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There a times when it seemd like life is perfect, then one incident can change it all.
I met someone a few months on NS and did something really stupid, I fell head over heals for them.
But then due to a family emergency i went away for a few weeks only to return and find out that he'd met someone else. I dont know what to do. This guy told me he liked him and we were together I guess you could say for awhile. It doesn't make any sense. I cried when he told me, I feel so stupid.
If anyone can offer me any advice or help or anything at all I would really appreciate it. Thanks.

There a times when it seemd like life is perfect, then one incident can change it all.
I met someone a few months on NS and did something really stupid, I fell head over heals for them.
But then due to a family emergency i went away for a few weeks only to return and find out that he'd met someone else. I dont know what to do. This guy told me he liked him and we were together I guess you could say for awhile. It doesn't make any sense. I cried when he told me, I feel so stupid.
If anyone can offer me any advice or help or anything at all I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
You should accept that 90% of all online relationships don't work, realize he's a jerk, and move on. To someone like me :)

Since you're looking for love online, I'm just going to assume you're obese and riddled with shingles - perhaps you should move on to friendfinder.com

To someone like you? And who would you be? How old are you? And I really still like this guy unfortunately.....

Since you're looking for love online, I'm just going to assume you're obese and riddled with shingles - perhaps you should move on to friendfinder.com

I wasn't looking for love online, we became friends in the Pardaise Club, it just happened.
And I am not obese. I weigh like 56kg and I don't have shingles. I live in Australia, I'm 16 and yeah.

I wasn't looking for love online, we became friends in the Pardaise Club, it just happened.
And I am not obese. I weigh like 56kg and I don't have shingles. I live in Australia, I'm 16 and yeah.

It was a joke.

I wasn't looking for love online, we became friends in the Pardaise Club, it just happened.
And I am not obese. I weigh like 56kg and I don't have shingles. I live in Australia, I'm 16 and yeah.

I've been to Australia. It was rare to see an ugly girl. My buddies and I decided you must drown them at birth. Therefore the odds are that you are hot.

My advice. Realize he's probably a putz in real life, pick up, and move on. If I weren't old, I'ld be on a plane right now.

You should accept that 90% of all online relationships don't work, realize he's a jerk, and move on. To someone like me :)
Depends on the situation. When I was in my mid to late 20's, I met a few girls that I met online, went on a few dates, and yes, most of them didn't pan out. But, I also met my wife online. We chatted for a long time, shared a lot of interests and found out that we worked for the same company just in different locations, about 30 minutes from each other. We decided to meet, we dated, fell in love, got married, have a beautiful daughter, and are still happily together after 6 years.

I've been to Australia. It was rare to see an ugly girl. My buddies and I decided you must drown them at birth. Therefore the odds are that you are hot.

My advice. Realize he's probably a putz in real life, pick up, and move on. If I weren't old, I'ld be on a plane right now.
Man, I want to go to Australia. Not to go meet the girl who started the thread, just to go. It's the one place I've always wanted to go. When I get married, I want to honeymoon there. :D
I would actually love to get a job there and move there for a few years...come home with an aussie accent :) :) :)

There a times when it seemd like life is perfect, then one incident can change it all.
I met someone a few months on NS and did something really stupid, I fell head over heals for them.
But then due to a family emergency i went away for a few weeks only to return and find out that he'd met someone else. I dont know what to do. This guy told me he liked him and we were together I guess you could say for awhile. It doesn't make any sense. I cried when he told me, I feel so stupid.
If anyone can offer me any advice or help or anything at all I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
Post a link here to some erotic pictures of yourself so he can regret what he missed. I promise it'll make you feel better. No, really! ;)

you do what you do in real life when a very new relationship doesnt work out.
you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and look around for other interesting boys to talk to

and realize that his current relationship has a very good chance of not working out so if you amuse yourself with other boys while you wait (thus seeming more attractive and less pathetic in his eyes) you may have a second chance with him down the road, if you still want him by then.

Thank you for the advice guys (and girls), I really appreciate it. I don’t know what I’m going to do but feeling sorry for myself isn’t going to make it any better is it? I knew I could count on NS to help me through. You guys are the best. THANKS!!!

My buddies and I decided you must drown them at birth.

Unfortunatly a few escape :(

In all seriousness, (if thats a word) from Aussie to Aussie, you have to move on, you will meet many guys over the next few years, so dont cry there will be another.

I wasn't looking for love online, we became friends in the Pardaise Club, it just happened.
And I am not obese. I weigh like 56kg and I don't have shingles. I live in Australia, I'm 16 and yeah.
You're 16? My advice is just get over it.
Sheesh!

You're 16? My advice is just get over it.
Sheesh!

that's unkind. She's 16 and suffering.

It'll pass. Everyone has to go through it. ;)

Your young.

Theres lots of guys out there, your age who are dying to meet a girl.

Any girl.

Go find another one.

Meh... hit the bottle hard. then absorb your life into reading ns forums :D.

My name is Matt and I am 15 and Australian, what state and city do you live in? I live in Bendigo - Victoria, city of about 100,000 people about 2 hours north of Melbourne.

Never trust a hippie, that's all the advice I have

that's unkind. She's 16 and suffering.

It'll pass. Everyone has to go through it.

I agree, I agree.

I met my partner online- although it was through a friend and the fact that we fell in love was... accidental. So see, it CAN work!

And I'm Aussie too! Hurray! Although I moved here in 1998, not sure if I would have been drowned at birth...

There a times when it seemd like life is perfect, then one incident can change it all.
I met someone a few months on NS and did something really stupid, I fell head over heals for them.
But then due to a family emergency i went away for a few weeks only to return and find out that he'd met someone else. I dont know what to do. This guy told me he liked him and we were together I guess you could say for awhile. It doesn't make any sense. I cried when he told me, I feel so stupid.
If anyone can offer me any advice or help or anything at all I would really appreciate it. Thanks.

how long are we talking about? did you both actually meet in real life?

based on the info here, your better of without him. What you were not in contact for a couple of weeks and he moves on? does not really show commitment does it? Hate to say it, but your probably go through more of this before you meet someone that right for you.

Since you're looking for love online, I'm just going to assume you're obese and riddled with shingles - perhaps you should move on to friendfinder.com
I laughed out loud when I read that! Quality work.

Love is overated.

The mark of a wise man.

I wasn't looking for love online, we became friends in the Pardaise Club, it just happened.
And I am not obese. I weigh like 56kg and I don't have shingles. I live in Australia, I'm 16 and yeah.

Hey babe, whereabouts in Australia? ;)

LOL kidding...

Anyway, just forget the loser.

Your young.

Theres lots of guys out there, your age who are dying to meet a girl.

Any girl.

Go find another one.

Yes I am

Well not any girl, any girl with the perfect body, a large enough IQ, around 16 years old,...

AND LIVE IN BELGIUM!

crap :(

Your young.

Theres lots of guys out there, your age who are dying to meet a girl.

Any girl.

Go find another one.

Haha, so true.