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today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

show me your boobs! that will cheer me up! As for for cheering you up, hmm maybe

I'm sorry. I know how that feels. Now that I'm homeschooled there's this like invisible barrier between my friends and I since I don't go to school with them anymore. :(

Life sucks sometimes, but usually gets eclipsed by the good things that eventually happen.

We think yer the cats meow, Tink - yer friends don't know what they're missing. Lucky us!

I know how you feel. You'll find new and better friends. I know I did.

http://www.transbuddha.com/osaka/osakaphone.html

*hums the tune*

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Holy shit, and I thought I was the only one who was treated this way. Hmm... Would Bratwurst cheer you up?

http://erfurt-web.fkpress.de/imageuploads/bratwurst.jpg

Holy shit, and I thought I was the only one who was treated this way. Hmm... Would Bratwurst cheer you up?

http://erfurt-web.fkpress.de/imageuploads/bratwurst.jpg

Making someone hungry isn't really cheering up :p

I know how you feel. You'll find new and better friends. I know I did.
i don't want new friends though, I've known some of them for 15 years now, we've grown up together, they've really helped me a lot

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Poor Tink *hugs*You'ver got real friends on NS. You'll be fine though, it will all work out for the best, trust me

i don't want new friends though, I've known some of them for 15 years now, we've grown up together, they've really helped me a lot

You can know a person most of your life and they'll turn on you just like that. You can't trust people who show no interest in you just because you don't participate in the same things any longer.

Think about it: Are they really your friends for doing that?

Us women like attention. Depriving us of it makes us vulnerable :p

You can know a person most of your life and they'll turn on you just like that. You can't trust people who show no interest in you just because you don't participate in the same things any longer.

Think about it: Are they really your friends for doing that?

Don't listen to him Tink. Just look at it this way. Maybe they just don't know what to talk to you about. A lot of their life revolves around school. You're not apart of that anymore.

Holy shit, and I thought I was the only one who was treated this way. Hmm... Would Bratwurst cheer you up?

http://erfurt-web.fkpress.de/imageuploads/bratwurst.jpg


LOL ya weiners! that aint suggesting nothin lol

LOL ya weiners! that aint suggesting nothin lol
Dude, shut up. She's upset, and turning to us for help. You aint helping none, what wit ur 'show me your boobs! that will cheer me up! As for for cheering you up, hmm maybe' comment. Twat

Don't listen to him Tink. Just look at it this way. Maybe they just don't know what to talk to you about. A lot of their life revolves around school. You're not apart of that anymore.

Well, it could be a different situation, but if those losers ditched me, they'd receive hell about it.

Look --- They should've at least offered her a ride home. There's ignoring somebody, and then there's leaving them in the dust.

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
why dont ya tell them how ya feel.

why dont ya tell them how ya feel.I think i probably will tomorrow

Tinksy! :fluffle:

Shit happens. Don't let it ruin your friendship. You need friends more than you will ever know.

I think i probably will tomorrow

Or maybe suck it up and get new friends, peops tend to outgrow highschool friends.

Tinksy! :fluffle:

Shit happens. Don't let it ruin your friendship. You need friends more than you will ever know.

LP's right, friends are the most important things you can have

why dont ya tell them how ya feel.
... that's a really good idea. I wonder why no one suggested that before. I guess if I know Tink (which I don't the slightest bit...), she would have already told em.

EDIT: Exnay on the 'Oldtay'...

Don't worry, they probaply feel sameway... sort of...
I mean your friends will realise what they lose if they let you go.
Now that your not in school with them they might find saying it akward...
But they will realise :) 15 years is alot :fluffle:

LP's right, friends are the most important things you can have
I know, that's why this hurts so much

I know, that's why this hurts so much

Hey, I know the feeling :fluffle: You'll be fine, you strike me as a tough girl

Tell them how it made you feel sweetie. It will give you some sense of relief just getting it off your chest. Perhaps they were caught up in the evenings celebration. Thats no excuse, because had I been there out on an evening with the girls, I'd have made certain everyone got to where they needed to be safely-even if that meant me joining up with the others later. I see how many friends you have on this site, and how many people care about you on here, I can imagine its the same, to the 10th power, in real life :) . Tell them how it made you feel and how you miss them. They will most likely give you a hug and make more of an effort to be better friends.

I think i probably will tomorrow


It sounds like its possible maybe they dont know you felt left out and upset? I wouldnt jump right into it with them as they may still be well intentioned and feel you're over reacting. Its likely they werent aware you were scared to travel alone.

1)Close your eyes

2)Inhale, deeply (5-10 seconds), through your nose

3)Hold the breath for just a second or two

4)Exhale very slowly through your mouth (should take 5-10 seconds)

You should begin to feel relaxed.

Once you have achieved relaxation, go buy some ice cream (or beer) and a comedy movie .. watch and eat.

Tell them how it made you feel sweetie. It will give you some sense of relied just getting it off your chest. Perhaps they were caught up in the evenings celebration. Thats no excuse, because had I been there out on an evening with the girls, I'd have made certain everyone got to where they needed to be safely-even if that meant me joining up with the others later. I see how many friends you have on this site, and how many people care about you on here, I can imagine its the same, to the 10th power, in real life :) . Tell them how it made you feel and how you miss them. They will most likely give you a hug and make more of an effort to be better friends.


and if that doesnt work...send them to me. ;)

As for cheering up: http://www-personal.engin.umich.edu/~coeprodv/stfu-noob.png

1)Close your eyes

2)Inhale, deeply (5-10 seconds), through your nose

3)Hold the breath for just a second or two

4)Exhale very slowly through your mouth (should take 5-10 seconds)

You should begin to feel relaxed.

Once you have achieved relaxation, go buy some ice cream (or beer) and a comedy movie .. watch and eat.
my nose is blocked and i have no money for ice cream (or chocolate which is what i really need right now) and even if i did, it's 11:15pm so all the shops are closed

As for cheering up: http://www-personal.engin.umich.edu/~coeprodv/stfu-noob.png

It's Domo-Kun!

my nose is blocked and i have no money for ice cream (or chocolate which is what i really need right now) and even if i did, it's 11:15pm so all the shops are closed

None in the house? It's just after Easter girl!

None in the house? It's just after Easter girl!
yeah, AFTER Easter, seriously, how long do you think chocolate lasts in a house of 10 people?!

yeah, AFTER Easter, seriously, how long do you think chocolate lasts in a house of 10 people?!

Yeesh! Two large chocolate cakes don't even last a day in my house, and it's only three people!

I'll cheer you up Tink. I just sent you a tg. :)

Shit! I forgot to mention you'll have to make or use a puppet. I would never ask you to leave your home. :)

yeah, AFTER Easter, seriously, how long do you think chocolate lasts in a house of 10 people?!
not very long im guessing

not very long im guessing
no, especially since 6 of them are female!

no, especially since 6 of them are female!

*head explodes*

*head explodes*
heheheh. "head" :D







sorry

no, especially since 6 of them are female!

wow, thats alot of females in one house. It's all square here

wow, thats alot of females in one house. It's all square here
not all of them are here all the time but they're constantly in and out, stealing all the chocolate :rolleyes:

Is this a consistant thing? As you've been directly slighted, you won't be seeing it objectively. If this is a one-off, try not to get too down about it; sometimes people just don't think, yanno? But if stuff like this is regular, then painful as it is to think about, you probably do need to at least broaden your scope of friends, if not leave the old circle entirely.

heheheh. "head" :D







sorry

How do you know that's not what I meant in the first place...?

:D

yeah, AFTER Easter, seriously, how long do you think chocolate lasts in a house of 10 people?!
Dayum. We're a family of 3.

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Sorry that happened, ill try to cheer you upclick here :) (http://www.superlaugh.com/1/smileback.htm)

Is this a consistant thing? As you've been directly slighted, you won't be seeing it objectively. If this is a one-off, try not to get too down about it; sometimes people just don't think, yanno? But if stuff like this is regular, then painful as it is to think about, you probably do need to at least broaden your scope of friends, if not leave the old circle entirely.
they hardly ever invite me out nowadays, I know i need to make some new friends but it isn't that easy, I'm not at college anymore and i don't have a job at the moment so i have nowhere to meet people

How do you know that's not what I meant in the first place...?

:D
Sorry to the ladies that I'm horribly offending :rolleyes:

they hardly ever invite me out nowadays, I know i need to make some new friends but it isn't that easy, I'm not at college anymore and i don't have a job at the moment so i have nowhere to meet people

Damn. I'm in the same spot as you are... Though I've been in it for seven years. I don't know what you might do to help things.

'Tis a very difficult situation.

Sorry that happened, ill try to cheer you upclick here :) (http://www.superlaugh.com/1/smileback.htm)
:)

my nose is blocked and i have no money for ice cream (or chocolate which is what i really need right now) and even if i did, it's 11:15pm so all the shops are closed

solution: eat some very spicy food... and blow your nose.

then go rob someone and grab the ice cream.

hehe

or... well here's a joke:

This guy walks into his psychiatrist's office wearing nothing but Saran-Wrap (cellophane) underwear.

The doctor walks in and says, "I can clearly see you're nuts."

or "your nuts" (much better when delivered orally)

Dayum. We're a family of 3.
my mum's engaged to a guy with 5 kids and she already has 3

my mum's engaged to a guy with 5 kids and she already has 3

Bloody hell

Well, the only thing I can think of right now is the rather lovely song I'm listening to right now.

www.thepaganfront.com/brangolf/sounds/Westerwald%20Marsch.mp3

It's the Westerwald Marsch, a record issued to German soldiers in WWII. It's about a particularly beautiful forest region in Germany.

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(Their loss... cheer up Tinks! :fluffle:

my mum's engaged to a guy with 5 kids and she already has 3

Wow! But I can beat you, I know a guy who has 11! children and maybe *crosses fingers* will have 3 more soon.

Tink read your telegram!

they hardly ever invite me out nowadays, I know i need to make some new friends but it isn't that easy, I'm not at college anymore and i don't have a job at the moment so i have nowhere to meet people

Yeah, I can sympathise. I'm not in college or employed either; I've just never been needing a great deal of company. I can get by with the friends I have, even though they are mostly thousands of miles away, but I wouldn't demand it of anyone else... =/ I don't really know what you could do, aside from take comfort in the people around here who seem very approving of you.

Aww! *huggles*

Tink, I'm sure if these gals know the Tink I know and care so much about it surely was an oversight! All the advice you could possibly want has already been given - so I'll shut my trap on that one... but heres some well deserved fluffle to cheer you up!

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Everybody loves Tink. And we all know it

:fluffle:

Come now, if the Westerwald Marsch cheers me up, it'll cheer you up!

It really is a wonderful song.

Oops, I'm meant to be cheering tink up... *blush*


My friends do that to me t oo. It's extremly irritataing, but it really is best if you tell them that it made you upset. It doesn't do you any good to hide it.

http://www.thelovemovie.com/
http://www.livejournal.com/users/maineman882/1173.html?mode=reply

Now I expect to hear giggling, k?

Peech and LP, you have telegrams.

Tinks, I knows your pain.
Over the last few years, my friends have got married and moved away, each in a different direction.

I've reached the decision to find some new friends, I'm going to try a gym and the OU.

I will never give up my old friends as we have been through a lot, But I know that if thew need me I will help, and I think they feel the same. It's just tough when you dont get to see them for 6-12 months.

I have found that NS helps. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: I hope things get better for you soon. :fluffle: :fluffle:

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
aw i didn't see this yesterday... u feeling any better tink? that sucks, i know how you feel cos i used to get that a lot with my friends too :(

aw i didn't see this yesterday... u feeling any better tink? that sucks, i know how you feel cos i used to get that a lot with my friends too :(
yeah, I'm ok now, I'm off to the Connexions centre in a sec for some careers advice so i'll be one step closer to getting out of this dump and making new friends

yeah, I'm ok now, I'm off to the Connexions centre in a sec for some careers advice so i'll be one step closer to getting out of this dump and making new friends

Go for it.

good luck Tinks, Ill just say of all my friends I had at school I now see 3 of them. A girl like you will find many friends. I would paint all your current ones with the same brush, many of the people I know are complete jerks when they are togeather in a group but alone they are still really nice people, perhaps try a smaller group

yeah, I'm ok now, I'm off to the Connexions centre in a sec for some careers advice so i'll be one step closer to getting out of this dump and making new friends
yay! so i guess you've decided to move city for uni?

As for cheering up: http://www-personal.engin.umich.edu/~coeprodv/stfu-noob.png
now THAT's what I think is funny! :)

As for the cheering up part, no I'mfeelingdown-thread can go without the cheerleaders, I'll go and fedge them.

Edit: voila: http://www.seventh-dayadventism.com/ubb/cheerleader.gif You go, girlfriend! http://www.seventh-dayadventism.com/ubb/cheerleader.gif

I don't hate you as much as I do most people, does that help?













Pay no attention to anything posted by this woman tonight- she's being a psycho bitch.
Signed_Bubba, the typing cat.

*pats bubba*

yay! so i guess you've decided to move city for uni?
yep, and the Connexions people were so nice and helpful! the woman spent like an hour talking to me and helping me

yep, and the Connexions people were so nice and helpful! the woman spent like an hour talking to me and helping me
where you going for uni? any ideas?

where you going for uni? any ideas?
i'm not sure yet, it depends where there's still places left for this September if there is anywhere

yep, and the Connexions people were so nice and helpful! the woman spent like an hour talking to me and helping me
:)

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

I guess social groups are double edged swords, you're in vogue or out of fashion. Real friends should respect you irrespective of social circles.

At least you have friends here to :fluffle: you. :fluffle:

i'm not sure yet, it depends where there's still places left for this September if there is anywhere
Australia? :D

:fluffle:

i'm not sure yet, it depends where there's still places left for this September if there is anywhere

Gd luck to you anyway, im not sure about uni places. There should be some places left

Australia? :D

:fluffle:
lol, no, it's gotta be in the UK so the NHS will pay for it

lol, no, it's gotta be in the UK so the NHS will pay for it
Awwww damn. Cos if you were here we could have some fun ;)

Australia? :D

:fluffle:
Adelaide?

*slaps Tink on the ass and gives her a cookie*

Feel better?

Oh ... well that's all I got.

Awwww damn. Cos if you were here we could have some fun ;)

Tut tut Spaam

lol, no, it's gotta be in the UK so the NHS will pay for it
damn :(

*slaps Tink on the ass and gives her a cookie*

Feel better?

Oh ... well that's all I got.
oooooooooooooooo! cookie! yay! :fluffle:

*Sigh* Just be glad you've got friends. I'm all alone, all the time... :(

But I don't care. :D

I've just developed a general loathing for the world, thats all. :mad:

*Sigh* Just be glad you've got friends. I'm all alone, all the time... :(

But I don't care. :D

I've just developed a general loathing for the world, thats all. :mad:
Ah, a kindred soul. You get used to it, no?

Sorry, Tink. That's never any fun...

Sometimes large groups are like that - people kinda get lost. See how things are one-on-one with your friend. I bet it'll be completely different!

-zhukov

Ah, a kindred soul. You get used to it, no?

Loneliness is easy to cope with when you've gone through it for over 5-6 years. But according to my shrink, it's started me down the path to utter madness... :eek:

I don't think so. I'm just very active.

Loneliness is easy to cope with when you've gone through it for over 5-6 years. But according to my shrink, it's started me down the path to utter madness... :eek:

I don't think so. I'm just very active.

I've needed to see a shrink, and hope I never have to. And Moleland has already driven me insane

I've needed to see a shrink, and hope I never have to. And Moleland has already driven me insane

Its been 3 years since I last saw the shrink. I never want to go again.

Its been 3 years since I last saw the shrink. I never want to go again.

Exactly *bars the way* Now you can't

Off the topic slighly, i aspire to become a shrink as i love seeing the effect soving issues has on people. Back on the topic i'd be most be most happy to chat to you about this or whatever you want TINK as i think it really does help to just have a general chat every so often. So feel free to email me or add me to your msn list my email is miscreanthatchling@hotmail.com. I'm a 17 year old male living in Australia, always happy to lend an ear.

Good karma to you TINK

Off the topic slighly, i aspire to become a shrink as i love seeing the effect soving issues has on people. Back on the topic i'd be most be most happy to chat to you about this or whatever you want TINK as i think it really does help to just have a general chat every so often. So feel free to email me or add me to your msn list my email is miscreanthatchling@hotmail.com. I'm a 17 year old male living in Australia, always happy to lend an ear.

Good karma to you TINK
I would like to also make this offer only read 21 instead of 17

Off the topic slighly, i aspire to become a shrink as i love seeing the effect soving issues has on people. Back on the topic i'd be most be most happy to chat to you about this or whatever you want TINK as i think it really does help to just have a general chat every so often. So feel free to email me or add me to your msn list my email is miscreanthatchling@hotmail.com. I'm a 17 year old male living in Australia, always happy to lend an ear.

Good karma to you TINK
17 year old male Aussie.........perfect.............http://67.18.37.16/1381/85/emo/shiftyeyes.gif

I would like to also make this offer only read 21 instead of 17
22! I win!

But yeah... you know you can always tlak to me babes :)

17 year old male Aussie.........perfect.............http://67.18.37.16/1381/85/emo/shiftyeyes.gif

Oh Tinky life sucks. You just have to get used to it like I do. I'm the ultimate in pathetic. 19 year old virgin, ugly, spotty back, and rather short for my age.

Yet I'm still (Most of the time) Cheerful and happy! Because I still have people to talk to! :D

Oh Tinky life sucks. You just have to get used to it like I do. I'm the ultimate in pathetic.
Bullshit, bullshit aaaaaand bullshit

Bullshit, bullshit aaaaaand bullshit

Is that your lunch menu? :D

Better not ask for the wine list...

Is that your lunch menu? :D

Better not ask for the wine list...
Yesterday I had horseshit :p

Yesterday I had horseshit :p

Oh come on you know nothing beats a good plate of horse droppings...

Oh come on you know nothing beats a good plate of horse droppings...
I did have to put them in the microwave oven. I hate it when they're cold. YUK!

22! I win!

But yeah... you know you can always tlak to me babes :)
meh I was 21 yesterday

i don't want new friends though, I've known some of them for 15 years now, we've grown up together, they've really helped me a lot


I'm sorry to hear about the way you were treated. I've had certain friends for more than 15 yrs and haven't seen them in years and know I will never see them again... We've grown our separate ways, etc. It's how it goes, I guess...

However, I have a feeling you are much younger than me, and at a younger age, ESPECIALLY in a situation like you went through, it's much more painful. I guess growing apart over years (people getting married, moving around the country for jobs, etc.) is inevitable sometimes, but isn't quite the same as being WITH them and treated like that. That's just mean.

:fluffle: :fluffle: anyway... Hope you feel better...

TINK!!!! (http://www.m90.org/view_image.php?image_id=1471) Well, it would have cheered me up if I was sad. Of course, I just had 24 oz. of Mt. Dew and six pieces of chocolate.

meh I was 21 yesterday

My GOD! I could be your MOTHER!!!! Are you all teenagers here??? :eek:

My GOD! I could be your MOTHER!!!! Are you all teenagers here??? :eek:
Not all, but a lot. I'm 20

Sorry about that, Tink... I've been the perpetrator and the "victim", so I know how you feel. but then I outgrew my childish ways... almost.

Anyway :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: to the Queen of :fluffle:

My GOD! I could be your MOTHER!!!! Are you all teenagers here??? :eek:

Doesn't that thought just cheer you up? Don't worry, you're not the only "motherly" presence here...

Doesn't that thought just cheer you up? Don't worry, you're not the only "motherly" presence here...

Heheheh... At least I don't look like anyone's mother! :D

Heheheh... At least I don't look like anyone's mother! :D
don't be too sure

<.<
>.>
<.<

Heheheh... At least I don't look like anyone's mother! :D

Neither do I according to Peeches. Besides, i've been wanting to pull a Mrs. Robinson for some time...

Neither do I according to Peeches. Besides, i've been wanting to pull a Mrs. Robinson for some time...
*jumps up and down hands waving excitedly*

Oh, sorry, we're supposed to be cheering up tink, aren't we?

Neither do I according to Peeches. Besides, i've been wanting to pull a Mrs. Robinson for some time...

lol! I don't have that option. Mr. Hype would get a little ticked @ me if I tried that! However, he has given me permission add another husband if he has a lot of $$$$$~! :D

My GOD! I could be your MOTHER!!!! Are you all teenagers here??? :eek:

Just for the record, I'm a 16 yr old Brit bloke

*jumps up and down hands waving excitedly*

Oh, sorry, we're supposed to be cheering up tink, aren't we?

We've been doing that for ages, unless she's still really upset?

I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much


Aww... Poor TInk. :(

Well, you've always got us here to talk to, and we'll always listen and be there for you. Someone here suggested you should tell those friends of yours how you feel, that their behaviour hurt you. If they're real friends, they'll apologise, and from there on your friendship can hopefully be mended. I'd give it a try if I were you.

Just because of what they did, doesn't mean they're no longer your friends, or that they don't care for you. Everyone can be insensitive at times, and not realise they're hurting people they care for, especially if you're in a group with several people. Don't read too much into it. If, as you say, they've been your friends for a long time and they've seen you through some hard times, then obviously they care about you. Think back on the good times you've had with them, and the things they've done for you; don't let one bad day spoil it all for you. Just try talking to them, or even just going out somwhere fun with them again soon, and see what happens.

Anyway, that's just my advice, for what it's worth. And if you need cheering up, you'll always find us here for you. We all love you. *hugs TInk*

Oh, and here's a silly clown smiley (http://www.ttballoons.com/smileyclownbig.jpg) to cheer you up.

Hope you're feeling better Tink - and if not, I hope this helps...

*takes tink by the small of her back and gently guides her towards his body... the sounds of 'Thunder Road' came on... and he began to dance with her...*

For the good times :fluffle:

Tink, I don't really know you, all I can tell you, is that, w/out making this about me as much as I can... Life will have some seriously painful ups and downs. Life can be perfect, then... SLAM! I won't go on. You will get through this. I see your s/n all over the place and it seems you have MANY MANY friends online and you seem like a very nice, fun person, as far as I can tell and from what I've read from others.

I PROMISE YOU ON MY LIFE that in time (how much I don't know), this will pass. It will be a painful period of time, and after many years, there will still likely be a period of occasional melancholy and nostalgia on and off, but you will get thru this, and from what I've seen of your personality, you will get through it well... and make many new friends... I don't know if you're in high school or college, but if you haven't hit college yet, it will likely be one of the most wonderful experiences you'll ever go thru. High school was a drag, college was so much fun I almost didn't make it from all the "fun"! :p After that, you will grow apart from many of your best friends, based on geographical changes, marriages, children, and general lifestyle changes. What someone was in high school is NOTHING like what they are 10 years later. You'll hurt now... I think you'll do fine and you'll get thru the pain... I didn't know you were in G.B. I have a few friends across the pond actually...

Wow this is turning into a novel with many tangents. So I'll stop now and just say, you're going to do great... I know it! You take care of yourselves... and if I were you, (and not everyone is as confrontational as I am), I'd ask my "so called" friends what the HELL was up when you went out and why you were treated as such.... Yeah... I could have said this all in one breath too... I talk FAST!!! :D

I trust you're going to do great! Trust that yourself, even thru the pain! :)

Stupid last thought... if their was no pain, you wouldn't know what enjoyment and happiness were! ;) OK ...Dorky, but you know what I mean... and I've hit the very very very bottom of the spectrum many times in my life, and the top as well...

You deserve some of these: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

And to those who yell... "Get over it"... It's a slightly less sensitive way of, in my opinion, saying "I've been thru things and I got over it", so you can too. It won't happen in a day... but you have a loooong future girl!!! :)

Just for the record, I'm a 16 yr old Brit bloke



We've been doing that for ages, unless she's still really upset?
nah, i've been happy for the past 24 hours or so, i get over things pretty quickly lol

nah, i've been happy for the past 24 hours or so, i get over things pretty quickly lol

Consider yourself lucky. At least you didn't get severely cut by glass, which required stitches...!

Consider yourself lucky. At least you didn't get severely cut by glass, which required stitches...!
ouch! what happened?

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=409194

Read and find out!

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=409194

Read and find out!
awwwwwwwww, poor baby :(



:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Meh, I'll get better.

Hey thread starter,

What do Arab armies call their soldiers?

Jihad Joes

you know what ya need tink?

FLUFFLE ORGY!!!! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

nah, i've been happy for the past 24 hours or so, i get over things pretty quickly lol

There you go. Mission accomplished

Hey thread starter,

What do Arab armies call their soldiers?

Jihad Joes
the name's Tink and I very nearly laughed at that! :p


:fluffle: :fluffle:

you know what ya need tink?

FLUFFLE ORGY!!!! <snip>
you are sooooooooooooooo right!

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

hmmm.... fluffle orgy.... scary people

<snip>
'cause everyone likes a goof fluffle orgy!

I also moved schools and I remain close with really only two peoplw, so don't feel to badly about it, I'm sure you'll make plenty of friends at the new school. Especially if you're as sweet in life as you are online.

the name's Tink and I very nearly laughed at that! :p


:fluffle: :fluffle:

Thanks Tink. I know it's a really bad joke but it cheered me up when I saw it.

Thanks Tink. I know it's a really bad joke but it cheered me up when I saw it.

You'll get to know Tink in time. Everybody does. Your the first April 05 Nation I've seen this morning - welcome

You'll get to know Tink in time. Everybody does. Your the first April 05 Nation I've seen this morning - welcome
March '05, but moving on. . .

March '05, but moving on. . .
it's April

Yeah, it says April '05.

Thanks Tink. I know it's a really bad joke but it cheered me up when I saw it.april 05... does this make you an April's Fool? ;)

Doesn't that thought just cheer you up? Don't worry, you're not the only "motherly" presence here...

Well could I be the father? ;) (I'm 36)

Well could I be the father? ;) (I'm 36)
:eek: you could be my father!

*Paa Hoo... Paa Hoo * (in an Impersonation of James Earl Jones) Join him Tinks... and together you two can rule the Galaxy...

*Paa Hoo... Paa Hoo * (in an Impersonation of James Earl Jones) Join him Tinks... and together you two can rule the Galaxy...

It has been forseen by the Moderators. Together none could stop us.
The Fluffle is strong in you, use the power of the :fluffle:

Or do you fancy being my E-Daughter?

Hope you feel better now, Tinky! :)

It has been forseen by the Moderators. Together none could stop us.
The Fluffle is strong in you, use the power of the :fluffle:

Or do you fancy being my E-Daughter?
i'll be your e-daughter if Peechy doesn't mind, i mean she is my e-mummy so she sorta has to have some say in it

Hope you feel better now, Tinky! :)
I do indeedy!


:fluffle: :fluffle:

today was my bestest best friend in the whole world (supposedly), Ellen's birthday, so we went to the cinema and a meal to celebrate, it was horrible, I spent the entire time feeling invisible, i was completely ignored the whole time and then the best bit was at the end of the evening when i found out i wouldn't be able to get a lift back off my friend Hana because she, and everyone else there was going back to Ellen's house afterwards to stay over, so i had to go get a bus, from Blackpool town centre (not the safest place in the world), in a skirt, at 10pm, without a phone cause the battery had died, on my own! they didn't even come with me and make sure i got on the bus safely! they just left me! I feel like I'm being pushed out because i don't go to school with them anymore and it really hurts, these people have got me through some difficult times and I just miss having them as my friends so much

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

That sucks!

i'll be your e-daughter if Peechy doesn't mind, i mean she is my e-mummy so she sorta has to have some say in it

Sounds Good.
Any thing I can do as your e-dad, just ask.
I have a long history of femail family and friends, so sound advice is available on everything from Clothes and shoes to university.

nah, i've been happy for the past 24 hours or so, i get over things pretty quickly lol

So have we been making all these efforts for nothing, or did we at least help cheer you up a little? ;)

Here, have a :fluffle: to stay happy.

So have we been making all these efforts for nothing, or did we at least help cheer you up a little? ;)

Here, have a :fluffle: to stay happy.
you cheered me up a little


:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Here Tinks, Have a Hug off you selfproclaimed e-dad.
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

have some hugs from you #1 e-hubby too :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

have some hugs from you #1 e-hubby too :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
yays! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Glad to see your better Tink...

Jeez Tink youve had a rough time lately and due to Daylight savings i miss out on your posts till a couple of days after they happen! :(

Have some Hugs offf your self proclaimed E-Stalker!
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
Why dont you go to school with them anymore?

Jeez Tink youve had a rough time lately and due to Daylight savings i miss out on your posts till a couple of days after they happen! :(

Have some Hugs offf your self proclaimed E-Stalker!
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
Why dont you go to school with them anymore?

Yo! Harlesburg.

Nice to see you again.

Jeez Tink youve had a rough time lately and due to Daylight savings i miss out on your posts till a couple of days after they happen! :(

Have some Hugs offf your self proclaimed E-Stalker!
<snip>
Why dont you go to school with them anymore?
I've left school, they've carried on

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

I've left school, they've carried on

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Guess that's a simple answer

:fluffle:
Happy Easter Tink ;)

Guess that's a simple answer

:fluffle:
Happy Easter Tink ;)
HAPPY EASTER! :fluffle:


i ran out of credit yesterday btw, that's why i didn't text you back

Jeez Tink youve had a rough time lately and due to Daylight savings i miss out on your posts till a couple of days after they happen! :(

Have some Hugs offf your self proclaimed E-Stalker!
:fluffle:

Easy there, E-dad's around, I have non of that stalking around here. :D

BTW; moleman, I love your sig today :cool:

Yo! Harlesburg.

Nice to see you again.
Right back at cha im sure your sig is funny i didnt look yet!

I've left school, they've carried on
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
What like a Beuaty school Drop out?
Or like your older and at that Uni you were talking aout?
Or was it College argh! :confused:

Right back at cha im sure your sig is funny i didnt look yet!

You looked now?

HAPPY EASTER! :fluffle:


i ran out of credit yesterday btw, that's why i didn't text you back

Don't fret... I only have talk time left... I've used up all my texts ALREADY... Dam TIN...

:fluffle:

Bye now.

You looked now?

Don't fret... I only have talk time left... I've used up all my texts ALREADY... Dam TIN...
:fluffle:
Bye now.

Pay monthly, if you use a lot of credit you might find it cheaper. I do :D only £80 per month now.

Easy there, E-dad's around, I have non of that stalking around here. :D

BTW; moleman, I love your sig today :cool:
Eh ive got no reason to live so BRING IT MO FO!
MWHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Right back at cha im sure your sig is funny i didnt look yet!

What like a Beuaty school Drop out?
Or like your older and at that Uni you were talking aout?
Or was it College argh! :confused:
college

Eh ive got no reason to live so BRING IT MO FO!
MWHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


*Makes call to Mossad*

college
And of course College is the back end of High School!
So why are you Older?(I dont want a smart arsed Answer)


You looked now? Yes very funny! (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)

*Makes call to Mossad*
What the Isreali Inteligence Agency. :confused:
I ll kick their arse too bloody Kidnappers and Milk defilers and Passport stealers! :mp5: :mp5: :gundge: :mp5: :sniper: :mp5: :gundge:

And of course College is the back end of High School!
So why are you Older?(I dont want a smart arsed Answer)

Yes very funny! (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)
i'm not older

Pay monthly, if you use a lot of credit you might find it cheaper. I do :D only £80 per month now.

I do pay monthly, I used up all 100 texts in 3 days...

And of course College is the back end of High School!
So why are you Older?(I dont want a smart arsed Answer)

Yes very funny! (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v630/harlesburg/Jokey1.bmp)

That's one o0f my best ones.

College is after secondary school, and before uni.

I do pay monthly, I used up all 100 texts in 3 days...
on to the wap email then :D

Fine... whatever you say.

Note to self. Shut up see U Jimmy!

I do pay monthly, I used up all 100 texts in 3 days...
you only get 100 texts in a month?! i get more than that for free on orange

you only get 100 texts in a month?! i get more than that for free on orange

Yeah, but you ahve to be in credit. I also get 100 minutes a month...

(Go on TNE forums)

:fluffle:

Yeah, but you ahve to be in credit. I also get 100 minutes a month...

(Go on TNE forums)

:fluffle:
I only need like a penny of credit


(no, i'm too lazy :p)

:fluffle:

I only need like a penny of credit


(no, i'm too lazy :p)

:fluffle:

(:( Don't have my MSN address then)

So!

*Cries in nearest corner*

(:( Don't have my MSN address then)

So!

*Cries in nearest corner*
why can't you just add me?

why can't you just add me?

Oh wait... How foolish...

Didn't think of that....

*Sings to self 'Your an idiot, A real stupid idiot....'*

That's one o0f my best ones.

College is after secondary school, and before uni.
Yeah Tink told me in a TG but i dont understand right now why they aint at the same school!

Yeah Tink told me in a TG but i dont understand right now why they aint at the same school!
my friends all want careers that involve going to college then university first, to be a nurse i don't have to go to college, I can go straight to uni a year early so i left college so i don't go to college with my friends

sorry to go completely off the topic, but has anyone seen moleland around here... im trying to sacrifice him and he keeps on escaping :mad:

sorry to go completely off the topic, but has anyone seen moleland around here... im trying to sacrifice him and he keeps on escaping :mad:
lol :p

yay its summer at last (well, summer-ish...warm & sunny)... i'm in a good mood :fluffle: :fluffle:

be back later :)

*Looks up!*

Oh no!

*Digs another hole*

'SUCKER!!!!'

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=390855

lol :p

yay its summer at last (well, summer-ish...warm & sunny)... i'm in a good mood :fluffle: :fluffle:

be back later :)you have warmth!? drive here and pick me up now bitch!

my friends all want careers that involve going to college then university first, to be a nurse i don't have to go to college, I can go straight to uni a year early so i left college so i don't go to college with my friends
Ah well the world needs female nurses!
Dont need Career Women! :mad:

sorry to go completely off the topic, but has anyone seen moleland around here... im trying to sacrifice him and he keeps on escaping
You have been Reported on! :p

Maybe this will help, Tink. Relationships are either for a season, reason or lifetime. It's not always easy to tell which category they fall into. But perhaps the season is over with these particular friends.

Maybe this will help, Tink. Relationships are either for a season, reason or lifetime. It's not always easy to tell which category they fall into. But perhaps the season is over with these particular friends.
Yeah Tink play your cards right and youll end up with no friends like me!!!!!!

And with that im off to bed! ;)

Maybe this will help, Tink. Relationships are either for a season, reason or lifetime. It's not always easy to tell which category they fall into. But perhaps the season is over with these particular friends.well i'll probably be moving away in September anyway so I can make new friends

Where you moving?

well i can put 4 unis on my application form, so i think i'm going for:

Buckinghamshire
Northampton
De Montfort
Bristol

EDIT: P.S. anyone know how to get superglue off of skin?

Erm... Jump into a pool of lava?

Works for me.

Or wash it... throughly...

It peels off eventually....

P.S. anyone know how to get superglue off of skin?

Warm water and scrubbing normally does it... Otherwise, it should come off easily when it dries, but I imagine you'd want it off now. ;)

well i can put 4 unis on my application form, so i think i'm going for:

Buckinghamshire
Northampton
De Montfort
Bristol

EDIT: P.S. anyone know how to get superglue off of skin?
yay Bristol! that's only an hour away from Cardiff... as opposed to 3 and a half to Blackpool :) ;)

well i can put 4 unis on my application form, so i think i'm going for:

Buckinghamshire
Northampton
De Montfort
Bristol

EDIT: P.S. anyone know how to get superglue off of skin?
P.S.Yeah i hate it when you reach for the moisturiser and grab the Super Glue!

Scrubbing does the trick!

EDIT: P.S. anyone know how to get superglue off of skin?


Fingernail polish remover used to work anyway, not sure if that still works (haven't glued any of my body parts in a long time), but if you have sensitive skin probably better to let it come off on its own once you lose that layer of skin.