NationStates Jolt Archive


Lesbians

Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 05:45
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

Don't guys realise that lesbians are interested in women? Not men? :rolleyes:
Neo-Anarchists
10-01-2005, 05:48
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

Don't guys realise that lesbians are interested in women? Not men? :rolleyes:
Hee, a lot of them don't seem to realize that. In my conversations with guys (I used to *be* a guy, and am still partially, so I've had lots of conversation with them...), many of them on't actually seem to realize that lesbians are, well, lesbians.

Maybe I just met a lot of stupid people.

The other guys just seem to like to watch them.
Colodia
10-01-2005, 05:49
I like em, I think because it's cute. I mean...girls are cute...girls on girls...even cuter.

I'm not really into threesomes.
Aerou
10-01-2005, 05:49
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

Don't guys realise that lesbians are interested in women? Not men? :rolleyes:

Well aren't the men that are normally interested in lesbians interested in women as well? Common ground :).

Plus girl on girl action is just so hot, haha.
Andaluciae
10-01-2005, 05:50
Problem some sort of twist on the fantasy that most any guy has of getting two really hot ladies at once I'd bet.
Bedou
10-01-2005, 05:51
shhh, no they can be convinced just once...in the right light...
To let us hop on in and enjoy the ride.

No seriously.
I think it is obvious.
Look at women and look at men.
I know women who arent lesbians who can watch two women go at it and see how sexy it is.
Now picture two guys sword fighting their way into the throughs of ecstacy...ewwwww.
Men are simply not as attractive in the sensual sense as women are.
Pretty plain.
Women have soft curves, I just cant explain it.
I am sure my wife could, she love going to the Strip club and what not.
Women are just beautiful to look at.
Gnostikos
10-01-2005, 05:51
I remember hearing this from some stand-up comedian, but I don't recall who it was.

What's good? Woman!
What's better? 2 woman!
What's better than that? 5 woman!
Yammo
10-01-2005, 05:54
We want what we can't get. ;)

And I do know a girl who considers gay men 'cute'...
Neo-Anarchists
10-01-2005, 05:55
We want what we can't get. ;)

And I do know a girl who considers gay men 'cute'...
Hey, most of the girls at my school thought that.
But it wasn't a sexual attraction, it was the 'non-sexually-threatening-male' type of cute.
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 05:57
We want what we can't get. ;)

And I do know a girl who considers gay men 'cute'...

But not in a sexual way, I bet.
New Genoa
10-01-2005, 06:06
We're horny bastards.
Von Witzleben
10-01-2005, 06:08
Theres just something hot about watching 2 girls getting it on with one another. And less emberassing bodyparts to look at.
Plus not all "lesbians" are lesbians. Many are bi. My cousin has such a bi fling. And she told him next time she'll bring along her girlfriend. I so envy him!!!! :(
Pantylvania
10-01-2005, 06:15
but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.I have. Why do you think Gundam Wing was so popular among girls?
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 06:20
I have. Why do you think Gundam Wing was so popular among girls?

What's "Gundam Wing"?
Neo-Anarchists
10-01-2005, 06:23
What's "Gundam Wing"?
A show on the telly.
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 06:30
A show on the telly.

Umm, can you elaborate for me? :)
Colodia
10-01-2005, 06:31
Umm, can you elaborate for me? :)
I think it's the anime in which tiny people use giant robots to beat the living shit out of each other and for some reason, giant robots fighting are much cooler than little people fighting.

DBZ, anyone? C'MON!
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 06:34
I think it's the anime in which tiny people use giant robots to beat the living shit out of each other and for some reason, giant robots fighting are much cooler than little people fighting.

DBZ, anyone? C'MON!

Oh, ok :D

What does that have to do with girls being attracted to gay men tho?
Von Witzleben
10-01-2005, 06:35
Oh, ok :D

What does that have to do with girls being attracted to gay men tho?
Anime characters often look very...feminine. Even if they are supposed to be men.
Brandera
10-01-2005, 06:40
Um, lots of girls are hot for gay men. I know many girls (both lesbians and straight girls) who enjoy watching boy-on-boy porn.

Myself included. And I'm a lesbian.
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 06:40
Anime characters often look very...feminine. Even if they are supposed to be men.

Oh, I get it :D
Thankyou
Pantylvania
10-01-2005, 06:42
female fans of the show wrote stories about the Gundam pilots having gay sex with each other. Hiro with Duo, Trowa with Quatre, and Wufei with Treize. The show did give a lot of hints that those characters were gay and paired up that way
Greedy Pig
10-01-2005, 06:53
Japanese people are weird. They have women manga's about gays. Lots of girls love reading those. Softcore porn though.

I think guys like Lesbians because they think all Lesbians are bi-sexuals. Guys like seeing girls doing it together.. then join in for a threesome. Hallelujah.
Von Witzleben
10-01-2005, 06:55
Japanese people are weird. They have women manga's about gays. Lots of girls love reading those. Softcore porn though.

I think guys like Lesbians because they think all Lesbians are bi-sexuals. Guys like seeing girls doing it together.. then join in for a threesome. Hallelujah.
Personally I prefer to just watch.
Latta
10-01-2005, 07:02
Lesbians, my favourite kind of porn, 2x the chicks and I don't have to look at any cock, doesn't get any better then that. But apart from that, I can't think of any other reason to like lesbians, like you said, they aren't interested in men, so they are no use to me.
Kiwicrog
10-01-2005, 07:19
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them

Meh, not me.

Seems kinda pointless.
Callisdrun
10-01-2005, 07:52
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

Don't guys realise that lesbians are interested in women? Not men? :rolleyes:

I know women who like to watch gay pornography. Lesbian pornography is ok, except that, like all porn, it's annoyingly unrealistic. I could never really get into porn of any kind for this reason.
Adrian Barbeau-Bot
10-01-2005, 07:58
off the topic, does anyone else find it odd that someone name skanky mcskank is asking why two chicks getting it on is hot? no offense of course, just wondering
Sparkeh
10-01-2005, 08:14
Theres just something hot about watching 2 girls getting it on with one another. And less emberassing bodyparts to look at.
Plus not all "lesbians" are lesbians. Many are bi. My cousin has such a bi fling. And she told him next time she'll bring along her girlfriend. I so envy him!!!! :(But.....but....SHE'S YOUR COUSIN! Think about what you just said....
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 08:22
off the topic, does anyone else find it odd that someone name skanky mcskank is asking why two chicks getting it on is hot? no offense of course, just wondering

No offence taken :D

But I have to ask why you think this odd? lol
Adrian Barbeau-Bot
10-01-2005, 08:42
No offence taken :D

But I have to ask why you think this odd? lol

it just seems like a skank would enjoy lesbians more then anyone else
Lunatic Goofballs
10-01-2005, 08:43
Ok, can someone please tell me why guys have such a great fascination with lesbians? All guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

Don't guys realise that lesbians are interested in women? Not men? :rolleyes:

Actually, I've known several girls that have fantasies about gay or bisexual men.
Greedy Pig
10-01-2005, 08:50
Actually, I've known several girls that have fantasies about gay or bisexual men.

Yes unfortunately, it's very true.

I heard from a friend who knows a friend who knows a friend, who came back one day and saw her girlfriend with a midget waiting for him to join the fun.
Lunatic Goofballs
10-01-2005, 08:54
Yes unfortunately, it's very true.

I heard from a friend who knows a friend who knows a friend, who came back one day and saw her girlfriend with a midget waiting for him to join the fun.

Hey! I'm not that short! :mad:
Sdaeriji
10-01-2005, 08:55
Hey! I'm not that short! :mad:

I think he was calling you a midget in a less literal sense.:D
Liebermonk
10-01-2005, 08:59
Hey, most of the girls at my school thought that.
But it wasn't a sexual attraction, it was the 'non-sexually-threatening-male' type of cute.


Well, two of my close female friends think guy-on-guy is sexually attractive. (They went quite crazy when I would kiss my boyfriend.) Its just that two are better than one in general. That's it.
Legless Pirates
10-01-2005, 09:02
The TV-show Coupling said it right:
"Everytime they have sex, there's four boobs"
Skanky McSkank
10-01-2005, 09:03
it just seems like a skank would enjoy lesbians more then anyone else

Hey, I have no problem with lesbians! I was just wondering where the fascination was for guys, that's all :D
Ooger
10-01-2005, 09:41
Has anybody here ever heard of the sex columnist Savage Love?

Well I remember he answered this same questions explaining that in lesbian porn since there are two women, there is no penetration by another male let alone one present other than the viewer (in this scenario, a guy)...so the viewer feels as if it's him that's missing and starts to fantasize his presence there even more.

Something along those lines, obviously it was way longer and much more in detail.
SSGX
10-01-2005, 09:53
Well, I'm going to have to go with the "all the benefits of porn, but no unfortunate side-effects (like seeing naked guys)" answer here...lol

The thing to understand is that male sexual arousal is extremely influenced by visuals... Sure, plenty of other sensations do it for us, but there's nothing as powerful as seeing something sexy... We're also not really that good at subtlety... So more "innocent" sexy things are often lost on us...

This is why we love porn so much... We get to see things directly, without any of that "inuendo" and "imagination"...lol

And, well, lesbians (in porn, anyways) offer this input, without having the negatives... I.E. no dudes to look at, detracting from the experience...lol

That basically sums it up, I think... We're fascinated with lesbians because they're the best kind of show...lol

Of course, there is always that fantasy of "joining in" in the backs of or heads... Regardless of whether that's a likely outcome or not...
Down System
10-01-2005, 11:47
I know women who like to watch gay pornography. Lesbian pornography is ok, except that, like all porn, it's annoyingly unrealistic. I could never really get into porn of any kind for this reason.

Who says pornography is not educational? Watching it, you learn that:
1. Women wear high heels to bed.
2. Men are never impotent.
3. When going down on a woman, 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.
4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man, she will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist he have sex with her.
5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.
6. Women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.
7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.
8. Women always orgasm when men do.
9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.
10. All women are noisy on the job.
11. People in the 70s couldn’t have sex unless there was a wild guitar solo in the background.
12. Those tits are real.
13. A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take his half-erect oenis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s bum.
14. Men always groan, ‘oh yeah!’ when they come.
15. If there are two of them they ‘high-five’ each other (and the girl isn’t disgusted!).
16. Double penetration makes women smile.
17. Asian men don’t exist.
18. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex in the bushes, the boyfriend won’t bash seven shades of shit out of you if you shove your cock in his girlfriend’s mouth.
19. There’s a plot.
20. When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite her by giving her a gentle slap on the bum.
21. Nurses give blowjobs to patients.
22. Men always pull out.
23. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best friend, she’ll only be momentarily be pissed off before getting on the job with both of you.
24. Women never get headaches… or periods.
25. When a woman is giving a blowjob, it’s important for him to remind her to ‘suck it’.
26. Arseholes are clean.
27. A man ejaculating on a woman’s bum is a satisfying result for all parties concerned.
28. Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a man’s trousers and find a cock in there.
29. Men don’t have to beg.
30. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place one hand firmly on the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.
Neo-Anarchists
10-01-2005, 11:52
Who says pornography is not educational? Watching it, you learn that:
1. Women wear high heels to bed.
2. Men are never impotent.
3. When going down on a woman, 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.
4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man, she will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist he have sex with her.
5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.
6. Women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.
7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.
8. Women always orgasm when men do.
9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.
10. All women are noisy on the job.
11. People in the 70s couldn’t have sex unless there was a wild guitar solo in the background.
12. Those tits are real.
13. A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take his half-erect oenis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s bum.
14. Men always groan, ‘oh yeah!’ when they come.
15. If there are two of them they ‘high-five’ each other (and the girl isn’t disgusted!).
16. Double penetration makes women smile.
17. Asian men don’t exist.
18. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex in the bushes, the boyfriend won’t bash seven shades of shit out of you if you shove your cock in his girlfriend’s mouth.
19. There’s a plot.
20. When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite her by giving her a gentle slap on the bum.
21. Nurses give blowjobs to patients.
22. Men always pull out.
23. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best friend, she’ll only be momentarily be pissed off before getting on the job with both of you.
24. Women never get headaches… or periods.
25. When a woman is giving a blowjob, it’s important for him to remind her to ‘suck it’.
26. Arseholes are clean.
27. A man ejaculating on a woman’s bum is a satisfying result for all parties concerned.
28. Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a man’s trousers and find a cock in there.
29. Men don’t have to beg.
30. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place one hand firmly on the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.
:D
Hilarity ensues...
Or at least I hope.
Tuesday Heights
10-01-2005, 12:38
ll guys seem to have a 'thing' about them, but I've never heard of of a girl who feels the same way about gay men.

I know a lot of girls who think two guys together, especially two very flamingly gay guys, are very, very hot.
Squealopia
10-01-2005, 12:56
I am a girl, and I think that men having sex is just...ahhh. *THAT* hot. Yay for having a bi boyfriend!