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It's not that women don't like "Nice Guys"...they just hate whiners!

Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:05
It's been said before, but bears repeating.

Talk amongst yourselves.
Iztatepopotla
24-02-2005, 23:06
Ha! So true.
Pure Metal
24-02-2005, 23:08
whine whine whine!

*whines some more*
Vittos Ordination
24-02-2005, 23:08
But..but...but, I am a really nice guy. :(
New Sancrosanctia
24-02-2005, 23:10
It's been said before, but bears repeating.

Talk amongst yourselves.
this is a fact. and the reason all of these "just friends" guys remain as such is because they never address their desire. at least, not up front. OH and here's a question, sin, where exactly is "female, canada"? :D
Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:10
But..but...but, I am a really nice guy. :(
My crush on my mental image of you is dead. Dead I say!
Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:12
this is a fact. and the reason all of these "just friends" guys remain as such is because they never address their desire. at least, not up front. OH and here's a question, sin, where exactly is "female, canada"? :D
It's wherever I happen to be, population of 1:)! No, I was sick of being assumed to be male all the time.

"Har har Sinuhue...don't you think women are just slutty bitches? Har har."
*smack*
"No, not particularly, dumbass."
New Sancrosanctia
24-02-2005, 23:14
It's wherever I happen to be, population of 1:)! No, I was sick of being assumed to be male all the time.

"Har har Sinuhue...don't you think women are just slutty bitches? Har har."
*smack*
"No, not particularly, dumbass."
wait, you don't think women are just slutty bitches? wow. my crush on my mental image of you is dead. :fluffle:
Vittos Ordination
24-02-2005, 23:17
My crush on my mental image of you is dead. Dead I say!

Ha! I don't play second fiddle to some Canadian comedian anyway.
Ashmoria
24-02-2005, 23:17
SOOO true

women like strong confident men who treat them well. a good man who doesnt whine and doesnt let other people walk all over him.
Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:18
wait, you don't think women are just slutty bitches? wow. my crush on my mental image of you is dead. :fluffle:
Sorry. I just think men are slutty bitches.

Ha!

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Katganistan
24-02-2005, 23:19
I know. I'm engaged to a nice guy. He doesn't whine. :)
Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:19
Ha! I don't play second fiddle to some Canadian comedian anyway.
Good. Rick Mercer doesn't play the fiddle, so you'd be a little on your own there.
New Sancrosanctia
24-02-2005, 23:20
Sorry. I just think men are slutty bitches.

Ha!

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we are. there's nothin wrong with that.
Sinuhue
24-02-2005, 23:21
I know. I'm engaged to a nice guy. He doesn't whine. :)
Wha....I though Kag was a GUY....wait...maybe he is...or she isn't...damn, and I didn't like people assuming MY gender...I'm confused!
Bodhis
24-02-2005, 23:21
I know. I'm engaged to a nice guy. He doesn't whine. :)

Is he Italian? ;)
Bodhis
24-02-2005, 23:21
I know. I'm engaged to a nice guy. He doesn't whine. :)

Is he Italian? ;)
Vittos Ordination
24-02-2005, 23:58
Good. Rick Mercer doesn't play the fiddle, so you'd be a little on your own there.

I can play both rhythm and lead fiddle. All while playing the harmonica, so I don't need Rick Mercer.
North Island
25-02-2005, 00:07
Many women are with guys that are total a**holes when they are at a younger age like 18-22 or something like that but end up with the "nice guys" at the end. Don't worry, she will come around, hang in there but act tuff from time to time. Don't allways say Yes if she asks you to do something for her.
P.S. If you guys are at a club or something like that go to her and dance with her, if some other guy is dancing with her give him a litle push away.
Teh Cameron Clan
25-02-2005, 00:11
:fluffle: i dont whine...in fact a hardly even talk :P...that might be the reason...
Luporum
25-02-2005, 00:11
I don't whine about never getting a girl or that the girl I like goes out with some scumbag. I just take solice in knowing that at any given moment I could kill that scumbag with my barehands, and it's even better when they know it too. :)

There's a price to pay for being the "nice guy" if you don't like it, be an asshole it's really not that hard.
OceanDrive
25-02-2005, 01:42
...Don't allways say Yes if she asks you to do something for her.
WTF :confused:

You guys kidding?
The Plutonian Empire
25-02-2005, 01:50
Are you talking about Nice Guys (tm), or nice guys?
North Island
25-02-2005, 02:10
WTF :confused:

You guys kidding?

What? Do you want to see him become a slave to this girl?
Preebles
25-02-2005, 02:15
I know. I'm engaged to a nice guy. He doesn't whine.
Me too. Isn't it great? :D *wallows in loveyness*

What? Do you want to see him become a slave to this girl?
Well generally if you care about someone you do things for them unless they're unreasonable... It should never be a game of tactics.
OceanDrive
25-02-2005, 02:20
What? Do you want to see him become a slave to this girl?
well he made it sound as if he slaves 90% of the time.

I would not do that even for my own Family.
North Island
25-02-2005, 02:23
Well generally if you care about someone you do things for them unless they're unreasonable... It should never be a game of tactics.

Yes, very true and I agree with you but what I meant was that this girl he likes is with another guy, a real a**hole, and they don't get along and he said that he was a "nice guy" and was friends with her. She is not blind and sees that he likes her, most girls see it, and gets ideas like can you pick me and X up from down town or can you do this and that etc. Using him.
Beat her at her own game, say no from time to time and then she will see that you dont let other people walk all over you and you stand your ground, just maybe if he does that she might get interested. Thats all.
Cannot think of a name
25-02-2005, 02:23
It's been said before, but bears repeating.

Talk amongst yourselves.
B-but whhhhhyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?????












.....validate me




I can't imagine why a chick wouldn't want to to date someone who's fragile self-image hinges on her every minutia. Sounds like a blast.......


oh, wait....what's that other word?
Preebles
25-02-2005, 02:26
Yes, very true and I agree with you but what I meant was that this girl he likes is with another guy, a real a**hole, and they don't get along and he said that he was a "nice guy" and was friends with her. She is not blind and sees that he likes her, most girls see it, and gets ideas like can you pick me and X up from down town or can you do this and that etc. Using him.
Beat her at her own game, say no from time to time and then she will see that you dont let other people walk all over you and you stand your ground, just maybe if he does that she might get interested. Thats all.

Yup. Well yeah, if someone is using you because of you affection for them then they suck. :p
But whoa there, I wouldn't say most girls do that... I hope that wasn't what you were implying, but it looks like it.
North Island
25-02-2005, 02:27
Yup. Well yeah, if someone is using you because of you affection for them then they suck. :p
But whoa there, I wouldn't say most girls do that... I hope that wasn't what you were implying, but it looks like it.

No, not at all. Sorry if it sounded like that.
Preebles
25-02-2005, 02:31
No, not at all. Sorry if it sounded like that.
No need, it's all good. I thought I was reading too literally. :p
I'm just used to jumping down peoples throats around here. ;)
Sinuhue
25-02-2005, 23:11
Any more whiners out there feel like venting? :D
Salvondia
25-02-2005, 23:16
I can't imagine why a chick wouldn't want to to date someone who's fragile self-image hinges on her every minutia. Sounds like a blast.......

Sounds like dating a woman, any woman, actually. :p
Sinuhue
25-02-2005, 23:19
Sounds like dating a woman, any woman, actually. :p
*the claws come out*...care to pet my fur?