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i just have to say that i don't think this award thing was the best idea in the world, i know it's only supposed to be a bit of fun but it's causing arguments and making people upset :( :( :( :(

i just have to say that i don't think this award thing was the best idea in the world, i know it's only supposed to be a bit of fun but it's causing arguments and making people upset :( :( :( :(
:confused: How can it get people upset?

i just have to say that i don't think this award thing was the best idea in the world, i know it's only supposed to be a bit of fun but it's causing arguments and making people upset :( :( :( :(


whos getting upset and why? I keep seeing people being nice to each other.


Kanabia......excellent! You did a fabulous job on your last contest hosting!

It's my fault, I let him down I think. :(

:confused: How can it get people upset?
because it's caused Sanc to be in a mood with me so now i'm upset!

Mezzaluna
Dempublicents
Sinuhue
Wild Orchid
Peechland
Erastide
Occidio Multus

Kanabia......excellent! You did a fabulous job on your last contest hosting!

*Bows* Thankyou :) I'll try and do a good job on this one as well.

Does that mean I'm not even allowed to hit Tink with a pillow?

Mannnnnn.... *pouts* You're no fun.

:p Don't worry Cog, we'll behave. If anyone doesn't, I can threaten 'em with fluffy handcuffs (of doom).
:eek: that is hot. h. o. t.

It's my fault, I let him down I think. :(
Lasc, this is nothing at all to do with you. If you look you'll see I voted for you in this round with bold, italics and size three writing!
Since I started this I've argued with two of my best friends from NS, and I realised it just isn't worth it. I'd rather step down and stay friends with them than keep doing this and fighting with more people.

I realised it just isn't worth it. I'd rather step down and stay friends with them than keep doing this and fighting with more people.

Uh-oh, so this means I've put my foot in it, eh?

Lasc, this is nothing at all to do with you. If you look you'll see I voted for you in this round with bold, italics and size three writing!
Since I started this I've argued with two of my best friends from NS, and I realised it just isn't worth it. I'd rather step down and stay friends with them than keep doing this and fighting with more people.
Well Sanc, for what it's worth, I think you're a great guy, and that you've done a great job! I'm sorry that there have been hard feelings come out of this thread - but I (along with everyone else) know that you are not responsible in any way for emotions that come out of this thread. You're just a great guy and a good friend. Thanks for everything Sanc! :fluffle:

Uh-oh, so this means I've put my foot in it, eh?
*tosses him the keys*
Here you go, and your social life is over from....
*watches as he signs the form*
now!

This special offer comes with free arguing with all friends over your choice of vote, choice of nomination, choice of friend, and prettty much anything else.

Lasc, this is nothing at all to do with you. If you look you'll see I voted for you in this round with bold, italics and size three writing!
Since I started this I've argued with two of my best friends from NS, and I realised it just isn't worth it. I'd rather step down and stay friends with them than keep doing this and fighting with more people.
But YOU don't HAVE to choose between two people. Why should they be mad at you. You just can host this thread and be like Suisse.

Uh-oh, so this means I've put my foot in it, eh?

Ehhh, just do like you did in the other thread and don't vote publically. Then no one can complain about anything, can they?

Well Sanc, for what it's worth, I think you're a great guy, and that you've done a great job! I'm sorry that there have been hard feelings come out of this thread - but I (along with not quite everyone else) know that you are not responsible in any way for emotions that come out of this thread. You're just a great guy and a good friend. Thanks for everything Sanc! :fluffle:
Bold is mine.

And no problem Lasc, I was glad to hear you decided to continue running. I tried to point out that this thread was for fun, and was not to be taken seriously, I couldn't do any more than that. It seems I failed, so I hand over to Kanabia and Aerou, who I'm sure will do a better job than me.

Ehhh, just do like you did in the other thread and don't vote publically. Then no one can complain about anything, can they?
*points to self*
I didn't vote publically, I voted in secret. G-D knows why people still seem to hold my nominations against me, not like it matters. You both made it through and will clearly get very far, I think by reacting the way you are about my choice of nominations you're being quite narrow-minded. Assuming I had more nominations, I nominate you two, then someone else gets pissed because I didn't nominate them, then someone else, etc.... in the end nobody lost out due to my nominations.

I guess I should really cast my ballot too, here goes...

Mezzaluna-Bottle
Aerou-Dempublicents
Sinuhue-Gaeltach
Wild Orchid-FairyTInkArisen
Peechland-Lakren
Erastide-Equus
Occidio Multus-Shaed

This one was very, every hard! Geez, I love all of you! And to show it...

*gives all of the ladies, voted for or not a bouquet of 12 silver roses, except Aerou (who doesn't like roses) - to whom he gives a bouquet of 10 white lillies and a nicely potted bird-of-paradise ;) *

Words cannot express your charm and grace ladies, my hat is off! :fluffle:

*grabs Kanabia, Shaed, Tink, and Sanc... and gives them an over-sized extra-large group hug...*

This thread doesn't mean anything anyway!

*points to self*
I didn't vote publically, I voted in secret. G-D knows why people still seem to hold my nominations against me, not like it matters. You both made it through and will clearly get very far, I think by reacting the way you are about my choice of nominations you're being quite narrow-minded. Assuming I had more nominations, I nominate you two, then someone else gets pissed because I didn't nominate them, then someone else, etc.... in the end nobody lost out due to my nominations.

Umm... ok?

... I didn't say you did. I was telling Kanabia not to. I've made it clear that I'm not upset at you at all at this point. Apparently someone else was but, from what I heard, it wasn't even over this thread.

Although if your going to insult me I might reconsider that 'not being annoyed at you' stance.

*grabs Kanabia, Shaed, Tink, and Sanc... and gives them an over-sized extra-large group hug...*

This thread doesn't mean anything anyway!

Hey, i'm not really involved in this argument. But I second the group hug proposal.

Hey, i'm not really involved in this argument. But I second the group hug proposal.

I know I could do with a hug now :(

Toldja we'd have a cat fight...

*sighs*

Umm... ok?

... I didn't say you did. I was telling Kanabia not to. I've made it clear that I'm not upset at you at all at this point. Apparently someone else was but, from what I heard, it wasn't even over this thread.

Although if your going to insult me I might reconsider that 'not being annoyed at you' stance.
Yes, but I voted in secret and still Tinks is assuming I don't like her and will vote against her in favour of *****. (can't mention her name, might piss Tinks off:rolleyes:)

Besides, you were annoyed at me, extremely so I might add. I know you're not anymore, and for that I'm grateful, but I can't do this if people are going to keep getting annoyed at me over my choice of votes. Surely this is a personal choice for me to make and others should have no reason or right to complain about my choices.

Hey, i'm not really involved in this argument. But I second the group hug proposal.
I just grabbed you since you were taking over the thread, and this might happen to you too - it's a preemptive hugging! :)

Toldja we'd have a cat fight...

*sighs*

*hits Gawdly with a pillow*

:p

I know I could do with a hug now :(
I would but I assume you don't mean from me. Lasc, get over here a minute! Shaed wants a hug.

I just grabbed you since you were taking over the thread, and this might happen to you too - it's a preemptive hugging! :)

Well, I know the full-story, and I *think* I'm on all of their good-sides. I think.

I know I could do with a hug now :(

*hugs* :)

I know I could do with a hug now :(
*gives Shaed a big ole huggy bear hug*

does that help at all? In fact, here - have some cookies too...

*gives her a box of mango peek freens* :)

I would but I assume you don't mean from me. Lasc, get over here a minute! Shaed wants a hug.
She's been thoroughly hugged comrade - but she still needs one from you!! :)

Yes, but I voted in secret and still Tinks is assuming I don't like her and will vote against her in favour of *****. (can't mention her name, might piss Tinks off:rolleyes:)

Besides, you were annoyed at me, extremely so I might add. I know you're not anymore, and for that I'm grateful, but I can't do this if people are going to keep getting annoyed at me over my choice of votes. Surely this is a personal choice for me to make and others should have no reason or right to complain about my choices.

If you talked to TINK, instead of coming her accusing people of things, you'd know she's not pissed off about this thread at all.

And if you think that just because it's a personal choice it won't affect your relationships with other people, you really haven't dealt with people too much.

I also don't really appreciate you bringing me into this. I discussed this with you PRIVATELY for a reason.

She's been thoroughly hugged comrade - but she still needs one from you!! :)
:rolleyes:
Sure she does mate. Just hug her again and say its from me. Just be prepared for a slap.

*hits Gawdly with a pillow*

:p

*sniffs pillow, then hugs it, pretending it's Shaed.*

SNUGGLES!

:rolleyes:
Sure she does mate. Just hug her again and say its from me. Just be prepared for a slap.

*sigh* Don't be an arse. Please. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease?

Bottle
Dempublicents
Sinuhue
FairyTInkArisen
Peechland
(dont know those two)
Shaed

:rolleyes:
Sure she does mate. Just hug her again and say its from me. Just be prepared for a slap.
*sigh*

hang on here for just one second...

*walks calmy over to Shaed...*

Sanc has something he wants to say to you...

*hugs the crap out of Shaed... then takes her hand gives her a sharp little smile and leads her over to Sanc*

Ok you two - you've seen how it's done... please just hug and end this sillyness!

:fluffle:

If you talked to TINK, instead of coming her accusing people of things, you'd know she's not pissed off about this thread at all.
I know, she's pissed off about the nominations thread, she has no right to complain about my choice of nominee there either.

And if you think that just because it's a personal choice it won't affect your relationships with other people, you really haven't dealt with people too much.
So you think I should hold a vote before deciding who to nominate?

I also don't really appreciate you bringing me into this. I discussed this with you PRIVATELY for a reason.
Ok, fine. No more mention of you. Anyway, this is the wrong thread for this, if anyone wants to continue the argument then start a new thread. My mood is completely ruined anyway.

:(

I would but I assume you don't mean from me. Lasc, get over here a minute! Shaed wants a hug.

Why are you assuming that? You're the one not talking to me, not the other way around. I already said repeatedly that I'm not angry at you and that I don't give a toss about this thread.

*gives Shaed a big ole huggy bear hug*

does that help at all? In fact, here - have some cookies too...

*gives her a box of mango peek freens* :)

*hugs*
thanks.
helps a little. I'd still prefer it if Sanct would stop dragging ME into this, since I really didn't want to be dragged into it at all and THOUGHT we'd sorted it all out earlier.

:(

Sanct, if you don't get on MSN and discuss this calmly, I will ask for this thread to be closed. Enough of this bullshit. It's just ridiculous.

Ok, see, this is, I think, what needs to be done. Shaed, who is officailly fluffled :fluffle: , and sanc, likewise :fluffle: , need to take a time out. Someone else can tally the votes. BUt some deep breathing and relaxion exercises need to occur with both parties. So here's what needs to happen. No one esle need post, unless it pertains DIRECTLY to the vote, like this
Bottle
Aerou
Sinuhue
FairyTInkArisen
Peechland
Erastide
Occidio Multus (god dammit this is tough. But OM needs the vote more at this point.)
wha-bam.
Ok? SO you two step away from your computers, if you have a cat, pet it. BUt no more of this for atl least an hour, which is when the heartfelt apologies need fly. :D :D

Sanct, if you don't get on MSN and discuss this calmly, I will ask for this thread to be closed. Enough of this bullshit.
Me? I'm completely calm thanks. With regards to MSN, I'm at my grandmas house for Friday night meal, so I can't. Its probably best that the thread be locked anyway, it was intended as a bit of harmless fun, yet it leads to this.
That was my final word, this thread shouldn't be hijacked. If you wish to continue, then start a new thread or send me a TG.

this thread shouldn't be hijacked
A little late for that one. aah well. fluffles all around. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Me? I'm completely calm thanks. With regards to MSN, I'm at my grandmas house for Friday night meal, so I can't. Its probably best that the thread be locked anyway, it was intended as a bit of harmless fun, yet it leads to this.
That was my final word, this thread shouldn't be hijacked. If you wish to continue, then start a new thread or send me a TG.

Check your TG's.

Sanc i'm not annoyed with you at all, i'm just upset because you're in a mood with me :(

I'm going to ask a mod to prune posts 231 onwards.

Sanc i'm not annoyed with you at all, i'm just upset because you're in a mood with me :(

*hugs*
'n one with both of us apparently.

i, an EMBLAMER covered in tatoos, is up against a girl with the largest my little pony collection???????? this contest is obviously fixed.

Thread split.