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I need social help....

Bling Bling world
13-11-2004, 03:02
Ok so a few days ago I was outside and my "Friend" who is a girl (Here on know as "The Chick") was walking outside from lunch and this dumbass (Sorry my french lol) came out and pulled her hoodie over her eves, thus she could not see, and did a face plant into a pile of snow. I did waht all good friends do and i chased the dude and brought him down, after a short brawl we got up. Then out of nowhere eh got me into a headlock. I then elbowed him in the stomache and madde the poor Mexican cry. Then the pricipal came and told us to write student statements and we did. Then today I was called to the office adn the princlple came with a punishment... The mexican dude has to stay in side for 1 week cleaning tables and the cafeteria. Then the dumbass opended his mouth and said that the chick tripped him (Which is true) So then my friend got called to the office and got the same punishment as the mexican dude, which he has been "messing" with her all year and she only trips him. ANd for my punishment? Nothing, absolutley nothing, zippo, nadda, none. I feel really guilty that I had a issue with this dude and my friend is the one that gets punished. I said sorry to her like 8-9 times and she seems fine. But then she turned all muhy on me and said that "I am not the girl that gets in trouble! If anyone should be in trouble it should be you!" Then she turns around and slams my locker shut and runs off. IU then see her later in the gym sitting in the corner, so I went over asked if she was ok and she siad she was. I said sorry alot then too. ..

I am not sure whether she is PO'ed at me or not, and I really want to keep our relationship, so I went to the office and opened my big mouth about how its not fair so then she turns around and makes the mexican dude stay in for 2 weeks. Do you think the punishments were fair? ANd WTF should I do about my relationship with her, and yes I know where she lives and her number....
Iztatepopotla
13-11-2004, 03:10
This cracked me up:
I did waht all good friends do and i chased the dude and brought him down,
What a good friend would do is pull the thing off her eyes and ask if she is ok. I mean, it's not like she hit her and it's not like she hasn't done anything herself (a good friend would point this out, too). Next time you are with her be more attentive as to where the other dude is.

Now, for the other thing, buy her a box of chocolates or flowers, take her out to a nice place and tell her that you are sorry she got into trouble, that you don't know why you weren't punished and that she also should stop pissing other guys off. Maybe she just wants to date him and trips him to call his attention.
Bling Bling world
13-11-2004, 03:14
I ma only 12 so that won't work excatly, and she was already out of the snow and had the thing off her head and said she was okay....
Iztatepopotla
13-11-2004, 03:22
I ma only 12 so that won't work excatly, and she was already out of the snow and had the thing off her head and said she was okay....
Then just tell her you don't know why you weren't punished the same (grown ups sometimes will do that just to confuse you, not that they have it all together themselves, mind you). And buy her a piece of candy she likes to say you are sorry. Make sure it's something she likes, it's really the thought that counts, not the fact that you bought her something. And getting her something she likes shows that you put some thought into it.

And don't get into fights unless you really, really have to. Chasing a guy because he did something stupid doesn't qualify. And she may still just like him and doesn't know how to talk to him.
Bling Bling world
13-11-2004, 03:26
No htere is no way in hell she likes him! She can't stand him, she was transferred classes to get away from him....
Iztatepopotla
13-11-2004, 03:33
No htere is no way in hell she likes him! She can't stand him, she was transferred classes to get away from him....
Pffft!!! The opposite of love is indifference, not hate. In fact, between hate and love there's only one step. Just tell her to go out with him to get it out of her system and maybe she can behave then.

Oh, and look for the other guy and tell him you are sorry for having hit him but that you were angry at what he did. So what if she trips him? She's still a girl and it's not like he can't be extra careful when he walks near her (plus she likes him).
The Wax Tadpole
13-11-2004, 03:49
shut up. who are you anyway? why are you posting your silly story. good riddance young cretin! you sicken me!


ruler of the republic of satiratium
and the opressed people of the wax tadpole.
The True Right
13-11-2004, 03:53
Son, if you really want to know whether she likes you or not do the following: When you are alone with her, just whip out your ya-ya, if she screams and runs away she doesn't. Most girls like it when you show em your garbage. ;)
The Sunshine State
13-11-2004, 04:22
Son, if you really want to know whether she likes you or not do the following: When you are alone with her, just whip out your ya-ya, if she screams and runs away she doesn't. Most girls like it when you show em your garbage. ;)

LMAO! Classic post dude. I'm on the floor I'm laughing so hard.