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i saw you buying a pearl jam record,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you hanging around in allston,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you riding around on your rollerblades,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you getting your tongue pierced,and i noticed that you're gay
i heard you spend all day on the internet,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you drinking a frappucino,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you wearing a f*cking tree shirt,and i noticed that you're gay
you've got a tribal tattoo, and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you voting for john kerry, and i noticed that you're gay

*dances around*

YAY!

i saw you buying a pearl jam record,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you hanging around in allston,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you riding around on your rollerblades,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you getting your tongue pierced,and i noticed that you're gay
i heard you spend all day on the internet,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you drinking a frappucino,and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you wearing a f*cking tree shirt,and i noticed that you're gay
you've got a tribal tattoo, and i noticed that you're gay
i saw you voting for john kerry, and i noticed that you're gay

I saw Death Hell Damnation cruising around all day trying to notice gay people, and I noticed he was gay.

I saw Death Hell Damnation cruising around all day trying to notice gay people, and I noticed he was gay.

LOL

anal ****

Ah - but would the world not be a better place if everyone was gay ?
Feel free to pick any of the dictionary definitions of the word when answering ;)

anal ****
You know that band?

I saw Death Hell Damnation cruising around all day trying to notice gay people, and I noticed he was gay.

i say you actually replying to my thread, and i noticed that you're gay

anal **** rocks by the way

http://www.the-gateway.net/fun/teh-suck.jpg

Anal C--t are the Kings.

I like "I sold your dog to a Chinese restaurant" and "311 sucks"

Anal C--t are the Kings.

I like "I sold your dog to a Chinese restaurant" and "311 sucks"

I like their seminal EP "Yeast Infection" best...it shows their gritty, lumpy side.

I only rollerblade because I play inline hockey because there's no ice rink in Wellington :(

http://www.the-gateway.net/fun/teh-suck.jpg
LMAO!

*Blinks* The hell? Is this a joke that I'm missing the punchline to?

*Blinks* The hell? Is this a joke that I'm missing the punchline to?
I saw you blinking, and I notived that you're gay.

Ppl who vote for bush are cunts :D

I only rollerblade because I play inline hockey because there's no ice rink in Wellington :(
Sick with Kerry?

Sick with Kerry?


I didn't vote, so I'm not allowed to complain.

I saw you blinking, and I notived that you're gay.

Oh. Well that's cleared that up then.

Odd that. You'd think after seven years at an all girls school I would have noticed before. :p

Im not teh gay!

Im not teh gay!

Everyone knows that, but "Yuo are teh bi" just doesn't roll off the tounge as well.

This thread makes me cry.

anal ****
One of the five worst bands of all time.

i saw a deleting of a thread i noticed that its gay.

I looked in the mirror, and noticed you were gay.

Oh, wait... :D

I saw you wearing neon glasses, and I noticed that you're gay.
I saw you checking out men's asses, and I noticed that you're gay.
You're always eating lollypops, and I noticed that you're gay.
You're usually wearing flip-flops, and I noticed that you're gay.

I saw you at Madonna's show, and I noticed that you're gay.
In your room, I found a dildo, and I noticed that you're gay.
I learned that you're a vegetarian, and I noticed that you're gay.
It looks like you won't be marryin', 'cuz I noticed that you're gay.

You have a Beegees poster on your wall, and I noticed that you're gay.
I saw your number in a bathroom stall, and I noticed that you're gay.
You flop your wrists when you talk, and I noticed that you're gay.
You sway your hips every time you walk, and I noticed that you're gay.
You really, truly must love the cock, 'cuz I noticed that you're gay.

I looked in the mirror, and noticed you were gay.

Oh, wait... :D


OMG! OMG! OMG! ARE J00 S4Y1NG THA GEYHS GUTZ PHIS3C0L APPR45NCE5?!

And all this time i thought you were vampires...i mean you do like sucking the lifeforce out of people.... :D

Maybe not the "lifeforce" but we do quite a bit of sucking

Maybe not the "lifeforce" but we do quite a bit of sucking


Yeah....you suck the lifeforce out.... What you think you can suck and not take the lifeforce out?

That's like eating food, and expecting not to crap later in the day...

Yeah....you suck the lifeforce out.... What you think you can suck and not take the lifeforce out?

That's like eating food, and expecting not to crap later in the day...


Hmm. . . . very right you are. . . Unless the person we're trying to suck the lifeforce out of doesn't want to give it. . . . or our neck starts to hurt. . . .

OMG! OMG! OMG! ARE J00 S4Y1NG THA GEYHS GUTZ PHIS3C0L APPR45NCE5?!

And all this time i thought you were vampires...i mean you do like sucking the lifeforce out of people.... :D

My boyfriend has quite a lot of names for the substance, but "lifeforce" is a new one.

Lucky for me, he doesn't mind giving it up.

HAHAHA!!!!

I'll have to use that. . . . if I ever do acquire a human attachment. . . *shudders*

I'll have to use that. . . . if I ever do acquire a human attachment. . . *shudders*

What's there to shudder over?

My boyfriend has quite a lot of names for the substance, but "lifeforce" is a new one.

Lucky for me, he doesn't mind giving it up.


Well think about it...what happens when he runs out of his lifeforce? Like most males...he'll become drowsy and may even fall asleep depending on his age...so yeah.

What's there to shudder over?


I think he is trying to say, he will never be in a relationship of any kid...so he shudders at the thought of being close with someone.

At least that's what i'm getting out of the post...

What I meant is that I will think long and hard about a potential relationship if I ever had the chance to engage in one. They are temporary and meaningless and will end up breaking your heart.

And I'd never date a kid (14-17) because they're all stupid and immature. . . Correction: most are stupid, immature, and incapable of handling a stable, monogamous relationship that has marriage potential.

**reads back and laughs at the fact that he is saying this and is only 16**

Well think about it...what happens when he runs out of his lifeforce? Like most males...he'll become drowsy and may even fall asleep depending on his age...so yeah.

But, once he falls asleep is when I really get to start to molest him! ;)

What I meant is that I will think long and hard about a potential relationship if I ever had the chance to engage in one. They are temporary and meaningless and will end up breaking your heart.

And I'd never date a kid (14-17) because they're all stupid and immature. . . Correction: most are stupid, immature, and incapable of handling a stable, monogamous relationship that has marriage potential.

**reads back and laughs at the fact that he is saying this and is only 16**


So your Anti-Semitic then? .... let's just say that... makes more sense. =p

But, once he falls asleep is when I really get to start to molest him! ;)


You molest your boyfriend....? .. I'll nod my head and pretend i understand that.

*makes note, never to go to Sweden*

BTW, is it true your government is having problems with beastiality? -.^

What I meant is that I will think long and hard about a potential relationship if I ever had the chance to engage in one. They are temporary and meaningless and will end up breaking your heart.

Not everything needs to be within a relationship. Have some fun with flings, instead!

And I'd never date a kid (14-17) because they're all stupid and immature. . . Correction: most are stupid, immature, and incapable of handling a stable, monogamous relationship that has marriage potential.

**reads back and laughs at the fact that he is saying this and is only 16**

Only 16? Yeah, most guys your age would be like that. Most guys my age (22) too, but that's what 25+ guys are for. As I said, you're 16, you shouldn't be thinking of long term relationships. You need to have fun while you're young.

So your Anti-Semitic then? .... let's just say that... makes more sense. =p

What does that have to do with anything? And how would that make more sense? **is confused**

You molest your boyfriend....? .. I'll nod my head and pretend i understand that.

*makes note, never to go to Sweden*

Pfft! He loves my molestation.

BTW, is it true your government is having problems with beastiality? -.^

Problem? What do you mean? I haven't heard/read anything about beastiality in the news/papers.

i saw you voting for john kerry, and i noticed that you're gayso true

Not everything needs to be within a relationship. Have some fun with flings, instead!



Only 16? Yeah, most guys your age would be like that. Most guys my age (22) too, but that's what 25+ guys are for. As I said, you're 16, you shouldn't be thinking of long term relationships. You need to have fun while you're young.


This is why I do not date. What is so fun about having flings and becoming a whore **note: whore = person who has flings and sleeps, engages in a relationship with several people each month/year, according to the author** I'd rather have a stable, monogamous relationship where there is true potential. I know what I want, and I'm going to go for it. Hell, I'm in college already for crying out loud.

What benefit is there to having "flings" when 1) you know what you want and 2) what you can get is not what you want. To engage in a relationship of that type is emotionally unfifilling and worthless. It'll end up in you crying in your bed each night, hating and loving the person that broke your heart. And you'll become depressed and emotionally devastated. So I ask you again. . . what is the point in that?

Pfft! He loves my molestation.



Problem? What do you mean? I haven't heard/read anything about beastiality in the news/papers.


Well it is a stereotype of Swedes...that all Swedes are nymphs, that will have sex with anything at any time of any gender....on the streets!

Is it also true you have naked female police officers on the street?

I saw it on the simpsons when they went there.... You remember the Nobel episode right?

This is why I do not date. What is so fun about having flings and becoming a whore **note: whore = person who has flings and sleeps, engages in a relationship with several people each month/year, according to the author** I'd rather have a stable, monogamous relationship where there is true potential. I know what I want, and I'm going to go for it. Hell, I'm in college already for crying out loud.

What benefit is there to having "flings" when 1) you know what you want and 2) what you can get is not what you want. To engage in a relationship of that type is emotionally unfifilling and worthless. It'll end up in you crying in your bed each night, hating and loving the person that broke your heart. And you'll become depressed and emotionally devastated. So I ask you again. . . what is the point in that?


So you'll be able to tell your future grandkids that you used to be a pimp?

I agree with what you said...it's better to wait for the perfect woman, then to go through a million who cares women just for the heck of it.

This is why I do not date. What is so fun about having flings and becoming a whore **note: whore = person who has flings and sleeps, engages in a relationship with several people each month/year, according to the author** I'd rather have a stable, monogamous relationship where there is true potential. I know what I want, and I'm going to go for it. Hell, I'm in college already for crying out loud.

Not to condescend, but when you're 16, you really don't know what you want. Nobody goes into an LT from the get go - you need to fish around to get the best catch.

What benefit is there to having "flings" when 1) you know what you want and 2) what you can get is not what you want. To engage in a relationship of that type is emotionally unfifilling and worthless. It'll end up in you crying in your bed each night, hating and loving the person that broke your heart. And you'll become depressed and emotionally devastated. So I ask you again. . . what is the point in that?

The benefit is when you do end up in an LT, you will have experience in dealing with sexual partners and you will have had the emotional growth needed to be in an LT. A part of that growth entails dealing with being able to let go of people.

And, no, offense, but you need to lighten up. Your heart will get broken, sooner or later, it has to be. It's a part of life and growing up.

Not everything needs to be within a relationship. Have some fun with flings, instead!

Yes, because increasing your chances of getting STDs is fun. I say do what your concious says is right for you.

... and I don't really get this thread... is it meant to be offensive?

I saw you writing a poem and noticed that your gay.

Yes, because increasing your chances of getting STDs is fun.
Condom

Well it is a stereotype of Swedes...that all Swedes are nymphs, that will have sex with anything at any time of any gender....on the streets!

I wish!

Is it also true you have naked female police officers on the street?

Of course not. (Thank heavens)

I saw it on the simpsons when they went there.... You remember the Nobel episode right?

Yeah. They completely misrepresented everything about the prize ceremony. It's not the Oscars.

I saw Fass, and didn't know he was a 27 year old homosexual swedish doctor with some Mediterranean background until i read his posts....... then i noticed the homosexual part, and i wondered why he was happy all the time...he was Straight!

Yes, because increasing your chances of getting STDs is fun.

Too bad there aren't ways of protecting yourself, umm, like some sort of thing you put on your penis, like a one fingered glove, or something.

Condom

Because condoms always work and they prevent every STD? Yes, if you're going to be doing hook-ups, it's best to wear one, but things can go wrong.

I wish!



Of course not. (Thank heavens)



Yeah. They completely misrepresented everything about the prize ceremony. It's not the Oscars.


... So no massive orgies...no naked chick officers, and the simpsons were wrong about the Nobel Prizes....then why the heck would anyone want to live there?! For the long Dark Winters?!

I suggest you invade Norway and Finland...why? I dunno.... i just want you to.

I saw Fass, and didn't know he was a 27 year old homosexual swedish doctor with some Mediterranean background until i read his posts.......

I'm 22, a third year med student, with parents who come from a Mediterranean country.

then i noticed the homosexual part, and i wondered why he was happy all the time...he was Straight!

If I were straight, I most certainly wouldn't be gay.

I'm 22, a third year med student, with parents who come from a Mediterranean country.



If I were straight, I most certainly wouldn't be gay.


27, 22....22000...either way there was a 2 in there.


And why not? I'm straight and i'm gay most of the day........... =D

(I love dictionary defenitions ^-^)

... So no massive orgies...no naked chick officers, and the simpsons were wrong about the Nobel Prizes....then why the heck would anyone want to live there?! For the long Dark Winters?!

Because of what we do to pass the long dark winters. Our summers, by the way, are fantastic. You haven't partied until you've partied under a midnight sun.

I suggest you invade Norway and Finland...why? I dunno.... i just want you to.

Been there, done that. This year is the 100th anniversary of us letting Norway go after we conquered it from Denmark some two hundred years ago. Coincidentally, the last war we fought. We like our peaceful tradition.

Because condoms always work and they prevent every STD? Yes, if you're going to be doing hook-ups, it's best to wear one, but things can go wrong.

And you can get run over by a bus tomorrow.

And you can get run over by a bus tomorrow.

Because the odds of getting hit by a bus and having a condom break are the same?

Not to condescend, but when you're 16, you really don't know what you want. Nobody goes into an LT from the get go - you need to fish around to get the best catch.

The benefit is when you do end up in an LT, you will have experience in dealing with sexual partners and you will have had the emotional growth needed to be in an LT. A part of that growth entails dealing with being able to let go of people.

And, no, offense, but you need to lighten up. Your heart will get broken, sooner or later, it has to be. It's a part of life and growing up.


That's a horrible reason. I, in fact, do know what I want. Just because I am young does not mean that I am stupid. And I have been in a long term relationship, and I have gotten my heart broken. It's not an easy thing.

And why would I fish around when I know what I want. That's equivalent to a happy, distinguished, professional lawyer who has people telling him to be a teacher because he doesn't know if that's the right career for him.

I'm not saying that everyone should be like me, but I do not fit the status quo, and I would appreciate it if you stoppd telling me that I should fuck around. The question that came up previously, was, why should I not know what I want and try and go for it **from my interpretation** Screwing around with people's hearts and minds in a poor and unsubstantial excuse.

And you can get run over by a bus tomorrow.


Thats right, and that's why you should change your underwear every day! You must always wear clean underwear if that were to ever happen...

Then again most people would crap themselves if they saw the bus before getting hit, so what is the point?

Because the odds of getting hit by a bus and having a condom break are the same?
its probably more likely youll get hit by a bus


dont ask me for a source, or for figures. im just weighing up the possibilities in my head

its probably more likely youll get hit by a bus


dont ask me for a source, or for figures. im just weighing up the possibilities in my head


Well it all depends on where you live, and if your sleeping on the road because your drunk..then the odds decrease. =)

So you'll be able to tell your future grandkids that you used to be a pimp?

I agree with what you said...it's better to wait for the perfect woman, then to go through a million who cares women just for the heck of it.


What is so good about being a pimp? To say that you got more people in bed with you. . . . . to basically say you've been a whore? Just because people liked you when you were a young person does not mean that one should try and be a pimp. . . . and a pimp, is a male/female that makes money from other people prostitution themselves to their pimp's benefit. At least that was what it orginally was. . . .

And I'm gay, so it would be the perfect man.

Well it all depends on where you live, and if your sleeping on the road because your drunk..then the odds decrease. =)
what if youre sleeping with somebody on a road, the condom breaks, then you get run over by a bus?

i would love to know the odds on that one...

Because the odds of getting hit by a bus and having a condom break are the same?

I don't have any figures, but in my sexually active life I've never had a condom break, but I've been close to being run over by buses or cars on several occasions.

What I'm trying to say is thay, yes, shit can happen. But it can happen all the time. What you can do is minimise the risks, not eliminate them. Because the only way to eliminate all risks is by not living at all.

Because the only way to eliminate all risks is by not living at all.

I guess it all depends upon living and what you consider to be the good life. I do not see sleeping around as the good life. I have no reason to judge the way you live your life, but you shouldn't be telling him he should be sleeping around when he doesn't want to.

And Stransworthe, I'm glad to hear there is another queer that is interested in a LTR at a young age and not just sex. It's hard to find other guys like that at times it seems.

That's a horrible reason. I, in fact, do know what I want. Just because I am young does not mean that I am stupid. And I have been in a long term relationship, and I have gotten my heart broken. It's not an easy thing.

I never said you were stupid, but I do know what it's like to be 16: you really do think that you know a lot more than you do. And I know what it's like to be older and I've seen people like you, who waited and waited, and most of them are still waiting, either because the perfect person will never show up (nobody can live up to that), or because nobody wants someone who is that emotionally needy.

And why would I fish around when I know what I want. That's equivalent to a happy, distinguished, professional lawyer who has people telling him to be a teacher because he doesn't know if that's the right career for him.

No, that's more like people telling a new lawyer to take on easier cases in the beginning, before jumping into the difficult ones, to get a hang of it.

I'm not saying that everyone should be like me, but I do not fit the status quo, and I would appreciate it if you stoppd telling me that I should fuck around.

I'm not telling you to fuck around. I'm telling you to get out there and start seeing people.

The question that came up previously, was, why should I not know what I want and try and go for it **from my interpretation** Screwing around with people's hearts and minds in a poor and unsubstantial excuse.

That's your problem. You seem to think everything needs to be serious, that hearts always have to be on the line. Nothing could be further from the truth.

I guess it all depends upon living and what you consider to be the good life. I do not see sleeping around as the good life. I have no reason to judge the way you live your life, but you shouldn't be telling him he should be sleeping around when he doesn't want to.

Again, I'm not telling him to sleep around. I'm telling him to get out there and start seeing people. Because, before he knows it, he'll be old and that person he's been waiting for, will have been OUT THERE, looking for and finding someone else.

Again, I'm not telling him to sleep around. I'm telling him to get out there and start seeing people. Because, before he knows it, he'll be old and that person he's been waiting for, will have been OUT THERE, looking for and finding someone else.

I apologize, but the message I was receiving was that he should sleep around. I'd say it's a good thing to meet and date people. *Hopes his meeting tommorow turns out well.* It's just a shame that the only way I can really meet the people I'm interested in are via online personals...

Fass,
You have clearly not understood the point in which I was trying to make. So let me break it down to you:

1. I have dated before, and found it to be meaningless. Your lawyer analogy was out of context, due to my lack of disclosure.
2. I know what I want, so stop trying to persuade me to give up what I want. Just because other people are waiting, does not mean that I will.
2A. I am not emotionally needy like those people. I simply know what type of person I would like to have a relationship with. They are either a) in a relationship or b) not looking because of the same reasons that I am and we are c) not compatible because of several varied reasons.
3. Who says I think everything needs to be serious? Hearts do not always have to be on the line, but most of the time, for most of my same-age peers, they are. I am simply recognizing that fact.

Fass,
You have clearly not understood the point in which I was trying to make. So let me break it down to you:

1. I have dated before, and found it to be meaningless. Your lawyer analogy was out of context, due to my lack of disclosure.

Again, I don't want to condescend, but 16 is a very young age to become jaded.

2. I know what I want, so stop trying to persuade me to give up what I want. Just because other people are waiting, does not mean that I will.
2A. I am not emotionally needy like those people. I simply know what type of person I would like to have a relationship with.

No offense, but you are coming across as needy - all this talk about broken hearts, and the fear of it, and the resentment...

They are either a) in a relationship or b) not looking because of the same reasons that I am and we are c) not compatible because of several varied reasons.

So, what are you doing about it?

3. Who says I think everything needs to be serious?

Again, you come across as it with this fear of getting your heart broken.

Hearts do not always have to be on the line, but most of the time, for most of my same-age peers, they are. I am simply recognizing that fact.

Fortunately, they, and hopefully you, will grow out of it.

I apologize, but the message I was receiving was that he should sleep around. I'd say it's a good thing to meet and date people. *Hopes his meeting tommorow turns out well.* It's just a shame that the only way I can really meet the people I'm interested in are via online personals...

Why is that?

Why is that?
Not everything needs to be within a relationship. Have some fun with flings, instead!

My interpretation of a "fling" is where you're not looking for a LTR, but rather I took it to mean a hook-up or one night stand.

Still, I don't believe you should enter a relationship unless your hoping for the long term. That is just me, however, and it is the way I work. You go on a few dates to get to know the person, and if you like them and see something more, then you enter into a relationship.

My interpretation of a "fling" is where you're not looking for a LTR, but rather I took it to mean a hook-up or one night stand.

Still, I don't believe you should enter a relationship unless your hoping for the long term. That is just me, however, and it is the way I work. You go on a few dates to get to know the person, and if you like them and see something more, then you enter into a relationship.

I meant, why can you only meet people through personals?

Again, you come across as it with this fear of getting your heart broken.



Fortunately, they, and hopefully you, will grow out of it.

Your assertion that I am needy is inaccurate. Yes, I do not want to get my heart broken again, but I am not scared if it happens. I've gone through it once, and am trying to avoid it again by choosing not to date until I can find a person that I can build a stable relationship with. In case you have not noticed, though I have said before, I FIND SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS TO BE POINTLESS. And I do not resent the fact that I have gotten my heart broken. I resent that it did happen, but not the fact. In case you don't understand that let me put it like this: I wish that it didn't happen, but it did, so I'm going to learn, and have done so, from it.

Your poor analyzation of me is, well. . . poor. Please refrain from doing it again, as you aren't very good at it. Furthermore, and I mean this in the most polite way, stop telling me to limit my emotional and psychological growth. You come across as an asshole who just wants to fuck around and wants everyone else to follow your example.

And please stop trying to dumb me down. I am a political science major (well, will be in a few months) and will go on to law school after I complete my second major in Criminal Justice. Your lack of comprehension to my reasons as to why I abstain from dating leads me to the following conclusion:

No reply to this is necessary, as you are not getting my point, and I am rejecting yours on the grounds that your argument is illogical and severely flawed for someone in my position. I will no longer reply to this message due to the fact that our lack of effective communication has not been corrected, even when faced with corrected and revised statements.

Peace, Love, and Serenity. . .
Orion-Antoni
Holy Emperor of Stransworthe

I meant, why can you only meet people through personals?

Oh, sorry. Well, I live in a fairly conservative city in the U.S. The only place that I can think of where you could meet someone would be at a gay club. I'm not into clubs, drag shows, etc. So if I don't go to gay clubs, the chance of me meeting another gay guy in real life goes down sharply. Althouh I had one boyfriend whom I had not met online... who happened to be my friend's brother.

Your assertion that I am needy is inaccurate. Yes, I do not want to get my heart broken again, but I am not scared if it happens. I've gone through it once, and am trying to avoid it again by choosing not to date until I can find a person that I can build a stable relationship with. In case you have not noticed, though I have said before, I FIND SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS TO BE POINTLESS. And I do not resent the fact that I have gotten my heart broken. I resent that it did happen, but not the fact. In case you don't understand that let me put it like this: I wish that it didn't happen, but it did, so I'm going to learn, and have done so, from it.

Your poor analyzation of me is, well. . . poor. Please refrain from doing it again, as you aren't very good at it. Furthermore, and I mean this in the most polite way, stop telling me to limit my emotional and psychological growth. You come across as an asshole who just wants to fuck around and wants everyone else to follow your example.

And please stop trying to dumb me down. I am a political science major (well, will be in a few months) and will go on to law school after I complete my second major in Criminal Justice. Your lack of comprehension to my reasons as to why I abstain from dating leads me to the following conclusion:

No reply to this is necessary, as you are not getting my point, and I am rejecting yours on the grounds that your argument is illogical and severely flawed for someone in my position. I will no longer reply to this message due to the fact that our lack of effective communication has not been corrected, even when faced with corrected and revised statements.

Whatever kid. I wish you the best, I hope you have a good laugh at all this "omg, but I am so grown up and I have so many plans and I know exactly what will happen" crap once you've grown up a little. Because your reaction here is not very grown-up at all.

As we say in Sweden: Ha det! (~ have a nice life)

Oh, sorry. Well, I live in a fairly conservative city in the U.S. The only place that I can think of where you could meet someone would be at a gay club. I'm not into clubs, drag shows, etc. So if I don't go to gay clubs, the chance of me meeting another gay guy in real life goes down sharply. Althouh I had one boyfriend whom I had not met online... who happened to be my friend's brother.

Any possibility of moving? Any desire to?

Any possibility of moving? Any desire to?

No real possibility of moving at the moment, I'm only 18 and commute to college. I don't really have a desire to move though, I have good friends here at the moment and enjoy my life. It's just a bit tougher to date. In the future, I may move, but I will... it all depends upon what both my state and country do towards the GLBTQ community. I'm hoping my state's amendment will be repealed in the future.

No real possibility of moving at the moment, I'm only 18 and commute to college. I don't really have a desire to move though, I have good friends here at the moment and enjoy my life. It's just a bit tougher to date. In the future, I may move, but I will... it all depends upon what both my state and country do towards the GLBTQ community. I'm hoping my state's amendment will be repealed in the future.

You say it's a conservative city. If you don't mind me asking, are you out? Is there a way to visit a mor liberal city from time to time?

You say it's a conservative city. If you don't mind me asking, are you out? Is there a way to visit a mor liberal city from time to time?

Yes I am out to both friends and family. There is a more liberal part of the city, but it tends to not be the best part of town either. I live in a rather Catholic area... there are a multitude of Catholic schools around here and I attended Catholic schools for 12 years of my life (I'm non-religious). And I live in Ohio (if you followed our election, red state surrounded by a good number of other red states). There is no real liberal city nearby, and I don't want to have to date someone that lives in another city... proximity is important when it comes to a working relationship. Personals work for me because I can meet guys and figure out if they live close to me and such.

Yes I am out to both friends and family. There is a more liberal part of the city, but it tends to not be the best part of town either. I live in a rather Catholic area... there are a multitude of Catholic schools around here and I attended Catholic schools for 12 years of my life (I'm non-religious). And I live in Ohio (if you followed our election, red state surrounded by a good number of other red states). There is no real liberal city nearby, and I don't want to have to date someone that lives in another city... proximity is important when it comes to a working relationship. Personals work for me because I can meet guys and figure out if they live close to me and such.

Oh, well, then I guess that it's good if it works for you. Just be safe! :)

Oh, well, then I guess that it's good if it works for you. Just be safe! :)

I do make sure I'm safe. Usually meet up in an area where people will end up being. Not smart to meet at the person's house. Tommorow we're going to meet at the mall and go from there :)

I do make sure I'm safe. Usually meet up in an area where people will end up being. Not smart to meet at the person's house. Tommorow we're going to meet at the mall and go from there :)

If you want, you can keep us (me) posted by posting what happened afterwards. *curious*

If you want, you can keep us (me) posted by posting what happened afterwards. *curious*

Well, I'm a rather dull story teller and it'll only be for maybe an hour and a half... it's after he gets off of school, but then he has to return for Show Choir later... but a meeting is better than none!