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..who enjoy a little s&m. why? i mean, if i were spanked, i wouldn't be aroused i would just want to beat the sh*t out of whoever spanked me; but then again, they might like that. i just want to be a little clearer on the subject

So you're a rubber guy?

Pain is pleasure

Pain is pleasure
Back in your cage, biatch!

So you're a rubber guy?

i'm no rubber guy

I don't have time to go into a long explanation... but some people like it harsher than others, obviously... The PHYSICAL reasons have to do with slowly building endorphins in the brain if the top is doing whatever he/she is doing in a correct manner. This depends on each person's individual preference, etc.

The psychological reasons are boundless. Many people who are extroverted, in control, and perhaps have a lot of responsibility, enjoy being submissives, as it's a release for them emotionally and psychologically, to not be in control. And vice versa... a shy, introverted person may want to be the dominant one, because in their daily lives they are submissive to people and situations. Some people just feel they deserve to be punished. Others realize there is power in submission, because the dominant does not get anything out of it if the submissive isn't behaving accordingly... therein lies the paradox... The submissive, can very well be the dominant in the psycholgical sense.

And switches vacilate back and forth. The reason for this, in the psychological sense, I am not well versed in.

It's not all sadism and masochism... That's why BDSM stand for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sado-Machochism. Three links... not just whacking someone...lol!!! :p

Obviously, this is a subject that has many answers and you could study it forever and still not learn it all...

Then there's just the old "What gets ya off, gets ya off"! ;)

Seriously, it's rather complicated.... :fluffle:

Hope that was slightly helpful Eh-Oh? :)

..who enjoy a little s&m. why? i mean, if i were spanked, i wouldn't be aroused i would just want to beat the sh*t out of whoever spanked me; but then again, they might like that. i just want to be a little clearer on the subject
wait. you are a girl????

wait. you are a girl????


I thought Eh Oh was a guy... :confused:

i'm no rubber guy

i thought he was too. but the above post confused me.

Back in your cage, biatch!
Make me

wait. you are a girl????

yep, i sure am! all woman :D

..who enjoy a little s&m. why? i mean, if i were spanked, i wouldn't be aroused i would just want to beat the sh*t out of whoever spanked me; but then again, they might like that. i just want to be a little clearer on the subject

Hard to explain. Almost impossible to explain why anybody likes anything unless they're talking to someone who also enjoys it. Just ask anyone with a fetish.

Also, make sure your partner knows *before* sexual activity that you'll beat them severely if spanked. After all, things happen in moments of heated passion ...

I thought Eh Oh was a guy... :confused:

why would you say that? don't you notice the feminine beauty of mine oozing out of every orifice of my body?

why would you say that? don't you notice the feminine beauty of mine oozing out of every orifice of my body?

I tend to avoid looking at oozing orafices...

I tend to avoid looking at oozing orafices...

well, if you put it that way...ewwwww.....

i'm no rubber guy
So you're saying you're a girl, but are still in to whole the rubber thing. Kinky.

I tend to avoid looking at oozing orafices...

Depends on the orifice. If it's brown, wrinkled, and is oozing artificial lubricant tinged with a hint of fecal material, then it's definitely an orifice to avoid in my book. If it's exuding glistening drops of female nectar between sweet pink folds, then you're probably in the right neighborhood, and you should never avert your eyes.

You know, in my old school we used to be spanked. I had gotten so many that I had become immune to them. I would love to go back to my old principals who used to administer the spankings if they would give me one for old time sakes. The looks on thier faces would be worth it!

I tend to avoid looking at oozing orafices...

my thoghts exactly...

Depends on the orifice. If it's brown, wrinkled, and is oozing artificial lubricant tinged with a hint of fecal material, then it's definitely an orifice to avoid in my book.
DID SOMEBODY SAY SANTORUM (http://www.spreadingsantorum.com/)?!!!

I don't give it much thought. I let my body lead the way. :)

DID SOMEBODY SAY SANTORUM (http://www.spreadingsantorum.com/)?!!!

Santorum Alert!!!!

It depends on the type of pain. I don't like being hurt using instruments (like canes, whips, etc.) - it has to be caused directly by the person, using teeth, nails etc. Also, there are some types of pain which I do actually enjoy (e.g. having my balls squeezed very hard, or being bitten viciously), but even with the types of pain that I don't directly enjoy, I still enjoy the IDEA of the pain. For example, even when my girlfriend hurts me in a way that I don't enjoy, I still like the fact that she likes to hurt me.

I like the orange S&Ms. The ones with peanut centers. They're crunchily good.