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"You are what you love, not what loves you"

Heiligkeit
23-03-2005, 02:55
"you are what you love, not what loves you"
Adaptation

Do you agree with this quote from the movie Adaptation?
Pablo The Squirrel
23-03-2005, 03:03
"you are what you love, not what loves you"
Adaptation

Do you agree with this quote from the movie Adaptation?


First I am what I eat, now i am what I love...

I eat Nuts... because I love Nuts...

I must be nuts?
Gataway_Driver
23-03-2005, 03:16
either way you have split personality disorder
Zouloukistan
23-03-2005, 03:28
What on all the Earth does that mean????
Pablo The Squirrel
23-03-2005, 03:28
either way you have split personality disorder

you're never alone with MPD
Cannot think of a name
23-03-2005, 03:34
As it was set up in the movie it was a pretty poinient moment and a clear and well earned insight to the character, or the lesson of the filmmaker.

The filmmaker had painted himself into a corner with his self-doubt about whether or not people liked his work and by extension, him. He had seperated himself from the artist, the part of him that didn't care, that was soo sure that what he did was good that he never doubted it for a second, manifested in the twin Kaufman. In the final act of the movie, where he has let that element take over (notice that the last third of the movie contains all of the things the twin had advocated and Charlie had rejected) he realizes that his work isn't valued in who loves it but how much love he puts into it.

Wow, that was craptacular....D-, anyway, you all get the idea....
ElleDiamonique
23-03-2005, 03:36
As it was set up in the movie it was a pretty poinient moment and a clear and well earned insight to the character, or the lesson of the filmmaker.

The filmmaker had painted himself into a corner with his self-doubt about whether or not people liked his work and by extension, him. He had seperated himself from the artist, the part of him that didn't care, that was soo sure that what he did was good that he never doubted it for a second, manifested in the twin Kaufman. In the final act of the movie, where he has let that element take over (notice that the last third of the movie contains all of the things the twin had advocated and Charlie had rejected) he realizes that his work isn't valued in who loves it but how much love he puts into it.

Wow, that was craptacular....D-, anyway, you all get the idea....

Oh, now I understand.
Thank you!
Eutrusca
23-03-2005, 03:37
"you are what you love, not what loves you"
Adaptation

Do you agree with this quote from the movie Adaptation?
So I'm one of my own grandchildren??? :eek:
Bottle
23-03-2005, 03:48
"you are what you love, not what loves you"
Adaptation

Do you agree with this quote from the movie Adaptation?
no. what you love and what loves you are both aspects of who and what you are, but your being cannot be summed up with either.
Potaria
23-03-2005, 03:52
I agree with it completely.
Oksana
23-03-2005, 03:57
No, I'd have to disagree. You are what loves you just as much what you love.
Willamena
23-03-2005, 04:02
What on all the Earth does that mean????
Maybe we have to see the movie to find out.
Oksana
23-03-2005, 04:20
What on all the Earth does that mean????

I thought of the effects the people that love you have on you and the effects the people that you love have on you. I figured that you love the people that love you, but that the person who you love does not love you back. In this case, I thought of family for the first part and someone you sought after for the second. So the question basically is are you the result of influences from those who love you, or those you love?
Willamena
23-03-2005, 04:41
...but that the person who loves you does not love you back.
That makes no sense. If they love you, they love you.
Ralina
23-03-2005, 05:42
I think the acceptance of this quote will vary greatly from individualistic to collective cultures. I happen to think that you love what you are, and your attitudes can be formed from your actions.
Harlesburg
23-03-2005, 11:33
Good thing i never watched the movie!
Id have to say only others affection makes you the person you are!
Kejott
23-03-2005, 11:35
Yes, I TOTALLY agree with it. You are defined by your own characteristics, not by the people around you. Unless of course you are talking about family members who have raised you since birth, because you most likely have assimilated some of their mannerisms.
Oksana
23-03-2005, 11:38
That makes no sense. If they love you, they love you.

but that the person who you love does not love you back.]

Sorry, I fixed it.
The Alma Mater
23-03-2005, 11:49
no. what you love and what loves you are both aspects of who and what you are, but your being cannot be summed up with either.

Agreed. Example:
If I love a girl more than anything, give her attention and presents etc and she loves me back I am a happy lover.
If I love a girl more than anything, give her attention and presents etc and she fears me and wants me to go away i am a stalker.