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My guy and I went friends after four months and thirteen days as a couple. Its the second time we've broken up and if we don't work it out Monday afternoon, I'm gonna make him say ouch and not take him back :eek: *Grinning a bit evily* He introduced me to a friend of his from his Boy Scouts group two months ago and the guy seeemed to like me like he'd pick me up as soon as he heard my ex and I split, if he ever does hear about it, and he left a VERY strong impression on me, cute too :D and if my ex and I don't :fluffle: I'm gonna make him say ouch by asking him to give the guy my number, even though we broke up last night *Friday here*.

So, what'd you do after a few sobs? I got over my ex by six Saturday morning and said, "Wonder if --- has a girl palling around him or he still thinks I'm a hottie." :D Actually changed mynation's motto to Had one, Liked it, Want another one or something about there :D

*Waiting sixty seconds*
Bumpo!

you need advice??

what could any of us say to you but

YOU GO GIRL!

you need advice??

what could any of us say to you but

YOU GO GIRL!

THANK YOU! You just made my day :D I cried it all out the first time he broke up with me, I guess :p

Well you don't seem too fussed about it one way or another sooooo, uhh, choose the hotter one or something. And moderate your use of smilies.

THANK YOU! You just made my day :D I cried it all out the first time he broke up with me, I guess :p
Yeah. Breaking up gets easier to do each time. I don't know if it's the practice or just aging. These days I usually have two or three girls' phone numbers at the ready. You know, just in case.

Drink with friends, when a relationship heads south you *have* to drink the pain away.

Yeah. Breaking up gets easier to do each time. I don't know if it's the practice or just aging. These days I usually have two or three girls' phone numbers at the ready. You know, just in case.
He's actually my first *Shrugging* and he's the one who broke up with me, but I made him sick at his gut the first time, its how we got back together, thens plit like a banana sunday this week.

Well you don't seem too fussed about it one way or another sooooo, uhh, choose the hotter one or something. And moderate your use of smilies.
Sorry about the smiles, but I just get happy-go-lucky typing.

Drink with friends, when a relationship heads south you *have* to drink the pain away.

Uh, I just started High school, thanks to my B-day being after September :rolleyes: I don't think, mainly because of my parents, that I can drink.

My fave cow named Star Bright had a baby boy! Just found him too. Solid red like his father. Think I'll name him Boo :) Gorgoes (?) baby too.
Never have been able to spell gorges (?).

I gotta get off line. Be on later to see about this thread, can garentee.

He's actually my first *Shrugging* and he's the one who broke up with me, but I made him sick at his gut the first time, its how we got back together, thens plit like a banana sunday this week.

There you go. Time for the next one.

Usually? Go and find some girl to have a fling with before getting another guy. When a guy breaks up with me, then usually I like girls for the next month, then its back to normal. ((Normal being both girls and guys.))

You seem to be new around around here. Welcome to NationStates. :)

...and if my ex and I don't :fluffle: I'm gonna make him say ouch by asking him to give the guy my number, even though we broke up last night *Friday here*.
I'm not clear on what, precisely, caused the most recent breakup. Was it severe enough to warrant an indignity such as this?

Just general advice: Don't burn bridges if you don't have to. Break up if you feel that the relationship isn't mutually satisfying, but unless he's done something severe (like you caught him in bed with someone else) I would suggest being respectful.

That said, I wish you well in your relationship (current relationship or next relationship, whichever applies).

Drink with friends, when a relationship heads south you *have* to drink the pain away.
I strongly recommend against this! Even for adults.

This isn't going to be the last time in your life that something is going to upset you. If you turn to alcohol for relief every single time, you may develop a dependence upon alcohol. Alcoholism is a very bad thing.

I gotta get off line. Be on later to see about this thread, can garentee.Not a problem.

Just so you know: Because of the way forums work, if you don't post a reply to someone right away, it's assumed that you're not online. Only the unreasonable are going to expect you to reply to them right away every single time, so you don't have to announce your absences.

--The Democratic States of Cogitation

Drink with friends, when a relationship heads south you *have* to drink the pain away.

I approve.

To Wolfrest: Welcome to geekland. This place sucks if you are just starting highschool, especially if you use AIM, and wish to have friends who are not geeks. That is, if you let anyone in Real Life find out about this.
....so do try to not ask about specifics to your life- only people interested are probably the stealthy branlieurs that look but do not post. Branlieur is French for Weebl's and Bob's names for each other.

To Wolfrest: Welcome to geekland. This place sucks if you are just starting highschool, especially if you use AIM, and wish to have friends who are not geeks. That is, if you let anyone in Real Life find out about this.
....so do try to not ask about specifics to your life- only people interested are probably the stealthy branlieurs that look but do not post. Branlieur is French for Weebl's and Bob's names for each other.

Gee, thanks, but I'm an only child + homeschooled so its not bad. I'm just bad at math :)

There you go. Time for the next one.

That's what I thought!

You seem to be new around around here. Welcome to NationStates. :)


I'm not clear on what, precisely, caused the most recent breakup. Was it severe enough to warrant an indignity such as this?

Just general advice: Don't burn bridges if you don't have to. Break up if you feel that the relationship isn't mutually satisfying, but unless he's done something severe (like you caught him in bed with someone else) I would suggest being respectful.

That said, I wish you well in your relationship (current relationship or next relationship, whichever applies).


I strongly recommend against this! Even for adults.

This isn't going to be the last time in your life that something is going to upset you. If you turn to alcohol for relief every single time, you may develop a dependence upon alcohol. Alcoholism is a very bad thing.

Not a problem.

Just so you know: Because of the way forums work, if you don't post a reply to someone right away, it's assumed that you're not online. Only the unreasonable are going to expect you to reply to them right away every single time, so you don't have to announce your absences.

--The Democratic States of Cogitation

I'm against alchol too. Anyway, what I ment by your first quote from me was that he was worried we couldn't get together because of the religion difference (AKA: He's Catholic, I'm Babtist/not really belonging to any religion) till he found out I'm not really religous about stuff, most of the time, and my mom thinks he might be thinking we're getting too serious and broke off from me because of it without telling me.

I know I don't have to say I'm going off-line but I wanted to say I wasn't going to ignor my thread :D

I'm gonna make him say ouch by asking him to give the guy my number, even though we broke up last night

Am I going to be the only one here to say that intentionaly hurting people in order to make yourself feel better is a bad thing?




EDIT: as typing in the semi-darkness is prone to produce typos.

Am I going to be the only one here yo say that intentionaly hurting people in order to make yourself feel better is a bad thing?

I know, don't want to hurt him, he's still my best buddy and all, but the only way I can even hear about --- is threw my ex, so, I have to tell him who I'm intressted in since we split. But that's only if we don't work things out. We might get back together again.

My guy and I went friends after four months and thirteen days as a couple. Its the second time we've broken up and if we don't work it out Monday afternoon, I'm gonna make him say ouch and not take him back :eek: :D

Congratulations. My wife and I broke up twice before we got married. The third time was the charm. We will be married 37 years this July. Two great kids and two wonderful grandchildren. :) Good luck Monday. :fluffle:

Congratulations. My wife and I broke up twice before we got married. The third time was the charm. We will be married 37 years this July. Two great kids and two wonderful grandchildren. :) Good luck Monday. :fluffle:

That's what I hope happens, both of us being 15 or not. He told me twice he felt like we're soulmates and I sort of still feel that way. Congrats to you and your wife by the way sir!

I know, don't want to hurt him...

So why do you say:

I'm gonna make him say ouch

not once but twice in your original post?

Branlieur is French for Weebl's and Bob's names for each other.
Uh....

What are you talking about (not who are Weebl and Bob- what the hell is Branlieur?).

Uh....

What are you talking about (not who are Weebl and Bob- what the hell is Branlieur?).
Its Branleur...

pajero!! :D

So why do you say:



not once but twice in your original post?

I ment he might say ouch as a joke or something since I'm asking him to give my number to a friend of his I only know the first name and one little fact about past he's "adorably cute" :D That fact is he told me to go a head and step on his foot when I joked I was since he was teasing my ex and I. His older brother ran over his foot once :p Cool to me. My ex only has two younger sisters, no brothers, no older siblings, plus my new crush is the only person I know that has ever been ran over some how by a car.

So, what'd you do after a few sobs?

move on, look for someone more mature or work on being more mature depending on what caused the break-up.

My guy and I went friends after four months and thirteen days as a couple. Its the second time we've broken up and if we don't work it out Monday afternoon, I'm gonna make him say ouch and not take him back :eek: *Grinning a bit evily* He introduced me to a friend of his from his Boy Scouts group two months ago and the guy seeemed to like me like he'd pick me up as soon as he heard my ex and I split, if he ever does hear about it, and he left a VERY strong impression on me, cute too :D and if my ex and I don't :fluffle: I'm gonna make him say ouch by asking him to give the guy my number, even though we broke up last night *Friday here*.

So, what'd you do after a few sobs? I got over my ex by six Saturday morning and said, "Wonder if --- has a girl palling around him or he still thinks I'm a hottie." :D Actually changed mynation's motto to Had one, Liked it, Want another one or something about there :D

ha you cry!?!?!?!?! that is not the vikings way , take a axe and show him whose the *****

1. We're guys. We don't cry.
2. Meh.
3. Move on to the next one. There's more girls than boys in this world. Always some willing women!.


And remember, fat chicks need love too, but they gotta pay.
/sarcasm

by asking him to give the guy my number,
This is pretty much when I would slap you and walk off

1. We're guys. We don't cry.
2. Meh.
3. Move on to the next one. There's more boys than girls in this world. Always some willing women!.



All too true.

I don't cry, I write a song. But then, I'm a muso. Amazing how much better you feel after doing that.

Oh, and there's actually more girls than boys (only JUST). But yeah.

This is pretty much when I would slap you and walk off

My ex's more understanding and I plan to explain better if he wants me to on the number thing, but my ex is the only way I can ever hear about his friend. Hate being the ex to the guy with the key to his city, in civil air patrol and wants to go in the navy after college plus writing a novel the same time as me for a guy I barley know and only met once (Through my ex two months ago) but like I said earlier, he left a VERY strong impression and kept hitting on me. When I told my mom the other night, she laughed and said something when my second oldest girl cousin found out, before that, she sort of yelled, "You go girl!" so I've been getting support on and off-line to do it.

PS: SimNewtonia, that's sort of what my ex might do, sept he writes poetry as a hobby sometimes. I read a few of them, he's good too. After Monday, he might write something and I don't care if its on heartbreak because I got over him in a night :headbang:

1. We're guys. We don't cry.
2. Meh.
3. Move on to the next one. There's more boys than girls in this world. Always some willing women!.


And remember, fat chicks need love too, but they gotta pay.
/sarcasm

HEY! My mom's overweight plus I'm sure if somebody that's overweight read that post, s/he'd get mad. *Speaking up for my mom* *Personally, I weight 140-2.*

My ex's more understanding and I plan to explain better if he wants me to on the number thing, but my ex is the only way I can ever hear about his friend. Hate being the ex to the guy with the key to his city, in civil air patrol and wants to go in the navy after college plus writing a novel the same time as me for a guy I barley know and only met once (Through my ex two months ago) but like I said earlier, he left a VERY strong impression and kept hitting on me. When I told my mom the other night, she laughed and said something when my second oldest girl cousin found out, before that, she sort of yelled, "You go girl!" so I've been getting support on and off-line to do it.

PS: SimNewtonia, that's sort of what my ex might do, sept he writes poetry as a hobby sometimes. I read a few of them, he's good too. After Monday, he might write something and I don't care if its on heartbreak because I got over him in a night :headbang:

Well do what makes you happy but dont expect him to be happy about it, I wouldnt be

Well do what makes you happy but dont expect him to be happy about it, I wouldnt be


I know, and I don't expect him to like me jumping up and saying "Then give my number to --- from your BSA group." at a Sonic over cokes or somewhere else since I was the one twice to go back and give him another chance. *I told him I wanted somebody if not me to beat him up over a NS teligram the first time and then the talk on Monday's his last chance*

I plan on saying if he got upset, understood or stopped speaking to me on Monday night, by the way. I know he'll be upset and he's the sinsitive type, worrywarts over everything if he thinks we shouldn't have done it *No, we never did it* we don't believe in doing it till after the wedding bands are on. We almost did it on my couch but never did, kept ourselves from it plus my mom was dow the hall and in a room with the door open. But dang it! He hurt me before the first time after saying twice he felt like we were soulmates and then when he broke up with me the first time, he said he still felt like we're soulmates and I plan on making sure he wants to stay friends before I go after --- or a guy when I start drivers ED in May.

Wow, this thread has made my IQ drop 10 points.

Wow, this thread has made my IQ drop 10 points.

LOL! I just wondered if anybody else had a simular experience and it turned into this :p

Darn it! When my ex finally teligrams my nation back, asks if I'm majorly upset with him and says we can talk at Co-op on Monday if we get an alone chance. There's no alone time at our Homeschool programs!

Am I going to be the only one here to say that intentionaly hurting people in order to make yourself feel better is a bad thing?No, I was thinking just the same thing.


Think about what you are trying to do first.

Not only are you are trying to hurt your ex in a silly, immature way but you are being extremely unfair on the new guy. You are using him as a tool, getting his hopes up, all to cause jealousy?

Is hurting two people worth what you want to do? What will you have achieved if you do this? Will you feel like a better person once you have done this? Are there perhaps more mature and reasonable ways to deal with this?

How old are you, out of curiosity?

Sorry for sounding hostile. I've been the new guy before.

Wow, this thread has made my IQ drop 10 points.
Ditto. I'm still confused as to why I bothered reading this far.

No, I was thinking just the same thing.


Think about what you are trying to do first.

Not only are you are trying to hurt your ex in a silly, immature way but you are being extremely unfair on the new guy. You are using him as a tool, getting his hopes up, all to cause jealousy?

Is hurting two people worth what you want to do? What will you have achieved if you do this? Will you feel like a better person once you have done this? Are there perhaps more mature and reasonable ways to deal with this?

How old are you, out of curiosity?

Sorry for sounding hostile. I've been the new guy before.

15 and this is the second time my ex has hurt me, but he's calling so it might be good, might be bad.

Darn! No "Get back together" stuff. Just making sure I'm ok. Have to face him tomorrow, no getting together over a coke stuff. Just "Your still invited to my relative's wedding on the 30th by the way. Your sure your not upset with me?" Heck I'm upset, but not like last time. Last time I felt used. Didn't have the guts to ask him to give --- my number. Couldn't even remember my questions it felt so good to chat with him again. He seems to like saying "This opens other doors for us. I mean, you can find another guy and I can find another girl." Better not be -----. You said she's seeing somebody.

OK, it was easier to ask him over a NS teligram. Its sent so I can't change it but it went like this *Not taking out the second guy's name either, tired of doing ---*
I forgot to ask when you called! Was nervous really, but, will you give Ben from your BSA group my number? Hope your not mumbling that hurt or thinking something mean about me and all, but I felt sparks with him at your Eagle Banquet and you did say "Open new doors..." and he seems like a new door for me. Like he'd help me get over you fast. Liked his sense of humor too.
My time to be a worrywart and ask a few hundred times, but, are you sure your ok with me asking you to do this? Expeshially if Ben and I work out, if he doesn't have a girl already that is?

I forgot to ask when you called! Was nervous really, but, will you give Ben from your BSA group my number? Hope your not mumbling that hurt or thinking something mean about me and all, but I felt sparks with him at your Eagle Banquet and you did say "Open new doors..." and he seems like a new door for me. Like he'd help me get over you fast. Liked his sense of humor too.My time to be a worrywart and ask a few hundred times, but, are you sure your ok with me asking you to do this? Expeshially if Ben and I work out, if he doesn't have a girl already that is?Meh. Hopefully you will grow up soon, regret being stupid and apologize to Ben for being a bitch by acting worse that the person you were trying to get back at.

HEY! My mom's overweight plus I'm sure if somebody that's overweight read that post, s/he'd get mad. *Speaking up for my mom* *Personally, I weight 140-2.*
I could say something really really mean.

But I won't.

I say (to only myself, as inner monologue, always in a perfect Snoop Dogg voice) "Whatever, biatch." and set about moving on, which usually takes all of a few minutes. I may or may not continue to talk to them, I may or may not continue to harbour negative feelings, all of this is decided within minutes of the end of our next conversation, I then hold firm to my decision, although I may decide to cease talking to them at a later date for other reasons.

PS: I will quite likely cry, especially if the decision is to stop talking to them. And yes I am a boy.

Better then I thought he'd be!!!! He sent me back plus we talked a few quick minuets but he said he would do it for me!

Sure.I'll give him your number. I'd have to say, I was a bit shocked to hear you wanting to see someone else (I'm surprised I was shocked), but we are able to see other people, so I'll be understanding and cool with it or at least do my best as I would expect from you.

-DR of Aquamia

He forgets he changed his nation name to the Great Democracy last week :p
Either way, he told me in person "Yes, I'll give --- your number. Was shocked at first, but I'll give it to him." and their supposed to see each other tonight at BSA, so. My mom acidently pointed out one shirt and I saw the one next to it that said "He loves me, I love his friend" and I almost died laughing. My ex and I are staying best buds, and I'm sure --- will be telling my ex everything he and I do, if this "Blind date" sort of phone call works out :D

You seem to be new around around here. Welcome to NationStates. :)


I'm not clear on what, precisely, caused the most recent breakup. Was it severe enough to warrant an indignity such as this?

Just general advice: Don't burn bridges if you don't have to. Break up if you feel that the relationship isn't mutually satisfying, but unless he's done something severe (like you caught him in bed with someone else) I would suggest being respectful.

That said, I wish you well in your relationship (current relationship or next relationship, whichever applies).


I strongly recommend against this! Even for adults.

This isn't going to be the last time in your life that something is going to upset you. If you turn to alcohol for relief every single time, you may develop a dependence upon alcohol. Alcoholism is a very bad thing.

Not a problem.

Just so you know: Because of the way forums work, if you don't post a reply to someone right away, it's assumed that you're not online. Only the unreasonable are going to expect you to reply to them right away every single time, so you don't have to announce your absences.

--The Democratic States of Cogitation

just one more reason I would marry Cog if I didnt already have a Mr Peechland. Ok well I'd stalk him until he agreed to marry me. Which would be about as long as it takes to get a restraining order I'm thinking. (laugh about it for a moment ;) )

But seriously, he's right. No sense in "making him say ouch" on the breakup. If you got over him by 6 on Saturday, chances are you are ready to move on anyway. When you end things amicably, not only do you gain respect from others, but you also maintain self respect. Good luck to you on the search for love and happiness. Love rocks! :fluffle:

just one more reason I would marry Cog if I didnt already have a Mr Peechland. Ok well I'd stalk him until he agreed to marry me. Which would be about as long as it takes to get a restraining order I'm thinking. (laugh about it for a moment ;) )

But seriously, he's right. No sense in "making him say ouch" on the breakup. If you got over him by 6 on Saturday, chances are you are ready to move on anyway. When you end things amicably, not only do you gain respect from others, but you also maintain self respect. Good luck to you on the search for love and happiness. Love rocks! :fluffle:

Thanks and my third reason for asking my ex to "hook me up" is to show him my world does not revolve around him and I am not going to sit around a wait for him to get a new girl at his side before I even start looking at other teenage guys in my dating range of 14 to 16. My first two reasons for wanting this next guy is he and I had those flirty sparks plus he couldn't stop flirting or hitting on me (In front of my, of then, boyfriend) and two is he's adorably cuter then my ex. My ex can't keep his acne in control somedays while this new guy had smooth skin. My ex asked me once how or what I did to keep my acne in control. Have to say, it was the weirdest question I've ever answered and it had an answer that made him feel dumb, I think/guess. Some of that acne liquid from Wal-Mart, duh, 'Aquamia' :p

Meh. Hopefully you will grow up soon, regret being stupid and apologize to Ben for being a bitch by acting worse that the person you were trying to get back at.

Meh to you too :D If Ben and I do not work out by the time the first chat is over, I plan to say something like, "Sorry for wasting your time." or something geeky like that :p But we both seem to be each other's type. Both make better jokes then my ex could in a year *Teasing my ex for the dirty jokes* Heck, my ex said once that a woman claimed she was having his baby just to make me laugh, which I did when he said it was a joke. And on April Fool's Day, he told me he was dumping me and then quickley explained it was a joke since I forgot the date.

Hehehehehe. Steal her car's differential XD

One day, one of the guys on our robotics team, who we knew had just broken up with his girlfriend, walks in with a differential to play with and won't tell us where he got it :)

If you want to know what a differential does, basically it is what makes the outside wheels move faster in a turn.

Hehehehehe. Steal her car's differential XD

One day, one of the guys on our robotics team, who we knew had just broken up with his girlfriend, walks in with a differential to play with and won't tell us where he got it :)

If you want to know what a differential does, basically it is what makes the outside wheels move faster in a turn.
that is a hilariously dangerous bit of revenge.

Dang! Shocked my ex for nothing. Ben's not my type in a few places, at least he's worse at math then me so I'm smarter there but he brought up my ex on his own and said he'd remind my ex of what he dumped from what Ben learns about me over the phone that my ex and I have in common and Ben doesn't with me in the mean time if Ben and I don't work out. Went from a wanna-be-Navy navigator to a future Artist. Shocked at the drastic change in guy friends' dream jobs, yes. Oh well, turns out Ben's big brother's how I got my ex the first time in a sense. His big brother grabbed my ex's crush a week before my ex could and like a month before my ex and I met. All Ben can chat about is music bands I don't really know! Oh well, we both know Beck and we have the same favorite show, that much for the moment. He said he's calling tomorrow *Wednesday* and he'll chat with my ex this Monday, but I have to see my ex on the Saturday between and talk with him on Thursday if I don't call Wednesday afternoon to discuss Saturday. But Ben's funnier, still. Can turn to him for a few laughs over the summer while he's out of school.

Only skimmed the thread, not exactly anything insightful to say, but...

at least he's worse at math then me so I'm smarter there

Well, I'm not good at math either. Perhaps that's why I got lost on the following:


He said he's calling tomorrow *Wednesday* and he'll chat with my ex this Monday, but I have to see my ex on the Saturday between and talk with him on Thursday if I don't call Wednesday afternoon to discuss Saturday.
*scratches head*
How fast did you say the train was traveling?

*scratches head*
How fast did you say the train was traveling? :D

"Jodi is wearing a green shirt and a red hat. William is wearing no-shirt and a coconut shell. The dog is wearing an orange cardigan and smoking a cigar.

List the order in which they slap each other."

My guy and I went friends after four months and thirteen days as a couple. Its the second time we've broken up and if we don't work it out Monday afternoon, I'm gonna make him say ouch and not take him back :eek: *Grinning a bit evily* He introduced me to a friend of his from his Boy Scouts group two months ago and the guy seeemed to like me like he'd pick me up as soon as he heard my ex and I split, if he ever does hear about it, and he left a VERY strong impression on me, cute too :D and if my ex and I don't :fluffle: I'm gonna make him say ouch by asking him to give the guy my number, even though we broke up last night *Friday here*.

So, what'd you do after a few sobs? I got over my ex by six Saturday morning and said, "Wonder if --- has a girl palling around him or he still thinks I'm a hottie." :D Actually changed mynation's motto to Had one, Liked it, Want another one or something about there :D


Pulled out, wiped it off on her hair. Pulled up my pants, stumbled around the room looking for cab fare.

Only skimmed the thread, not exactly anything insightful to say, but...



Well, I'm not good at math either. Perhaps that's why I got lost on the following:


*scratches head*
How fast did you say the train was traveling?

LOL! My ex and I still do the same things except we don't kiss or hold hands anymore since we broke up and I'm still his date for a wedding this Saturday *30th* and Ben was going to ask me out, but he volunteered to chat with my Ex on the Monday after. I'm hoping my ex seeing me in a, in my opinion, sexy dress plus Ben reminding him of what my ex and I have in common from what Ben learns about me will get my ex to think a zillionth time about this.

PS: There is no train! Its electric! ;)
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