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Dear John/Jane

Daistallia 2104
09-04-2005, 18:25
Ever goitten a real "Dear John" letter? Care to dish the story?

I've never gotten an actual letter, but I got a Dear John fax.

About 8 years ago, a GF of a few months sent me a fax letting me know she'd reconciled with her previously unmentioned former fiance. He had proposed, she accepted, and sent me a fax... :(
Fass
09-04-2005, 18:34
Does an email containing an image of my then boyfriend fucking one of his exes count?

That was quite the shitty thing to do. :mad:
Daistallia 2104
09-04-2005, 18:40
Does an email containing an image of my then boyfriend fucking one of his exes count?

That was quite the shitty thing to do. :mad:

Yep. That'd do.
Fass
09-04-2005, 18:42
Yep. That'd do.

Funny thing is, that picture somehow found its way to his parents, who had apparently had no idea he was into guys... :eek:
Daistallia 2104
09-04-2005, 18:45
Karma can be fun...
Nadkor
09-04-2005, 18:51
Funny thing is, that picture somehow found its way to his parents, who had apparently had no idea he was into guys... :eek:
this made me laugh for some reason
Soviet Narco State
09-04-2005, 18:52
this made me laugh for some reason
Was that reason becasue it was funny?
Nadkor
09-04-2005, 18:57
Was that reason becasue it was funny?
you know, thats very possible
Frangland
09-04-2005, 18:59
yeah, lol at the memory

this must have been in, oh, about sixth grade or so..

I got this letter telling me (remember this vividly) that while she enjoyed "sucking face" with me (ROFL at the lexicon of the late 80s!), she was interested in having someone else buy her ice cream and take her to movies like Rocky IV and Karate Kid II.

lol

If there are some innocent kids in here, take care to heed this advice:

hold onto that as long as you can... stay young. grown-up things might seem like something you're really looking forward to, but make sure you enjoy the moment of being young.
The Mycon
09-04-2005, 20:19
I've got a "Dear John" IM.

It boiled down to "Well, I found this guy with a summer home in Paris, and all you've got is a home in the country." It was worded closer to "I'm at this guy's house and he's making all sorts of wonderful promises and I'm going to trust him without any proof."

Karma took over soon enough, though.
Manawskistan
09-04-2005, 20:30
"I'm pregnant with my ex-boyfriend"

Oh have fun with that, Ms. 19-year-old expectant mother.
Frangland
09-04-2005, 20:34
I've got a "Dear John" IM.

It boiled down to "Well, I found this guy with a summer home in Paris, and all you've got is a home in the country." It was worded closer to "I'm at this guy's house and he's making all sorts of wonderful promises and I'm going to trust him without any proof."

Karma took over soon enough, though.

...did he start slapping her around and then go bankrupt or something like that?
Celtlund
09-04-2005, 21:39
I got a Dear John letter once from my fiancée. I was in Maine at the time and she was in Louisiana. About four months later, I was sent back to Louisiana and we got back together. Then I broke it off. We got together the third time, got married, and have been married for almost 37 years.
Dakini
09-04-2005, 21:48
Funny thing is, that picture somehow found its way to his parents, who had apparently had no idea he was into guys... :eek:
Hahaha.

I heard something similar happen to someone I spoke to (I didn't know her very well) she walked in on her then bf having sex with some guy and he's like "It just slipped in" ... apparantly not only did he cheat on her, he thought she was retarded.
Harlesburg
09-04-2005, 21:56
Funny thing is, that picture somehow found its way to his parents, who had apparently had no idea he was into guys... :eek:
BURN!
So whos ever got a papernapkin email address?
Yaga-Shura-Field
09-04-2005, 21:59
"I'm pregnant with my ex-boyfriend"

Oh have fun with that, Ms. 19-year-old expectant mother.

Crazy time travelling incest! :eek: :eek: ;)
Sdaeriji
09-04-2005, 22:05
I once got an e-mail from a girlfriend of mine saying she wouldn't be coming to my birthday celebration because she was going out with a guy she met while visiting a friend at college. Does that count?
Daistallia 2104
10-04-2005, 05:09
I once got an e-mail from a girlfriend of mine saying she wouldn't be coming to my birthday celebration because she was going out with a guy she met while visiting a friend at college. Does that count?

Sure does. Isn't this age of advanced communication fun.
New Genoa
10-04-2005, 05:21
Does an email containing an image of my then boyfriend fucking one of his exes count?

That was quite the shitty thing to do. :mad:

That's... :eek:
The Mycon
10-04-2005, 07:16
...did he start slapping her around and then go bankrupt or something like that?Never had any money in the first place, too. She changed colleges to be with him before she figured that out, though.
Sdaeriji
10-04-2005, 08:17
Sure does. Isn't this age of advanced communication fun.

Hooray me, then. It was four years ago; I'm over it. Just seemed cold.