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For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.

I'm not going to say that you overdid it, but if this is what you do for valentine's day, what the heck do you do for his birthday? I'm envious of him.

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.

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I think the only thing you are overdoing is the attention seeking

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.

I take it you two are fairly serious? ;)

If it makes him feel good and you feel good: hell no.

If it doesn't make your b/f feel good, you might want to call a doctor to check him over for signs of life.

I take it you two are fairly serious? ;)I was going to ask if they were... because if this is a newer, less serious relationship, she might freak the guy out!

(Hell, as a girl in a less-serious relationship, I know I'd get a little spooked! But in one that's a lot more serious, I'd be very happy with all the attention!)

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.
You could always follow Adam Sandlers' example and shave your pubic hair in the shape of a heart and dye it red. :D

We've been dating a year and a half.

And well, the blindfold was because he'd been hinting at it. The body paints seem like fun the massage oil, well I like to massage his back and I figure that oil would help make that better.

And the dvd because he loves Arnie... though i did get one for myself under the same deal... (There was $0.01 difference between one movie and two...)

Part of the problem was that I didn't know what to get... I was actually considering purchasing beer... but that doesnt' seem terribly romantic to me.

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Part of the problem was that I didn't know what to get... I was actually considering purchasing beer... but that doesnt' seem terribly romantic to me.
Reminds me of the old maxim:

How does a lady win a man's heart? Turn up naked and bring beer! :D

We've been dating a year and a half.

And well, the blindfold was because he'd been hinting at it. The body paints seem like fun the massage oil, well I like to massage his back and I figure that oil would help make that better.

And the dvd because he loves Arnie... though i did get one for myself under the same deal... (There was $0.01 difference between one movie and two...)

Part of the problem was that I didn't know what to get... I was actually considering purchasing beer... but that doesnt' seem terribly romantic to me.So then my guess is that you didn't overdo it. :) But if I were you, since you got him an awesome bunch of presents, I'd save the coupon book for a later occasion, in case there's a point where you want to give him something romantic and don't have a lot of money (or other ideas, anyway).

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.

If this is a serious relationship based on love and affection, then whatever you two would enjoy is OK. Do you have any idea what he is getting you? This could give you a guideline on the appropriateness of your gifts.

Part of the problem was that I didn't know what to get... I was actually considering purchasing beer... but that doesnt' seem terribly romantic to me.

Assuming you are old enough to buy it yourself, a bottle of wine with a fruit and cheese snack might be nice. Beer just doesn't equate to romance...at all.

Assuming you are old enough to buy it yourself, a bottle of wine with a fruit and cheese snack might be nice. Beer just doesn't equate to romance...at all.It all depends on the situation! You could make a romantic evening with a boyfriend that includes beer, good appropriate food (how 'bout cooking a Belgian meal? mussels with twice-fried fries, maybe?), candlelight, and lots of lovin'. I think both people in the couple could enjoy that!

EDIT: by the way, I was thinking good beer, like a hefferweisen such as Blanche de Chambly (always nice with seafood) or a winter ale, perhaps combined with a spicy sausage dish (jambalaya, anyone?).

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.
Lucky bastard!
You didn't overdo anything. Buying him a new car would've been overkill, you're just being a romantic.

Of course you didn't overdo it, sounds great.

I'm not in the same state as my boyfriend. :(

So then my guess is that you didn't overdo it. :) But if I were you, since you got him an awesome bunch of presents, I'd save the coupon book for a later occasion, in case there's a point where you want to give him something romantic and don't have a lot of money (or other ideas, anyway).
Yes, I think I may just do that. It also frees up more time for my assignments and midterm study.

If this is a serious relationship based on love and affection, then whatever you two would enjoy is OK. Do you have any idea what he is getting you? This could give you a guideline on the appropriateness of your gifts.
I have no idea what he's getting me. I told him not to tell me though... surprises are more fun. :)

He is cooking me dinner though. I'm making the trip all the way to his house for the night so it does make sense. Other than that, I have no idea what's going to happen.

Yes, I think I may just do that. It also frees up more time for my assignments and midterm study.Ah yes, those are pretty key!

Yeah, I think I'm going to try knocking off the assignment tonight and studying on the bus on the way to his house.

Top Valentine's Day Romance Tips!


16. When taking her out to a romantic Valentine's Day dinner,
be sure to carry her tray. For an extra touch, unwrap her
straw, too.

15. Nothing says "I love you" quite like violating her restraining
order.

14. Don't get their cards mixed up or you might end up having to
have sex with your wife instead of your secretary.

13. If she suggests "trying something different," she means
something that involves *her*.

12. Just because she loved the chocolate hearts last year does NOT
mean she will love the chocolate spleens this year.

11. Suppress the diabolical laughter until after the restraints
are buckled securely.

10. Wait at least eight years after your wife dies under
suspicious circumstances before proposing to your
long-time lover. (Prince Charles only)

9. A quick stop at the cemetery on the way home should save time
and money and still produce a beautiful bouquet.

8. A gentleman takes a bite out of all of the chocolates so that
his lady doesn't have to guess what each one contains.

7. Save the "keggerator" hat and belching the alphabet for
Arbor Day.

6. An extra fiver will insure the video store guy puts a
"Terminator" DVD in your "Thelma and Louise" box.

5. Phrases to avoid at dinner: "fully tax-deductible";
"violation of my parole"; "by decree of Lord Satan";
and "unpaid humor-list contributor."

4. If there's any chance whatsoever she might sleep with you,
do the safe thing -- get rid of those "Star Wars" sheets.

3. When role-playing, do not suggest that she be the hot chick
at work.

2. Start your date as late as possible to lessen the odds your
true self will accidentally surface.


and the number one Valentine's day romance tip:


1. Your choice of gift tells a woman what you think about her.
Roses, for example, say, "No chocolate for you, tubby!"

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.

Some of those edible paints tend to be....not so edible. Its fun to paint, but should just be washed off instead of licked off seeing as they're kind of disgusting.

I would say:
+Card
+Total Recall
+Blindfold and oil
-Coupon book, save it for another time

And just be careful with the paint :)

I just realised that I forgot to buy wrapping paper too. :(

Somehow it all doesn't look as romantic wrapped in newspaper.

For valentine's day I made an elaborate card, got Total Recall (my bf loves Arnie) some edible body paint, a blindfold and massage oil. I'm also seriously considering making one of those coupon books.
no offense intended, but all that strikes me as seeming kind of desperate. it comes across as a little forced, like you are trying to hard, or like you have something to prove. but hey, if your BF likes it then why care what any of us think :)?

I just realised that I forgot to buy wrapping paper too. :(

Somehow it all doesn't look as romantic wrapped in newspaper.


Wrap it in the "personals" section of the newspaper and highlight words or phrases you like. Heh....:)

Wrap it in the "personals" section of the newspaper and highlight words or phrases you like. Heh....:)That's a brilliant idea!

*jots down a note to keep it in mind*

no offense intended, but all that strikes me as seeming kind of desperate. it comes across as a little forced, like you are trying to hard, or like you have something to prove. but hey, if your BF likes it then why care what any of us think :)?
How is it desperate? I might have bought a lot... but well, for once I can afford it. For another, well, fun in bed is fun. ;) and any effort that has gone into it is well worth it for him. :)

No personals here, I'm using my school's newspaper...

How is it desperate? I might have bought a lot... but well, for once I can afford it. For another, well, fun in bed is fun. ;)

No personals here, I'm using my school's newspaper...

Then use the newspaper as a background and colour red hearts on it, or better yet cut out red paper hearts, or pictures of hot women :)

How is it desperate? I might have bought a lot... but well, for once I can afford it. For another, well, fun in bed is fun. ;)

i guess i just don't see why you would try to stuff so much into one random day. why make one day such a big deal? and why do you need an excuse like Valentines to have fun in bed, or make your BF feel special? why choose to do this stuff on an over-used holiday, which cheapens the significance and makes everything more predictable?

the answer is probably: "because i like doing things that way, and my BF likes things that way." which is the only real answer that matters. i don't understand how anybody can enjoy watching Hillary Duff movies, and i can't understand why people like using Valentines as an excuse to be romantic and exciting for 24 hours. it's a matter of taste.

i like keeping my lover on his toes...he never knows when or where i will strike...

Fair enough, but I like the fact that I have someone to celebrate this holiday with. Whether it's a throw away holiday or not, I don't particularly care. It's all in good fun for me.

Besides, considering that I lack access to actual sex toy shops, it's hard to come accross lots of fun kinds of things off season and living this far away from him without having a car kinda reduces opportunities for suprises.

I do plan on writing him random love letters after valentine's day though... I think that will surprise him a little...

Elaborate Card + movie + edible body paint + blindfold + massage oil + sex coupons = trying to hard.

...They weren't going to be sex coupons...

And considering I didn't really try at all to do anything... I enjoy making cards (I just had to think of something different from last year) and the massage oil and blindfold and paints are things we can both enjoy. Rather selfish presents in a way...

Fair enough, but I like the fact that I have someone to celebrate this holiday with. Whether it's a throw away holiday or not, I don't particularly care. It's all in good fun for me.

Besides, considering that I lack access to actual sex toy shops, it's hard to come accross lots of fun kinds of things off season and living this far away from him without having a car kinda reduces opportunities for suprises.

I do plan on writing him random love letters after valentine's day though... I think that will surprise him a little...I agree, I rather enjoy V-Day! And sometimes it can serve as a good reminder to incorporate romance in daily life!

Sorry, it just seemed to fit the theme...

Anyways, its not like i think you're an awful gift giver, v-day's all about passion/lust anyway. It's just not the type of occasion that you pull out 6 separate gifts.

What i'd recommend is you nix the coupons and edible body paint... Maybe save it for another time. If you're really in the mood to eat things off each other, a simple can of whipped cream would suffice. Plus i hear the paint stuff tastes more like plastic than chocolate.

We've been dating a year and a half.

And well, the blindfold was because he'd been hinting at it. The body paints seem like fun the massage oil, well I like to massage his back and I figure that oil would help make that better.

And the dvd because he loves Arnie... though i did get one for myself under the same deal... (There was $0.01 difference between one movie and two...)

Part of the problem was that I didn't know what to get... I was actually considering purchasing beer... but that doesnt' seem terribly romantic to me.


Wow beer too. Wanna get married?

Sorry, it just seemed to fit the theme...

Anyways, its not like i think you're an awful gift giver, v-day's all about passion/lust anyway. It's just not the type of occasion that you pull out 6 separate gifts.

What i'd recommend is you nix the coupons and edible body paint... Maybe save it for another time. If you're really in the mood to eat things off each other, a simple can of whipped cream would suffice. Plus i hear the paint stuff tastes more like plastic than chocolate.
Mmm... whipped cream... it's been too long since I've had that on anything other than ice cream and pie!

Nah... you didn't over do it. But if he expects this everytime....

Fuck, well, a girl that LIKES to rub her man's back? Damn, why are there not more of you......


It seems to me like it should be nice, but of course, give him time to do his thing too, eh?

But like the other guy said, if you want to save money, keep him wanting more and shit....

But, how much have you been doing with him?

Again, like the other guy said, if you come on to fast and strong, and shit, might scare him, eh?

Like I remember, this one time, I was there, right, and all people and shit, and the girl was all like really trying hard and stuff, and most people be happy, but in truth, I just wanted to watch Frasier, you know? But then again, I was recovering from a rather serious stabwound at the time.....But then again, it may have just been that I do so love Frasier....

Anyhow.

But why are you asking us?

What the hell do we know?