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whjy do women do this? all i do is try my best and d molly still hates me and she doesnt leik me and stuff. you dudes and dudettes are mods soo you should all know! what did i do wrong? why does sshe thingk that we rushed into things?? why doesnt she like me anymore? immm so confused, a couple days ago i was so incredibly hapy and now im sad so can you moderate me plz.......... thx, keep up the good work. help plz thx.

Well, if she thinks you're rushing into stuff, maybe you should let her alone for a while. Maybe she likes you, but are you pushing it a much.

Anyway, this belongs in general, but maybe Jolt has a place for this.

The Lonely Heart Forum? :P

whjy do women do this? all i do is try my best and d molly still hates me and she doesnt leik me and stuff. you dudes and dudettes are mods soo you should all know! what did i do wrong? why does sshe thingk that we rushed into things?? why doesnt she like me anymore? immm so confused, a couple days ago i was so incredibly hapy and now im sad so can you moderate me plz.......... thx, keep up the good work. help plz thx.

Need more info. than that, bud.

whjy do women do this? all i do is try my best and d molly still hates me and she doesnt leik me and stuff. you dudes and dudettes are mods soo you should all know! what did i do wrong? why does sshe thingk that we rushed into things?? why doesnt she like me anymore? immm so confused, a couple days ago i was so incredibly hapy and now im sad so can you moderate me plz.......... thx, keep up the good work. help plz thx.
if she doesn't like you then leave her. if you moved quickly into something (sex?) then she may be using a standard female ploy of tell you she hates you in order to see how much you will put up with...she wants to reassure herself that you will stick around, that you will bend over backwards for the sake of her feelings, and that you will do anything to make her happy. that's a cowardly and dishonorable tactic, and you shouldn't put up with that kind of manipulation. break up with her, and stop talking to her until she gets a grip. if she comes to you and is willing to appologize for her behavior and start acting like an adult then you guys can get back together, but if she isn't then that's not a person you should be involved with.

Booooooooooo Hooooooooooooo Hoooooooooo who cares

Booooooooooo Hooooooooooooo Hoooooooooo who cares
you do, aparently, since you took the time to post. nobody forces you to enter a thread, so if you choose to do so then you need to behave respectfully.

sometimes it just doesnt work.
she gave it a try and decided that it isnt right for her
if its not right for BOTH people, it isnt right
let her go.
it hurts but there is no future in trying to keep someone who is determined to break up with you.

in a word you guys are all sad.
Listen to yourselves giving bullsh#t advice. One wonders if any of you actually have girlfriends.

Considering you several thousand post totals i guess not.

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When I was younger all the way up to college infact I thought that if I just said the right things I could make it work out between me and a girl. Like there was always some magic combination of words, and if it ever ended it was becaused I did something wrong. I found out that it isn't so simple, giving she is an other person sometimes no matter what you do or how you do it it still wont work. The worst thing you can do is try to force it. You don't want to appear desprate or too needy. In some situations it is possible to do everything right and still not have things turn out the way you wanted.