats. Hard. I can haredly imagine how you must feel (or will feel when the run wears off) My deepest sympathies.

Bitter? word never crossed my mind...
it better not have. i've got so much pent up aggression right now, i really do pity the person to pick a fight. anyway. i may have already answered the original question, but no, i am no a virgin. i've had sex rather a lot, although only ever with one person. though that is subject to change at this point.

*laughs it up*
Hmm Cereal (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Branin.jpg)
or Dinner (http://www.groonk.net/blog/images/murphy_poster_revolution_800.jpg)

HA HA! (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)

@ New Sarcas^*$ (sp?).
you were close with the spelling.
i'll be fine.it hurts, yeah, but i've known for a while. at this point, i'm kicking myself than anything.

Hmm Cereal (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Branin.jpg)
or Dinner (http://www.groonk.net/blog/images/murphy_poster_revolution_800.jpg)

HA HA! (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)
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That said I have taken all off those pictures and saved them on my comp.

Hey Harlesburg u from New Zealand? or u just talking about it?
You kidding im really from Strya mate!

http://img96.echo.cx/img96/3618/spam56if.gif (http://www.imageshack.us)
That said I have taken all off those pictures and saved them on my comp.
Sorry it didnt work are you sure you got it right?
F00! have a fit!!!
:D
Random pic i chose you!*

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*Warning i have no idea what it is so pray!

You kidding im really from Strya mate!


Yeah, I mean who's ACTUALLY from New Zealand? Oh wait...

My girlfriend is a nymphomaniac, so probably more than most. She wears me out though :( :D Think twice a day for 7 months. But at first about 6 times a day. She was a virgin, but I had "sex" once before that.
Ye Gads!

Yeah, I mean who's ACTUALLY from New Zealand? Oh wait...
Damnit get your own act i want to get on their Doll cue! :p

Sorry it didnt work are you sure you got it right?
F00! have a fit!!!
:D
Random pic i chose you!*

http://img200.exs.cx/img200/245/0015ky.jpg
*Warning i have no idea what it is so pray!
Some girl....

yeah well random pic this(this one is actually a random pic from my harddrive)....
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or this....
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or this...(you'll like this)
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Nope, lost it in high school. I've gone since that relationship ended though, about 6 years now. Damn, I need to get a girl.

:headbang:


Though one mate of mine had this to say on the subject:

Virginity is like a ballon, it's nice when you have it but one *poke* and it's gone for good.

....I'm off to work

This just proves the stereotype.

Geeks who play Nationstates don't get any.

I said it.

Atleast you all have your hands. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Nope, lost it in high school. I've gone since that relationship ended though, about 6 years now. Damn, I need to get a girl.

:headbang:


Though one mate of mine had this to say on the subject:

Virginity is like a ballon, it's nice when you have it but one *poke* and it's gone for good.
i've heard that before cept it was 'Virginity is like a ballon, it's nice when you have it but one prick and it's gone for good'

i've heard that before cept it was 'Virginity is like a ballon, it's nice when you have it but one prick and it's gone for good'
That makes more sense!

Yes, and not only glad, but proud! I do not feel myself repressed sexually, because it has been completely my choice to remain a virgin. I am in my mid 20's, and I have had my chances, from some very good looking women. I have not because of both religious and other reasons. The only %100 percent way to prevent VD and pregnancy is abstinence. There very much so an emotional factor that goes along with sex, and I do not want to hurt myself, and another person emotionally. I can also think of no better wedding present to my future wife than to be able to give myself to her with no sexual comparison of another woman in my mind.

Please remember, I have simply stated my opinion and what I believe. If you would like to ask me questions about what I believe, feel free to. I do however resent the implications that my religious beliefs about sex are invalid. I have not attacked anyone else about their opinion, I do not feel that mine should have been attacked.

i've heard that before cept it was 'Virginity is like a ballon, it's nice when you have it but one prick and it's gone for good'

thats the way he said it, I just couldn't remember, thanks ;)

I have a really low sex drive... I only got around to it when my now-boyfriend got me pissed at a gig.

thats the way he said it, I just couldn't remember, thanks ;)
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you're from Blackpool!!!!!!!

I have something to cheer you up New Sancrosanctia, the password to The E Family region!
(note: If anyone tries to enter the region using the password, I will instantly eject them, and delegate doesn't have access to regional control, so no point invading. Also, I will change it after New Sancro moves in. That said, the password is "Happy Family")


On topic, and I'm 14, which should normally speak for itself, however some people have already said they weren't at 14, so I thought I'd clarify. Anybody on my contact list or who's seen a pic of me will of course know that I am, and will probably stay thus for quite some time :p

Please remember, I have simply stated my opinion and what I believe. If you would like to ask me questions about what I believe, feel free to. I do however resent the implications that my religious beliefs about sex are invalid. I have not attacked anyone else about their opinion, I do not feel that mine should have been attacked.
No prob, thats your viewpoint and it feels valid for you. But as i see it, going into a marriage and being able no to blunder my way in regards to sex but rather fullfill my wifes wishes and not be embarrassed talking about things related is more wise. Otherwise the possibility is there that you really feel true love for each other but miss out on the carnal expression of that. As the grandmother of a friend expressed it: Hope he doesnt want it too often and it doesnt last long. Not an attitude you will find often among those who enter marriage with some background to draw from. ;)

I have something to cheer you up New Sancrosanctia, the password to The E Family region!
(note: If anyone tries to enter the region using the password, I will instantly eject them, and delegate doesn't have access to regional control, so no point invading. Also, I will change it after New Sancro moves in. That said, the password is "Happy Family")


On topic, and I'm 14, which should normally speak for itself, however some people have already said they weren't at 14, so I thought I'd clarify. Anybody on my contact list or who's seen a pic of me will of course know that I am, and will probably stay thus for quite some time :p

Heh, I'm 19 and still am! That said, it won't bother me if I don't do it before I'm married.

what is monagomous???what is monogamous

what is monagomous???what is monogamous

It means you only have one partner at a time. The prefix "mono" means one.

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you're from Blackpool!!!!!!!


well, yea, thats where i live right now, I'm american though

well, yea, thats where i live right now, I'm american though
cool, i'm from Blackpool (sort of)

Hope he doesnt want it too often and it doesnt last long.

Good grief, what sort of attitude to sex is that? Not an attitude you'd see from anyone who has some sexual experience? I'd say rather not an attitude you'd find from anyone under the age of 60!

I don't about the rest of you, but sex rocks. Casual stuff, if you're into that, is fun - but the best bit is when you are exploring new stuff with a partner who loves you and whom you love. Sex in the missionary position is all very well, but wait until you're comfortable enough for the handcuffs, the licking chocolate, the strip-teases....the world is your oyster. You can do anything nearly anywhere and have fun trying it.

If you don't want to try that yet, or until you are married, that's fine. Lots of people have insecurities about who and when and stuff. I did. I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend - we've only been seeing each other six months and yet I'm twenty. Do the maths. But when you do decide to try it, don't ever ever ever just try missionary. There are so many more fun things.

Good grief, what sort of attitude to sex is that? Not an attitude you'd see from anyone who has some sexual experience? I'd say rather not an attitude you'd find from anyone under the age of 60!
Just think about two virgins just doing it wrong the first times and losing interest, because no one can help the other along. Or having only one routine for the rest of their lives.

No

what do you mean by sex?

i started fooling around when i was like 7,but didnt have intercourse until 12. i never got a disease and i never got anyone pregnant until i got married. so,dont believe the hype. use your head and you will be fine. (funny pun)

what do you mean by sex?

i started fooling around when i was like 7,but didnt have intercourse until 12. i never got a disease and i never got anyone pregnant until i got married. so,dont believe the hype. use your head and you will be fine. (funny pun)
fooling around? what do you mean by that?

*remember his own childhood--fooling around since birth* :D

what do you mean by sex?

i started fooling around when i was like 7,but didnt have intercourse until 12. i never got a disease and i never got anyone pregnant until i got married. so,dont believe the hype. use your head and you will be fine. (funny pun)

IMHO 12 is definitely too young.

IMHO 12 is definitely too young.
bah. it all depends on the person.

IMHO 12 is definitely too young.

Agreed, there was a girl here in the UK who got pregnant at 9. Way Way too young!

Married for several years now in a very strong loving relationship. We recognise the difference between love and sex so, we have fun with others as well.

what do you mean by sex?

i started fooling around when i was like 7,but didnt have intercourse until 12. i never got a disease and i never got anyone pregnant until i got married. so,dont believe the hype. use your head and you will be fine. (funny pun)
that really is ridiculous, i still thought boys were icky when i was 7! and 12 is definately far too young to be losing your virginity!

I'm 25 and I'm a virgin. That bothers me, but not as much as the fact that I've never been in love or even had a crush on anyone.

I suppose I'll be a virgin for the rest of my life.

Nope. 17 and lost my virginity in a tent. Not the most ideal of places admittedly, but then again for a woman the first time is never ideal.

Watch it, if you're a woman and not planning to have sex before marriage. I'm telling you now your wedding night will be painfully disappointing (literally).

Heh, I'm 19 and still am! That said, it won't bother me if I don't do it before I'm married.
ditto.

I lost my virginity when i was 16 after one of my school's prom, i don't miss it and the sex, oh geeze it has only got better and far more interesting as time has gone by..

I don't understand how someone can think that sex is a sin... God created it and there's a whole book of the bible about it. That's just strange to see there are votes there.

Personal question time. You don't have to post an answer if you don't want to, but I am curious to see what the majority is....

Poll coming.....
I'm definitely not a virgin! ( duh ) I'm separated ( for the second time ) from my wife of 34 years. I haven't been monagamous since we separated.

I'm a virgin. Though I do not believe sex is wrong, I do not wish to have sex; I believe I'm too immature to handle dating at my current age. I believe I'll be a very "loose" young woman when I go off to college and I'm finally out of my parents' house.

Personal question time. You don't have to post an answer if you don't want to, but I am curious to see what the majority is....



I'm 45 have three kids ages 22, 19, & 16. What do you think? :rolleyes:

I'm no longer married to their mother hence the no longer have sex part...