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that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.
I feel like screaming the the song killing in the name of by rage against the machine becouse thats how I feel right now. I'm sick puting on the act that I am good person I've conviced every one I am.
Any advice on what I should do with all this pent up anger?

have a masti?

that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.
I feel like screaming the the song killing in the name of by rage against the machine becouse thats how I feel right now. I'm sick puting on the act that I am good person I've conviced every one I am.
Any advice on what I should do with all this pent up anger?
You should tell this to your friends. That would be a good starter...

I redirect it into my eBAY habit.

Listen to the best Theme song ever:

http://www.hlj.me.uk/TINs%20page/XLR%20intro%20MP3.mp3

listen to more, heavier, and louder musc. very loud. that always helps me out :)

remember, the heavier the better ;)

Watch tons of Lee Marvin movies. Then do as he does.

smoke weed

smoke weed

Nice solution, but it doesn't seem to work on me... I had loads one night-no effect. Alas it seems I am immune to it's effects... :(

Nice solution, but it doesn't seem to work on me... I had loads one night-no effect. Alas it seems I am immune to it's effects... :(
that sucks man, i heard of that before :(
hell it happened to me before christmas...

best way to chill out

Nice solution, but it doesn't seem to work on me... I had loads one night-no effect. Alas it seems I am immune to it's effects... :(
Yeah. Me too. All I get is a slight headache.

that sucks man, i heard of that before :(
hell it happened to me before christmas...

best way to chill out

Oh well. Herbal tea does it for me. :cool:

do some hard physical exercise until you sweat profusely. your feelings arent about other people they are about you. you are in a tough time of life and you need to take good care of yourself.

get more sleep, eat well and find a good exercise to do every day. i recommend running if possible, otherwise go to the gym.

I have to agree with the exercise idea.

Martial arts are a good focus for frustration and anger, they help you learn control and release.

Cry in bed.

Ok.. Seriously.. Yeah.. Running it off is great. Thats why I believe having a punching bag in your house is a defininte must. Go out the door, run as far and as fast as you can until you really feel like passing out.

Watch tons of Lee Marvin movies. Then do as he does.
Excellent advice. I agree with Iztatepopotla. Lee Marvin don't take no shit. You shouldn't either.

You mean get drunk and get into afight?

You mean get drunk and get into afight?
Beleive me, other than sex with a woman who's way out of your league, a drunken brawl is one of the best ways to cheer yourself up. Just don't get arrested.

First off, if you have any Martial Arts experience do Katas or some such, try to clear your mind and use up energy. If you have no such experience, just hit a heavy bag until you are on the verge of collapse. When you start to feel tired, don't stop. When you are finished lay down and rest, breath long even breaths and clear all the bullshit out of your mind.

The next step I call the "I don't give a shit" principle. You need to realize that the opinions and perspectives of others, along with the material trapping of our existence are completely and utterly irrelevant. The only thing that truly has ANY power to effect you, is yourself. You need to conclude that everyone else's bullshit just doesn't matter to you and that you will, here too hence forth not give a shit. You must realize that words mean absolutely nothing, and that you are the only one that can give them relevance. You have the power to control how people effect you, no one can offend you, you have to offend yourself. I'm not saying that you should go wondering around vandalizing shit because it "doesn't matter." I'm saying that you have to sleep soundly and wake up with a calm and serene mind.

(In addition to that I would suggest meditation, or if you are religious prayer. It WILL calm you down)

Next step, once you have concluded what I have listed above. You have to go to your friends and tell them what is on your mind. They can not anger you, you have to choose to be angry and in this instance it will not help you. Simply say your piece showing no restraint. Stop caring about what they think of you and start caring about how you think about yourself above all else. When you have succeeded in gaining their understanding, I would suggest some good wine and some good food (but you may want to scratch the wine if you are underage ;) ) and to do something you enjoy. If nothing comes to mind I would suggest finding something.

If you choose to follow through with that you should be fine.

Join a neo-nazi gang, go to plenty of pubs to listen to brutal music and beat up foreigners with knives. That did the trick for me.

that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.
I feel like screaming the the song killing in the name of by rage against the machine becouse thats how I feel right now. I'm sick puting on the act that I am good person I've conviced every one I am.
Any advice on what I should do with all this pent up anger?then why did you become the "clown with no emotions" in the first place? I suppose thats what you could call my status too, but i live with it...it's my fault thats what i became......im happy in public, and super depressed at home......

A few previous posters mentioned it and I agree. When you feel like punching something, you need some workout. Get a punching bag AND striking mitts. No reason to bleed. Crank up the music and punch the bag till you cant anymore. Just dont punch the wall. Or pressure treated 2 X 10s supporting a deck. Breaking four bones in your hand because you had a little fit feels stupid when you're explaining it The people in the emergency room have no sympathy either. You get to wait.
dont talk to your friends about how you feel till after you're calm.

I think I'll go play some base ball and when I'm tired of running I'll go practice some randori with my martial arts traing partner.

Just chill.

I think I'll go play some base ball and when I'm tired of running I'll go practice some randori with my martial arts traing partner.


Good idea. Dont let it get you down.

Was I the only one to think this was about Network?

I think I'll go play some base ball and when I'm tired of running I'll go practice some randori with my martial arts traing partner.
Randori? What's that, the Aikido thing where people attack you and you throw them to the ground?

Listen to the best Theme song ever:

http://www.hlj.me.uk/TINs%20page/XLR%20intro%20MP3.mp3


ah hem i belive red october is best

and just tell someone or go out in a fit of rage and let them know that way

that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.

hey- how is this for a shot? quit letting people push you around. dont you get sick of being the complainer who does nothing to reverse things? and whats up with facade? last time i checked, that spells that you are being
F-A-K-E. and thats ridiculous.if you cant be yourself, what the fuck can you be? and get some new friends, by the way.

Join a neo-nazi gang, go to plenty of pubs to listen to brutal music and beat up foreigners with knives. That did the trick for me.
that means you are absolutley taking it in the ass like a prison bitch,now. does it still hurt at first? or are you used to it? and remember- wear a condom.

Beleive me, other than sex with a woman who's way out of your league, a drunken brawl is one of the best ways to cheer yourself up. Just don't get arrested.


thats just funny to me Joey-lol

Was I the only one to think this was about Network?


That's what I thought too...

that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.
I feel like screaming the the song killing in the name of by rage against the machine becouse thats how I feel right now. I'm sick puting on the act that I am good person I've conviced every one I am.
Any advice on what I should do with all this pent up anger?


Here's a bit of advice. If someone is abusing you, they aren't your friend. If they think that little of you, and you let them do it, you are responsible for being treated that way (let's not confuse "responsible" with "to blame"). If you don't want to be treated that way by assholes, then find other friends.

Real friends. It's not easy to find real friends, but it's certainly easy to walk away from assholes.

that's right I am mad as hell and I sick of takeing it in the ass like a f#cking prison b!tch. I'm sick of allways being the nice guy that every one thinks I am just a clown and that nothing really matters to me. My friends don't realize that I do have in deepth feelings decpite the light hearted facade.
I feel like screaming the the song killing in the name of by rage against the machine becouse thats how I feel right now. I'm sick puting on the act that I am good person I've conviced every one I am.
Any advice on what I should do with all this pent up anger?
Two words: strenuous exercise. It works; I kid you not!

Join the French Foreign Legion

Notice we specify 'French', rather than simply 'Foreign Legion'. You see, the Spanish have a Foreign Legion too, and it's a lot easier to get into. On the other hand, it's also an awful lot nastier, by all accounts, so if you really feel you've made all the errors you can make in a civilised country, definitely try the French first.

The place you're looking for is called Fort de Nogent, which is the major recruiting office for the Legionne Etrangere. It's in Paris.

Borrow the money for a ticket to Paris from someone you don't like very much. Buy the ticket. Make it a first class ticket, because you might as well enjoy what life remains to you.

Throw a large party. Get savagely drunk. Dispose of everything you own in an orgy of gambling and excess. Offer your real opinions to everyone you've ever despised. Make serious, unmistakeable attempts to bed every woman who's ever caught your eye.

In the morning, you should have created enough havoc and damage that there will be no choice for you but to get aboard that Paris-bound flight. Get drunk again on the flight. You can do that for free in First Class.

In Paris, book yourself into one of those totally decadent hotels with a price tag like the GNP of a small African nation. You're not going to pay the bill, so why worry about it? Try the Ritz. Take in a night of uttermost indulgence. If you can find a firm which supplies... dancing partners and is prepared to bill your hotel room, so much the better.

Next day, you front at Fort de Nogent. Enlist under an assumed name. It's perfectly legit from their viewpoint, and it's enormous fun. One tip: don't go with "Beau Geste".

And that's it. Your life is now in someone else's hands. Brutal, vicious hands. Hands which will gladly hunt you down like a dog and kill you if you so much as attempt to desert. But look on the bright side: if you make it through your stint, you wind up with French citizenship, complete with rights to be rude to everyone in sight, live on wine, cheese, bread and garlic, and to bomb Greenpeace back into the stone age.

Listen to the best Theme song ever:

http://www.hlj.me.uk/TINs%20page/XLR%20intro%20MP3.mp3
Meh, the song get's kinda old when you listen to it sixty times in a row.

EDIT: Ow great, NOW I find out how you put in a loop. :rolleyes:

Whispering legs knows what to do.

Like everyone else seems to have said, there are so many positive ways you can channel your anger. Exercise, martial arts, or using a punching bag are all great ways I'd say.