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i only wanna hear from men and women who have had an abortion..how do you feel now..honeslty

i only wanna hear from men and women who have had an abortion..how do you feel now..honeslty
I honestly feel you aint gonna be hearing from many men who have had an abortion....

i only wanna hear from men and women who have had an abortion..how do you feel now..honeslty

I didn't know men could have an abortion. Hell, I didn't know men could get pregnant. The things you learn on this site.

I honestly feel you aint gonna be hearing from many men who have had an abortion....
if you are a man who has been through the abortion experience with your unborn child then yes you have had an abortion also..
but if you wanna be picky a man who has had his unborn child aborted by a woman..thanx

wow. this is a first...someone used "youre" instead of "your." Now where's my coat-hanger?

I didn't know men could have an abortion. Hell, I didn't know men could get pregnant. The things you learn on this site.
you are just being flippant..you think its funny..it aint

wow i have nothing to do except sit at home and correct spelling mistakes on the internet..grabs another twinkie and adds to his mass
actually, it doesn't really take much time or effort to correct spelling mistakes on these forums, especially when they are so glaringly obvious. i don't see how noting conspicuous errors makes somebody more pathetic, especially when compared to someone, like yourself, who is also frittering away their time on an internet forum, but is also doing so with poor grammar and spelling.

Seriously, questions like this shouldn't be answered on the internet. :rolleyes:

wow. this is a first...someone used "youre" instead of "your." Now where's my coat-hanger?

The one time "your" would've been appropriate, too. ;)

I've never had an abortion, but I believe that they should be legal. Also, how can I know if I would have one or not if I don't know the situation? :P

wow i have nothing to do except sit at home and correct spelling mistakes on the internet..grabs another twinkie and adds to his mass

Wasn't meant to a jab, sorry. Just found it funny.

*pours another glass of Baileys*

Seriously, questions like this shouldn't be answered on the internet. :rolleyes:

i see so many posts on this site about abortion with all sorts of people expressing their opinions i just wanna know who has actually had any experience in this..

Well, it seem like I'm the only one with any sort of experience in the matter. It was a difficult decision, but there wasn't much vacilation, since we both would have been unnable to support a child or give it anything resembling a decent life.

Even though we were careful, we knew there was a possibility of pregnancy and we were vigilant. In that way we didn't wait three months or anything like that. Pregnancy was terminated at about 5 weeks, the embryo being quite tiny it wasn't very difficult.

Of course, psicologically it was a different matter. Certainly our relationship was affected, and sometimes I remember that I could be the father of an eight year old kid now. But we still remain good friends and on further reflection I think we took the right decition.

Would I do it again? It would depend entirely on the circumstances, although I don't think I would, since now I'm able to provide a good home and be a good father.

actually, it doesn't really take much time or effort to correct spelling mistakes on these forums, especially when they are so glaringly obvious. i don't see how noting conspicuous errors makes somebody more pathetic, especially when compared to someone, like yourself, who is also frittering away their time on an internet forum, but is also doing so with poor grammar and spelling.

blah, blah, blah

I chose "no and I would not" because I honestly believe that the decision would be wrong for me and I do have a moral problem with it.

However, I want to do so with the stipulation that *no one* can know what they would do in a given situation until they are put there, so I cannot state with absolute certainty what I would not do in that situation.

Well, it seem like I'm the only one with any sort of experience in the matter. It was a difficult decision, but there wasn't much vacilation, since we both would have been unnable to support a child or give it anything resembling a decent life.

Even though we were careful, we knew there was a possibility of pregnancy and we were vigilant. In that way we didn't wait three months or anything like that. Pregnancy was terminated at about 5 weeks, the embryo being quite tiny it wasn't very difficult.

Of course, psicologically it was a different matter. Certainly our relationship was affected, and sometimes I remember that I could be the father of an eight year old kid now. But we still remain good friends and on further reflection I think we took the right decition.

Would I do it again? It would depend entirely on the circumstances, although I don't think I would, since now I'm able to provide a good home and be a good father.

wow someone who responds seriously to a subject without trying to appear superior by correcting typos..thanx

Wasn't meant to a jab, sorry. Just found it funny.

*pours another glass of Baileys*

thanx..not a problem.i will delete my response now..sorry

wow someone who responds seriously to a subject without trying to appear superior by correcting typos..thanx
Tell me about it. I just reread it and I have several of my own. I'm feeling sleepy, though.

EDIT: Another error, I had to add the "and".

SECOND EDIT: Had to change "errod" to "error". I'm gonna stop now.

well as far as myself...i have been thru an abortion experience...there were several factors involved...medically my girlfriend probably would not have been able to carry to term..something about a rh factor ..also we had only been together for a short time..financially we were both pretty secure and could have supported the child...ultimately i told her i would leave the choice to her and fully support her decision..but every year around the due date i think what could've been what would my child(who would be 4 now) have been like..sometimes it really eats me up on the inside...now i dont think i would go thru an abortion experience again unless my girlfriend had been raped or i was 90-100 percent sure that the child would be severely handicapped or retarded..or that the chance of my girlfriend losing her life was too high