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Girl problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rabola
05-02-2005, 14:32
Day 1: I got asked out by a girl, and i like her, said i would think about it
Day 2: Got asked out by a girl, i also like her and said i would think about it

What do i do??????

I'm good friends with them both....and going gay isn't an option
The White Hats
05-02-2005, 14:34
Day 1: I got asked out by a girl, and i like her, said i would think about it
Day 2: Got asked out by a girl, i also like her and said i would think about it

What do i do??????

I'm good friends with them both....and going gay isn't an option
Err ... think about it? ;)
New Sancrosanctia
05-02-2005, 14:36
thinking sounds good. Both is an option. think of the possibilities, unless you're not of legal age, in which case stop thinking those impure thoughts.
Rabola
05-02-2005, 14:37
Err ... think about it? ;)
lol

well, i have. say i like the girl on day 2, what to i say to day 1??
Kanabia
05-02-2005, 14:38
So? Go out with both of them (at different times of course). There's no commitment at this stage, so see which one you like more...that's kinda the point of dating, isn't it?
The White Hats
05-02-2005, 14:39
lol

well, i have. say i like the girl on day 2, what to i say to day 1??
Umm ... that you like the day 2 girl?
The Blaatschapen
05-02-2005, 14:40
I thought you had a problem ;)

Simply go out with both of them, not at the same time of course and see which one you like more and go for her.
Anizon
05-02-2005, 14:45
Well, Which Have you liked the longest?
Conceptualists
05-02-2005, 14:50
I thought you had a problem ;)

I know, it is kinda hard to feel sorry for someone with two admirers
Ashmoria
05-02-2005, 18:20
oh you are in big trouble

are these girls friends? if so, what are they doing both asking the same boy out? doesnt that violate the code of friends? does this mean they are in some kind of sick competition with each other?

say no to both of them and date some other girl after a while. you dont need to be in the middle of some girl thing. you cannot win, dont play the game.
Ice Hockey Players
05-02-2005, 18:22
Flip a coin. That always does the job.
Haken Rider
05-02-2005, 18:25
I thought you had a problem ;)

Simply go out with both of them, not at the same time of course and see which one you like more and go for her.
You funny! :) ;)
World wide allies
05-02-2005, 18:32
Flip a coin. That always does the job.

I agree with this guy ^^

:D
Ramissle
05-02-2005, 18:32
I'm really sorry, but this has an incredibly obvious answer.
Go out with the hotter one!
Gorsley Gardens
05-02-2005, 18:32
So, what, you're friends with both of them? Don't go out with either, explain that you like them, but (seeing as you don't appear to have any favourite yet and dont particularly want to hurt them) you don't want to jeapordise your friendship or their friendship.
Gorsley Gardens
05-02-2005, 18:35
I'm really sorry, but this has an incredibly obvious answer.
Go out with the hotter one!

Forget what I said, this makes more sense. ;)
Greedy Pig
05-02-2005, 18:45
Post pictures...

Then we'll decide which one you'd go out with. The other one, give us her phone number and I'll accompany her for your abscence. :)
New Jyria
05-02-2005, 18:46
I'm really sorry, but this has an incredibly obvious answer.
Go out with the hotter one!
What if they're identical twins separated at birth?
Greedy Pig
05-02-2005, 18:47
So, what, you're friends with both of them? Don't go out with either, explain that you like them, but (seeing as you don't appear to have any favourite yet and dont particularly want to hurt them) you don't want to jeapordise your friendship or their friendship.

Bad idea. You stupida? There's always be many many girls out there.. Jeapordize friendship my ass. Although she may get jealous.. but you have to choose. If not at the end, you'll hurt both of them.. And none would go out with you.

So it's either you choose one, or if your that heroic enough, go out with both at the same time and hope you don't get caught. :) Or if their very very open-minded. THREEESOME!!!! HURRAH!
New Jyria
05-02-2005, 18:51
Bad idea. You stupida? There's always be many many girls out there.. Jeapordize friendship my ass. Although she may get jealous.. but you have to choose.

So it's either you choose one, or if your that heroic enough, go out with both at the same time and hope you don't get caught. :) Or if their very very open-minded. THREEESOME!!!! HURRAH!

Well, you should choose. Don't have to. But I mean really, you can make one of them mad by going out with the other, make both of them mad by saying no to both (or at least disappointed) or you could satisfy both by going out with both but at different times. After all, it's possible one won't work out and then you just stick with the other one. Of course, taking that option there is always the risk it could blow up in your face, but I'd definitely go for that option.
Greedy Pig
05-02-2005, 18:55
Well, you should choose. Don't have to. But I mean really, you can make one of them mad by going out with the other, make both of them mad by saying no to both (or at least disappointed) or you could satisfy both by going out with both but at different times. After all, it's possible one won't work out and then you just stick with the other one. Of course, taking that option there is always the risk it could blow up in your face, but I'd definitely go for that option.

I guess it also depends on what "Going Out" means. Like if it's a simple date to find whether you guys have chemistry together. Good and well.

One date doesn't signify your his/her boyfriend. Am I right?

Explore your options. Your all still young and energetic
Haken Rider
05-02-2005, 18:57
Go out with the one without a moustache.
Greedy Pig
05-02-2005, 19:10
Go out with the one without a moustache.

And without the bulge in the pants.
MNOH
05-02-2005, 19:15
What if they're identical twins separated at birth?
One could still be hotter. Twins don't necessarily look exactly the same, even if they are identical, especially if they were seperated at birth, like you suggest. You know: nature vs. nurture.
Petoria-Griffania
05-02-2005, 19:15
Here's what always works in the movies...

Take them both on a date to the same restaurant at the same time, and then run back and forth between the tables. You'll never get caught, trust me.
New Jyria
05-02-2005, 19:18
One could still be hotter. Twins don't necessarily look exactly the same, even if they are identical, especially if they were seperated at birth, like you suggest. You know: nature vs. nurture.
Are you completely devoid of a sense of humor?
Dogburg
05-02-2005, 19:19
Day 1: I got asked out by a girl, and i like her, said i would think about it
Day 2: Got asked out by a girl, i also like her and said i would think about it

What do i do??????

I'm good friends with them both....and going gay isn't an option

Convince them both that bigomy is socially acceptable. Having more than one partner shouldn't be a crime. And actually it isn't, provided you don't marry them both.
Tarlachia
05-02-2005, 19:19
Choose the girl that you find easier to talk to about anything. She doesn't necessarily have to be the most beautiful girl on the block, so long as you're able to connect and have a good time together. Also, a way you could possibly manipulate things to find yourself dating both (but not at the same time, it's too risky to lose that possible girlfriend), would be to tell one to hang out more often, as a friend. Get to know them. Date the other, get to know her. Either way, you're going to find out whether or not you have chemistry with one or the other more often.

Good luck. It's a brutal world out there. And like it or not, girls can, and will be bitches. Not saying that guys can't be arseholes too...
Rastaprophet
05-02-2005, 19:28
definately a threesome`