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This is gonna sound sappy...

I've been doing an interesting thing to myself for the last three years.
Back in the day (Junior High) I was way to obsessed with girls for my own good. I was constantly getting crushes on girls and at that time I considered girls to be the most important thing in life. Anyway, I got over it. but I was still in need of love...

My Sophmore year of high school was a new start for me, it was a new school and I had but to make a name for myself. Then, along came Brittney. She was hot, and for some reason, she kinda liked me. It was going great until I introduced her to one of my new friends by the name of Brian. Things went downhill, and they both eventually quit talking to me and even started to get to the point where they didn't like me. It was bad...

End of my sophmore year I was over it, and had made a batch of all new friends. One went by the name Danielle. She was cool, and I really liked her. So I introduced her to my friend Jake. Jake is cool, he's got awesome skills at guitar and is just plain nice. It wasn't long before Jake started noticing how "hot" Danielle was and they too, started going out.

Now, it's my Senior year, after a Junior year free of the curse of love, I once again found myself with a crush. Elaina was great and genuinely liked me, but this weekend at a youth retreat, I introduced her to my long time friend Justin and wouldn't you know it, they were perfect for eachother. Though I don't think it' at the point of "Going Out" It is impossible to say that they aren't. I'm willing to admit that, but dang this has gotta be some kind of record! I'm making so many people happy, yet I'm continually left out in the cold because of it.

Life is an interesting thing...

It's matchmaker syndrom. You'll get used to it and adapt.

It's matchmaker syndrom. You'll get used to it and adapt.

Already adapted, I just think it's aninteresting trend. I refuse to let the opposite sex bother me. Too much disappointment there. :cool:

That sucks. Something similar often happens to me, but it's usually with the crushes that I don't like AS much. The rest just don't like me. Anyway, I remember these three guys I liked last year. One of them, I liked at the same time as one of my friends, but he liked her. They went out for almost a year and just broke up last week, actually. Then the other two were both my friends and I liked them both - and they ended up going out with each other. Then they broke up, but got back together last month. Funny how things work out, isn't it?

I'd say "stop being nice and act selfish," only then I'd just be hypocritical :\

Already adapted, I just think it's aninteresting trend. I refuse to let the opposite sex bother me. Too much disappointment there. :cool:
It could be worse, my first 4 ex-lovers all found Jesus and were born again shortly after breaking up (and 2 were hard-core atheists when I went out with them). Sure, it's tough to compete with Jesus, but losing 4 in a row to him? I sometimes wonder if He was trying to tell me somthing and I'm just to thick to realize it. I also kinda wondered if I qualify for some sort of special conversion pin, or if I could get a church to underwrite my dating. I broke the trend eventually, but it was getting a little irritating.

Actually, I think I'm really good at this. Both the originals are still together and I have no doubt that the third one will last big time. It's uncanny how much they have in common. I put people in the right spot, at the right time.

So although I'm happy, at the same time I'm resentful that I never seem to be the happy one.

Not worht crying over, unless it's alone in my room in the dark, where nobody else can see me.


w00t! 600th post, I'm getting pretty sexy now!

It could be worse, my first 4 ex-lovers all found Jesus and were born again shortly after breaking up (and 2 were hard-core atheists when I went out with them). Sure, it's tough to compete with Jesus, but losing 4 in a row to him? I sometimes wonder if He was trying to tell me somthing and I'm just to thick to realize it. I also kinda wondered if I qualify for some sort of special conversion pin, or if I could get a church to underwrite my dating. I broke the trend eventually, but it was getting a little irritating.

Could be worst; I lost my girlfriend to other chicks :p

So although I'm happy, at the same time I'm resentful that I never seem to be the happy one.

Not worht crying over, unless it's alone in my room in the dark, where nobody else can see me

I completely resonate with you on this one man...

It could be worse, my first 4 ex-lovers all found Jesus and were born again shortly after breaking up (and 2 were hard-core atheists when I went out with them). Sure, it's tough to compete with Jesus, but losing 4 in a row to him? I sometimes wonder if He was trying to tell me somthing and I'm just to thick to realize it. I also kinda wondered if I qualify for some sort of special conversion pin, or if I could get a church to underwrite my dating. I broke the trend eventually, but it was getting a little irritating.


That's awesome! HA ha. not to be mean, but that's the funniest thing I've heard all day!

Pimp Jesus, I always knew he had it in him! :fluffle: :) :) :) <Jesus and your former women!

*throws a pity party

You're right - it does sound sappy.

My advice is to start seeing women with some idea of what the word loyalty means and most of all keep them away from your so-called friends! They're obviously not (your friends that is) because if they were then they would wait for your relationship to end before moving on in. Whether they are happy is kind of irrelevant if they are happy at your expense.

Get new friends. The ones you have sound like arseholes. Honestly, they do.

You're right - it does sound sappy.

My advice is to start seeing women with some idea of what the word loyalty means and most of all keep them away from your so-called friends! They're obviously not (your friends that is) because if they were then they would wait for your relationship to end before moving on in. Whether they are happy is kind of irrelevant if they are happy at your expense.

Get new friends. The ones you have sound like arseholes. Honestly, they do.

you seem to like cutting to the stump, but seriously, I have no real problems with it, and I couldn't picture myself not bieng friends with any of them except the first two and maybe the girl in the second. Jake still has my American Gladiators Nintendo Cartridge anyway, and Justin and Elaina are just too cool to not be friends with.

Besides, it appears that I was wrong about those two anyway, she just now told me that I'm still her favorite, but she may be covering up or something...