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Now honestlly answer this ? about porn

British Jimmy
15-12-2004, 23:44
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.
Personal responsibilit
15-12-2004, 23:48
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.

I think looking at anyone other than my wife to lust after them is less than morally pure. I have looked at pornography, and enough of it to have seen most types and regret it all. It has damaged more than one of my relationships and by the grace of God I'll not ever do it again.
Markodonia
15-12-2004, 23:50
I don't quite understand it myself, but if people want to look at it, fine, that's their problem, not mine ;)
Eutrusca
15-12-2004, 23:51
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.
Porn is ok unless those involved are coerced into it, or those viewing become addicted to it. Both have been known to happen.

Whether porn is "good" or not depends on what the viewer's personal tastes are like.
Johnny Wadd
15-12-2004, 23:52
I was in the porno biz for a little while, and to me it was just a way to make some easy cash. No love was ever involved. I feel they can help couples explore their own bed-room lives by showing new things.
Incertonia
15-12-2004, 23:52
I like looking at pictures of naked women--my girlfriend knows I do it and not only doesn't care, but almost expects it of me. I occasionally watch basic porn, but the really extreme stuff doesn't appeal to me--bukkake, scat, it's all a bit nasty and degrading.

In my opinion, if you're single, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. If you're in a committed relationship, then your partner's feelings have to come into consideration. If my girlfriend said it made her uncomfortable, then I'd drop it in a heartbeat, simply because she's far more important to me. But the last time I suggested that, she looked at me like I'd grown another head.
Cannot think of a name
15-12-2004, 23:55
My only real problem with it is:

First, practical-the chicks in the porns should be getting the lions share of the money. The promoters should get what the women are getting now. That'll change when they start taking over the productions...anyway...

My other problem is my position as viewer. Look, you really only look at porn when you aren't 'getting any,' but when you watch a porn everyones getting it-the pizza man, the meter reader, pool guy-everyone. It's like rubbing it in-all these dudes seem to have to do is show up and get sex-what's your problem, loser? Just kinda makes things worse, really. But then, maybe it's just me.....
Von Witzleben
15-12-2004, 23:57
My only real problem with it is:

First, practical-the chicks in the porns should be getting the lions share of the money.
Why?
Bunglejinx
15-12-2004, 23:57
I think pornopraphy has taken sex and portrayed it in degrading, negative ways. Sex is a great thing, and yet we see the magazines bragging of the dirtiest sluts, etc.

I think they took a great thing in a wrong direction.
Bearded
16-12-2004, 00:00
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.


I think that porn is ok in small amounts. If you watch all the time there is something wrong with you. I watch it whenever im in the mood or if im bored out of mind and there's nothing esle to do. But my ex dumped my because one of her friends found out that I was watching porn a lot.

Like some of the other people said if you are single enjoy it all you want. But if you are with somebody don't bother or you will the person you love.
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:00
Why?
They're the reason your shelling it out, they're what sells it, it's all on thier backs (get it?). We all exploite ourselves one way or another in this world, but they are the ones who should be benefiting from it.
Incertonia
16-12-2004, 00:00
Why?
Without them, nobody makes any money at all. Can't very well have good hetero or lesbian porn without them, can you? Hell, anyone can operate a camera and edit film given enough time to learn.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:01
My only real problem with it is:

First, practical-the chicks in the porns should be getting the lions share of the money. The promoters should get what the women are getting now. That'll change when they start taking over the productions...anyway...

My other problem is my position as viewer. Look, you really only look at porn when you aren't 'getting any,' but when you watch a porn everyones getting it-the pizza man, the meter reader, pool guy-everyone. It's like rubbing it in-all these dudes seem to have to do is show up and get sex-what's your problem, loser? Just kinda makes things worse, really. But then, maybe it's just me.....


Sorry but when I was in the bizz, they were making more then the men were all the time.

Porn is supposed to be a fantasy, of course some plumber isn't going to get laid when he rings a desperately horny housewife's doorbell, but you can imagine being that lucky guy.

BTW It is you.
Gnostikos
16-12-2004, 00:01
I think it is terribly degrading for those who are the subjects of pornography. Sure, some may actually like it, but I'm sure that a large margority do it just for the money. And I think that's terrible, though I guess it's better than starving to death...
Superpower07
16-12-2004, 00:01
I don't look at porn, but . .

the one good thing about it is that if your parents walk in on you looking at it, at least their fears of you not being straight will be put to rest . . . (never happened to me, some scenario my friend told me of)

Otherwise I don't exactly like the stuff
Von Witzleben
16-12-2004, 00:02
Without them, nobody makes any money at all. Can't very well have good hetero or lesbian porn without them, can you? Hell, anyone can operate a camera and edit film given enough time to learn.
So what about the male actors? They should not get a good piece of the lion share? You think it's easy to keep the flagpole up for hours?
Bearded
16-12-2004, 00:03
I don't look at porn, but . .

the one good thing about it is that if your parents walk in on you looking at it, at least their fears of you not being straight will be put to rest . . . (never happened to me, some scenario my friend told me of)

When i was younger one of my friends got caught and was grounded for a week.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:03
I think it is terribly degrading for those who are the subjects of pornography. Sure, some may actually like it, but I'm sure that a large margority do it just for the money. And I think that's terrible, though I guess it's better than starving to death...

Yes it was a fun way of making some quick cash, plus later went to pay for my habits.

Honestly as a swinging single guy in those days, it was perfect. They pay me to have sex with some very hot women? Plus I get to be nasty and do things most normal girls wouldn't let me do? How could I not have persued that lifestyle? Now as a mature man, I regret it, as it was so hard not being in the business.
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:04
Without them, nobody makes any money at all. Can't very well have good hetero or lesbian porn without them, can you? Hell, anyone can operate a camera and edit film given enough time to learn.
shhhhhhhh. I need work.....
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:08
Sorry but when I was in the bizz, they were making more then the men were all the time.

Porn is supposed to be a fantasy, of course some plumber isn't going to get laid when he rings a desperately horny housewife's doorbell, but you can imagine being that lucky guy.

BTW It is you.
The first part is a matter of demand. The line for men who would do porn goes 'round the block. I was talking about promoters.

The second was more for humor. I understand the fantasy aspect, I was making a joke more or less. I've even defended the fantasy aspect when women talk about porns 'unreality,' (if women really behaved like that we wouldn't need porn, or alternatevly a character in one of my plays points out that it would freak you the hell out)
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:10
shhhhhhhh. I need work.....


well it's easy to get into the bizz nowadays, as porn has degraded into some really crappy film. Back in my day we shot on film and were proud. It was illegal in many areas and we had to do some bizarre things to avoid the Vice Squads (hell I had an A**l scene at a bus stop on Hollywood Blvd).
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:13
well it's easy to get into the bizz nowadays, as porn has degraded into some really crappy film. Back in my day we shot on film and were proud. It was illegal in many areas and we had to do some bizarre things to avoid the Vice Squads (hell I had an A**l scene at a bus stop on Hollywood Blvd).
I was just talking about using the camera and editing because I'm a filmmak-ah, nevermind......
Incertonia
16-12-2004, 00:13
So what about the male actors? They should not get a good piece of the lion share? You think it's easy to keep the flagpole up for hours?
Thanks to Viagra, it sure is.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:17
Thanks to Viagra, it sure is.

Viagra, haha. That was just a dream in the early 70's. We had to be able to keep going naturally. BTW you also had to be able to ejaculate on cue. That is what kept alot of wannabes out of the business.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:18
I was just talking about using the camera and editing because I'm a filmmak-ah, nevermind......

Well if you are a serious filmmaker, try to make legit movies, more of a future in it for you. Not many porno's are shot on film anymore.
Roach Cliffs
16-12-2004, 00:19
I likey to lookey at some porno movies.

But like anything else, if you take it too seriously, start worrying or justifying whether it should exist or not exist, or if you spend so much time watching movies that you start to ignore the real people in your life, it can be a bad thing.
Eutrusca
16-12-2004, 00:20
My other problem is my position as viewer. Look, you really only look at porn when you aren't 'getting any'...
Not quite accurate! I usually only watch it when I'm with someone who wants to learn how to do the things she sees on the TV! LOL! :D
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:21
Well if you are a serious filmmaker, try to make legit movies, more of a future in it for you. Not many porno's are shot on film anymore.
Same planet, different worlds you and I. I wasn't saying I wanted to make porno. I was making a joke to a friend about how easy it was to operate a camera and edit. JOKEjokejokejokejoke.
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 00:24
Not quite accurate! I usually only watch it when I'm with someone who wants to learn how to do the things she sees on the TV! LOL! :D
I tried that once but I was in a filmsnoby mode and rented Caligula.....that was an....odd night.....
Siljhouettes
16-12-2004, 00:36
I think porn should be freely availible, as long as the subjects consent. That means child porn is out. But as for adult porn, yeah, people can have it if they want.

the one good thing about it is that if your parents walk in on you looking at it, at least their fears of you not being straight will be put to rest . . . (never happened to me, some scenario my friend told me of)
Hhaha, I can only imagine how your ub3r-cons3rvativ3 mother would react if she caught you.

"Excorcise him!!!"
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:36
Same planet, different worlds you and I. I wasn't saying I wanted to make porno. I was making a joke to a friend about how easy it was to operate a camera and edit. JOKEjokejokejokejoke.


I know it was a joke, but, you musn't joke, nor point at, nor make light of porn, as the porn monster will give you a nasty case of the crabs.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:38
I think porn should be freely availible, as long as the subjects consent. That means child porn is out. But as for adult porn, yeah, people can have it if they want.


Hhaha, I can only imagine how your ub3r-cons3rvativ3 mother would react if she caught you.

"Excorcise him!!!"

My mother found out what I was doing for a living. She wasn't pleased! :(

Hell she wasn't pleased when she found out her sister (my aunt) took my virginity from me when I was 10.
Gnostikos
16-12-2004, 00:38
I know it was a joke, but, you musn't joke, nor point at, nor make light of porn, as the porn monster will give you a nasty case of the crabs.
Are VD's ever a problem in the pornography industry? How about pregnancies?
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:42
Are VD's ever a problem in the pornography industry? How about pregnancies?

Most of the broads I worked with were on the pill. But it is kind of hard to get pregnant when it always ended up somewhere else (if you know what I mean, also they use the expression "never look back"). VD's weren't a big problem as everything, except herpes, was treatable at that time. When AIDs came along, that was different. All decent stars were getting checked often. I was getting checked once every other week.

Nowadays alot of films have the actors wearing condoms which is a good thing. To bad my friend Marc Wallace caught HIV.
Imlad Morgul II
16-12-2004, 00:47
You want to know what I think about porn honestly? Here's an excerpt from a book by Jason Evert.

"Pornography trains a man to value women by how much lust they generate in him. He may jokingly try to convince himself that it isn't a problem, but his ability to love is being crippled. While he's busy fantasizing, his masculinity disappears. If a girl is unfortunate enough to come into his life, he'll make the frustrating mistake of confusing love with lust. While love involves sacrifice and commitment, pornography teaches you to reduce others to sexual objects that can be used that discarded once your passion wear off.

"We're made for love, but you can't love a fantasy and it can't love you. When a man loves a woman, he loves her for who she is. Such love is impossible with pornography because the man loves only what she gives him. He has no idea who the woman is." The problem with pornography is not that is shows too much, but that it shows too little. "It shows too little because it reduces a woman to her body parts. Instead of inviting you to manhood, pornography trains you to reject responsibility for women. Referring to videos and literature as "adult" or to a strip joint as a "gentleman's club" couldn't be further from the truth. Women know that real men don't indulge in either.

"Some argue that porn is just a harmless way to relieve temptations. But pornography doesn't get rid of temptations any more than prostitution does." The goal here isn't to get rid of sexual desire, but to master the desire for the sake of love. "The idea that pornography can be used to decrease temptation is like saying that lighter fluid can be used to extinguish a fire.

"Lastly, pornography is the perfect way to ruin your marriage. It trains the brain to be aroused by dirty, illicit, sexual fantasies. And even though it takes only a few seconds to see the pictures, it takes years to forget them. This causes tremendous strain in marriage, because the spouse is compared to the models and is expected to provide as much excitement. When this doesn't happen, the couple suffers and the spouse feels hurt and unable to "live up" to the fantasies. Who wants to put his or her future bride or groom through this?

"In the words of one husband, pornography causes 'those distortions of our sexual desires that we must struggle against in order to discover true love'."

And say you get married. You walk through the door of your honeymoon suite. You're a virgin(or maybe not, but let's just say you're at least chaste and faithful) and if you're a guy, and your new bride is in your arms. She says, "Honey, I've been waiting for this night for so long, and to prepare, I looked at thousands of pictures of naked men."

Personally, if I was a guy, I might drop her.

If you're a girl, and your new hubby says, "Baby, to get ready for this night, for the past week I've been looking at women over the net."

Seeing as I am a girl, I might wonder who I married, if my husband needs to look at women flaunting their bodies in order to "get ready" for our wedding night.

So, there's my two cents. It seems more like a waste of time though, because of all the porn stars and porn lovers, but hey. Worth a shot.
Peechland
16-12-2004, 00:48
The only problem I have with porn is the crappy music and ugly male actors. The chicks are usually hot, but the men are usually gross.(ick) How on earth did Ron Jeremy ever get in the business??? If I were a porn star(laughs hysterically) I'd tell them to fetch me a decent looking partner or a brown paper bag.

gotta get my fluffle count up :fluffle:
Eutrusca
16-12-2004, 00:52
I tried that once but I was in a filmsnoby mode and rented Caligula.....that was an....odd night.....
I BET! LOL!
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 00:55
I BET! LOL!

Whatz caligula?? But also, as a porn star don't you have to be a certain size and "trim??
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:57
The only problem I have with porn is the crappy music and ugly male actors. The chicks are usually hot, but the men are usually gross.(ick) How on earth did Ron Jeremy ever get in the business??? If I were a porn star(laughs hysterically) I'd tell them to fetch me a decent looking partner or a brown paper bag.

gotta get my fluffle count up :fluffle:

All of the pretty boys are in gay porn. BTW it's the size of the pipe that counts, not the face.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 00:58
I know, i ment like whatz the size of "your man" have to be? and don't you have to "trim" that area as well??
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 00:58
Whatz caligula?? But also, as a porn star don't you have to be a certain size and "trim??


Caligula was a project by the owner of Penthouse magazine. A really shit-tacular movie. I had been offered a little part in the film, but I turned them down. Thank God for that.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 01:01
I know, i ment like whatz the size of "your man" have to be? and don't you have to "trim" that area as well??

Not everyone was trimmed back in those days. Now everyone shaves and everything. It's not the size all the time (but it certainly helps), but you have to be able to have command over your "unit". It isn't always easy as sometimes they have to take different angle shots, so you have to be able to keep from wasting it before you're supposed to. A labor of love.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 01:09
Ah this is very interesting, why did you decide to go into it at first? And how did you start? like did u stumble upon it? JW, i have sent u some TG's please respond.
Letila
16-12-2004, 01:18
Porn is good when used responsibly. We don't all have photographic memories.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 01:21
Ah this is very interesting, why did you decide to go into it at first? And how did you start? like did u stumble upon it?

I was told I could make some decent money doing stag reels by my Army buddies. As a country boy, I had never seen these things before. After I was discharged in 69, I moved from the base in San diego to LA. I got a job as a cashier at an adult bookstore. I saw an ad in a nudie mag looking for male and female models. I went to the "talent agency". They took pictures of me dressed and nude, a day later they called me and told me where to go. I waited their, was picked up by some crazed hippy type, next thing you know I'm at a beach house, getting a BJ and being filmed. The lines would come later. For the first scene they gave me 50 bucks. Which was alot of cash to me. After that I was making around $500 a day for about 4 scenes. When I was a regular (well known) I made $1000 per scene (cash). I made more when I starred in my own movies. Plus I could pick with whom I wanted to work and what I wanted to do in that scene.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 01:29
Fun, thatz kool, was there any particular scene or move that you enjoyed the best with someone?*interview* lol
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 01:44
bump, i wanna keep this thread alive and well
Peechland
16-12-2004, 01:46
All of the pretty boys are in gay porn. BTW it's the size of the pipe that counts, not the face.


No No Johnny....we gals like a handsome face too.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 02:00
bump again, i am real big on keeping the thread alive
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 02:33
Ahh hurry people post on this to keep it alive and growing Johhny will be back soon.
Sarvikuono
16-12-2004, 02:48
personally i don't give a flying fuck what's moral and what's not..
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 02:49
so you like porn i tak it??
Straughn
16-12-2004, 03:13
The only problem I have with porn is the crappy music and ugly male actors. The chicks are usually hot, but the men are usually gross.(ick) How on earth did Ron Jeremy ever get in the business??? If I were a porn star(laughs hysterically) I'd tell them to fetch me a decent looking partner or a brown paper bag.

gotta get my fluffle count up :fluffle:
I think Jeremy got the job since he could and would fellate himself on camera. He has some nickname that reflects this ... can't remember what it is!
Dewin
16-12-2004, 03:16
I think Jeremy got the job since he could and would fellate himself on camera. He has some nickname that reflects this ... can't remember what it is!

Hedgehog, IIRC. :p
Dewin
16-12-2004, 03:18
The only problem I have with porn is the crappy music and ugly male actors. The chicks are usually hot, but the men are usually gross.(ick)
This is why girl-on-girl porn = win. :D
Straughn
16-12-2004, 03:20
He's on "Celebrity Deathmatch" for the PS2 - one of his special moves is him turning into the animal he's nicknamed after.
Not aardvark, not flea, not armadillo ....
As per his scenes of himself, i've never seen 'em but i don't get around much.
I dunno if he was required to give himself a facial for his debut or not but i wouldn't put it past 'em.
Hedgehog! That's it! He curls himself up and pokes his own tonsils around a little. Or did, at least, for the money and fame (?) once or twice. I guess. Never met the dude. No i'm not jealous, either. ;)
:fluffle:
Straughn
16-12-2004, 03:23
Hedgehog, IIRC. :p
As Charlie Brown expressed on his prob'ly currently overplayed Christmas special,
"That's it!"
(little piano tinkling in the background)
Thanks!
Steel Butterfly
16-12-2004, 03:24
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.

Of course it's enjoyable...especially when you watch it with a certain person...

Moral? No...but most fun things aren't.

Good types? Lesbo porn or girl on guy with little view of the guy or as little as required. Focus on the female.

As for the person who said that the hot girls are with ugly guys (fat, greasy, just plain ugly, etc.)...I have noticed that too and it makes me mad. But then again, if you're hot, you don't need to go into the porn business...you live it.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 03:33
Is that hedgehog thing when....whoa that would be hard man!
Corbata
16-12-2004, 03:35
I cannot think of a reason why porn could be immoral. I don't think sex is immoral and don't see why filming it would change that... getting paid to have sex isn't something I would want to do, but I don't think that makes it "bad." And as for watching it — nope this does not register as "bad" either. I'm not a huge porn fan, but I'll watch it now and again.
Sel Appa
16-12-2004, 04:04
Porn is ok if it's a drawing of afictional character or if the person it is of is someone you know and they are ok with it. Tricking kids into visiting porn sites needs to be strictly banned and online porn restricted, if not banned.
Incenjucarania
16-12-2004, 04:34
Meh. Porn is like anything else, so long as nobody is being hurt, who cares.

Now, there is the problem that many people in the sidelines of the industry -are- being hurt, and that DOES need to be dealt with, but what consenting adults do is their own business.

Personally, I find it amusing that both of the people I've been involved with wanted to get at some porn at some point, my assumption is to set the mood... helps that I almost always find myself in the company of a bisexual woman...
Bedou
16-12-2004, 04:57
EDITED: To much Honesty.
Johnny Wadd
16-12-2004, 05:00
Porn is sort of a downer when it comes time when you want to act in a legit movie. Haven't heard of any porn superstars making the jump to mainstream success. Traci Lords tried but was a joke. I tried too, but never was offered a serious role, and I could actually say my lines and could improvise when I had too.
Lacadaemon
16-12-2004, 06:18
Porn is sort of a downer when it comes time when you want to act in a legit movie. Haven't heard of any porn superstars making the jump to mainstream success. Traci Lords tried but was a joke. I tried too, but never was offered a serious role, and I could actually say my lines and could improvise when I had too.


Kobe Tai played a stripper in some loser movie about vegas. So i heard......
New Scott-land
16-12-2004, 06:37
Eh.
Be honest here for a second, I can't think of any teenage male who doesn't look. Except for maybe someone whom is uber-religious, (Read: Mormon's) :headbang: < God I love this smilie.

Anyways, frankly I'm a curious fellow, so of course I look at porn. I've looked at just about anything I've ever found, some of it is pretty bad, some of it is ok, some of it is even good. THings that make it bad? Looking at the camera. Stupid plots. Who the frick ever heard of some of these stupid plots?! :headbang: Right. Any man in the world has ever robbed a bank, and then been screwed by the police officer.

Now there are some things I'd never look at. IE: Child porn. Other things, I look at once or twice, or whenever I feel curious about it again. I generally stick to mainstream stuff, and venture out whenever I'm in the mood. There are some FREAKY sites out there though. So be careful where you land.
Violets and Kitties
16-12-2004, 09:18
Porn is okay sometime. I don't see it as immoral as long as everyone is consenting (18+).

I have problems with the kind of porn where the person getting stuff to them doesn't seem to be enjoying it, or the whole point seems to be purposely degrading someone (unless it is part of a plot-porn where it is clear that the person wants that sort of thing).

porn that I like most: gay porn (male) and plot-driven BDSM porn.
Cannot think of a name
16-12-2004, 09:43
Kobe Tai played a stripper in some loser movie about vegas. So i heard......
Very Bad Things with Christian Slater and John Favreau
Mirkai
16-12-2004, 11:46
<3 porn. I'd be bored all the time without it.

My favorite type happens to be of the drawn anthropomorphic variety. >_> Even better if it's animated and/or interactive. :D
Good Year
16-12-2004, 12:08
Without them, nobody makes any money at all. Can't very well have good hetero or lesbian porn without them, can you? Hell, anyone can operate a camera and edit film given enough time to learn.
what about people like my girlfriend, and me, and my boyfriend, the only poren any of has bought was eather bestie or gay
Soviet Haaregrad
16-12-2004, 12:12
Porn's great, that's all I can say.

The 'talent' needs to be making alot more money then the producers, promoters, ect, that goes for males and females, women at least make something($100+ per shot), the guys sometimes don't get minimum wage.
Kazcaper
16-12-2004, 12:12
According to a course I took recently, a high proportion of women acting in the porn industry were abused in either their childhood and adolescence. The course claimed that, having had their self-esteem taken away, they felt they were not worthy of anything more than going into this industry to have more of the same done to them. There were several studies that came up with similar figures to back this up.

Personally, regardless of that, I think that porn makes women look like sexual tools of men. I mean, how much heterosexual porn is out there that doesn't focus on the female in question? I know women would tend to be less inclined to look at porn anyway, but they have very few options if that's what they choose to do, whereas men are spoilt for choice! If it must happen, therefore, it ought to be more equal.

I am glad to read here that a number of men in a relationship would stop it out of consideration for their partner's feelings. Depsite knowing my feelings on it, my boyfriend continues to do it - after having lied and saying he wouldn't (which is even worse!). He thinks I am trying to control him, but as I keep trying to point out, long-term relationships require sacrifice and compromise out of basic respect and consideration for the person you love. It's not as if porn is fundamental to his life - or, if it is, then he needs help! The issue is on the verge of breaking us up; I can't stand the deceit and the fact he blatantly ignores my feelings. It doesn't seem worth loosing what was otherwise a happy relationship over the head of a few naked women on a computer screen, does it? You may say that cuts both ways, but knowing what I know about porn, combined with my belief that sex is too intimate to be public, I can't change my opinion on it. My boyfriend can think it's OK all he wants, but acting upon these thoughts is only further going to harm our relationship further - as I say, doesn't seem worth it.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 21:50
I have only looked at porn a few times, just out of curiosity, thatz why i started this thread.
The Tribes Of Longton
16-12-2004, 21:54
I have only looked at porn a few times, just out of curiosity, thatz why i started this thread.
*looks through British Jimmy's history*

My GOD! There is nothing BUT porn, apart from this site! :D

No, I jest. No porn in there. Unless you count funnies of dogs goin at it :D

Again, I'm joking. I've really got to stop that

*Switches to www.poo-on-my-face.com*
Skalador
16-12-2004, 21:55
What do you think of it? is it moral or not? What are the good types and why do you find them enjoyable. I am not a sicko, I just want to know what the world thinks.

Everything goes as long as it involves conenting adults, and that no one is being exploited (read: men or women aren't taken advantage of, but are paid fairly and equitably according to the success of the movie).

No matter how weird or far-fetched the fetishes involves, if everyone's acting of their own free will and nobody's getting hurt, it's moral and/or good.

As for those I find enjoyable... Being gay, I would have to say gay porn, now wouldn't I? I particularly like those involving men in my age group (18-24), preferably with a little of a "sweet" streak: lots of kissing and cuddlings, but most importantly, SMILES. For some reason, that turns me on, if only because it makes it seem as if they're actually enjoying what they're doing.
Iranamok
16-12-2004, 22:02
When I win the Powerball, one of the things I'm going to do is set up a studio specifically so that I can get the kind of porn I want to see, made.

Nothing currently illegal, mind you. It's just that I have very specific ideas that nobody's doing much of now.

Oh, and I'll pay a much higher salary than the going rate. Because I'll be able to afford to be generous.
My Gun Not Yours
16-12-2004, 22:04
When I win the Powerball, one of the things I'm going to do is set up a studio specifically so that I can get the kind of porn I want to see, made.

Nothing currently illegal, mind you. It's just that I have very specific ideas that nobody's doing much of now.

Oh, and I'll pay a much higher salary than the going rate. Because I'll be able to afford to be generous.

I've never had to pay to live the sexual fantasies I've desired. Or pay to film them. Maybe you're doing something wrong.
The Pussywhipped
16-12-2004, 22:06
I see porn as being just fine, as long as you don't get addicted to it or do anything disgusting to get it or make it. Example: man watches porn once or twice a week: ok. Man buys a Sony Glasstron and watches porn wherever he goes: bad, especially if he has a hand down his pants. Man pays $3.99 a month to watch "Barely Legal" porn: fine. Stupid, considering the free sites you could go to, but fine. Man tapes small girl in shower and then breaks into the house for a better shot: bad in a way that deserves vigilante justice (First we spoon his eyes out, then we castrate him, then...). Kinda like drugs or alcohol: only if you act responsible with it (few druggies can make that claim, mind you.)
Iranamok
16-12-2004, 22:08
I've never had to pay to live the sexual fantasies I've desired. Or pay to film them. Maybe you're doing something wrong.

I said I wanted to SEE it, not DO it.
Gawdly
16-12-2004, 22:16
I said I wanted to SEE it, not DO it.

OK, color me curious yellow: what exactly IS it you want to see, that you can't find on Google?
My Gun Not Yours
16-12-2004, 22:18
What I want to know is why you would want to wank off to something you could actually do?
Skalador
16-12-2004, 22:19
Perhaps he likes sweet porn with smiles and cuddling, like some of us do. And I don't think you can argue that there is a shortage of that particular type of porn out there.
Gawdly
16-12-2004, 22:19
Maybe because it would be illegal to actually do it (i.e. kiddie-porn, necrophilia...)
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 22:27
OK, color me curious yellow: what exactly IS it you want to see, that you can't find on Google?

Yea what are those fantasies?
Skalador
16-12-2004, 22:51
*Bump*

I really want to know wheter that guy has an S&M hamster fetish or not.
British Jimmy
16-12-2004, 23:36
bump
Forstona
16-12-2004, 23:45
Ok, well aside from the less funded projects, porn shot on film w/ beautiful "actresses" like Jesse Jane can play on my tv and day.
Nalaki
16-12-2004, 23:49
Porn used to be awesometacular back when i was like 12 years old...thinking i was all bad ass. My friends and I used to watch massive amounts of porn...then I got older and realized it's real dumb. Some of it out there ain't bad, but it just doesn't have the same shock that it used to. I grew wary of it and now rarely ever view it.

And just as a side note....a kid from my town has discs/portable drives with about 2 terabytes of porn. (A terabyte is like 1024GB i believe).....now if you ask me that's dedication.
British Jimmy
17-12-2004, 00:10
Goll Lee that is a bunch of computers full of it? Does he watch them alot or a "collecter" of some sort?
bump
Nupax
17-12-2004, 01:02
I honestly don't really care. I think it should be legal. Yes - women are objectified in it, etc. But those are social conditions, not legal ones. I look at porn. I don't see what the big deal is. I never knew it was such a big deal. Porn is just porn.
British Jimmy
17-12-2004, 02:09
bump
British Jimmy
17-12-2004, 02:51
bump again! come on people post and communicate!
British Jimmy
17-12-2004, 03:43
will i have to keep bumping this!!??
Ashmoria
17-12-2004, 03:54
The only problem I have with porn is the crappy music and ugly male actors. The chicks are usually hot, but the men are usually gross.(ick) How on earth did Ron Jeremy ever get in the business??? If I were a porn star(laughs hysterically) I'd tell them to fetch me a decent looking partner or a brown paper bag.

gotta get my fluffle count up :fluffle:
THEY NEVER SHOWED HIS FACE
Ashmoria
17-12-2004, 04:04
there are only a few problems with porn in my opinion

as long as everyone is an adult and no one is coerced.

as long as the viewer doesnt become obsessed with porn

as long as you dont think that porn represents REALITY

sure if you have an extra $1000 you can go to vegas and get women to do that stuff. your girlfriend wont. EVER. get it out of your head.

i dont like the way men are reduced to genitals only. you seldom get to see anything else of the man involved besides his "equipment" which is sometimes so extra large that i wonder if it isnt faked, especially in stills. no you dont have to have 12 inches in order to please a woman.

i dont like the way the women seem utterly bored with the man they are entertaining. that look toward the camera as if they wish it were YOU there instead of this manless penis is a big turn off

a LITTLE more plot and acting would be nice in a movie

and anything implying coercion, rape, pain, just isnt interesting to me.
British Jimmy
18-12-2004, 23:11
is there actually a size u have to be a porn star??
British Jimmy
18-12-2004, 23:19
come on ppl psot!!
British Jimmy
19-12-2004, 00:06
y wont u ppl post!!!!!!1
British Jimmy
19-12-2004, 02:49
Ahhhh Respond Ppl!!
Angry Fruit Salad
19-12-2004, 02:53
quit spamming...



Porn is porn is porn is....well, kind of odd.